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Putting the question out....is one woman enough
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Putting the question out....is one woman enough Was reading Redditt..... and the topic of how men cant be with just one woman, even if they get married. Stats say that eventually majority will have some form of infidelity with someone else as its in their nature. do you feel that as a man … honestly.... that its true that all men will "cheat" whether physical or emotional? Im on the fence with this question..... if a man has to look elsewhere-- its because he is searching for the things he is lacking-- and too often they look outside the box first instead of seeking it with their spouse. I look pretty darn good, and my former spouse started chatting online with other girls and then started into "coffee dates--Where just friends and business colleagues"...… Then it turned physical and he thought the grass was greener on the other side. Funny how its a fun honeymoon stage for first few months to a year and then its time to do the whole thing over again LOL. So many woman.... so little time. (that's my rant lol) I want to hear guys thoughts on this.... and please share your experiences 
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I am sure that it is in the nature of some men and women to want to have an affair. Why they are searching will very and I don't think you, satistically, can lump them all together. We are all like most animal species, the mail wants to increase his chances of fathering offspring, the women want's to be sure she has the best father for her offspring. The only difference is that we use contraceptives to stop the offspring. and copulate for enjoyment. If you want your posts to reach more people add a comment after you have posted it. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site  Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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8/23/2018 2:13 am |
It is hard to know what is going on inside of someone else's head, but I like to think that truly monogamous relationships are possible. I am a poor candidate for one, but I am honest about it. I don't think that this is a good place to look for monogamy if that is a requirement for you, honesty probably. I hope you find that one true man who you can be his everything for, I just know that I am not likely to meet a woman who is into me that I am going to stop noticing every other woman. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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I think there is enough "herd" instinct in man that he wants multiple women in his life. One woman tends to become routine, and variety seems to be "the spice in life." However, there is no requirement for men to have multiple partners. The reason I am looking if that my wife has completely given up on sex. She has no desire to put forth the effort to have a sexual relationship So - I am looking for a FWB. Otherwise, I would be faithful to my wife.
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One would enough for me. AB No Bozos
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Nope
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There is a saying....”show me the most beautiful woman in the world and somewhwere there is a man who is tired of fucking her.” Pretty much sums it up.
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I think both men and women have the inclination that the grass is greener, but would venture a guess that it's more prevalent with men. As far as cheating goes, no idea which side wins the prize. I've never cheated on a spouse or girlfriend, where the agreement was exclusive. But it doesn't mean I never thought about it. Think it's human nature to entertain the thought of something better, something different. While humans do fall into the animal category, I believe we should be able to control those basal feelings. Obviously not all feel that way, or can control it. I sing my version of Chris Issak's version of Johnny Cash's version "Solitary Man" a lot, cause I love the song and the idea behind it. I think it's very possible to stay with one person, and be happy, your entire life. I've seen it done. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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8/23/2018 6:00 am |
Do you eat the same food and same drink every day? Variety is the spice of life and keeps you up to date and young
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8/23/2018 6:02 am |
There is a saying....”show me the most beautiful woman in the world and somewhwere there is a man who is tired of fucking her.” Pretty much sums it up.
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Technology has made it easy to become one of those that thinks the grass is always greener.Endless choices and an immense amount of attention changes a personality dramatically I'll stick to just one thank you! Using more than all the road!
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It can be more complicated than that - For example if all your sex is doggy style - with you on all fours begging and her saying down boy and playing dead or your other half has other interests -like their phone or other men or you are just a desirable ornament or a payer . Many reasons ,many scenarios on both sides. Many motivations and more complicated than life should be if we all were just kind .
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8/23/2018 10:13 am |
Well seeing as I am divorced for the third time, (my fault two out of three) and have had quite a few partners over the years, I would have to say in my case no. one woman isn't enough, but you can't lump all us guys into one pigeon hole on this subject. I know several men who are monogamous and have been for decades. (Or maybe they are better at hiding it than I was) lol. But there is hope out there. We can't all be completely hopeless. Jimmy B. My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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This might be a bias crowd on this site. Your question requires definitions. Is one woman enough for what? The idea that one person can be all things to another is crazy. It's too much responsibility for any one person to carry. Many couples feel constrained by this emotional and psychological burden. As for monogamy, it is an option for anyone to choose but it is only one option. Within the context of marriage, it is a property right concept that has been infused first with religious underpinning and second with romantic overtones. This fusion ignores human nature and history, as well as, creates unattainable ideals and impossible social standards. Anyone who chooses to be monogamous for a lifetime is not morally superior; nor is someone who chooses the opposite inferior. In short, the answer to your question is complicated. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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In agreement with others, for what purpose is "the one"? I would infer from the description of your marital experiences that it's more for the "serious relationship" end of the spectrum. Everybody's different, so I doubt the one-size-fits-all approach has that much chance of succeeding across any group of people, from the level of a town to a species. Honesty, knowing yourself and communication are important in attempting to find someone with whom you are on the same page. And understanding whether your defined end-goal is actually yours, or the result of the images we are generally familiar with from the time we are all knee-high to grasshoppers. The "attempting" part is important, because it doesn't seem that in any aspect of life is it easy. Assuming that once the honeymoon phase is over that you can settle into a routine, and everybody will be happy with that, might be a dangerous assumption. In the end, any long-term relationship (of any kind) has to grow and change. You are right, in that "seeking it with the spouse" should be first, but maybe it's simpler not to take what is seen as too much risk to the existing relationship by trying to move the boundaries of the existing playing field. Or maybe we just can't keep our true natures under control. I'd rather learn and explore with someone I already have that background with, assuming they're reasonably open, which comes down to the ability to find someone who you are on similar pages with. As for cheating, well, that's just plain disrespectful. OK, fine, you (regardless of which party of the relationship we're talking about) thought you were in it for the long-term, but have discovered you don't like it / are bored / found something else, etc., by whatever mechanisms it happened. At least have the honesty, and courage, to have that not-so-fun conversation. I look at it this way - would I like it if the shoe was on the other foot? (spoiler alert - not really). If you really want to pursue something else, do it as you, not you plus the ol' ball-and-chain. That may be that "honesty" thing coming back around again. Then there's the whole different-acceptable-sexual-everything-between-the-genders that exists in some form or another in most societies. And because so many of the those attitudes are derived from the "major" religions (especially the monotheistic ones), we end up with rather different perspectives between men and women that are difficult to begin to rationalize (I'm hearing something about Mars and Venus echoing in the back of my mind ...). Besides, it's always been more than a little challenging to find someone I have that connection with, so I'm not sure about the effort to do it all over again, while maintaining the appearance of a healthy relationship. Fun, isn't it? Good profile name, btw  -- allgud69xxx Yeah ... that's right ... I went there ..  Wanna msg, but can't - my Postbox blog Another way to say hi my Postbox
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i dont know if id go as far to say most.but im sure alot will .
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8/25/2018 11:38 pm |
Usually I think cheating is a symptom of bist issues in a relationship. Having urges is natural and I think everyone has them. Following up though it's the real problem. That doesn't happen without either there being some problem with the individual or in the relationship.
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8/26/2018 9:39 am |
I hear yah, and its something that bothers me too...though if one pays attention to society you'll get your answer; this sick society is done on purpose...sex drugs n rocknroll are progamed into everyone now a day using every form of media...personally I am religious...I respect God mother earth n her creatures, truth of it is there is a lot more dark and evil in this world than good...evil is what runs the world controls. the establishments have removed God and religion [which taught morals n natural laws-that even to think of another woman is a sin and cheating, we no longer think to respect each other mother earth, our creator n creatures] so they removed God and replaced themselves as god's, only these people are not good god's, their greedy evil manipulating god's..they want to control and keep society off balance so they program us. tits n ass are the new billboards. TV shows don't succeed unless there is an attractive woman with tits n ass hang'n out. we are human, when a man see's a woman wearing yoga pants, every outline, cleavage n skin...its only natural for a man's hormones to run away with his mind..women too though not near as much. in order for a man and woman to last together they really need to respect and love each other...love is unfashionable...other than love of one's self. though its also very very important for the physical relation ship to be great too...kind of why I'm here, unless the sex is great a relationship is just not going to last no matter how much you have in common. its a symptom of this sick work...everyone's mind is hardwired to sex...so the sex between each other has to be great. and I'm not saying your bad in bed, though often times this is a motivator...if sex is dull then of course your mate is going to wonder...and dull doesn't mean going kinky...but the opposite...sex is about love...about sensations...about stimulation...and if you don't stimulate your partner they ain't going stick around. sometimes its no fault of thier own...some women can only have one orgasm at a time, or their pussies are not tight or sensitive so sex is not very stimulating..sex in relationship is very important. also some women are just lazy lovers, they lie there, don't do anything, don't make any sounds, no interaction...so of course a man is going to get board easily. a woman may be the most beautiful woman in the world, though if she's a shitty lay she ain't gonna find a decent mate.
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