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How to have fun on AFF
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How to have fun on AFF It's a large question with a small answer. Be honest. I am amazed at all the liars that exist on this site, and unfortunately, Local Sexy Swingers itself. It is in what people write, it is in the photos, it is in the emails, it is in your login page, and it is in your home page. It's everywhere, and, quite frankly, it's sad. The interactions that I have had (there are few at this point because I am new to this) that are enjoyable (fun) have been those where nothing but honesty has prevailed. And this includes the rejections. I understand, at least from a guys point, it is difficult to get responses if you don't look like Brad Pitt, and believe me, I don't (Kermit the Frog is better looking than me). I realize this, and when I began this journey, my original thoughts were can I embellish? And it didn't work, it was not fun, and the answer was no. As I have approached this endeavor from the point of honesty, it has become much more enjoyable (fun). So, you want to have fun on Local Sexy Swingers, just be honest. Kermit is.  |
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A lot of people here aren't honest with themselves about what they're doing here. As an example: A lot of people sign up on the site just to check things out. That's fine, that's not wrong. So they're genuinely not sure what they're looking for here. But then they come at with pushing hard to meet for secret sexual rendezvous. Again, not wrong, that's what the site exists for. The problem is this, guys like that know exactly what they're looking for, yet they're claiming to be "not sure." If they were truly just checking things out, their approach would be totally different. Confident men are honest with what they're looking for, even to themselves, and aren't ashamed of it. The whole "not sure" thing is a signal that they're ashamed of what they're looking for, and women pick up on that. No woman wants an insecure man ... and that, in one way or another, translates to ultimate failure on the site. Where and how it breaks down will vary, but it will unavoidably break down nonetheless. Honestly means having clear objectives in mind (even if it is just "See what's out there and see if anything sparks my interest"), and choosing an approach that is consistent with that objective. That doesn't mean people can't recognize an serendipitous opportunity when it arises, but that will be the exception rather than the expectation.
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Absolutely not... do not be 100 percent honest!! Pick and choose what you want to be honest about...but remember... this is the internet.... being 100 percent honest is not a good idea. If you think you are physically unattractive? Then don't be here. How you think of yourself matters. You want sexual attention from actual women , yes? Okay , so if you don't have the looks to attract that, then you have to embellish some. Just like before you found the internet dating sites, you might have gone out.... what did you do? ... You embellished yourself.... you dressed better, maybe rented a newer car....found and fucked the women with beer goggles.... Just don't be honest online.... not a good idea. Look at the pictures of women on here, or anywhere.......... see any without any makeup on? ...No. She's embellishing. She's not being honest either. Look at lala...you think her boobs jut out like that? No... They sag... she's embellishing on herself..... women do this nonsense all the time.. Oh and the wild embellishers are those odd ball guys who claim to be transgender women... come on...really?? It's man having problems with his mind so he fixes up an elaborate costume to appear as a woman.
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12/20/2018 8:42 am |
Again I totally have to agree with this lady I have had so many men who are gold status NOT read my profile and assume I am on here like maybe a lot of women into hookups with attached men..Its astounding the amount that do assume that very thing..I fel like a parrot repeating the same line " READ MY PROFILE " geez ...give a gal a break for once..
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12/20/2018 8:47 am |
So true . I'm not a pretty boy either and most of the woman on this site are not even serious . The ones that are serious are in great demand . So I suppose they don't need to even bother to be polite and return a IM or message  I have meet a few very nice couples and one married woman . Dating is almost impossible in this New world ..
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OOOHHH LAWDY say it ain't so, say it ain't so. Say you haven't been soiled by the dirty one.  However, the best policy is to be honest with anyone you're intending to meet. Do you have to look like Brad Pitt? For some women perhaps, but not all. I've met some women here and I'm no George Clooney either. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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This was great! How did you come up with all those terrifc thoughts....... wish I could work that way. My brain doesn't function as such. Good job.
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Use the chat option to start talking to someone. Be respectful and don't lay out all your kinks in the first 10 minutes. Get to know a little bit about the other person - use your brain, not your other head. There are good times to be had here, just be nice.
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 You're so funny! 
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You already have someone. So being alone wasn't your destiny May the experience of pouring over shallow graves remind you of how good you really have it! Using more than all the road!
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-Hey what are you trying to do? ... Pointing out how women are not honest, and how honesty is not always good.
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There's a difference between honesty and full disclosure. You don't have to tell everything about yourself but what you do say should be the truth. Expecting everyone to live by that is a recipe for disappointment. Finding the ones who do is part of your selection process. Best strategy is to play to your strengths but don't oversell yourself. No point having people disappointed when they actually meet you. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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