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I would say you are being honest, know what you like and want, and definitely are not being picky. It's all about personal preferences, which should be embraced and supported. Good luck in your adventures. 
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Those sound like preferences to me... there's nothing wrong with those! You want to meet a single woman not much older than you who doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs. ok, so maybe Utah would be a better place for you to look...  kidding kidding.Never apologize for your preferences or let someone else tell you they're wrong
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I see nothing wrong with picky. We all are and why should we not be picky. I don’t go shopping and pick whatever is on the rack. I pick what I feel is right for me to wear. What works for someone may not work for me. I choose right for me. When I see a man post that he is not picky, I don’t feel he would be into me for me. My being would be meaningless to him. Not flattered because he will go with just anything. Maybe picky has the wrong connatation.
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Too picky is entirely subjective and you're the only person whose opinion counts when it comes to your preferences. That said, what you're looking for would probably be easier to find at your local church than on this site. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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yah...i tell yah...like Biglala said, we, the female members on this site, all were told at least once, we are too picky... i don't think too picky is a bad thing...not for us...and i am not really complaining the lack of the partner either...because when the right one comes around, i am gonna definitely grab it... but i ain't gonna throw myself out for nothing either, tho... just because the houses are on sale, that doesn't mean you got to buy...you can always wait for what you like....
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dabrown33 replies on 12/11/2018 12:31 pm: Churches and bars. Two places I don't go, for the same reasons. Though honestly, I'm surprised how many kink-tolerant women I've seen on here (based on their profiles) also claim to be Catholic. Considering I grew up Catholic, and remained active in the Church through my mid 20s. I would think that sado-masochism is central to Catholicism. Every mass, at the command of the priest: kneel, sit, stand, kneel, sit, stand. Obedience and discomfort are critical components of Catholic worship. Confession: lock yourself in a dark box and reveal your innermost secrets to someone who will never equalise the relationship by revealing their secrets to you. Penance. Historical practices such as self-flagellation and torture. What made you think BDSM and catholicism were mutually exclusive? As you attended mass all those years did you never notice what was going on? Regarding married women in open relationships, you only need to ask one question: do I meet your husband before we fuck? If the answer is yes, it is a genuinely open relationship. As for pickiness, it depends on your goals. If you are looking for the exact relationship you want and would rather do without than compromise then you're not too picky. If your goal is to get laid this month then you probably are being too picky because your criteria eliminates the majority of available women. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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Of course we all have the right to be picky, but I suspect you aren't having the same difficulty getting laid that dabrown is. As the saying goes "beggars can't be choosers". Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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dabrown33 replies on 12/11/2018 8:03 pm: "Your criteria eliminates the majority of available women". That's the problem. If I were to increase the pool, so to speak, which criteria or combination of is the too restrictive one? I realize location alone eliminates over 99% of the women on here. The most obvious one is age. I've had absolutely great times with age 50+ women. Your preferred age range is from 13 years younger to 5 years older. I'd recommend a gender neutral age range, ie: if -13 years is ok +13 should be as well. If you can't bring yourself to go quite that high at least stretch it out to 10 years older. Location is a sensible restriction. Due to smell, smokers and non smokers generally don't mix well. Keep that one. Drinkers: you say you tolerate them. You only tolerate things you don't like. Nobody wants to fuck someone who is tolerating them. Go a bit further and shoot for acceptance instead of tolerance. Recreational drug use. Educate yourself instead of swallowing drug war propaganda. I recommend starting by reading "Chasing the Scream" by Johann Hari. You should realize that some form of drug use is common to most species. There's a difference between use and addiction. If you think that only people who choose the one drug you approve of are acceptable human beings you need to re-examine your decision making paradigm. Married women. I don't recommend changing this immediately. What I do recommend is getting to know some of the swingers etc here on the blogs, just blogging, not picking up. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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Fair enough. Although I did have a bit to say my first point stands: only your opinion counts when it comes to your preferences. It occurred to me that you might be able to find someone who fits your criteria if you get involved in some sort of sport or outdoor activity. Even a gym. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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12/19/2018 10:26 am |
Dude, you're fine! Just as I have little to no INITIAL interest in dating a non-smoker because I've found that many (like you) may say they can tolerate it OK since I am polite about it (truly...I know there are many smokers out there that aren't) , more often than not they do end up having an issue with it even so. So like you, I guess I'm wisely playing the odds to my (and hers too, actually) best advantage. Picky, nah...just practical!
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