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I kissed a boy there (overreaching ...)  

delcocd 55T
12 posts
12/26/2018 9:09 pm
I kissed a boy there (overreaching ...)

So, anyway i had a date and it was cool except everything that wasn't cool.

By date, I mean a hookup because with all parties declaring horny that kind of happens. Whatever but let me let everyone know what drives everyone crazy here in case you didn't know (the first everyone meaning..... guys and the second everyone meaning gurls and .. i'm guessing ... girls).

You go through all the trouble of finding out what people like to figure out if a good time will be had by all. It's not much different than deciding what kind of restaurant to go to. That way everyone can relax and no surprises and let's all just grab a fork and stab food with it together. Everyone wins.

The only time there should be losers is when someone misrepresents what they like, or what they want, and that's the biggest problem with hookups. And lunches. Nobody wants to go with everyone to a sushi bar only to find out someone in the group doesn't like sushi. That person is usually me but ppfpffth whatever onto what I came to talk about.

So I'm with this guy, who is I'll say it outright here hot AF and things get off to a good start. There's this going on and that going on and I'm where I am more than happy to be where I am and then, out of nowhere he just bends over and shoves his balloon knot in my face saying "you want this ass baby?" which maybe wouldn't be a problem except we had already covered this activity in chat. And this was, next to a french bulldog or Pennywise joining in, up there on my list of things I had no idea would be part of the festivities.

Rimming is not my thing. Getting or receiving. Seriously I'm pretty open about this and I'm not going to sign up for something I am not comfortable with. I can cover this separately but that's not the point, the point is... a lot of guys overreach. Like they can't be honest right up front and then expect you to comply with this last minute change of plans because you're already there and I'm like "erhm ... ummm ... not really" so he's then all huffy or whatever but whatever.

Same thing with poppers and those kinds of things... FFS you guys and your poppers what's wrong with a regular old orgasm? In case you forgot they are pretty fucking enjoyable. You break out these things to try to make awesome more awesomer and more often than not it kills everything.

Please stop overreaching ... stop lying to yourself and to your partners ... it's ok to be a little selfish, we all are but it's not ok to be selfish at someone else's expense.

Enjoy what you can get and stop trying to get everything you want. You have to understand that's likely what you potential partner is willing to do.

- Adelina

PS I didn't hookup on someone here, it was a grindr hookup.

tnt6969694 70M
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221 posts
7/24/2019 8:49 pm

 The key here is respect - your partner needs to respect you and your limits. If not then things just will not work out.


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