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Blogs > _freyja_ > ~Magical Fuckery~

Hidden Accessory ~  

_freyja_ 57F
64 posts
9/4/2019 9:32 am
Hidden Accessory ~

On Friday, just a few days after severing ties with m7 former Sir, i happened t0 come across m7 collar stashed at the bottom of m7 purse.

It was there so i could put it on at events i would attend without him, since i went t0 all events without him.

i also was a hidden accessory, ~ from his wife, almost like the hidden accessory in the bottom of m7 purse. Pushed away, never included, t0 be brought 0ut when it was time be shown and u5ed.

Friday i was co-hosting a "rump-roast", a spanko, or spanking party at the Dungeon (home away from home). In the midst of preparing for a skit i was performing in, i pulled the forgotten collar 0ut while looking for a hair clip.

Nonchalantly i held it up t0 the room full of people and smirked, "Anyone want a barely u5ed pretty collar?". T0 m7 surprise, a young new submissive jumped up and raised her hand, "I do!", she said with her eyes sparkling and hopeful. Taken by surprise, i brought it her, and told her i hope it brings you better luck and happiness.

As i walked back to m7 place, i was numb and in shock, something that meant so much suddenly meant absolutely nothing, Am i as disposable as that necklace/collar? Well, t0 m7 former Sir, yes i am. Discarded on a whim without discussion. Already being replaced for a cyber profile hidden from me to pursue other cyber profiles (amongst other issues, but this was the defining moment for me, especially considering he was pursuing a fake profile of a mutual enemy~ that's another Oprah show), using his new fake profile showing himself almost years younger, and SINGLE~

It seems the collar and I were both the pretty accessory and the trash 1n this relationship. Pretty and usable when convenient, and discarded when no longer wanted.

There is a saying, someone's trash is someone else's treasure.

How long does one have be someone's trash before she is someone's treasure again?

I've decided i don't like being a hidden accessory or discarded trash~

_freyja_ 57F
25 posts
9/4/2019 9:38 am

 I may be broken and made to feel like discarded trash~ but even broken crayons still color ~


DripOnMyTongue60 52M
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9/4/2019 10:35 am

 Good story...and I get points too


_freyja_ replies on 9/4/2019 9:57 pm:
thanks~ and so do i lol

Mr00Fun4U 64M

9/4/2019 11:27 am

 You lovely Lady are never ever anyone’s trash. He just never saw your overall beauty and was more hung up on his ego. Your collar is gone as well as that choking feeling when you were smothered in a relationship that was one sided.

Enjoy your freedom and live it up because you have a lot to offer.

Hidden Accessory


_freyja_ replies on 9/4/2019 9:58 pm:
thank you, i am enjoying the freedom, but there are moments of sadness~

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
9/4/2019 12:06 pm

 Were you not capable of escaping his oppression
when he put the thing on? Why you would consider yourself
trash and not that total waste of oxygen who subjected you
to this existence?
Using more than all the road!


_freyja_ replies on 9/4/2019 9:59 pm:
it wasn't oppression initially~ i was made promises and i believed them, until the years and excuses started to pile up~

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
9/4/2019 1:47 pm

 What you are and how you feel are different. Be cautious their confusion. You're in morning. Give yourself time to heal. It will pass. You have taken several affirmative steps toward healing. Celebrate those as well.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


_freyja_ replies on 9/4/2019 10:00 pm:
i'm a work in progress, some times letting go of promises made is harder when they are snatched away in an unfair swoop of anger~

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
9/5/2019 10:13 am

 I understand. To that end, we are all a work in progress. The difficulty is often deciding what we're progress toward.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


_freyja_ replies on 9/7/2019 8:06 am:
not difficult for this one ~ knowing exactly what i want and need, not settling for less. This life lesson taught me to not settle. I won't ever settle againl

*smiles*

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
9/9/2019 1:17 pm

 That's awesome. Few can say that of themselves.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


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