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This blog contains a record of my thoughts and experiences on Local Sexy Swingers including the good, the bad and the ugly. Names have been changed to protect the innocent and not so innocent. If you are easily offended, DO NOT READ THIS. If you like what you read, leave a comment. If you don't like what you read, keep it to yourself. *lol*
Additional Disclaimer
Let me say this, I don't blog about every single sexual experience I have. I only blog about the ones worth remembering for whatever reason. For most of my partners, it is an honor to receive a post on my blog. Of course, some people have made my blog for the wrong reasons. I very rarely write about the bad experiences, primarily because I realize anyone can have an off performance. It's happened to me a time or two . *giggle*
I don't want any potential playmates to be intimidated by my blog. While I've had some incredible experiences, I know everybody and every experience is different. My tastes are varied. So what if the last guy was of above average endowment. I like average too and if you know how to compensate, I can even deal with below average. Not every man needs to be dominant to be with me. The right man can tap into my aggressive side and we can roll like that. I've discovered that different people bring out different characteristics in me. As long as you're not some sissy punk or an arrogant asshole, I'm sure we'll get along just fine.
I hope you will read my blog and enjoy it. Remember there is no pressure or expectations to preform like any of my other playmates. I write for practice and entertainment...go be entertained. 
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I lied!
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Posted:Apr 23, 2009 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2009 6:33 pm
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Okay, really I thought about it and I tried for like two days. Me giving up dick is like Yogi giving up picnic baskets...it's not going to happen. *lol*
I actually fell off the wagon last week while I thought Brandon and I were still trying to work it out. Honestly, I was feeling pretty crappy about myself and thought a date might help cheer me up, at least start to rebuild my confidence. So, I picked up Pat on a BDSM site. He described himself as a firm but loving Daddy Dom and that's right up my alley. After a couple of emails he invited me to to dinner and I accepted. He gave very specific instructions. I was to meet him at the restaurant promptly at 7 pm and be wearing a low cut blouse.
Being the good little girl I am, I arrived at the restaurant at 6:45 pm dressed in a sexy, low cut black lace blouse. I double check my hair and make-up before going to wait for him in the restaurant lobby. He arrives a few minutes before 7 pm, immediately recognizes me and greets me with a hug. We have a seat in a booth and he checks his cellphone for the time. He's impressed, I was early. He also shows his approval of my wardrobe choice, which was hard for me. There is low cut and then there is asking for a chest cold. *lol* I didn't know how far to go.
When the waitress comes over to take our drink order, I'm not drinking, he orders a double screwdriver for himself and a water for me. I've never been to this particular restaurant. So, he's telling me about the menu and asking what I like and how I like it. When the waitress returns with our drinks, he orders for me. Yes, I let him order dinner for me. We had some conversation while we waited for my dinner. He told me some things about himself and the plans he had for the evening. Wow, I was thinking dinner and some conversation. He's thinking a full on play date. Oh well, I'll just go with the flow.
After dinner, I'm comfortable with Pat. So, I agree to follow him back to his place. We get to his place and I follow him back to his room. He stands me up against the wall and kisses me. Then he tells me the rules. They're quite simple 1.) I'll call him Daddy. 2.) I'll obey his commands. I'll be punished if I don't obey and rewarded for my good behavior.
"Strip." I obey. He tells me to lie face down on the bed and I comply. He straddles me and then whispers in my ear that he's going to punish me because my blouse wasn't low cut enough. Hmm, he was loving it at the restaurant. He just wants to spank my ass. *lol* He begins to spank my ass with his hand. Damn, that shit stings. It's been a long time since I've been in subspace but I am clearly on my way there tonight. When he's done with my punishment, he instructs me to lay down in the middle of the bed with my head at the top. I do as he instructed and the next thing I know he is tying my wrist to the bed with purple nylon rope, one then the other and then my feet. So, now I'm tied spread eagle on this man's bed. Then he blindfolds me. Hmm, what's that? It feels soft and a bit ticklish in a very sensual way. It's a feather. He's gently stroking my body with a feather. I'm so turned on I can feel my pussy getting wet. He removes my blindfold; he wants to see my eyes. Now that he's discovered I'm extremely ticklish, he's delighted. He spends several minutes tracing over my body with this feather before concentrating on tickling various regions of my body until I'm begging for mercy. He finally unties me. I did well. It's time for my reward. He lies with his head at the top of the bed, tells me to turn facing the foot of the bed and climb on his face. I comply. *giggle* I'm sitting on his face enjoying the ride. In all the excitement I stroked his cock. OMG!! He freaked. "Get off." I got off. "Turn over." I turn over. He goes to the dresser and retrieves the paddle brush. "Did I tell you to touch me there?" Okay, he has a point and I take my paddling like a big girl. When he's done he rolls me over and kisses me. "You know Daddy only punishes you because he loves you, right?"
He pulls out the toys, a vibrator, dildo and silver bullet. He uses the various toys in various ways making sure baby girl is thoroughly pleased. Then he tells me to lie still with my hands interlaced above my head. He begins to tickle my entire body demanding that I remain still and keep my hands together. Is he serious. I'm good until he starts licking that spot where your thigh meets your pelvis. Okay, so I move and pay the consequences. After this spanking he once again assures me he only spanks me because he loves me. Then he kisses me. The kisses grow deeper and more passionate. Then he asks, "you want to be mine?" Ummm, no. In my head Brandon and I are going to work through our issue in a day or so and he so wouldn't approve of me having another Daddy.
He's okay with that for about 10 minutes. Then he flips me over on my stomach and begins to spank my ass until I say I'll be his. OMG!! He is too serious for me. Luckily, my cellphone rings. My are with a sitter and I'm supposed to be home, clear across town, in 20 minutes. He let's me up to get dressed. We dress. He walks me out and tells me to text him later. Yeah, right.
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Taking a break
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Posted:Apr 20, 2009 10:38 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2009 4:02 am
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Okay, I thought throwing myself into building a new team would help me deal with the loss of my relationship with Brandon. I was wrong. So, I'm taking a break. I'm going to take some time to take care of me. I'm going to focus on loving the one man I know loves me back, my husband. So no more stories. I'm sorry. It's been fun while it lasted. Who knows, maybe I'll feel up to playing again sometime soon. Anyway, take care and I'll miss you.
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Twisted
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Posted:Apr 17, 2009 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2009 11:17 am
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Okay, I caught my so called bf cheating on me with another woman from this site. Honestly, not a big deal. I think I knew all along he wasn't being as faithful as he claimed. What's twisted is now I'm obsessing over this woman. I've read her profile a dozen times and I can't believe it. Obviously he has a type. It's like we're twins from a different mother. What's really twisted is, I think I want her. I'm actually attracted to the other woman in his life. Now I want them both. *lol*
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Life Happens
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Posted:Apr 15, 2009 9:50 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2009 8:24 pm
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I normally wouldn't do this here but I feel compelled to do so today. Undoubtedly, my regular readers noticed that I was once again rebuilding my team after being a "one dick" girl for several months. Some of you have inquired privately about the state of my relationship with Brandon. Brandon and I have had some incredible sex over the past several months and I'll admit it was a bit more than just sex for me. You know what they say: All good things must come to an end. So, is it over for Brandon and me? I'm sure I'll relapse but I don't think it'll ever be the same. On with my search for new main characters in this story we call my life.
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Something Borrowed
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Posted:Mar 27, 2009 5:27 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2012 2:10 pm
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This is not my usual thing but I thought I would break up the monotony. This is a little something I borrowed from a dear friend. Tell me if you agree with his little list.
A Man's Guide to Chicks. 10 Do's.
Ahhh...inspiration smileth on me this light. Sadness is not my bag, and it shouldn't be yours either. Nothing makes a man more happy or sad than a chick, so they are worth our inspection and the following introspection resultant.
10 Do's
1. DO know thyself. If you know yourself then much is achievable..even scoring that chick you didn't think you could. It's all about confidence, and you don't know what your capable of until you truly do. Let no one tell you who you are, KNOW who you are beforehand.
2. DO understand chicks. A lot of guys hate women, something I think born out of frustration. Hate is rooted in fear, fear is born out of misunderstanding. If you know how women think then you can predict how she will act..somewhat. The key is knowing the possible things she could do and being ready for those possibilities.
3. DO patronize her cheesy holidays. Whether its your anniversary, birthdays, valentine's day...whatever. Allocate money for these events if she is worth it even if they defy reason.
4. DO make sure she has an orgasm during sex. Women will not have a drive to have sex if they are not being pleased which is understandable. Making her cum first is the best thing to do.
5. DO cook for her every now and then. This makes sense because she'll like it, and one pleasure leads to another. Not only that, the practice is good for you during relationship downtime.
6. DO take care of business. No romance without finance has always held true. Women are the prime reason for gaining money and power so how do you think your going to retain one if your not proficient in acquiring either.
7. DO compliment her, but never in excess. There's always someone out there willing to sweet talk your chick no matter how she looks. If you never tell her or make her feel like she's a good pick for you, she'll be woo'd by someone who tells her she IS attractive.
7b. DO know that she is going to get fat. Its actually a sign of happiness for a chick..lol. Getting fat is just what most chicks do, nothing to panic about. Don't call her names either or pick on her because that's mean and she cant help it THAT much. If it gets too much for you its easier on you both to leave and do your upgrading.
8. DO spend time with your chick. Hey, its just something you gotta do. Women are screwed up so even if your taking care of all your bills and hers and have the greatest heart she will go screw someone else just cause. She may not even be horny. You'll find out because she'll not tell you, but leave obvious clues until you find out. She wants you to find out in fact because its out of desperation and she's trying to send a message. Her twisted ass will think its justified and it happens everrryyyyy day. This goes back to Rule #2. And if you don't have the time for her, let her go. Not all women have the same time needs.
8b. DO follow 8. I say this because it can actually save you time and money spent. Your spending your life away providing for a chick your going to have to get rid of because she's turned sour milk. Be smart.
9. DO give her little things from time to time to show you care, and I do mean little. Doing big things will just insure you spoil her into wanting increasingly bigger things, next thing you know she's spoiled rotten, but you've reached the end of your means. You can give no more, and now you've "given" yourself a problem. Take my advice on the best gifts; things that mean the most to chicks are thoughtful, creative gifts, not extravagant ones.
I will even go so far as to say...the MORE you give, the LESS it will be appreciated in the end. One great man told me, "..If rewards are immoderate, there will be expenditure that does not result in gratitude.."
10. DO have fun with your chick! If you find that to have fun you must do it without your chick then odds are you have the wrong chick. One way to test the validity of the relationship your in is see if you can go out (or stay in) and have a blast with your chick. Is she fun compatible? If you like basketball is she willing enough to play it with you? Video games? (if that's your bag). This test can save you a lot of time.
Ahhhh...where's my Nobel Peace Prize...
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Hos Tel
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Posted:Dec 12, 2008 8:32 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2008 9:08 pm
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You can't take ya ho to this no tell motel because Hostel! *lol*
Okay, it was very funny to me at the time. This is actually a popular hostel in Miami.
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Confession
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Posted:Dec 10, 2008 11:22 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2012 2:10 pm
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I absolutely hate being on top!! In 13 years, I have never once had an orgasm on top. If you ask my husband how many times I've been on top in 5 years, he'll be able to tell you exactly how many--zero. I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I have faked more orgasms in this position than any other. People ask me why I hate it and it's so hard for them to understand that I don't get anything out of it. Apparently this is supposed to be the best position for women. I don't see it. I keep thinking that maybe I'm just not doing it right but my partners don't seem to have any complaints. Oh well!
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What?!?
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Posted:Dec 9, 2008 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2012 2:09 pm
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What does Big Foot's dick smell like?
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I'm sorry.
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Posted:Oct 20, 2008 3:40 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2012 2:05 pm
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I owe "Bobby" an apology. I've blown him off three weeks in a row to be with Brandon. The same thing happened all three times. "Bobby" asked if he could come over and I said yes. Then minutes later Brandon would ask if he could come over. Well damn! Things with "Bobby" are hot but Brandon blows my mind. So it's a no brainer. Right? Needless to say, "Bobby" was pissed. At the time, I didn't tell him why I was blowing him off. After the third time he asked if I had gotten a better offer. I believe in honesty. I said yes. Now he's really upset and it only get's worse when he asks, "why do you have time for another guy and not me"? Wow! I dance around the question for a little bit but he really wants an answer. I tell him the truth, the sex is better with the other guy. *Ouch* Now he knows where he stands with me. "Bobby" says he's not going to ask to see me again and if I want to see him I can ask. I may need him in the future. I need to make this right somehow. I tell him the next time I see him he can have whatever he wants.
I'm horny as hell and there is no chance of seeing Brandon this afternoon. So when "Bobby" goes back on his word and asks to see me, I say yes. I knew he wouldn't stay angry but I still need to make it up to him. I answer the door in a little robe. We kiss at the front door and his hands quickly find their way to my ass. OMG!! He is such a fabulous kisser. I need to get him upstairs. Okay, "Bobby" is an ass man. He's squeezing and slapping my ass all the way up the stairs. *lol*
We go into my bedroom and before I know it we're kissing again. We're standing next to the bed kissing and squeezing each other. I pull back and just look him in his eyes for a second. He moves into kiss me again and I smile and turn away. He smiles back, grabs the back of my head and takes what he wants. Mmmm, now I'm ready. I love a man who knows how to take charge. *giggle*
I slip his shirt off over his head. I know what he likes. I slowly kiss and lick his neck and then work my way down his chest. I make sure to take my time as I cover his chest and torso with with tender kisses. I rim his belly button as I slide his shorts and boxers down. I sit on the edge of the bed as I kiss my way around his cock. I'm such a tease. *giggle* Luckily he knows how to deal with me. He reaches down to unhook my bra. He tosses it to the floor. Then he grabs my nipples and begins to pinch them between his fingers. Damn that hurts so good. He squeezes my nipples and breasts tight as he titty fucks me for a little while.
When he's done with my breasts we lay in the bed and kiss before I make my way to his balls. I lick and suck his balls. I love to hear a man moan in pleasure. Mmm, I suck his cock until he's right there on the verge of orgasm and then pull back. I lay next to him while I'm stroking his cock. I ask, "you want me to finish?" Of course he does. "Tell me your name." *lol* That's right. I still don't know this man's name for real. He offers to tell me before he leaves. That's a no go because I'm not going to finish what I started until he tells me his name. Bobby...he says his name is really Bobby. I don't know if I believe him or not but at least I have something to call him besides sexy. *lol*
I guess I should finish now. I tell him to get on all fours. He's a little worried but I assure him he's going to love it. I gently kiss his butt cheeks before I lick his asshole. I give him a rim job like he's never had before. I stroke his cock as I tongue fuck his ass. Once again, I take him right to the edge and pull back. As I tease him he begins to finger my pussy. I'm done playing now. I suck his cock until I taste his cum.
Needless to say he's not upset any more and I bet he asks to see me again soon.
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What's your score?
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Posted:Oct 18, 2008 6:35 pm
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2009 11:28 am
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Comedygirlbob posted this in a group and I thought I would share.
Start at 50 and add or subtract points as stated for each statement
that applies to you...
Add 10 if you are a virgin.
-Subtract 5 if You have had sex before.
-Subtract 5 more if you have had sex with more then 5 people.
-Add 5 If you have never had oral sex.
-Subtract 5 if you have had or performed oral sex.
-Subtract 2 if you have had sex in a public place.
-Subtract 3 if you have done 69.
-Add 5 If you have never had an orgasm.
-Add 5 If you cant name 3 types/brands of condoms.
-Subtract 2 if you have masturbated.
-Subtract 3 if you have fingered/ given a handjob to someone else.
-Subtract 5 if you have used someone for sex (one night stand).
-Add 5 if You have never seen someone of the opposite sex naked.
-Add 3 if you haven't been kissed in the past month. [At least not
romantic or passionately.]
-Add 2 if you have never masturbated.
-Add 5 if you have never seen or watched porn.
-Subtract 5 if you have made your own porn.
-Subtract 3 if you have participated in anal sex.
-Subtract 2 if you have used lube during sex.
-Add 5 If you cant remember your last perverted thought.
-Subtract 5 if you have used sex toys.
-Subtract 3 if you have had a perverted thought in the past hour.
-Subtract 2 if you have kissed someone of the same sex
Above75 means you kinda suck in bed.
Above 50 means you are not so good in bed..and not so fun
Below 50 means you are fun in bed
Below 25 means you are damn great in bed!
I scored a big fat zero! How about you?
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Speechless
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Posted:Oct 8, 2008 5:23 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2012 1:42 pm
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Dude! Dude! Dude! I don't even know what to say. I can't even gather my thoughts well enough to tell y'all what happened. All I can say is 32 orgasms in 2 hours is some bullshiggity!! *lol*
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