More the beautiful girl, more the unfaithful she Is
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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It is the case the prettier the girl the more watchful she must be, she knows she have very big playground to play her game,she have more options to hit ball,she know if she left someone ,she will surely get some other to field her ball,She take the advantage of boys kindness curious character,and play her game,they are always in search of better person,when they get better option they left previous,To them it is like a job,when u get better job u switch to better option
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Love Lust and Romance
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:36 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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All the beings in the world, mammals, birds, marine species, etc. have an in-born lust so that they are able to mate and reproduce. Reproduction is the only way to continue the existence of the species. As such, lust is a basic biological need.
For the male and the female to get attracted to each other as well as for the selection of the most suitable mate, romance is necessary. Both lust and romance are gender-specific and occur normally between a male and female. On the other hand, love is universal and love is neither gender-specific nor species-specific. A man could love a woman or another man or an animal or a bird. Love knows no bounds. Let us make a brief analysis on the manifestation of love, romance and lust in human beings and the resultant repercussions of each one of them.
Love is a tender but deep feeling of attraction towards a being or an object. Love is not limited to any one single thing. You can love your and at the same time, you can love your dress. Love is expanding by nature and the more you love, the happier you feel. It is very difficult to restrict love because it is a second nature for all of us. We cannot live without love. The reasoning is very simple.
Our first love is we ourselves. Unless you love yourself, you would not be able to live. Think for a minute. Those who commit suicide do it only in that fraction of a moment when they hate themselves, whatever is the reason for that. Our personal love progresses further to include members of our family, relatives, friends, coworkers, neighbors, and others in our community. Love could be mild in nature or an intense one. The intense love or desire makes you obsessive and highly possessive of that person or object of your love. All our problems and conflicts start at this point only.
There is one more thing about love. Love does not get restricted to physical objects. Even our emotional aspects are part of our love. You say, I love swimming, I love singing, etc. We can love even physical and emotional activities. Many of us love to daydream about several things. This is emotional love.
In English language, so many idioms use love as their theme. A few examples are given below.
Love is blind
Make love
Puppy love
Labor of love
No love lost
Fall in love
Not for love or money
All is fair in love and war
Love at first sight
Diane Ackerman wrote, Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is. It is very difficult to describe love in words. To quote Barbara De Angelis, Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.
While love encompasses everything, romance and lust occur normally between a male and female. Margaret Anderson said, In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love, you want the other person. Romance is always considered to be a pleasant experience. Maximum numbers of novels are based on romance only. So are many movies and television shows. However, many romances end as a failure because the initial infatuation covers up the negative traits. Later on, when the knowledge of such negative aspects starts growing, disenchantment sets in. As such, for a romance to succeed, both the partners should be clear on what each one expects from the other. An open discussion on such matters makes understanding each other easier and results in a harmonious relationship. It is important to enjoy the companionship and remain relaxed in a romantic relationship.
Psychologists hold that romantic love emerges purely from a desire for self-gratification. They feel that the illusions that lead to romantic love are very powerful emotions and have to be properly controlled.
On the other hand, lust is a somewhat dangerous one because mostly lust is an intense feeling. Lust could be between human beings or you could even lust after money or other material objects. When one is in lust, normally the thinking cap slips off and the results could be disastrous. Hence, deep and clear analysis and understanding the nature of your lust is very much needed. Lust is also a desire for self-gratification but much more powerful than a romantic love. When you lust after somebody or something, your strong craving to get that person or object tends to make you transgress borders. Controlling the emotion of lust is very difficult. Most of the time, after you have attained the person or object that you lusted after, a guilty feeling sets in. Hence, proper restrain in needed when you have the feeling of lust.
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Love Relationship and Problems
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:31 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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Hi guys, hope u all are doing well, now love , relationships and problems are tightly coupled things, as love develop a relation , a strong relation and then both love and relation give rise to problems. Problems are generally not big as we make them. These small problems give rise to some disastrous results, I am discussing some of general problems and try to suggest u some ways to resolve them.
First and biggest one is :
TRUST
Trust is an essential part of a relationship.There are certain behaviors that are causing us not to trust our partner. We generally have unresolved issues that are hindering you from trusting others. Following are someways to develop trust or maintain trust between partners i got to knew about them after certain experience and i have faced all these problems so, just telling you.
Always respect your partner boundaries, don't force them to do something for u: Sometimes we force our partner to do something for us by saying "Tum itna b nai kar sakte ya kar sakti mere liye you don't love me" please don't do this.
Don't dig up old wounds: We generally do this, if we are angry on something, we use to discuss all previous thing so please avoid them.
Be fair, even in an argument.
Don't overreact when things go wrong.
Don’t be jealous.
Be a good listener: Its most important.Try to develop habit to listen about partners life her problems her future plans
Be sensitive to the other's feelings. You can still disagree, but don't discount how your partner is feeling.
DO what u say you will do
Don't lie -- not even little white lies to your partner or to others.
Call when you say you will.
Call to say you'll be home late.
Despite the fact there are always going to be problems in a relationship, there are things you can both do to
minimize problems if not avoid them altogether.
Second one is
SEX
Its also give rise to certain problems. According to me physical relations tighten the bond between lovers
Fay says. "Sex," she says, "brings us closer together, releases hormones that help our bodies both physically and mentally, and keeps the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy."
Respect each others feeling and wilingness
Dnt think that ur lover only want sex, or he is with u only for physical relations.
Plan, Before doing things, dont jump directly, think about place situationsss...
Go for physical relations when u r really ready to do.
Don't do it for your partner only
Feeling sleepy , continue it some other time... bbye.. please give comments
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Find Unfaithful Girl Friend
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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Girls think they are smartest creature on earth,they can cheat anybody,and no one able to spot them,But guys that's not truth,if u are in relationship,and have something in ur mind,she is behaving differently, u can know whats going in her mind,i m giving u some tips how to spot her.
1.she doesn't have time for u,she shows that she is too much busy- Once you spent all the time you could together but now you find it hard to meet up. She is always busy, meeting with friends, working shifts maybe she never used to or maybe just claiming to be tired more often than seems possible. While these things might be true they might simply be excuses to meet up with their lover. If this is happening add one point to the unfaithfulness.
2.She delete files photos contatct from phone computer.social networking sites -Computers, emails, sms, phones all these things can leave clues and most people know it. If your girlfriend is cheating on you she may be taking pains to delete the history on her computer and clean out the cache. She may also delete all her emails and sms on her phone. If her electronic records are too clean this might be another sign of infidelity.
3.Inconsistencies
Does your girlfriend seem inconsistent with what she tells you. Says one thing about what she was doing one day then have a different story the next? Does she get dates mixed up or call you then say she called the wrong number. Maybe she calls you another persons name and tried to pass it off as a simple slip with a laugh. People caught un in infidelity are often on a rollercoaster ride of emotions and hormones and make mistakes like this often so be aware
4.she being secretive?
Does your girlfriend seem to hide things from you, not tell you who she was on the phone to? Take phone calls out of your hearing range? Maybe she is a bit vague and unclear about where she is spending her time. A few things you can put down to general female behavior but consistent secrecy is defiantly another suspicious sign.
5.Does your intuition tell you something is wrong?
Sometimes you can tell something is up but you just cannot put your finger on it. There might be clues all around you might only spot unconsciously that form this suspicion in your mind. In the end you know her intimately and your own judgment despite clues must be taken into account. You cannot act on a suspicion but if you notice many of these signs you need to be sure.
Suspicion and indecision are a poison in a relationship and using these tips to spot an unfaithful girlfriend you may solidify your belief that there is something going on but you cannot act till you have proof. For all you know she might be planning a surprise party or might have troubles she may not feel confident talking to you about. If you want to find proof for good or ill read on.
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Long Distance Relationships: How to Make it Work
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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I am listing some of the points that helps in making long distance relationship work
Be positive. Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects of a long-distance relationship is essential to keeping your relationship blooming and your partner content. Being away from your sweetie is not all bad news. Use the opportunity of personal time to pursue your interests and hobbies as well as your career objectives. Another positive point is that long distance dating pushes both of you to be more creative, to communicate better since you don't have "face-to-face" time and to test (and express) your feelings. As long as you see the long-distance relationship as a temporary state, you will keep your chin up and transmit that feeling of security and happiness to your partner too.
Give them a personal object of yours so in a time of need, when they miss you, they are able to hold on to something that once belonged to you. This will provide comfort, happiness, and the thought of being with you.
Ask the important questions at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. Setting parameters such as naming your relationship (dating, seeing each other, boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged) as well as defining exclusive (limited to one person,) or non-exclusive. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask, but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line. Example: "Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?" or "What are you looking to get out of the relationship?" Stating your end goal or ideas will allow each person to maintain what they need.
Do things together. Defy the distance. As a long distance couple, it's important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run. Incorporating other forms of interaction are important. Just think... People in short-distance relationships do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other. Try to replicate this by finding things to do together such as watching a TV show or movie simultaneously.
Consider using Skype video chat calls every day or as often as possible, text messaging,
phone calls and email every day. It is important to maintain contact and to be in each others daily lives as much as possible.
Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible. Since you won't be seeing each other, it's important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. These don't always have to be long,
in-depth conversations. Tell each other about your little triumphs and tragedies. Ask on for advice. Use an instant messenger program or VoIP for real-time chat, or web cams for that visual connection. E-mail is great so make sure you use it, especially if long-distance phone calls put a strain on your budget. Ensure the e-mails are substantive and detailed, it will show that you care enough to put in the time and effort. Write love letters. Send small gifts, cards, or send flowers for no reason. In this case, quantity is as important as quality. You may discover an advantage over others whose partner is close at hand—you don't take communication for granted!
Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers: more time with friends and/or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps, the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence,benefits of long distance relationships
time to mull your options (rather than snapping at your partner impulsively) before you respond to that email s/he wrote that seemed so rude the first time you read it, not being dragged into a bunch of chick flicks, etc. Most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality—something that can get lost in the shuffle when couples spend all their free time together. Here are additional
Pursue common interests, even if it means pursuing them apart. If there's a movie you're both interested in seeing, watch it individually and then call each other afterward and talk about it. Read a certain
book at the same time. Stargaze while you're on the phone. Set your watches to go off at the same time every day, and synchronize your alarm with that of your partner. Make it a point to think of each other when your watch goes off, and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too. Find creative ways to bond
Avoid the temptation to be controlling. People have free will and no one can or should control another person. As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will
not make a difference. As soon as one of you decides the other is not a good match—or someone else is a better match—your relationship ends, whether you live 3000 miles apart, two streets over, or share the same bed with your wedding picture on the wall. You are going to have to trust each other completely if this relationship is going to work.
Try challenging each other. This is not the same as being controlling. You may find that you can do things
for each other that you couldn't quite find the motivation to do on your own. Perhaps you could motivate yourselves to get some exercise or to cook better or more often. It will give you something to do while you wait to see your partner again, and it will give you both something to strive for and talk about until then.
Talk about your future together. Assuming that ultimately you'd want to live together, discussing how
you're going to get to that point will help you prove to each other that the relationship is going somewhere and that your efforts and frustrations are not in vain.
Remember: Things will get better with time, and even the relationship will become better. Have hope.
Visit often. Try to make the time to visit each other as often as possible or as often as your budget permits you to. A relationship cannot thrive if the only thing you have is the phone call. You need to see each other up
close and personal every chance you get. The key here is to set up some "rules" about frequency of communication and visits and stick to them. Consistency can help a long-distance relationship survive.
Avoid jealousy and be trusting. One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the be happy with yourselves.
difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go in a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worthy of trust until proven otherwise. Don't fall in the trap of interrogating your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven't met or he/she didn't get back to you right away when you called and left a message. Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn't mean your lives will pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where he/she lives and so should you. Sure, it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive, but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too. You should both maintain your social activity and
Work towards a balanced relationship between partners. A relationship must be built on strong foundations of trust, understanding and determination to make it work. The key is to ensure that an equal
amount of effort is made by both parties. The two partners should be reasonable about their expectations and willing to cooperate so that the relationship can lead to a happy ending. If these parameters are taken care of, you have nothing to worry about. But don't forget to ask some questions because if you don't, your partner may start to think that you're losing interest
Create your own set of relationship standards that both of you have mutually agreed upon. That
creates a common goal for you to work towards, developing a strong relationship whether you are together or apart. For example, agree to disagree, accept each other as you are, practice trust and honesty, strive towards compromise and self-sacrifice, seek spiritual unity, and maintain open communication.
Remember that you're still in a relationship. You HAVE to be there for your partner. If your partner is ever in trouble, or hurt, or whatever, you have to be there for them.Make sure you are available to them so
that they can reach you if they need you. If they end up dealing with everything alone, they will eventually not need you. And sometimes, distance permitting of course, that means being actually, physically there for them.
Because time together is rare, when you do see each other, take as much advantage as possible of your ability to get intimate with each other.
You don't have that privilege during those stretches when you can’t be with each other physically. You’ve got to keep those feelings of excitement and attraction alive or they will wane in time.
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Why I Hate Love
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:28 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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Love is a horrible thing.
It takes you hostage;
You become your own victim,
Torturing yourself,
Being unable to stop yourself.
The pain it develops
Awful
It turns you inside out
So you become vulnerable.
Anyone can mess with your emotions,
The ones you wish didn't exist.
You want them to end.
Making you feel fucked up
Terrible
It gets inside of you
Stabbing at the heart,
"Let me in!" it screams.
Until you give in.
Trapped until it has had enough,
And moves onto someone else
Despair
But the scar remains
Opening at any time.
Letting anyone in.
For something stupid they did,
Like smile at you, talk to you.
Maybe even kiss you
Broken
They're inside of you
You can't get them out.
You want them gone,
But it grows stronger.
You start missing them,
You want to see them
Fragile
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What is Love ?
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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Love is the most durable power in the world. This creative force is the most potent instrument available in mankind’s quest for peace and security. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Defining Love; Love is a universally understood concept, yet one that has no true definition. Love is a feeling that can be felt by all human beings, yet not a single one can come up with a solid definition. How then can we define love?
Love is subjective; different people have different ways of expressing their love. For some it’s showering their partners with gifts and material possessions. For others, its’ as simple as making their partners’ favorite meal, or helping out where they can. Others choose to use their creative sides, and come up with songs and poems to express what they feel inside. By all these examples, it is true to say that love exists in many forms, and as such can be explained in very many human aspects.
Every language and culture speaks of love as a basic human emotion; one that we can’t live without. We feel a different love for our spouses and partners, another for our friends and family, and yet another for our . It is truly that something so universal can be expressed in so many manifestations; ones that cannot be logically explained.
The love felt between a man and a woman is something different from that a mother feels for her . The latter case needs less explanation, it just is. It is the former that we as human beings have for years endlessly tried to accurately describe, to no avail. The process of choosing a partner is so natural that both parties instinctively know that they are feeling love for each other. We often try to come up with “logical explanations” (think scientists and their chemical pheromones theories), that often seem to take the mystique of love away.
As I stated before, love manifests differently for different people. That said there are those who seem to think that it should be shown through material possessions. This is not bad, only that it comes off as trying to buy love. And that is not the way to properly show love.
Love is a deep feeling that requires one to open themselves up to their partners. This involves the risk of not getting the love reciprocated and in some cases, even getting rejected. This is not to say that we shouldn’t try. In fact, it is this “wildcard” nature of love that makes it so interesting for mankind. Many of us don’t take the risk, and thus end up never experiencing true love. If you want to testify to true love feelings, then you have to let your fears go.
Love at first has been perpetuated by some as true love. This is misleading, as the only feelings that give rise to such fast relationships are lust and infatuation. These come in the form of crushes; a common occurrence among teenagers and young adults. Real love relationships take time to build and foster, and as such you can say that love cannot be rushed.
All the above has been leading to my perception of what love is. Rather than give a straight-forward definition of love, I will give what I believe to be the cornerstones of sharing and fostering love in a relationship; trust, honesty, patience, kindness, humility, enduring and hopeful. These are the virtues we should all strive to show our love by.
It is not easy to wake up one morning and attest to having all these virtues. Love takes time to grow, and with these virtues as your foundation, your love will surely stand the test of time. Strive not to accurately define love, but rather let it reflect in your actions.
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What is Love , Need or Neccessity ?
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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LOVE a magical word, forces lips to spread, even make rudest person to smile. While thinking about LOVE, a point comes in my mind is this necessary, or just a need, In this article love refer to love between a girl and boy, not between parents , or brother sister.
Now come back to need or necessity, if it is necessity why boys cry, why their tears why their careers , their parents suffer( about 65 % of married women are unfaithful and about 86 % before marriage according to times magazine ). According to me human is a social animal, human have biggest brain ration in living world. Many new things , Ideas and feeling comes to his mind and he need to share these feeling and ideas to others. Some ideas some emotions some feeling are to much different. These some ideas he/she wants to share someone who will never disclose these fillings, who can respect these feelings and here the love comes. Its a necessity. Without love life is like living alone in a world, Human consider itself as a single palm tree in desert.
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Why girl are unfaithful,when they stop it
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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Women are materialistic,that includes moi, but sometimes,the reason they 'jump' from one man to another is that they feel sth is lacking in d relationship.Its not always about the gifts,money,cars and houses,but is is in their genes.they enjoy 'the chase'...from other guys.and if guys chase them ,she realize they still a have some cost in women market,and to raise their value they change one boy to other.
One real truth that they are not going to stop it,till they are cheated used and dumped.They only have a shiny covering over their lapses.Thats why they always end up in real SHIT. And Last the church the temple is always there last stop after messing up there self..the cry to God forgetting there sins will surely find them Out..when they are ready to settle then they also Jam player to pay back.. BECAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND MUST SURELY COME AROUND
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Myths in mind of women about men
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Posted:Jan 21, 2014 11:22 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 7:25 pm
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1.Men want more sex then women
2.Men are impossible to please or satisfy.
3.Men are not emotional.
4.Men dont like commitment.
5.All men think about is sex.
6.I can change him.
7.A man will share his inner feelings with the woman he loves.
8.When a man love a woman he knows what will excite and arouse her.
9.A man shouldn’t be told how to make love. If you have to tell a man 10.what cialis professional generic to do he is not a real man.
11.If a man loves a women he will take time the time to understand what she is saying.
12.Real men are strong and don’t you to tell them nice things; you shouldn’t have to feed their egos.
13.Men are simple and don’t know how to emotionally satisfy women.
14.If he really loves me he will be more affectionate
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