Promiscuity ~ Part One ~
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Posted:Sep 20, 2005 7:12 am
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For a long time it was mostly people who had very deep religious beliefs that ruled this world. Seeing as though religions strictly forbid pre-martial sex (sex when you are not married) we did not have so many problems with sexually transmitted diseases (STD�s). In today�s society however, a lot of people no longer follow religious laws and government laws do not offer a penalty for some religious laws. Governments will put you in jail for committing murder and theft but they will not put you in jail if you have sex with tens or even hundreds of people. You can even commit adultery (sex with anyone aside from whom you are married to) and the harshest punishment you will face is that your spouse will be granted a divorce. It is here that we shall look at the definition of promiscuity and the areas that result in those such activities.
To begin with we must address one of the worlds largest problems and that problem happens to be in our attitude towards when we make a mistake. The holy bible teaches that all we have to do is pray to god and repent for our sins and thus we shall be forgiven. For non-religious people they just stick to the belief that none of us are perfect and that we all make mistakes. These are two very big issues and thus they must be addressed separately.
The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines a mistake as 1: a misunderstanding of the meaning or implication of something and 2: a wrong action or statement proceeding from faulty judgment, inadequate knowledge, or inattention. There is no doubt that we all do in fact make mistakes, however one must pay more attention to the frequency of mistakes than they should the fact we make mistakes. If a person makes a mistake they have made a lapse in judgement. If someone makes a lapse in judgement and thus acknowledges that momentary lapse then they are acknowledging that they are aware they did something wrong. At this point they can then learn from it and remember it so that it does not happen again. With most people however, they do not actually learn from it. Often a mistake will be made and someone will say they are sorry and then a few minutes or a few days down the road they will literally repeat that very same mistake. Therefore people are not really making a temporary lapse in judgement but they are actually making a permanent lapse in judgement. It is here that we see terrible things happen, there is no punishment for one that makes many mistakes (unless it is theft, assault, or murder) and therefore people have no reason to learn from what they have done. Unless we do something to physically harm ourselves or another we just do not seem to learn anything from it. Obviously, pain is the greatest method of teaching someone something. As human beings we do not normally intentionally inflict pain upon ourselves therefore when we do something that hurts us, we do not do it again.
There is no doubt that we all do in fact make mistakes. To really get into such a discussion it is imperative to learn the meaning of the words we are talking about.
In today�s society men and women sleep with virtually anything or anyone that they can possibly get their hands on, a man or woman who does this is what would be considered a promiscuous person. Some would say that you could only be considered to be promiscuous once you have had sex with so many different people when the truth is that no specific number decides the title. What decides whether or not you are a promiscuous person is strictly within your actions. Sex is not wrong, but you can have sex for the wrong reasons. Believe me or not, millions of people all over the world today have sex for all the wrong reasons and are very proud of it as well. Overall, a person who has sex with more then 1 person within a short amount of time would technically be a promiscuous person. It is possible to be married and then get divorced, upon getting remarried you will then have a second sexual partner. This kind of situation would not make a person considered to be a promiscuous person.
The problem with promiscuous men and women is that they disregard all information and warnings about the existence and spreading of STD�s. Often times they believe that birth control and condoms can stop all forms of diseases. Even what diseases they can stop center on sexual intercourse and do not protect from diseases that are transferable by means of oral sex (cunnilingus and fellatio). They believe that when they have a test done to check for STD�s, that the results are fool proof and are always accurate. As doctors have been warning though, some STD�s are undetectable until they reach certain stages and yet are still transmittable before they reach those traceable stages. As such, a lot of men and women have diseases that they do not know about and thus they get transferred from partner to partner very easily. According to the CDC (National Center for HIV, STD and TB Prevention), there are roughly 3 million people who die from AIDS each year and 30 million AIDS deaths since its discovery in 1981. The highest number of AIDS cases resides within the age groups of 24 to 34 and 35 to 44, however the rates are climbing at alarming speeds for those who are ages 13 to 24 as well.
One would like to believe that if a person knew about a disease that they would tell their partner before sex became a potential issue. As we have seen in the news however, a lot of people who have sex are only capable of physically doing it and are not capable of psychologically doing it and therefore are incapable of discussing it. There are in fact even some that intentionally do not use protection so that they can infect the person they are having sex with. There are laws that protect against this, however the problem is though that only 25 states within the US have these laws in effect and those that do often treat intentional STD transferal as a misdemeanor charge. Unless someone has been intentionally going around infecting multiple men or women then they will just get a random slap on the wrist. What this means is that you can not rely on your partner to be honest because there are no serious penalties for being dishonest. It also means that you will never get retribution if someone knowingly and intentionally infects you with a STD.
The largest problem regarding promiscuous men and women is that they can conceive very easily. Seeing as though these people are most likely the ones to be carrying diseases, those diseases will pass along to any that they have as well. This means that a will be born with a terminal disease and live a very short life. Sadly there are no laws in effect to bring criminal action against those who intentionally get pregnant despite having such a disease. Not only will they destroy a �s life with the disease but these men and women often only care about themselves and sexual pleasure therefore they will be very unfit mothers and fathers who pay no attention to their . It is bad enough that a will have a short life due to the totally irresponsible behaviors of their parents but they will also have a very poor life as well. They will not get the love and affection that a deserves and will probably get stuck being abandoned or having to live a life of only being around babysitters. More often then not it is a close relative that ends up raising the because the parents are totally incapable of doing it.
To be continued later
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Comparing...
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Posted:Sep 18, 2005 3:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well…
I had to go return the previous stereo I had bought…
What a piece of crap that turned out to be!
I had originally bought the Panasonic NITRIX 5 CD Mini System w/ Cassette Player, SC-AK630. The power was great, but was actually far too powerful for the speakers the company made to go with the system. The CD tray was also a 5 disc but a single load which meant you had to load each one individually and then close it, change tracks, open it again, and load another CD. Overall it was a pain in the butt and the CD changer was very loud because it makes a constant clicking sound and takes nearly a minute to change each CD. The layout on the remote control was absolutely horrible as well, nothing like most companies do the layout and therefore very hard to get use to. The preset equalizers are pretty decent but there are not too many of them to choose from.
I ended up buying the Sony 3-CD 400-Watt Mini Hi-Fi System, MHC-GX450. This system is absolutely wonderful. The sub is a little weaker then I would have liked but the subs in the speakers more than make up for the lesser powered regular sub. The functions are much better then the slightly more expensive Panasonic. The preset equalizers offer more in options and when you factor in the video console mixing feature it makes it even better. The CD player is a turntable design which changes over quickly and is easy to load. It is considerably quieter then the Panasonic’s CD changer and easily three times faster. It seems that the Sony also reads and loads CD’s faster after switching them over as well.
Not only is the Sony slightly cheaper but it is considerably better as well. I have CD players in different rooms, however with the power that this player offers; I no longer have to use any of my other players even when I am downstairs.
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Working on it...
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Posted:Sep 16, 2005 6:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well…
This afternoon I shall have to work on finishing up my introduction as it was a little to ranty on the previous versions. I figure I will just stick to facts with as little of my own opinion as possible.
I guess I will have to incorporate the “description” first and a “how to use” second…
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Interesting... Why so Accurate?
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Posted:Sep 13, 2005 6:42 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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A friend from here ran my numbers for me and these results are rather amazing. While I enjoy it, it also scares me a little knowing that these things can be so accurate... Thank you to the lovely woman who sent me this and took the time to run it up.
As a '2', you are all about peace, harmony and finding balance in everything. You are happiest when you are with a soul mate or at the very least, a really good business partner or friend. Your concern for others and diplomatic ways assure you of popularity and plenty of friends and supporters throughout your entire life.
If you are a number 2 you have an uncanny ability to understand others. Many of you are blessed with enhanced intuition and you make great doctors, psychiatrists and healers. As so many are willing to support your biggest belief, which is that "justice should prevail" many of you also end up becoming beloved politicians or columnists.
You are at your best when working in a team rather than a leader. Your perfect position is the leader's right hand man or woman. You make a great husband or wife! The reason you often fail at being a leader is because you want to please everyone and don't have the heart to say no!
Your ability to cooperate with others often pays off handsomely for you. Your prime concern is not being rich, but "doing what you love so the money will come." You have a humane and humorous approach to life that others find very attractive.
However, you are often self-sacrificing (sometimes to a fault) because you also need the approval of others. Being a two, this is because you see others reactions to you as being a mirror of who you really are. If others are unhappy with you, you risk experiencing an unhealthy dissatisfaction that can lead to a lack of confidence or low self-esteem.
The number 2 life path usually includes one other person that is with you or is a heavy influence on you for your entire life. You might have a tendency to see your lover and yourself as one soul or one person. Depending on how healthy this connection is you might be with this person your entire life or waste a lot of your life yearning to be with this person. Unrequited love is more painful for you than other numbers.
Love, beauty and art are also very important to you. You love the idea of symmetry and this leads to a love of classic art, poetry and of course music. Your surroundings are also very important to you, as they are a reflection of who you are.
You love old things, sentimental things and collect objects that touch your heart. If you are not an artist yourself, then you will at least have an interest in the subject. Many 2's often find a soul mate in another artist and become the patron. This is because you love it when others hold up beautiful mirrors of society.
Sometimes 2's are vulnerable to obsessive compulsive behaviors because they are so addicted to perfection. In fact the karmic path of many number twos is to learn not to become depressed or disappointed when people or situations turn out less than perfect.
You are sensitive to other's feelings but are also easily hurt when others are incapable of returning the consideration. Many 2's spend their early years learning how to not take the actions of others personally.
You are the best friend that any other number in numerology could possibly have are often self-less to a fault. Others sense your deep faith in human nature and are so touched by it that they often fulfill your desires just to see you smile.
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Different Types of People...
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Posted:Sep 12, 2005 6:15 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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There are three types of people in this world...
Good, Just, and Evil...
What kind of a person would you want to be?
This is in relation to my next work... I shall post it in a few days so people can have some time to ponder what type of person they are and what type they might really desire to be
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What to Do???
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Posted:Sep 11, 2005 5:47 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well my TV finally died on me…
Now I have to decide if I should replace it or just use the money for a high quality stereo…
The stereo would encourage me to study more and watch TV less…
That is appealing to me right now with all that I am studying…
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What is the big Deal???
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Posted:Sep 9, 2005 7:19 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Now that I am no longer a virgin I can ask the question…
What the heck is the big deal about getting laid and the vagina?
I feel no different now then I did before…
Many claimed that once I had sex I would feel differently and begin to act differently…
I will admit that it feels wonderful… but there are still many more things in life that trouble me then getting my penis wet…
It will be at least 7 to 10 days before we both have a day off together again and can be together again…
I am not worried though and it isn’t crossing my mind very much…
I had no trouble bringing her to orgasm numerous times so I know I don’t have to worry in the future either…
As time goes on her orgasms will most likely become more intense as I built the right muscles required…
I am glad that I do not follow the advice of other men and only follow my heart…
Many men seem to do things there way where as I believe in sticking to a basic format…
Some women can not handle rough sex and many men seem to think they can…
If you are rough when she wants it soft then she will not enjoy it…
If you do it slow when she wants it rough she can still orgasm…
It is safer to always be slow and then toy with pressures to eventually give her what she wants…
It is better to have some kind of orgasm then no orgasm at all…
At least then you have something to work with where as no orgasm at all leaves you frustrated and does not give her much of a reason to come back at all…
Previous Blogs of Interest
[post 66514]
Love Juices
Treating Women Like the Goddesses that they Truly Are Rough Draft
Setting the Stage
Acting like a Gentleman 3rd Edition
A Blend of the Old and the New Intro Rough Draft
Foreplay Techniques 4th Edition
A Virgin no More Part One
A Virgin no More Part Two
My Groups...
~Driving a Woman to Rapture~
~Massage/~
~~Extreme Orgasms~~
~~Passionate Lovers~~
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A Virgin "no" More (Part Two)
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Posted:Sep 9, 2005 5:14 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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She came over and spent the night again Wednesday and things went a little different…
Instead of allowing her to touch me first I grabbed myself and hoped she would watch instead of trying to take control…
Luckily she did just that and when she did finally take control, she followed what she saw me doing…
She didn’t touch the head and that allowed me to stay erect this time…
After getting the condom on though the erection became very weak…
Penetration was slow, which I liked as I prefer things nice and slow…
I was a little surprised that I did not ejaculate when I entered her though because everyone has been saying over and over that men normally ejaculate right off the first time they have sexual intercourse.
Since I did not ejaculate the first time we had sex and since she has not slept around, we decided to leave the condom off from that point forward…
There was a large difference in sensation and that led to a much more powerful erection once the condom was gone…
She orgasms very quickly from penetration, much quicker then when she is being manually or orally stimulated…
She didn’t have them very quickly unless I backed him out halfway and then moved him rapidly without doing it to hard… then she could chain three very quickly but that was all…
I did not get to ejaculate at all through vaginal penetration or orally when she did it…
We engaged in intercourse 7 times in the last 24 hours but ejaculation never took place…
I imagine I am still a little nervous around her and her hurting me the first time did not help matters…
She seems to be getting frustrated over the fact I am not orgasming but she does not realize that I am still experiencing a lot of pleasure and get many dry orgasm sensations when we are having sex…
It is nice to have found a girl who likes sex though and yet does not run around like a wild animal…
Nearly every girl or woman I have met that claims to enjoy sex normally sleeps around with nearly every man that she meets and claims she has every right to…
I have more respect for a who** then I do a sl** because at least a who** can bring home a paycheck and a sl** will not bring home anything other then an STD.
Perhaps in time I will get to ejaculate as well…
With our work schedules though we can only spend one night a week together though…
At least now she is listening to me though, as time goes on I can finally begin to introduce some Kamasutra techniques and such to her…
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A Virgin "no" More (Part One)
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Posted:Sep 8, 2005 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well…
During my previous encounters with women while I was younger I learned that many women are just as selfish as many men. After my surgery when I was 17 it left my penis highly sensitive so that even a light touch by a finger or anything else can be highly painful. Each time I was fooling around with a girl I would explain to them that they needed to be careful and why it was that they needed to be careful. Despite taking the time to talk to them they did not “ever” listen. Every single time they would be careful at first and then within a few minutes they would begin using their tongue or fingers against the head of my penis and cause me such extreme pain that I would loose my erection.
Last Friday night was no different…
I have explained to this girl several times that I have had problems previously and that she needed to be careful…
Despite my maturity in discussing the matter with them she did the same thing…
Within just a few minutes of her taking my pants off she started being aggressive with her tongue and it almost instantly killed my erection because of the pain. It was wonderful for the first few minutes… as soon as the tongue started touching my head though it was a moment of hell…
Needless to say sex was not possible afterwards…
I could have been an asshole like most others guys and gotten up and left or kicked her out…
Instead I focused on her with manual and oral stimulation…
I was happy because I prefer spending my efforts on her because I believe that is what companionship and sex in general is all about…
She could only handle five orgasms though before her clit started to become very sore…
It was slow at first because I am use to women having a sensitive clit and she warned me that none of her 3 previous boyfriends had been able to make her orgasm through manual or oral stimulation. The reason they failed is almost the same reason I failed… I was being far gentler then I needed to be and I figured they had been as well (which she confirmed later on).
Her clit is not sensitive at all…
I can literally shove the entire tip of my middle finger directly into her hood and push on her clit as hard as I can without it causing her any discomfort. It eventually did cause discomfort but that was because I had been rubbing her and eating her out for almost 5 consecutive hours…
I did not bother with fingering her or trying to find her g-spot…
Getting her timing was what was important for me the first time… I think a lot of men try for to much right off the bat and that leads more often to failure then success…
Our first time was a success for her…
No one had previously ever pleased her manually or orally and it felt good to give her that considering I have not done that with a woman in over seven years and even then it was rather poorly as I was far too nervous being it was always with much older and more experienced women. I trusted my studies at first and was gentle because most doctors and therapists claim all women to have a sensitive clit and that many can not handle direct stimulation. Once I threw away those readings/teachings… she started to orgasm just fine…
The following morning she had 4 more and I was once again at the loss of an erection since she tried getting him up again but gripped him to tight and kept bumping my head with her fingers...
The second time was a little different…
Everyone was wrong about several things that they thought would happen when a man first enters a vagina and has sex for the first time…
Previous Blogs of Interest
[post 66514]
Love Juices
Treating Women Like the Goddesses that they Truly Are Rough Draft
Setting the Stage
Acting like a Gentleman 3rd Edition
A Blend of the Old and the New Intro Rough Draft
Foreplay Techniques 4th Edition
My Groups...
~Driving a Woman to Rapture~
~Massage/~
~~Extreme Orgasms~~
~~Passionate Lovers~~
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Change of Plans...
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Posted:Sep 8, 2005 6:58 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well…
Sleep has been really rough the past 6 months or so…
I have had every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday off now for about a year and it has been hard since I work third shift (11pm to 7am). Now I have Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday’s off. It has worked very well so far because I have gone from averaging about 3 to 5 hours of sleep a day to averaging 6 to 10 hours a day. It will also give me more time for solid researching on my writings instead of having to start and stop all week long.
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An Interesting Week
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Posted:Sep 8, 2005 5:51 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well it has been an interesting week…
I shall begin reporting on it as I have been away for a bit…
Hopefully I will get it all written tonight but just in case I am putting this up so people know it is coming soon…
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