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Last minute cancellations  

niceblueeyes39 47M
35 posts
9/7/2019 6:19 am
Last minute cancellations


Does anyone actually get some kind of kick out of dropping out of a date at the last minute? possible just enjoy the flirty build up with no intention of meeting?

What do you thinkk?

1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
9/7/2019 6:42 am

Life happens, and if it is cancelled before the meet, it gets rescheduled. If you talking about no shows they happen and do not get a second chance. Sadly lots of cheaters, liars, fakes and virtual seekers. Real and genuine seems rare.


Justboredcree 41M
7 posts
9/7/2019 6:58 am

Your lost i say


Scorpionawd2 31M
13 posts
9/7/2019 7:05 am

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InspireMe17 57F

9/7/2019 7:17 am

I apply the same standards here as anywhere else: respect, honesty, and do unto others. So, no, I have not no-showed or cancelled on the day of a meeting. I think the less mature among us take the nature of this site as an opportunity to behave badly.

I try to agree to meet only those who really fit my criteria and overall, have a lot of success when I’m here. That said I have been cancelled on before, and those “gentleman” have zero chance of a second chance.

Thanks for your post.


z45char 70M

9/7/2019 7:19 am

Agree, it is very apparent if you are a male. they will set up even a meet and greet type of contact. No show and if your lucky, you get a cancellation notice, usually with some contrived excuse.


pagancountrygirl 66F  
6466 posts
9/7/2019 7:56 am

    Quoting  :

Bwaahaahaa.....that is too funny! An Local Sexy Swingers rep? Obviously you've missed some of her comments about the serious screw-ups having to do with Local Sexy Swingers! Her point was to not always assume the worst about a situation. Yes, people sometimes have no intentions of showing up for a scheduled meet. But real life happens, too.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
9/7/2019 8:38 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Bwaahaahaa.....that is too funny! An Local Sexy Swingers rep? Obviously you've missed some of her comments about the serious screw-ups having to do with Local Sexy Swingers! Her point was to not always assume the worst about a situation. Yes, people sometimes have no intentions of showing up for a scheduled meet. But real life happens, too.
Maybe she is a secret agent...like Dangermouse


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/7/2019 9:19 am

    Quoting  :

Seriously? You've made all of one (1) post here and you decided BL is an A*F*F rep? Pathetic.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
9/7/2019 9:26 am

Yeah... not only once! But i dont mind as long as they let me know instead of just not showing up.
Who will cancel last minute on such a handsome guy like you? Their lost!!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/7/2019 9:32 am

In my time here I've read this stood up / cancelled "stuff" a lot. Most of the stories are incomplete and leave out the details of how the ALLEGED date was arranged. My bet is the "date" was never arranged in a way to insure it would happen.

The way many people arrange a date now is via text, or similar - not by phone (actually hearing each others voice). If you make a date (especially a first one) and don't talk (vocally) you have NOT used all your possible communication and verification tools to make sure the "date" is going to happen.

I always talk to the woman I am intending to meet. First to gauge if there is comparability and interest. I can then judge how interested she is, or isn't, as we talk and when I ask about getting together. From here I have met, in person, over a dozen women, only 1 date was missed - she was pulled over by a cop (long story). We talked later and met within the next few days.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/7/2019 3:03 pm

    Quoting  :

Ooooooooohh Lala do you really believe this guy can read a profile? Then you suggest he is able to logic out a situation? Wow, just wow. I believe the word you were really looking for is chump not champ.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Livin_my_Life14 54F

9/7/2019 8:04 pm

I’m here....... I’d show if I was meeting you! Sexy sexy sexy- that smile. So far away but that doesn’t matter- I’ll be dreaming about you - McDreamy😍😍

I don’t find many people to be real on here. Confirmed, gold ball.... even a blog means nothing around this place. Many people aren’t normal on here either- it’s a sex site and you think you could get sex. It’s not that easy.

The needle in the haystack is real on here. You will get(pricked) many times while looking for it. Is it worth it- fuck me Yes!!

I hope you stay around. That seems to be my issue- I make a fun sexy connection and they delete themselves. Poofs is what I call them😂😂


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
9/8/2019 1:33 am

    Quoting  :

I've had a couple of cancellations but nothing like 70%. I haven't counted but definitely less than 10%. I've got no idea what you could be doing that's giving you such an abysmal failure rate.

My tip: start taking advice from bloggers who are successful, stop reading blogs which are full of complaining about how hard it is.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


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