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When a woman is complaining about men's behaviour it's better to SHOW you aren't like that, not TELL
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Posted:Jan 16, 2019 12:53 am
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2019 5:27 am
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Obviously any guy on here with his head screwed on is going to want women know that he is not the type of guy she is complaining about. Fair enough. Yet if you read a few women's blogs it is quickly obvious that many of the men have no idea how they are coming across. There are enough examples of men respond well so that you can see how it's done in a way that suits your style.
When a guy replies with some variation of "not all men are like that", "it's not fair that you tar us all with the same brush" or "the bad guys ruin it for us good guys" it ALWAYS comes across as whiny with a side dish of begging.
She knows not all men are like that, her post wasn't personally directed at you, and you are doing a fine job of screwing up without any help.
What's worse is that you leave your pathetic bleating out in public on a site where you're hoping to pick up 
When I reply to a blog like that, I never SAY that I'm not one of those guys, it is an unstated assumption. I've also seen a number of other guys with different commenting style to me are obviously "not one of the bad ones" but who never say it directly.
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A lot of people here are obviously using the wrong website
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Posted:Jan 15, 2019 2:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2019 3:30 am
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If you're on here to complain about women's choices and preferences, and to bitch about not being able to get laid, you'd be better off on the INCEL forums where you'll find plenty of like minded friends.
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How to get about half the women you message to start chatting - with a dick pic!
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Posted:Jan 13, 2019 12:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2019 10:09 pm
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If you are sending messages and IMs but rarely getting a response you can use this idea to start getting responses. It's only likely to work the first time a woman receives it so I'll also explain the reasoning behind it so you can come up with your own effective opening messages.
I use IM because I'm a standard member and I open by sending this "Dick" pic:
The picture is of Dick Smith, a well recognized Australian figure. If you are in another country you should use a famous "Dick" who will be recognized by the women you are messaging.
This has been getting about 50% response from messages that displayed as "read" on IM. It's not enough to get you laid but for many guys on this site getting even a few positive messages would be a huge confidence boost and hopefully open their minds to more learning.
The reason why this picture works is because without any negative or defensive comment it immediately differentiates me from most of what women complain about.
You will get a higher response rate if you personalize it by putting the woman's username in the text of the picture.
The text should be in the picture. I tried sending them separately but not always did both get received, then it comes across as fake or weird.
If you get responses by using this idea, consider acknowledging it in the comments and watching my blog.
If you've got whinging and bitching to do about how lifes not fair and women are mean or scary, shut up and listen instead.
Women: if I can develop a system that works to teach the #NotAllMen guys to behave well enough to meet and give a good experience when they do, all I ask is that you nominate me for the Nobel Peace prize.
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To link to this blog (IVFalternative) use [blog IVFalternative] in your messages.
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