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Trying not to judge!!!  

Thickchick6988 62F
18 posts
1/24/2020 9:32 am
Trying not to judge!!!

I have been on and off this site for just under 5 years and I have talk to a lot of men..I try so hard to remember that each man is his own individual person...and not to think "Men are all alike" and try not to judge each man based on the actions of others...but sadly I have came to the conclusion that 99.69% of men,,(((,not just on here but, everywhere))) are pretty much the same...I always try to be open, honest and genuine to the men I chat with as to what I seek here and who I am as a women...and I expect the same from the men I chat with..However,I think I am being very naïve on the matter that men are going to be the same way as I am...And sadly I fine most of the men here ..tell you what they think you want to hear and just play a game with you..most seem to be just flakes and lairs...and like to blow smoke up your ass...they talk the talk but they cant walk the walk.... I will continue to give each man the benefit of doubt that they are honest and genuine,,,because it would not be fair to them if I didn't.... so I hope to find someone to prove me wrong that all men are not alike...

massagefun83 60M
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1/29/2020 2:25 pm

 I have been on here about 8-9 years, off and on and I definitely have to agree with you. It seems that the majority of men on here have given men in general a bad name, mostly desperately horny. I use to be able to chat with any one on Local Sexy Swingers, but now all women and couples are very cautious who they speak to because of rude men! Local Sexy Swingers is not as fun as it use to be. But in saying that, there are some good people on this site too, its just harder to find them.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/20/2020 11:45 pm

 All it really takes is one.They wine and dine you and they play the yes mam game.Magically they like a lot of the things you do. Call you just enough to keep in your graces.They're 40ish and the cutest of the bunch cramming your inbox.Which means they're getting looks elsewhere.Some take their time and try and fulfill all the plays on their sexual play card . They become distant,don't stay over or wrap it up earlier,their lies start to unravel,they are more avoidant of questions and then the calls stop coming.Worse is when their not ever returned.


Maybe Eight or ten times in a five year period.I can see why we deserve membership in your club. I'm older though and even though Everything works fine eventually you all will get me believing it doesn't and put enough fear of embarrassment to stop trying and despite all that I would never call all women the same.
Using more than all the road!


AthleticSurferLA 49M

6/6/2020 9:44 am

 You're saying you make plans to meet a man for sex and they don't show up?


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