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This blog contains a record of my thoughts and experiences on Local Sexy Swingers including the good, the bad and the ugly. Names have been changed to protect the innocent and not so innocent. If you are easily offended, DO NOT READ THIS. If you like what you read, leave a comment. If you don't like what you read, keep it to yourself. *lol*



Additional Disclaimer

Let me say this, I don't blog about every single sexual experience I have. I only blog about the ones worth remembering for whatever reason. For most of my partners, it is an honor to receive a post on my blog. Of course, some people have made my blog for the wrong reasons. I very rarely write about the bad experiences, primarily because I realize anyone can have an off performance. It's happened to me a time or two . *giggle*

I don't want any potential playmates to be intimidated by my blog. While I've had some incredible experiences, I know everybody and every experience is different. My tastes are varied. So what if the last guy was of above average endowment. I like average too and if you know how to compensate, I can even deal with below average. Not every man needs to be dominant to be with me. The right man can tap into my aggressive side and we can roll like that. I've discovered that different people bring out different characteristics in me. As long as you're not some sissy punk or an arrogant asshole, I'm sure we'll get along just fine.

I hope you will read my blog and enjoy it. Remember there is no pressure or expectations to preform like any of my other playmates. I write for practice and entertainment...go be entertained.


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Sprung
Posted:Dec 11, 2009 10:27 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2010 2:00 am
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Hold up...wait a minute! No, I'm not sprung. The last negro to have me sprung was just that...the last one. You will not catch me slipping like that again. What I'm talking about now is a whole other kind of sprung. I was perusing the Urban Dictionary and came across a definition for sprung I have never heard.

sprung--Someone who has had anal sex, or other significant anal penetration, that stretched the sphincter.


Really? Seriously? I have never heard sprung used like that. Have you?
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Another keeper!
Posted:Dec 4, 2009 11:33 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2010 8:11 pm
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There is a knock at the door. I answer it wearing my hot pink and black satin boy shorts and cami set. We walk back to my bedroom where I've got the lights off, some candles burning and some soft music playing. He's just back from a long road trip and has been driving all night. He told me earlier he wanted to shower when he got here. So, I showed him to the bathroom where I already had clean towels and toiletries laid out for him. He hops in the shower and my phone rings.

It's my husband. I answer it only because my husband never calls me unless something is wrong or he needs something important...until tonight. I tell him as tactfully as I can that I can only talk for a few minutes because I have a man in our shower. *lol*

When my friend comes out of the bathroom, I let my husband go and turn my attention to my guest. He's standing in front of me with a towel wrapped around his waist. I can't see the good stuff like that. *lol* I slowly unwrap the towel from his waist and toss it aside. Mmm...he's already ready to go. He tells me he wants me to do whatever I want to him. I can't believe he's saying it, let alone I'm thinking about it.

I tell him to lay on the bed face up with his head towards the foot of the bed. I grab the bondage cuffs and a strap from the nightstand drawer. I climb into the bed and straddle him as I cuff him and use the strap to hook him to the hook on the underside of my bed. I kiss his lips softly as he slips his tongue between between my lips. He kisses me like he wants me and it feels like it's been so long since I've been kissed that way. I pull away from his embrace and kiss his chest gently making sure to pay special attention to his nipples. Then I slowly make my way down his chest stopping at his navel. My friend is a Virgo and if you really want to get a Virgo going this is the region you want to be in. I plant tender kisses all over his stomach and tongue his navel a few times. I love his reaction. He's hot as hell and still rock hard. I blindfold him and take the rubber whip that came with my bondage kit and gently use it on his stomach.

I'm tired of just looking at his big, rock hard cock. So, I slowly take it into my mouth. Damn, his cock is so big and so heavy. I love it. It's long and thick just the way I like them. I slob his knob for a while with long, slow deep strokes before I move on to his balls.

Only one other time have ever been in this position of power and that was years ago. So, I'm sitting in bed between his legs trying to decide what to do next. I reach up and slowly and ever so lightly run my fingers over his torso down to the crease where his legs meet his pelvis and down his thigh. I do this several times on both sides and just watch his reaction. To watch him lick his lips and squirm with pleasure turned me on so much. As I continued to stimulate and tease him, he says to me, "you can play with my ass". *giggle* Seriously?!? I've been with lots of men who are into ass play. I'm just usually on the receiving end. I've been with a couple of guys who weren't opposed to receiving a good rim job. I've only been two other men who were into a little anal penetration. In my mind I'm wondering if my guest is willing to go that far. There is only one way to find out.

I unhook the cuffs and tell him to get up on all fours. I get behind him and lightly kiss his ass cheeks. Then I slowly run my finger down the crack of his ass. I rub his ass as I sit there thinking about my plan of action here. I start with the rimming. Mmmm...he likes that. I fuck his asshole with my tongue as I stroke his cock with my hand. I'm right on the money with that one. *giggle* After I finish eating his ass, I smack his ass before I slowly press my finger against his asshole. I wanted to gauge his reaction. I think he's open to a little penetration. I grab some lube and slowly drip a little on his asshole before slowly pressing my thumb into his ass. I slowly and gently fuck his ass with my thumb. While I'm pleasuring his ass with my thumb, I ask him what he wants me to do next. "Whatever you want." The problem with that is...I don't know what I want. I'm in unfamiliar territory here. I tell him to be a little bit more specific. *lol*

I take matters into my own hands. The rubber whip I used earlier was designed as a multipurpose tool. It has a graduated beaded handle. I put a little lube on the handle before I slowly press it into his ass one bead at a time. I fuck his ass until I'm so hot I can't stand it any more. I pull the handle out of his ass and tell him to turn over. I climb on top of him and rub my hot, wet pussy against his big, thick, rock hard cock. I slide his cock into my pussy and just sit there. How long do you think he just let me sit on his cock? *lol* It wasn't long at all before he started fucking me slow and deep. When I'm damn near reach orgasm, he stops. He forgot I was in charge tonight. Whatever...don't stop. He continues until I cum on his cock. He tells me I should clean it up for him. I just sit there on his cock for a few seconds before he tells me he wants to put his monster cock in my ass after I clean it up.

I suck my sweet juices from his cock and balls before I assume the position on all fours. He lubes my asshole and his cock. Okay, I just can't do it. I can't relax enough to let him penetrate my ass. He's cool. He slides his dick along with a toy in my pussy. That shit felt so good. I know I came at least twice. Then he took his cock and the toy out of my pussy and slipped his dick in my ass. It was that easy too. Hmm, a couple of orgasms relaxed me...imagine that. *lol*

OMG!! His dick is huge. With anal, the first couple of strokes are always the worst. After that it was all good. It was better than good. I haven't cum that hard since the last time Brandon fucked me in the ass, literally. I could barely walk straight when I walked him out. *lol*

Fuck yeah, this one is a keeper!
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Can you tell me please...
Posted:Dec 2, 2009 12:59 am
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2009 10:05 am
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WTF does new pussy smell like? So my guy is telling me about having sex with this 18 year old. Apparently, it wasn't all that but she had that "new pussy smell". I realize it's been awhile since I've had a new pussy but I'm pretty sure it smells the same. Am I wrong? Does new pussy smell different from used pussy? Are pussies like cars?
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Realizations
Posted:Nov 30, 2009 2:40 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 12:26 am
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I recently came to a few realizations. Honestly, I knew most of it and I was in denial a little bit. *lol*

I have a type both in physical appearance and personality. When it comes to men apparently, I prefer them bald. I know I prefer light eyes and fair skin. I said I preferred taller men but I seem to have strayed from that. I guess height really isn't that important...just a bonus. I like my women curvy. Tits are nice but I have my own. I really like a nice ass. Nice eyes are a must. I like my men and women to have dominant, outgoing personalities. They know what they want and how to get it without being pushy.

I am a jealous competitive bitch! Awhile ago I discovered that the same 10 or 15 women including myself have all been messing with the same group of men. Obviously, we all have a type. *lol* There is this one heifer who seems to fuck all the men first and then they come to me. I didn't think much of it until one guy mentioned something about her. Now I suddenly want to ask every man we've fucked in common which of us was better. She's not even that damn cute. One guy told me she couldn't suck dick worth a crap. That made me feel so good. *lol*

I could so be getting more sex. I've been to a couple of swinger events lately. I've been popular with the men and the women. I'm not talking about a bunch of old dogs either. Some really hot men and women have totally been into me. I'm kinda sexy. If I weren't so shy I would be getting laid left and right. *lol*
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Thank you...I grew them myself.
Posted:Nov 22, 2009 9:49 am
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2009 1:02 pm
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"You have nice boobs."

"Thank you. I grew them myself."

*lol* I have no business at lifestyle parties. I love the atmosphere and the people but I never seem to get comfortable enough to play. Well, tonight I played a little bit. Felicia and Shane invited me to attend a house party with them. So, I did. Shortly after we arrived, Shane summoned me up to one of the bedrooms. We officially got the party started. I sat on the edge of the bed next to his wife and watched as he buried his face between her legs. I fondled her breasts a little bit as she enjoyed him. After she had cum a time or two, we treated Shane's cock to a double header. We took turns licking and sucking his cock between kisses. Then it was my turn. Whew, shit, goddamn! This man's oral skills are indescribable. I haven't come so hard from oral alone ever. That shit was amazing. After I came it was Felicia's turn. She tasted of my sweet nectar for awhile before coming up for air. As she leaned over and gently squeezed my breasts, Shane slipped his dick in her pussy. He's fucking the shit out of her as she's on top of me. It would have been the perfect time to use a strap-on...maybe next time.

I wasn't too concerned about getting any dick but I really didn't want to miss an opportunity to taste Felicia. So later on, while she and Frank were enjoying another lady at the party I saw my opportunity and went for it. While Shane had his face buried between another young lady's legs Felicia was laying underneath him sucking his cock, leaving her pussy exposed. I positioned myself between her legs to partake of her goodness. I really do like pussy. I wouldn't want it everyday, but as a treat every once in awhile it's great. *giggle*

I really spent most of the night lurking in doorways getting my voyeur on. *lol* That's my style at these things. This party was so cool because there were a number of people who were just there networking and taking in the scenery. I really didn't feel out of place at all. I met some awesome ladies and couples. Most of the people were totally cool but there is always that one guy who doesn't get it. The first time he approached me he didn't say anything. I was sitting on the floor and he just kind of shook his shit in my face (luckily he was clothed). I just rolled my eyes and went back to watching the couple I was watching. I don't remember if he said anything the next time or not but I simply said "no thank you". So, the third time he approached me I was anything but polite. I was like I don't know why you keep pushing up on me but you are wasting your time. Apparently I was loud too. Oh well. *lol*

I think the more time I spend at these things and the more people I meet the easier it will to be to play. The lifestyle is a community and pretty much the same people frequent these events. Soon enough I'll know more people there than not and it'll be very cool.
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Stick to Cowboys
Posted:Nov 15, 2009 12:35 am
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2010 2:09 am
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OMG!! Why did I let my cousin talk me into riding a mechanical bull?!? Oh, I know why...I was drunk as hell. *lol* It was my cousin's birthday and we wanted to do girls night out. We are a mess when we all get together and get our drink on. My cousin and her sister-in-law, who was also celebrating a birthday, chose "Daisy Dukes and Boots" as the theme for the party. We all get our sexy on and meet our new hot spot. We are five big beautiful black women and we are the walking definition of fluffy and sexy. I go to this place often because the staff is hot, both the guys and the ladies. Our server, Johnny, is no exception. the thing about Johnny is, he's an okay looking guy but his swagga is off the chain. He just exudes confidence and sexiness. I've been with a lot of white men who dig black women, but it's rare to find a man so comfortable and confident with 5 attractive black women. I'm the only lady at the table known to partake of the white meet, but we were all feeling Johnny. I bought my cousin a blow job (it's a shot, get your mind out the gutter) for her birthday. She had never had one before. For those of you who are unfamiliar, it's Kahlua and Irish Cream topped with whipped cream. Traditionally, you drink this shot with your hands behind your back, you put your mouth around the entire outer rim of the shot glass and slam it back. My cousin enjoyed hers so much she ordered another round for the table. We get Johnny to take pictures as we get ready to slam this round back. OMG! The picture is hot (I'll post it when I get it). All of us are in full flirt mode including Johnny. The next thing I know there is another round of blow jobs on the table, this round is on the house. We love free drinks. *lol*

After a few more rounds of drinks, dinner and birthday cake, my cousin was like "I'm ready to ride the bull." So, Johnny brought over 5 release forms. I don't know what the hell I was thinking. I know better than to get my fat ass, as sexy as it may be, on a damn mechanical bull. How I have no idea how I got to go first either. It wasn't my idea, it wasn't even my damn birthday party. How come getting on the bull was the hardest part? *lol* Okay, I was a little tipsy but that shit was a task. Then he started the bull and I was like holy shit!! Now I've ridden the bull. I think I'm going to stick to riding cowboys from now on.

When we were packing up to leave for the night, Johnny asked where we were headed. I said, "your place". He thought I was bullshitting but I was so serious. I need a non self-induced orgasm so bad. One of my girls asked if he had a gf or baby momma. He ran that story down and I was like what the fuck does that have to do with me fucking you tonight? *lol* My cousin's sister-in-law pointed out that there were a couple of hotels in the area. *lol* We were in full mack mode. Johnny still had to work for a few more hours but you better believe we got 10 digits from that hottie. It was a great night.

***Note***
I was drunk as hell when I wrote this. Now that I'm sober, I was going to proofread it and fix the errors and typos. However, I decided to leave it just the way it is. It's not as bad as I thought it would be. I'm impressed with myself. *lol*
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Banned Members
Posted:Nov 14, 2009 1:17 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2010 3:58 am
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So you've found yourself banned from West Valley Fluffy & Sexy!. To rejoin the group please leave me a message. If you meet the membership requirements and agree to post an introduction to the Roll Call thread, I will lift the ban. Please remember our group is only as good as our members. Let's all work together to make this group a success.
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Teach by Example
Posted:Nov 14, 2009 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2009 11:45 pm
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Okay, I'm trying to set a good example for my . We're working on "if you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all". So, when I have something nice to say I'll blog again. Until then, I miss you.
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Mystery Penis
Posted:Nov 7, 2009 2:10 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2009 10:58 am
6116 Views


Okay, I've seen this penis on more than one profile recently. I know who it doesn't belong to. So, will the real owner of this penis please come forward. *lol* Come on guys! Show some respect for our intelligence. What's your plan once you get us into bed? No penis pic is way better than a phony penis pic, better yet try a face pic.
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Quick Reply
Posted:Nov 7, 2009 10:23 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2009 11:45 pm
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"I'm looking for someone more experienced."

Of all the generic quick replies, this is the one I hate to receive the most. First of all there is no indication of my level of experience anywhere in my profile. Since, I don't blog about every single experience I have, judging my experience based on my blog alone would be a mistake. The reality is most people base that reply solely on my age, which is also a mistake. There is no doubt a lot of people associate age with experience and knowledge but that isn't always the case. If I started having sex with grown men at 12, that's 20 years of experience. How much more experience do I need? It just seems to me what they really mean to say is, "I prefer someone older." Which is understandable and a decision that can be made simply by reviewing my basic info. If you're going to use the quick replies, use the appropriate reply.
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Best Compliment Ever!
Posted:Nov 2, 2009 2:43 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 12:26 am
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"You were a supremely satisfying submissive."

I think that is the best thing anyone has ever said to me, especially coming from an experienced Dom. People give me compliments all the time but this is still my favorite.
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3 Days Later
Posted:Oct 31, 2009 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2009 11:20 am
6248 Views

Wednesday I had an incredible playdate with this new guy, Johnny. OMG!! It's three days later I still can't quit thinking about it. Most people who know me know I have a weakness for the Daddy Dom types and this guy was a total Daddy Dom. I don't know what was better the spanking, the massage or the fisting. Maybe being bound and blindfolded was the best part. The knife play was interesting. I know knife play is right up there with fire play on the "Hell Naw!" list but it really was cool. I could have skipped the nipple clamps. Not only was the BDSM stuff great, the sex was fabulous. A lot of people who are into the BDSM say it's not about the sex...whatever! For me, it's all about the sex. The BDSM stuff is like the icing and I'm on a serious sugar high. *lol*
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On the Rebound
Posted:Oct 24, 2009 1:22 pm
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2009 8:29 pm
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I'll absolutely admit to being on the rebound when I met Wade. I didn't want to deal with the emotional fallout from my break-up with Brandon. Wade was there to distract me and help me rebuild my confidence. I eventually dealt with the pain and disappointment of the break-up. Over time, Wade and I developed a real bond. So 6 months later is he still the rebound guy?
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