Tips To Ignite Sex Life of Men After 40´s
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 4:29 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2014 9:48 am
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Get fit
Having intercourse with a younger woman can be a marathon for an over-40s guy, but you need to face the fact that you have to be able to stand the pace in order for your partner to achieve orgasm. As an over-40s male, there is a good chance that you abandoned taking care of your body some time ago. If simply getting undressed makes you feel out of breath you need to get in shape fast, or else how will you ever be able to do an all-nighter?
Getting in shape won’t only make you capable of lasting the pace in bed; it will also make you look sexier and fitter. You want your girl to be turned on when she sees you taking your clothes off, so this step is very important and not one that you should neglect.
Learn some new moves
If you are a newly-divorced man or you have only had a few serious relationships in your time, your bedroom technique is likely to be rather staid and boring. Before you hit the dating scene you should be sure that you have plenty of positions in your repertoire. Although the missionary position is considered the best position by many women, you should also add several more for diversity. Not only is variety the spice of life, it also stops lovemaking from becoming boring – so this is another tip you definitely should not ignore.
Watch lesbian sex
As a man you can learn a lot from lesbian lovemaking because a woman knows how to please another female, simply because she knows the right buttons to push. You will find plenty of lesbian videos online, so take advantage of these to learn some techniques that you otherwise probably would never have thought of. Following these few simple basic tips will help you greatly as an over-40s man who is back on the dating scene. You will probably be surprised how much more fun it is dating as an over-40s guy than it was when you were a younger man. The pool of women available is larger, so be sure to have some fun before you meet the next woman you want to settle down with.
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4 Tips For Spicier Sex Life – Surprise Her!
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 4:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:47 pm
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Tip 1: Be Adventurous!
Women are turned on by feelings and emotions, rather than just by the physical act of direct intercourse. For a woman to really enjoy herself in bed she needs to be mentally and emotionally aroused, otherwise it is difficult for her to climax. You can achieve this by role-playing or adding a storyline to the sex session.
One idea is to grab her when she is in a different room of the house such as the kitchen or living room and pretend you have never met her previously. You could pretend to be a repair man or the new gardener. This type of game will turn your woman on; she will find the lack of routine exciting and emotionally stimulating.
Tip 2: Take Plenty of Time
One common complaint typical of the women who filled out the survey was that their partners did not take enough time and rushed into lovemaking without giving much thought to foreplay. A lot of guys do not even know how to last long enough in bed. For them is vital to read Ejaculation Trainer guide. Probably they know that women like to have foreplay but they think it’s not that important, and sadly many are more interested in their own needs.
Women have the capability to be able to orgasm multiple times during one intercourse session, so if your partner is not even achieving one climax, you can be sure you are rushing things and you should take a look at your technique. Foreplay for women is not just about the physical side of things, but rather because it makes them feel wanted.
Tip 3: Go Down
Performing oral sex on your partner is a great way to give her the foreplay she needs to become aroused, and also to bring her to orgasm before penetration. Women enjoy this activity in general as it makes them feel more self-confident.
While lots of men like receiving oral sex themselves, they do not see that it is important to return the favour to their partner – if you have been guilty of this in the past it is time to change your way of thinking!
Tip 4: Make Her Pleasure Your Number One Priority
Once you have decided to make the woman’s pleasure your number one priority you will become a sexual Adonis in her eyes.
Just for now, forget about your own pleasure, and when in the bedroom only think about pleasuring her. You will soon see that this has a very positive effect because she will be most eager to return the favour and make sure you are equally as satisfied.
Before you are able to do this, you will need to learn exactly what turns her on and properly learn the new techniques. Don’t assume you are already a stud who knows everything about lovemaking, because for sure this is not the case. However, putting some effort into learning will lead to you having the most fulfilling and wildest sex ever.
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Powerful Sex Techniques To Give Any Woman Mind Blowing Orgasm
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 4:23 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:47 pm
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Great lovemaking Tips – A Powerful Sexual Technique for Intense Climaxes
Maybe you’re wondering why the technique I’m about to share with you is so special and why it leads to such powerful orgasms. Usually people discuss foreplay tips for clitoral orgasm, but this little-known technique will show you how to induce vaginal orgasms.
Many women have never actually experienced a vaginal orgasm and a large number believe the only way they can reach orgasm is through clitoral stimulation. You can imagine that if you learn the art of giving vaginal orgasms, you will be seen as a love God in the eyes of any woman who sleeps with you.
Step-By-Step Guide For Unique Orgasms
Before you start you must make sure that you have plenty of lubricant at hand. You should also make sure your fingernails are cut short and feel smooth without any jagged edges.
To start with you will need to engage in any type of sexual foreplay that you know she enjoys, and that will turn her on. Once she is quite aroused, tell her to lie on her back with her legs open and place your middle finger as far inside as you can, with your palm facing upwards.
Move a finger on the front wall of the vagina as though you were beckoning someone to come toward you. You might need to experiment with how much pressure you apply, but eventually you will find you hit the right spot. Once you do, she will know it and will let you know too.
“Vaginal orgasms are very intense so don’t be surprised if she becomes shaky or perhaps even screams loudly.”
When you first start out with this technique you may find your wrist begins to ache and becomes tired, but try to ignore your own needs and carry on with the technique because the pleasure it brings is truly worth the effort. As you are giving a vaginal orgasm instead of a clitoral orgasm it is possible to continue bringing her to multiple orgasms as each one will be more intense than the previous.
Play around with this technique; there is no reason for you not to start off with a clitoral orgasm and then go on to use the technique for vaginal orgasm.
Another tip for when you give clitoral orgasm is to first apply a small amount of female arousal gel. There are several of these products on the market, but look for one that contains L-Arginine. This helps women to climax quickly and also results in more intense orgasms.
Once you learn how to give women more sexual pleasure than they have ever previously experienced, you will soon have them eating out of your hand and be willing to do whatever you ask for in the bedroom.
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The Esquire Guide to Sex: Positions, Tips and How-To Advice
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 4:10 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:47 pm
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THE REVERSE COWGIRL POSITION
Perhaps one of the more popular sex positions, with the Reverse Cowgirl the angle of the penis through the front wall of the vagina stimulates the area of her G-spot. She'll be happy and so will you. Cowgirl hat not required, but highly suggested.
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HEELS TO THE SKY POSITION
Will "sex in the air" really make for the best sex position? One guy thinks so, so maybe give it a whirl.
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THE YAB-YUM POSITION
Start out facing each other -- in the Yab-Yum position, which is you cross-legged and her sitting in your lap facing you, generally with our foreheads touching. Then, synchronize your breathing. Oh, and there's more. Good luck.
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THE FINGER SEX POSITION
Let's bring it back to basics. Old school tips and tricks on how to finger a girl learned from the Japanese by curling your index and middle fingers like you're gripping the trigger of an M1 carbine and apply steady, rhythmic pressure just inside the vagina.
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THE BUTTERFLY POSITION (THE G SPOT FINDER)
Looking to find her G Spot? The password is: Butterfly Position. This is when where the girl has her legs all the way up, and then she has to suck in right as she's about to...
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THE TEA-BAGGING POSITION
Yes, it's a position too. Finally we clear up the difference between "shrimping" and "tea-bagging" once and for all!
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14 Signs He’s Only Interested in Sex
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 4:07 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2014 9:48 am
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1. He only texts you after 1 a.m. It’s a scientific fact that all booty calls happen after 1 a.m. All those cars you see driving around after 12:59? People out in the streets past 1? They’re all on their way to a booty call.
2. He gets frustrated when you invite him over to watch a movie and actually just want to watch a movie. Most guys would be like, “Alright, cool. If I can’t have sex, I guess actually getting to watch the entirety of The Hunger Games: Catching Fire is a pretty good consolation prize.” But when you swat away his thigh-climbing hand he's suddenly tired and has to go home.
3. You never meet his friends. The less information you have about him, the easier it is for him to ghost you. If you don’t know who he hangs out with, or where he lives, or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night. A phantom who banged you a bunch of times and then stopped answering texts, which would make for a shittier Broadway play than the kind of phantom that hangs out in operas. But a phantom nonetheless.
4. He makes it really hard for you to sleep over. He never straight-up says you have to leave (That wouldn't get him a next hookup!) but he always has a “thing” really early the next morning. A “thing with friends” or “a work thing” or “some family thing.” You know families don't have picnics at 5 a.m. though.
5. He always hands you everything before you leave. Did you forget your bra? Some lipstick? Your purse? A single bobby pin? If you never forget anything there, you can never have an excuse to show up when he doesn’t want you to. If you tried to show up unsolicited anyway, you’d probably find the place abandoned and boarded up, and some neighbor would tell you, “Why, that place has been abandoned for years!” like some episode of Are You Afraid of the Dark.
6. You’ve never been on a real date. Dates are for men who consider themselves boyfriends, not men who consider themselves fuck buddies.
7. He always insists on splitting the cost of the post-coital pizza you ordered. If one of you doesn’t pay for the pizza, it can’t be considered a date. He will follow #6 if it kills him.
8. He’s “busy” whenever you text him about something personal or emotional. Who has time to pause his game of Madden to talk to you about things like how you feel? If your text about your grandma passing away isn’t attached to a sexy picture, he won't even bother opening it. Guys who just want you for sex aren’t going to spend time playing the boyfriend.
9. He always tries to initiate sex when you hang out. An easy way to tell the difference between guys who like having sex with you a lot and guys who only like having sex with you is this: Think back to a time when the two of you were together but weren’t having sex for more than an hour. If you can’t do that, he only wants you for sex.
10. The only thing he’s ever bought you that could be considered romantic is a vibrating cock ring. He was like, “Hey, I have a surprise for you,” and you could hear a faint vibration, and he dropped his pants and honestly expected you to be pumped about it.
11. Every conversation turns flirty/sexual. Every time you talk or text, it immediately turns into a conversation about having sex. He’s stopped even trying to be witty about it. “Oh, you’re at the grocery store right now? I sure would like to have sex with you … at the grocery store  ”
12. He texts you to meet up with a group, but wants to go back to your place/his place as soon as you get there. You might think you’re about to meet all of his friends at some bar, but when you get there, he’s already waiting outside with his coat and some condoms.
13. He only compliments your looks. He loves your ass but not your sense of humor. You always look “hot” but never “gorgeous.” If his compliments are superficial at best and gross at worst, he’s Just Not That Into You Starring Justin Long and Scarlett Johansson and Jennifer Aniston and Ben Affleck and That Chick From Once Upon a Time.
14. When he comes over, he heads straight for the bedroom. There's no loitering in the kitchen or hanging out in the living room with this guy. He has streamlined the process of sex-having by eliminating or minimizing the chitchat or talk about your day. He’s like the Philip Glass of booty calls (that was a joke about the minimalist art movement that someone’s dad will probably find funny).
Related:
6 Things We Learned About Sex From Friends
20 Sexcapades Every Woman Should Try
15 Reasons You Should Hang Up Your Booty Call
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12 Unspoken Rules About Sex
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 4:02 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:47 pm
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1. The first time with your partner is never the best time. You've never seen each other naked. You have no idea how he is in bed. Is he going to be good? Is he going to think you're good? Relax! He's giddy as soon as you take your top off.
2. Foreplay is important. And don't let anyone ever convince you of otherwise. Sometimes you have to walk before you can sprint, as they say. It's more fun to slow things down and get into it before really getting into it.
3. If he ever (I mean, EVER) even begins to make a disparaging comment about your body, he's garbage. Kick him out immediately and don't look back.
4. NO baby talk allowed. Why would a grown man talk to you (a grown woman) like you're a baby? Try leading by example with more age-appropriate dirty talk and see if he catches on.
5. Sex is inevitably funny. Weird noises, hilarious faces, and compromising positions are a-plenty. Acknowledge when something is funny and it will never be awkward.
6. If the rest of your clothes are off, take your socks off too. Socks during sex are strangely off-putting. Don't question it, just throw them off the bed and find them in the morning.
7. If you don't ask for what you want, you may not get it. Don't complain that the person you're sleeping with won't do "that special thing you love" if you haven't told him that you dig it. Communication is absolutely important when it comes to enjoying yourself during sex. Unless your dude is a mind reader, and in that case, he's special and don't ever let him go.
8. Cuddling is good, but falling asleep on the other side of the bed because it's too hot… is also good. Don't feel bad if you wake up and realize the night wasn't filled with sexy spooning.
9. Don't sneak out. Especially if you're looking for an invitation back. It's rude and sleeping in is more fun anyway.
10. No matter how cozy you are, or how cute he looks — get up and pee. You'll regret it later if you don't, as it helps prevent UTIs. There is nothing worse than dealing with a UTI.
11. Morning sex is the best hangover cure. Followed by coffee and a breakfast sandwich, naturally.
12. Ignore all the rules. Do your thang!
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What a Guy Is Thinking After Sex
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 3:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:47 pm
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Here is how my twisted mind works right after sex:
One-Night Stand
Piecing the Night Together
Most of the time, one-night stands occur after a heavy night of drinking has battered my judgment. I hate that horrible feeling of waking up and realizing that something is slightly different — and then it all hits me like a ton of bricks. I realize that someone random is with me. If I'm cursed enough to be the first one awake, I lie there trying to figure out how I got there by putting the previous night's exploits together like a puzzle...a very difficult puzzle.
Why Did I Do That?
After one-night stands, I analyze my mental state. Why did I end up doing this? Am I lonely? Losing respect for myself?
Is There Any Mystery Left?
One-night stands are counter-productive for long-term relationships because they are an accelerated form of a relationship. There's no courtship between meeting and sex. It's almost as fast as the Crystals song "Then He Kissed Me" , where the guy's asking her to dance and then two minutes later they are married. It's hard to get into a long-term relationship without comfortable pacing and the measured progression of surprises and moments.
Should I Call Her?
Naturally, one-night stands make for awkward good-byes. Usually, I feel obligated to call the girl and see her again, even if I'm not interested in seeing her again. But there is a lot of mental anguish as I decide what to do.
How Will I Tell My Friends?
It's bad, but guys do like to gossip. Even as I'm lying there the next morning, I'm going over the story and the order of friends I will tell.
What Are the Ramifications?
Whether I use protection or not, I worry about STDs. I have no idea who she's been with, and who her partners have been with.
Girlfriend
Did She Enjoy It? (Performance Review)
Once you get into a serious relationship, you care a lot more about performance. After sex, I'll wonder if she enjoyed it — but it feels too cheesy to ask her if she did. This is when I debate over whether she orgasmed or faked or whatever. I'd never make it on Broadway. In addition to wondering if my girlfriend enjoyed sex, I go over every little negative detail like a flawed audition. What did it mean when she kind of laughed? And how embarrassing was it when the condom slipped off? That can only mean bad: Either I wasn't hard enough, or I was too small for it. And because I'm never sure if anything was good, I can only dwell on the bad things.
Does She Feel Respected?
I try to be sensitive to how a girl feels right after sex. It is degrading if a guy "finishes his business" and then rolls off and leaves. It's important to hang out, laugh together, listen to some music, watch some TV, and, yes, cuddle. I admit that there's some physiological/psychological thing in guys that causes them to want to move on to something else as soon as they've ejaculated. But guys should make an effort to spend time with a woman after sex, even if they don't want to be there.
Are We Having the Right Amount Of Sex?
I don't want my girlfriend to feel like I'm obsessed with sex and having it too much, but I don't want her to feel like we're not having it enough. I consider frequency after each time we do it, and put it on a per week scale. Hopefully, she just tells me if she's satisfied with the amount of sex we are having.
What are women thinking about right after sex in both situations? Are you surprised about what I am thinking about? Are these things guys should be thinking about?
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