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Thinking Problems  

VTGuy2015 38M
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2/21/2022 9:44 pm
Thinking Problems

A back story first then my brain cramp.

My wife and I haven't been playing lately due to a lack of free time from both of us, this mostly being having constant in the house and no extra income to think about sitters or what not. We had a family member who would watch our eldest when we asked but at some point they stopped wanting to watch them at all.

In the past we have played separately with a couple before, everything seemed fun and fine at the time and wasn't that big of an issue for the staying home. It also helped that the of the couple was at least mildly bi, so some extra contact wasn't a deal breaker.

Recently we were approached by a couple we know that put forth the idea of having a split play time, of us stays home and keeps an eye on the the other goes and has some fun time away. Which is all fine and dandy, no issues there, since she is doing that while I'm at work anyway and I can survive a few hours with the (lol). My problem is that this couples' I don't think is open to bi stuff.

I mean I know theres things that don't involve bi things in a MFM, but it isn't the same as it would be for a FFM. Theres more options for exploring and fun (in my opinion) with a FFM, again there are a few things in a MFM that I would like to explore and learn more about, but I also want to be more exploratory with a helping hand essentially. In a FFM 2 girls kissing or playing is fun to watch or direct or play as needed or wanted if the girls are both even marginally bi. The same cant be said for a MFM if of the guys has interest in same play.

We know the couple well enough so things might not be as awkward as they were in the past, but again the half seems like being in the same vicinity of another guy is a major turn off and I don't want to sound petty by asking what is in it for me, and that is my conundrum.

Do I risk being petty and seeming like a total tool, or do I just kinda roll with it and let the stones roll as they may. I want everyone to be happy, and I know my wife will be more then happy to have a play date of any type. At the same time I also want to be able to explore or have something different as well. My worst fear is being seen as petty and it ruins or damages our friendship with the other couple. I know some people would just come out and ask or say something but I have a hard time expressing myself to others well. I have explained this all to my wife, but having more input can help make a more manageable decision.

Input is greatly valued but I guess just posting this will help me get my brain on the track it needs to start down.

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