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My Flirts/Hotlists Decoded
Posted:Apr 13, 2010 3:51 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2012 7:41 pm
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Despite what you may think I do have a system for sending flirts and hotlists, if you receive one this might help you figure out what's on my mind.

Wave = The system has indicated we are a match but I am not yet sure I believe this. A lot of times I send a wave and then in the future when I have extra emails from my standard memember allotment of 10 I will send a message to you to try and find out more and possibly see a pic to help decide if we are indeed a match.

Smile = Your picture has a put a big huge smile on my face and I just wanted to share that with you. A lot of the time these are sent to people who aren't in Ottawa, but have viewed my profile or just show up on my home page. It's a shame we can't meet because you are usually too far away, but I appreciated getting to look at your hot pics.

Smile and Hotlist = Your picture is hot sexy, I liked it, it made me smile and you are in Ottawa. Hoping to get to know you better, chat, exchange contact info and meet.

All the rest = Probably means we have communicated already, sent some emails and flirted in the past, but I am just keeping in touch, sometimes I know you like spanks or I just think you have been a bad boy.
7 Comments
Emails Decoded
Posted:Jul 24, 2010 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2015 6:48 pm
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Since I am standard member I can only send out 10 emails a day, sometimes that really isn't even close to enough. So here is what I am going to do, if I run out of emails and still really want to get back to you I am goind to respond with some of the selected Local Sexy Swingers responses that you can always send back.

1st I will send the one that indicates we have kinks in common

2nd I will send the one that says I am too busy to respond personally, it's not that I am too busy just that I can't obviously.

3rd I will send the one that indicates we have kinks in common again, hoping you get the hint, hint hint.

Hopefully after this series you will get back to me with some other way of contacting you off the site that would make things so much easier as I can still read the emails just not respond.
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Attraction
Posted:Jun 12, 2011 10:08 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2011 10:36 am
7001 Views

So, do you want a partner who is hotter than you so you feel lucky to have them, OR do you want to be hotter so your partner feels lucky to have you and will be more willing to do things to please you to keep you?
Your partner is hotter
You are hotter
You're both hot so everyone else is jealous of both of you!
Doesn't matter either way
0 Comments , 37 votes
If it feels like she is dragging her heels
Posted:Jun 8, 2010 9:21 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2017 9:03 pm
7882 Views

I posted something on another blog, but felt maybe it was worth posting on mine as well. It was about women not being serious about meeting.

Here it is:

As for not being serious, you might be right on some counts women do like to be flattered by all this attention and they might not be looking for anything more then that. But what you have to take into consideration is that we get a lot more attention on these site then you do. I am sure you don't want us going on about how many guys are contacting us and trying to get us to meet them, the list is usually substantial. I think its fair to give us some time to weed through and see who is really worth meeting, not something that can be decided on a flip of a coin, this is our safety we are talking about. Plus we actually have lives outside of Local Sexy Swingers and timing isn't always the best. Plus a monthly visitor that can interfere with certain activities. Also some women have estetic reasons like they don't shave they wax every so many weeks and it might be that week before she is suppose to head to the salon to get her legs and other parts nice and smooth and would rather meet then and give that good first impression then the one that week before that she is a hairy beast. I know most of you guys will say you don't really give a damn about that stuff, that you are just horny and want to get down to business and all that stuff doesn't matter to you, but it matters to women, and sometimes women like when it matters to men that they notice the effort we put in to look good. Sometimes us women even like men who put in close to the same amount of effort. Sorry to get on a rant like this, but it just seems like you guys really have no idea. Plus not to sound mean cause really this might not be the case with everyone, but sometimes you get one message back from someone you are really interested in and you respond back and you are waiting to hear back but in the meantime this alright guy is practically begging to meet you but you don't really want to commit until you hear back from the other guy that really interests you. Does that sound too shallow, well sometimes women are. Makes up for how guys were in highschool.
2 Comments
Sexy Tattoo
Posted:Jun 2, 2010 10:37 am
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2011 12:13 pm
7892 Views

Where do guys think is the sexiest place for a woman to have a tattoo?
Ankle
Wrist
Lower Back
Upper Back
Butt
Thigh
Hip
Stomach
Boob
Foot
2 Comments , 58 votes
Happy May 1st Everyone!!
Posted:May 1, 2010 10:34 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2010 12:01 pm
7646 Views

http://Local Sexy Swingers.com=kCbD8nsxcd8
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Anyone know why
Posted:Mar 11, 2010 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2011 3:43 pm
7859 Views

Most of my emails go through, and when I have reached my limit for the day as a stand member, I get a message, but with one specific member I can't send emails, it just keeps saying sending sending sending but never actually sends it, has anyone else had this happen? I really want to get a hold of this person but don't know how else to do it.
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Anyone listen to mauler and rush almighty Monday morning?
Posted:Mar 8, 2010 5:50 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2010 12:15 pm
7630 Views

First off that guy is not sorry he cheated maybe just that he got caught and had to go on the radio to confess it. Probably feels this whole thing is a big pain in the ass. Getting 20 000 signatures wouldn't be that hard if he got on sites like this. Maybe he will meet some nice sexy attractive women who don't have issues with married men while he is getting these signatures. I would sign it. But I wanted to blog about it more because of the women who called in after and the comment he made about his wife watching him, and just want to say, that is why men cheat, when you act like that, it makes them feel sufficated and just drives them to cheat. They are already affraid of commitment and losing their freedom then you watch them like a hawk. I would cheat too if I was in a situation like that, oh wait, I am!
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You know, if you want to get a hold of me...
Posted:Feb 22, 2010 12:36 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2014 4:45 am
8064 Views

my blog is always a good place to do it.
9 Comments
Dear Member, you are so hot
Posted:Feb 17, 2010 1:44 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:21 am
7716 Views

Dear jdyland67, you are so hot, I wish somehow I was able to contact you.
0 Comments
Wii
Posted:Feb 17, 2010 1:34 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:21 am
7660 Views

I am desperately, well not that desperate, looking for wii fit plus with the board if anyone sees one in the store can they let me know. I am willing to pay the regular price not the marked up price they are going for on ebay.
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