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Telling the Truth: Is it really the best thing?  

HandsomeDaddy7 65M
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11/28/2018 1:59 pm

Last Read:
12/29/2018 12:28 pm

Telling the Truth: Is it really the best thing?

I wonder how many people lie about their age or their marital situation? Is it better to be honest? Well if you're married and you admit it, that will cut about 90% of your profile viewers out of your possible hookup list. And if you are honest about how you really are, that too will cut out a good number of possibilities.






1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
12/28/2018 3:39 pm

For me honesty best policy.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/29/2018 5:46 pm

    Quoting  :

I always want honesty, ... No you don't.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/29/2018 5:38 pm

Telling the Truth: Is it really the best thing? ... No. You want to get her naked, you want to get laid... you lie, if telling a lie is what gets her naked, in your bed, then you tell her the lie.

Is it better to be honest?... Not all the time.


HandsomeDaddy7 replies on 11/30/2018 6:35 am:
Of course I want to get intimate with her. However, you are speaking more of your mindset than mine when you presume that I will lie or do whatever to get her into bed. That is not me. After meeting, I always ask how old they think I am. And when I tell them the truth, it is not an issue.

And for the record, I have actually had women get very upset with me because I did not take advantage of them. If there is no chemistry, I do not take it further. I know that most men, if she is will, they will do it no matter what. "That aint me babe!"

HandsomeDaddy7 65M

11/28/2018 7:26 pm

There was a recent poll asking men what size their manhood was. In my comments I noted what several research finding concluded was average length. But the poll taken here was at least an inch outside of those findings. i.e. researched average was 4.5"-5.5" but the pole averaged 6.5 and up. Almost no one indicated they were less.

I would say this is probably the most lied about thing by male A.FF members.


HandsomeDaddy7 65M

11/28/2018 6:34 pm

Obviously the argument for being honest and upfront is the strongest one. There is some hypocrisy here in that while you state age and marriage should always be actual because it is just morally wrong, yet most are here to hookup outside of marriage. But I'm not here to get into all that.

As I just stated, there are reasons for "fibbing" about, say your age. (I think if you are married but you present yourself as being single is indefensible. Just my .02). Women lie about their age so much that its a standard joke. "It's my 10th anniversary of turning 39."

I would post a picture of a woman I met who was 73 but I don't kiss and tell. This woman had told me she was 5 yrs younger. I thought she was at least 10 yrs younger when I actually met her. We jogged at the park every morning. We were on the go from sun up to sundown and then some. And when I once asked some people who had asked us to take their picture how old they thought she was, when told her actual age, they literally replied, "Fuck you!" thinking I was some gigolo because they thought I was 15 yrs younger than my actual age.

I once posted my real age on here and only either heard crickets or was told that if I was no more than 60 then they would have entertained pursuing it.

So let the fiery darts be thrown. But you have to admit to the fact that you automatically draw conclusions/presumptions when told a particular age.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/28/2018 4:02 pm

    Quoting lefty64014:
    Your probably right. And most gals who say they can't host, but list being single are married.
Children and/or roommates

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/28/2018 4:01 pm

I rarely put my actual birth date info on any web site - especially this one. ALL sites are prone to having membership data security breached - again especially this one. For that reason alone having your accurate birth date info posted here is rather stupid.

My age here is off by less than 5 years and I've told every woman I was going to meet my actual age and the reason why it is off here. For women who don't have a problem regarding the number it's not been a problem.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


HandsomeDaddy7 replies on 11/28/2018 6:19 pm:
Here's been my issue. It's actually been commented on here by two women (I don't get many comments so even just 2 carries weight) that when I listed my own age, they said no way. However, when I meet people in person, they always guess me to be at least 15 yrs younger. I can't believe I'm as old as I am. But if I put my actual age down, AUTOMATICALLY people are going to presume that I'm too old. In person, I always tell my real age, sometimes after we had a bit of fun. And the response has been one of "Wow" not one of "Yuk!" Thus my question, IS IT always better to tell the truth?

But I always declare that I'm married.

PartyTimehere77 32M

11/28/2018 3:34 pm

always tell it


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/28/2018 3:18 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    The real problem is that we're the only ones who knows
    if we're telling the truth.With so many that lie no one will
    believes anyone.Hence stalemate!
That's a really good point.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


matutum50 73M

11/28/2018 3:02 pm

I tell the truth but how much do you tell someone that you don't know?


bitchkitty2017 71F

11/28/2018 2:58 pm

Always tell the truth no matter what..I put what I feel is the most pertinent things on my profile if I wanted to lie I would not ..when someone comes on here they should be made to put their marital status on save a lot of time wasting..


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
11/28/2018 2:56 pm

The U.S. Senate when they acquitted Bill Clinton for lying about sex agreed that lying about your sex life is not a high crime or misdemeanor. It is normal behavior.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/28/2018 2:51 pm

The real problem is that we're the only ones who knows
if we're telling the truth.With so many that lie no one will
believes anyone.Hence stalemate!

Using more than all the road!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/28/2018 2:20 pm

Honesty is always the best policy!!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lefty64014 66M
258 posts
11/28/2018 2:04 pm

Your probably right. And most gals who say they can't host, but list being single are married.


HandsomeDaddy7 replies on 11/30/2018 9:37 am:
Now this is a case where quite possibly the lie actually hurts your chances. I would much prefer a married woman... just like 007. That sets the limits to the relationship right out the gate. Also, married people are more mature (theoretically) and more relational (at least they should be) than single, never been married people.

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