FWB no more...
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Posted:Jul 15, 2014 9:39 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2016 9:42 am
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Well, I can't really say that I'm surprised or that I don't understand it, but just the same, I am disappointed.
This weekend, I was back home in Idaho for family business and while I was there, I took the time to get together with my long time FWB "Purrfect". I've mentioned her in a few blogs.
She was the best lover I have ever been with and we spent much time together in the nearly 3 years prior to my taking a job in Seattle. But, despite our feelings for each other, this was never intended to be happy forever after. Our love wasn't pointed in that direction. Ultimately, she wasn't going to give up her home and family for me, nor was I going to sacrifice my career for her.
5 years ago, with my new job in Seattle, we became long distance lovers, getting together every time I found myself back home in Boise, which is regularly. For the first 3 years or so, it was enough to keep the flame alive, but in the last couple years, her correspondences had become more and more friendly and less loving and kissy. Bad timing and a reduction in my trips home have kept us apart for the last 2 years.
We finally synced up for the trip this weekend, but I felt something was going to change. I never could find the words to ask ahead of time, and my intuition was right all along. We met in the morning at my hotel, visited and went to breakfast. But she was adamant that we would not be going back to the hotel. She said that she was done with that part of her life and was focusing on other things instead. Her gardening. Her Hospice work...
I know that as people age, their sexual desires may fade, but it just seemed to me that as vibrant, eager and adventurous as she was in bed with me for all those years, to hear her say that she was just "done with sex" seemed hard to believe.
Of course, I didn't push the issue, and didn't try to change her mind (well, not too hard), but in the end, we are now just friends... friends with NO benefits. And so ends the greatest sex partnership I ever had.
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So, there's this lady I know in the real world... PART II
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Posted:Mar 1, 2014 11:11 am
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2014 11:56 am
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Well, sure as my luck... It turns out that the lady I was interested in already has another guy in her life. Apparently this had begun long before she publicly announced her divorce.
Once again, I'm a day late and a dollar short.
Keeping a respectful distance from her because she was married prevented me from even knowing that her marriage was on the outs. But it also prevented me from ever knowing there was an opportunity to start a relationship until it was far too late.
Oh, well... Back to being alone... Carry on...
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So, there's this lady I know in the real world...
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Posted:Feb 23, 2014 11:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2014 12:09 pm
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I've been attracted to her for many reasons ever since we first met a couple years ago, but I've stayed respectfully distant from her because she is married. I know her through one of the biker groups I hang with. For that reason I've stayed VERY respectably distant. One does not fuck with another rider's lady.
This weekend, she announced that she is officially divorced. WTF? I didn't even know that her and her husband were having problems!
So, here's my quandary... When or even SHOULD I swoop in to see of she might feel the same way about me? Because I've kept my distance, she really doesn't know me that well right now other than some very pleasant exchanges we've had over bacefook.
I don't want to seem like a vulture, but she's very desirable and I also don't want to be the guy that waited too long and someone else wins her heart...
I don't know how long she's been preparing for singlehood, but now that she is free, How long do I wait before I start making myself available to her?
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Merry Christmas to all
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Posted:Dec 24, 2013 11:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2014 4:43 pm
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After my last blog entry, enough people wrote and convinced me to not delete, but just take a break for a while. I guess a couple people did care enough to change my mind.
But while I'm still 'on break', I thought I would come out of dark mode just long enough to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and a happy new year!
Lynn
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Sturgis 2013
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Posted:Aug 11, 2013 1:39 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2013 10:02 am
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I just got home last night from a 3500 mile ride to the Sturgis Motorcycle rally in South Dakota. Had a great time, rode a lot of good miles and drank a lot of good whiskey.
Got a handful of boob too. That was the closest I've been to getting laid in a year.
Picture to follow... 
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Something I've been meaning to get off my chest for a long time...
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Posted:Jul 19, 2013 11:19 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2014 7:25 pm
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Seems to me that Paul Simon really over-sold and under-produced in his song "Fifty ways to leave your lover" Despite 3 minutes of prose and melody, he only gave 4 ways and repeated them 4 times.
1: Just slip out the back, Jack
2: Make a new plan, Stan
3: Hop on the bus, Gus
4: Just drop off the key, Lee
...And get yourself free
Little bastard ripped us off. He owes us another 46 ways.
Okay, Local Sexy Swingers peeps... fill in the blanks... Give me some of YOUR ways to leave your lover.
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Hate: Not always a bad thing...
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Posted:Jun 22, 2013 12:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2014 7:16 pm
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I hate when...
I almost sneeze, but don't.
I drive my truck to work because the weatherman said it would rain, but then it turns out pretty nice and I could have ridden my Harley instead.
I cut a board too short.
I get a 'flirt' from a cute girl on Local Sexy Swingers, but she's on the other side of the planet.
I don't poop for several days.
I get 'Scroogled'
What do YOU hate?
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Old friends come around
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Posted:Jun 10, 2013 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2013 10:17 pm
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This week, I got a pleasant surprise...
My best friend from my old college days, whom I lost touch with nearly 20 years ago, found me on BaceFook and sent a friend request.
We met back in the early 1980's. My then wife 'Sunflower' and I had moved a long way from home so that I could go to college and for the first time, we didn't have family right there practically next door. We were just 20-ish and my friend's family 'adopted' us into their own. They became our family away from home.
Well, about 20 years ago, in the chaos of my failing marriage and the divorce, I found myself focused on my immediate challenge of being a single dad and lost touch with many old friends.
I tried to look him up a few years ago, but as he had moved to a new town since then, all connections were lost. What a wonderful surprise that he found me and reconnected!
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What's your theme song?
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Posted:Jun 7, 2013 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2013 12:47 pm
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Everyone has a theme song... some of us just haven't discovered what it is... Mine is Desperado, by Don Henley and Glenn Frey
What's YOUR theme song?
Desperado, Why don't you come to your senses?
You been out ridin' fences for so long now
Oh, you're a hard one, but I know that you got your reasons
These things that are pleasin' you can hurt you somehow
Don't you draw the queen of diamonds, boy
She'll beat you if she's able.
You know the queen of hearts is always your best bet
Now it seems to me some fine things
Have been laid upon your table
But you only want the ones that you can't get
Desperado, oh, you ain't gettin' no younger
Your pain and your hunger they're drivin' you home
And freedom? Oh, freedom...
Well, that's just some people talkin'
Your prison is walking through this world all alone
Don't your feet get cold in the winter time?
The sky won't snow and the sun won't shine
It's hard to tell the night time from the day
You're losin' all your highs and lows
Ain't it funny how the feeling goes away?
Desperado
Why don't you come to your senses?
Come down from your fences... Open the gate
It may be rainin', but there's a rainbow above you
You better let somebody love you (Let somebody love you)
You better let somebody love you
Before it's too late...
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Memorial Day - Thanks
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Posted:May 27, 2013 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2014 5:56 pm
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(This was actually a reply that I made to another post on the same subject, but I felt it so passionately, that I decided to make a separate posting of it.)
It was an honor to serve, but it does seem that it takes many years of maturity to really understand the importance. Far too often, young people take their rights and freedom for granted... some to the point of attacking the very people and institutions that grant them and defend their right to complain.
To all those that answer the call to serve more than their own self interests, even if it means putting your own existence in peril... this day is for you.
Thank you.
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Your best orgasm.
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Posted:May 5, 2013 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2019 4:00 pm
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I remember it vividly...
I had been on a road trip to Sturgis with my biker buds... Two weeks sharing good times, good miles, good rides and unfortunately, hotel rooms. We had a great time, but I never had a moment alone to relieve my usual horny self for two weeks.
When I got home, Purrfect couldn't wait to spend a day with me and I was anxious too. Normally, I don't easily cum from oral, so seeing how ready to blow I was, I asked her to start our day of love making by sucking me off. I also requested that she place her tongue firmly on a certain spot on my cock when I came.
Purrfect is a fantastic lover and she did what I asked purrfectly. When it happened... Oh, my, fucking, gawd...
As I squirted 2 weeks of pent up cum into her mouth, she massaged my balls and attacked my cock with her tongue just as I requested. This caused a mind blowing orgasm lasting over a minute and peaked at levels that are difficult to put into words and had me completely paralyzed. I'm pretty sure I bent the space time continuum. I thought I was going to fly apart!
As the spasms subsided, she swallowed every drop of my load and milked my cock lovingly for more, which further prolonged the sensations. It took several minutes for me to be able to think again. After a brief rest, it was my turn to pleasure her and we spent the whole day in bed.
God, I miss her.
So,... what was YOUR best orgasm?
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Handyman Corner, part 5
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Posted:Apr 13, 2013 11:14 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2014 7:23 pm
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I'm turning what once was a 2 car garage into a 1,000 sqft workshop. The reasons should be clear. I love to build things and tinker on things... I've been this way all my life.
But in the past, I've always had to make do with small cramped and unorganized spaces. The result was a great deal of frustration and wasted time looking for things that should be here or there or wherever.. I CANT FIND ANY GODAM THING in this worthless poorly organized hell hole of a workspace!!!
The new workshop is equiped with all new cabinets, shelves and storage space where everything can FINALLY be organized and I never have to look for shit again!
Today, I was working on more cabinets for the shop and I needed the wood glue.... where's that bottle of wood glue... I know I had it a couple days ago... Where the hell did I put it?... Godam it... Its not here where I was working last week... fuck... cant find... WHERE THE HELL IS THE FUCKING WOOD GLUE?!?!?!?!?!? Its starting again! Despite all the extra shelves and cabinets, I STILL WASTE TIME WANDERING AROUND LOOKING FOR SHIT!!!
Then it dawned on me... Look in the cabinet I built that holds fasteners, tapes and... glue.
Fuck... There it is.
Here I go and spend all this time building shelves and cabinets to get organized and I still loose shit... because it's organized. Looks like 40 years of bad habits wont be all that easy to break, just because I have a nice workshop now. Hopefully, in time, I will not only be better at putting things where they belong, but at knowing where that place is at first thought, instead of wondering where I left things.
And remember... If the women dont find you handsome, they should at least find you handy!
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Handyman corner part 4
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Posted:Mar 27, 2013 2:26 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2013 1:47 pm
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Truck is fixed...
Well, its 2:00 AM, I just got out of the shower. Worked till after 1:00AM, but the truck is all fixed now. New head gasket and a cleaned set of pipes and not only is it running again, ir feels like it's running even better than before.
I would have rather not had to do this, but it's done and I saved most of the estimated $2,000 such a repair would have cost me had I been at the mercy of the "professional" shops.
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