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Problems.... Aren't they Wonderful?
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Posted:Mar 17, 2006 6:12 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2006 3:47 pm
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Well, it has been a bumpy road…
I am back around an Internet connection, but all of my books and writings are still where I use to live. For the time being, I will be posting polls that I was unable to post over the last few months because the site did not have that option available.
I am bouncing back and forth between my father’s house and my sister’s house until tonight and then I will be staying in a hotel for a week. I will still be stopping at my father’s everyday to continue job hunting and checking emails and such.
It’s a long story but…
My girlfriend’s parents are pretty much “anti-reading.” I am sick of being yelled at for reading books instead of watching TV or playing video games.
I am sick of being around my girlfriend’s younger brother and his girlfriend as well. I don’t like being around two immature teenagers who are having sex. I am also sick of the way my girlfriend’s parents treat her.
An argument broke out the other day and I had to call the State Police. My girlfriend’s mother unplugged the phone both times I tried to call 911 though. Finally I took my blade out and held it in my hand with the tip down at my side. I told them that Jenna and I wanted to leave because she was having an asthma attack and if she didn’t get out of there she might collapse.
After 30 minutes they finally let her and I leave. The first thirty minutes though, they were blocking the door so that I couldn’t leave and they wouldn’t let me call the police.
Jenna has disowned her family now, and I am thankful that she has. Her family is utterly psychotic and gets worse everyday.
When the State Police showed up, Jenna’s mother, father, both brother’s, and their girlfriend’s tried to claim that I was threatening people with my knife. The State Police Officer told them to stop lying because they had a voice recording showing that I was trying to call 911 and someone disconnected my call. The second time I called, I had been talking to the dispatcher for almost a minute before her mother unplugged the phone.
Anyway, there is still to much more to the story…
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That was a real blast! (Sarcasm!)
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Posted:Mar 14, 2006 6:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2006 6:59 am
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Well all heck broke loose and now I am homeless in a way.
My girlfriend left her family and came with me because of some serious issues with the way they were treating her and myself.
I am back where I was before but my family is giving me a hand. Truthfully though, I will actually be able to read and write now though because while I was at their house they refused to allow me to read any books or write anything.
It may be rough for a few more weeks, in the long run though, this will probably work out better.
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What Kind of Orgasm
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Posted:Dec 22, 2005 4:51 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 8:30 am
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What Kind of Orgasm do you Experience?
Choose the one that most often applies to you:
1) I have an orgasm only with clitoral stimulation.
2) I orgasm primarily from clitoral stimulation with some vaginal penetration.
3) I use penetration and clitoral stimulation equally to achieve orgasm.
4) I orgasm primarily from penetration, with some clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.
5) I orgasm through deep penetration and thrusting only.
1: Vulvic (Clitoral) Orgasm
2-4: Blended (G-Spot) Orgasm
5: Uterine Orgasm
Information based on Josephine and Irving Singers research that is contained in their book The Goals of Human Sexuality, 1974.
The Clitoral Orgasms
The commonly recognized clitoral orgasm is also known as a vulvic orgasm. It is characterized by involuntary, rhythmic contractions of the PC muscles and does not require penetration. Multiple orgasms and insatiable feelings occur most easily with this type of orgasm.
Vulva is the proper term for the exterior female genitals. Since the clitoris is part of this exterior area, people will know it as a clitoral orgasm and not a vulvic orgasm.
Clitoral (vulvic) orgasms involve rhythmic contractions of the PC muscles, feel insatiable, and can be achieved without penetration. Heavy panting is the type of breathing that occurs with a clitoral orgasm.
The Uterine Orgasm
The uterine orgasm is subjectively experienced as deeply emotional, involving no rhythmic contractions of the PC muscles. The Measurable emotional changes that characterize the uterine orgasm involve emotional expression-making sounds-and the “apnea response.” This apnea response causes the larynx to temporarily suspend the breath during orgasm and then to exhale it explosively, as occurs with other emotional reactions, such as laughing, sobbing, yawning, or screaming, providing the same release of tension. The uterine orgasm is dependent upon deep and rapid thrusts that jostle the cervix, which stimulates a large, sensitive membrane (called the peritoneum) which lines the abdomen and protects the organs of the abdomen and pelvic area, including the uterus. The uterine orgasm is most frequently a single, deeply satiating orgasm. This orgasm is rarely experienced by most women.
It is possible that one of the largest reasons that more women do not experience uterine orgasms very often is due to the fact that when many men and women have sex today, it is done with little or no emotional feelings at all. People don’t just screw one another physically but they screw one another emotionally as well. Without a deep emotional connection, a woman’s body will remain tense and therefore hinder how much pleasure she can truly experience. Emotional feelings can lead to a woman being very calm and relaxed, therefore it is no wonder that women who “love” their partners, achieve higher, more pleasurable states of orgasm.
Uterine (vaginal) orgasms are deeply emotional and satisfying, and take place only when something, such as a penis, dildo, or fingers, is in contact with the cervix. Strong, deep, quick thrusting jostles the uterus and stimulates the sensitive peritoneal membrane, which lines and protects the organs of the abdomen and pelvic area. These orgasms do not involve the rhythmic contractions of the PC muscles. Breathing is suspended (the apnea response) for twenty to thirty seconds just prior to sexual climax.
The Blended Orgasm
A blended orgasm combines elements of the clitoral and uterine orgasms. This is commonly called a “vaginal” or “g-spot” orgasm. A blended orgasm combines the involuntary contractions of the PC muscles that occur with the clitoral orgasm AND the feelings of a deeper physical and emotional satisfaction that occur with the uterine orgasm. The apnea response at the moment of orgasm often occurs with the blended orgasm, although it is less pronounced than in the uterine orgasm. Multiple orgasms can occur in the blended orgasm, or one orgasm can feel like it is enough.
Due to the multiple types of stimulation involved with a blended orgasm, ejaculation is frequently a result. By stimulating multiple areas, it helps to distract a woman from fixating on any one pressure or movement which in turn allows a woman to “let go.”
The blended (g-spot) orgasm involves a combination of clitoral and uterine stimulation and has characteristics of both types of orgasms, including the uterine orgasm’s emotional involvement and the clitoral orgasm’s PC contractions. The breathing suspension (apnea response) is brief and repetitive. Suction of the cervix/uterus occurs with this orgasm, as well as pronounced “tonic” feeling from relaxation of the deep vaginal (uterine) muscles.
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How to Read if a Woman has an Orgasm... (Rough Draft)
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Posted:Dec 19, 2005 7:16 am
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2009 6:09 pm
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Reading an “O”
When a woman has an orgasm…
Her breathing may increase…
Her body temperature may rise…
A tightening of the abdominal muscles may occur…
She may ejaculate a thin (urine like) substance from her urethra; a heavy (creamier) substance may flow from her vagina…
Her vaginal muscles (PC muscles) may bear down…
She may get a sudden sex flush…
Her moaning may go from nothing to something, soft to loud, or slow to more frequent…
The woman may rock her hips uncontrollably…
The only real sign of an orgasm is multiple actions and not a singular one.
Some women will release a thick, creamy white substance from their vagina (similar to male semen but without the sperm) during orgasm. Some people may use this as a sign that a woman has had an orgasm but forget that some women will release this during their entire sexual arousal. Due to this, it is impossible to use this as a basis for reading when an orgasm actually occurs.
Some women automatically “bear down” when a man touches her clitoris. Bearing down may automatically happen from a sudden change in speed or by something as simple as moving the woman’s legs further apart or closer together. With this is mind, you can not read an orgasm by when or how much a woman might bear down.
Some women are more vocal than others therefore, a woman may scream the entire time during sexual intercourse and thus make it impossible to judge when she has an orgasm. A woman who is normally very silent, that suddenly begins to explosively scream, this is a very good sign of an orgasm.
Judging an orgasm by a woman’s breathing is something that is next to impossible unless it is a very unusual and rapid change from the way she normally breathes. A woman will normally breathe heavier the moment her sexual arousal begins therefore making it a sign that can not accurately be used.
Some women release small amounts of ejaculate during their entire sexual response therefore, it is only possible to judge female ejaculation as a sign of orgasm if it is sudden and explosive.
The “sex flush” is yet again something you can not actually rely on. The moment some women become sexually aroused, a sex flush will begin to form. Only a woman who has no sex flush and then suddenly develops one or a woman who has a light one and then suddenly a very dark one is a woman that will be revealing her orgasmic state.
A sudden change in technique could cause a woman’s abdominal muscles to tighten. Because of this, we have yet one more possible sign that could vary a great deal from not only a woman to woman basis but could change based on technique as well. With this in mind, we have another unreliable possibility of revealing a woman’s orgasm.
Some women may rock and grind their hips against a man due to random waves of pleasure soaring through their body. This may take place more rapidly during an orgasm but is not a surefire way of reading the occurrence of an orgasm.
The only true way to tell if a woman has had an orgasm and how intense it is, is by knowing our partners and thus allowing time for us to observe how they normally act and react to different situations, different types of stimulation, as well as what types of mood and emotions channel through them before, during and after sexual activity.
In order to really know what is going on, a man needs to pay attention to multiple signs and not just a singe one. Does your partner normally breathe heavily? Does she always moan? Does she always develop a “sex flush?” Does she normally sweat a lot? Does her vagina have a thick creamy fluid oozing from it during sexual intercourse? Does her vagina get really wet during sex?
If you know the answers to the questions above then you now have something to compare changes with. A woman who has a rougher, dryer vagina that suddenly becomes very smooth and wet like it is being flooded, this would be a very good sign of an oncoming orgasm or that an orgasm has just occurred.
By observing how our partner’s body normally functions, we train ourselves to notice when something different takes place. When something out of the ordinary takes place, it is not just a good sign of an orgasm but also may reveal the intensity of that orgasm.
Another way to tell if an orgasm is taking place is to forget about it all together. Not all women can orgasm and even if you study every known sex technique available, it won’t change the fact that those women just can’t orgasm.
Even without an actual orgasm or a series of orgasms, sex can be a very physically and emotionally intense experience that will leave us breathless and satisfied. Instead of paying attention to how loud your partner moans, how red she gets, how wet she gets, or how hard her muscles tighten and contract, focus on how your partner acts outside of the bedroom. Is she happy, sad, energetic, depressed, and humorous? How a woman acts outside of the bedroom often reveals how happy she really is in the bedroom.
If a woman desires to have sex with you then the odds are good that what you are doing is just fine. Orgasm or not, sex can provide closeness and bonding that very few other activities can also provide. This closeness and bonding is often the reason women have sex to begin with and has nothing to do with having orgasms.
Previous Blogs of Interest
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Love Juices
Treating Women Like the Goddesses that they Truly Are Rough Draft
Setting the Stage
Acting like a Gentleman 3rd Edition
A Blend of the Old and the New Intro Rough Draft
Foreplay Techniques 4th Edition
A Virgin no More Part One
A Virgin no More Part Two
Introduction Rough Draft Two
My Groups...
~Driving a Woman to Rapture~
~Massage/~
~~Extreme Orgasms~~
~~Passionate Lovers~~
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Answering Questions
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Posted:Dec 19, 2005 5:56 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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To answer questions people have recently asked me or comments they have made in general…
Living with a woman gets me laid less?
My girlfriend averages 5+ orgasms every time that we have sex. Most of the time she is the one taking my clothes off because I am busy studying or writing. Her sex drive is higher than even mine is… I can settle for only have sex 1 or 2 times a week. Right now we have sex at least once a day and sometimes 5 or 6 times a day. Depends on how long she wants to have sex. I like the once a day sessions because we normally go at it very slowly and sensually for 2 to 6 hours instead of 30 minute quickies.
Will we carpool? Yes we are… was her parent’s idea because of current gas prices. They own four vehicles now though so even if we have to we can just take one of them and go on our own.
Will we be working the same shifts? Yes we will be…
Her father works early mornings (around 6am) and her mother works afternoons (around 3pm). It leaves us decent room for choosing our shifts because they both work different shifts. The only shift we can’t work would be 3rd shift.
Thank you for the “Good luck’s” people have given…
Sorry it has been so long since I have actually really posted anything…
Perhaps once things settle down and I have longer amounts of time to write I can continue working on new drafts of stuff.
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Opps...
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Posted:Dec 13, 2005 9:00 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Things are pretty busy ATM...
I will answer the questions on my previous post tomorrow I hope...
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