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Sex is so much better when the partners work as a team to learn how to pleasure each other and build up to a climax that neither can resist any longer. The journey is what makes it so pleasurably intense, not simply reaching the destination as quickly as possible. I'm going to post some stories from my past and my thoughts and opinions on what makes for great sex and great sex partners. I hope everyone, women and men, will feel free to post their opinions, preferences, what turns them on or off and any good stories from their pasts that they're willing to share. - The Management  |
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Do women really like looking at cock pictures?
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Posted:Sep 26, 2014 8:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2014 9:30 am
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I've never posted any of mine or sent pics of mine to anyone. Well, except once when a girl asked me to. I've always thought it was kinda crass. But I see a lot of guys do it. Do you ladies like it? I know at least one gal who does.
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Do guys like women to shave it bare?
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Posted:Sep 26, 2014 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2014 3:44 pm
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Not sure what most guys like. I actually like a muff. Trimmed is nice... either into a landing strip or a shape of some kind. And cut short is nice too (although sometimes I like it longer). And even a mostly unshaven muff (if it's not really gigantic) is really nice. My least favorite is a hardwood (totally shaved). I still like those (what guy wouldn't?) but fur is better for me. Why? Because I know I'm with a grown lady when she has pussy hair. It's just really erotic. Maybe it's because I always had an older lady fetish when I was growing up. The thought of a full grown woman (teacher, neighbor, friend of my mother's) pulling aside her panties to give me a peek always involved a grown up lady muff. It makes me really horny when I see that. Bare is good. Fur is amazing! And I don't mind in the least when I'm giving her oral. That's nice too... feels like you have a real lady spread out on your table.
Save the Muffs!
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Do you like Fucking fast or slow mostly? And will women tell you?
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Posted:Sep 26, 2014 7:19 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2014 7:31 pm
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I got into an interesting conversation a little earlier today. Usually I have liked it slow but I think more people (both sexes) like it fast and maybe a little rough, than slow. So I asked a girl I know (we know each other well enough to talk about things like this) and although she likes slow sometimes, she prefers fast and hard fucking more of the time. I always think I cum too fast if I do that - which is never good for your partner unless you can either recover very fast or have the energy to move down south to keep giving her pleasure orally. I'm trying to figure out what most girls like - and, most importantly, why? Guys too... but especially ladies (you are so mysterious to us guys!   ). Reason I'm asking is because I'm thinking about adjusting my "style" to be what my partners want.
Which brings me to my other observation: I have had a hard time getting women to tell me what they like or how to do something in particular. That's not always true - a few women have told me exactly what to do every step of the way. But most of the ones I've been with (maybe they tend to be more submissive) won't even tell me when I ask them to. From those partners I have usually just gotten a response of "What you're doing now is nice". But, really, I want to know what most women like the best. And why they like it that way (easier to cum, like the feeling of being "taken" by a man, etc.). Come on ladies, give it up!
(And How Do We Men Get You Ladies To Tell Us What You Want Us To Do?)
- Just another clueless guy...
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How do you like to get licked?
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Posted:Sep 24, 2014 7:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2014 7:31 pm
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I've actually met a couple of girls who didn't like to get licked. Yes, it's true! But over 90% (I would say) do like it. Ladies, help us guys out. How should we do it?
Here's my idea of a nice way... every time is different, of course, but at this moment this is what I'd do if I was with a lady that I liked...
First, I would lay her on her back (we're both naked already) and lay or sit beside her and do some things to relax her - and me. Like lightly rubbing my fingers around her tummy, down and then up her leg (slowly... everything very very slowly), along her sides, under her arms (such a nice place), along the back of her neck, along her cheek very gently (she is a treasure after all), and keep doing that. After a few minutes I would start lightly brushing against her breasts as I traced my fingers and hands along her body. I'd use my middle finger and trace up between her nether lips... just once at first and then put my hand softly onto her lower tummy and lean over to kiss her. Just lips, nothing intrusive. Lip brushing lip, interlocking, smacking softly... then I would lean over a little further, open my mouth and suck and softly bite on the side of her neck, then up under her ear then back to kissing her on her lips. I would by now be caressing her breasts. I would bend down and take her left nipple in my mouth and begin sucking, nibbling and kissing it. I always start with the left nipple and visit the right one later. I love sucking nipples. Sucking while licking, biting them (but not hard) and then licking and sucking some more. I could do that for hours. Mmmm...
I would go back to tracing my fingers up between her labia nice and gently. Just enough to start to stimulate her inner labia and vagina. And I would kiss her and then suckle her nipples, by now taking turns between the left one and the right one. I like to massage my partners breasts by now too. I would alternate between all those things and maybe by now she would be touching my penis and stroking him. He would be hard as a rock by now. Some women initiate that and some lay passively and just enjoy it.
I don't want to make my partner have to wait too long though. When I sense, by her squirming or other clues, that she is ready to think about cumming, I will pull myself up over her on all fours, between her open legs and lay on her tummy and kiss her. I usually keep my penis out of the way for the most part. Partly to save it for her and partly to save it for me. Then I would ease down to suck her titties some more but with my tummy on her Va-jay-jay and maybe I would move my tummy and chest up and down a little on her pussy. No sense waiting any longer at this point. I want to do it as much as she is ready to receive it.
I move the rest of the way down between legs and kiss her right the middle of her labia. A few little kisses. Then I would very slowly lick along her outer labia, first up from the bottom, then across the top (barely touching where her clitty will be in a few minutes, then down the other side. If she likes that a lot I might do it again. Or I would lick up the middle of her outer labia (or along the outer side of her inner labia if she is already loose). I would go up and down along her slit. Not pushing my way in. Yet. Just waking her up by licking along her private inner slit. Soon I would stop and push against the soft, pliable spot in the very middle of her labia and then dip my tongue in between her lips to lick against the opening to her vagina. I like to lick that spot really slowly and push my tongue inside her as much as I can, and alternate between that and licking up and down. And then I would lick all the way up her lips to her clit. I would rest my tongue on the tip of her clit and push on it a little a few times. Then I would want to lick the whole length of her clitty, from the tip up to the top and then back down again. I'd also take he clit in my mouth and suck and tongue her softly - not hard, guys - it's a sensitive little spot. I'd alternate doing that with licking down between her labia and pushing my tongue inside her vagina - just "crowning" her with my tongue. I have to play it by ear about when to change what I'm doing (but frequently) based on my partner's reactions. When she starts showing signs of an orgasm coming I focus on her clit mostly then. If she doesn't actually cum at that time then I go back to varying what I'm doing, but I look for clues about what she likes and I do more of that than anything else. Some girls like to have you slide your finger into their twinkie while you're licking their clit (I like that too) and I use my middle finger because it's the longest one. I slide it up to her G spot (top part of her vagina just past the bone that goes laterally across her sweet little pussy, about a third of the way in. I push up and down against that spot, usually pretty fast like a vibrator but not hard. I don't do anything hard unless I'm asked to. My GF likes her nipples sucked or bitten hard. I can't bring myself to do it too hard but I do it pretty hard for her. Back to what I was doing before that digression... I would keep "thumping" her G spot while licking or tongue-thumping her clit and mix it up a little depending what she seems to like or whether she's close to cumming. When she is ready to cum, whatever I'm doing at that point I just keep doing. If she's taking a minute to make it all the way to a full orgasm then I start increasing the intensity just a little and see if that makes her cum or is the wrong thing to do. If it's wrong I go back to what I was doing before. If it's the right thing I keep doing that. If she seemed to really like it I would increase the intensity a little more again. As I said, it's important to pay attention to clues. What she likes and what doesn't seem as good. If she is nice enough to tell you what to do, I do exactly what she asks for.
To me sex between two people is joint project of pleasure. It's not "I'm going to get off using your body" kind of thing usually (sometimes it might be if that's what both of you want at some point), but something a man and woman do to enjoy each other. To pleasure your partner and have her pleasure you. An orgasm is a gift that you give and one that you receive. I plan to write more on this theme in other posts later. I think it is very important. Sex is important and the communion of male and female bodies, between two people who like or love each other and who truly want to pleasure the other one, is the ultimate and most fulfilling experience we can have. For that reason it's not the orgasm that's the most important thing. It's the journey going there. When it's treated as something a couple is doing together... with one another... and not just by yourself, using the other person for a quick gratification, then it is by far the most intense and gratifying experience you can have. What could be more than that. So paying attention to what your partner wants and what she likes is the most important way to have a sexual encounter and to get that incredible feeling of serenity in each others arms afterwards...
Next Up: inter-intercourse rest periods... before doing it again (actually that may not be the next one, but it's coming...)
Ladies, tell me (us) what you like please! You'll be doing us all a favor. 
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Story: Having Sex At a Party
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Posted:Sep 24, 2014 5:15 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 7:43 pm
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Here's a true story. Post your own if you have something like this! 
It's kind of a hot idea to have sex at party - in a bedroom or bathroom or a hot tub... but do you have the guts to really do it?
When I was in my 20s I was hanging out with a kind of fast moving crowd (friends of friends) and one Friday night one of them had a party on their house boat here in Portland. It was just before the Super Bowl - I remember because another guy in this group (who later became a detective) was throwing a SB party and had actually hired a stripper. So, back to the house boat party... I heard before we got there that the stripper was invited to that party (not as a performer, just another guest) and her mother was coming too. It was a fast crowd for sure. At the party I saw the stripper (I'll call her Sally) and her mom come in and her mom was even hotter than Sally. Sally was probably about 20 - just a few years younger than me (I hope she was that old at least!) and looked like a standard stripper: thin, long blonde hair, pretty face, kind of slinky... but her mother, who couldn't have been older than 35 or so, was a hot, curvy redhead and she was the life of the party. Sally was actually fairly reserved. She liked to party but not like her mom!
At one point I was standing in line to go to the bathroom and when it was finally my turn I went in and started to close the door. Suddenly Sally's mom pushed her way in (she hadn't even been standing in line) and closed the door behind here before I even knew what was going on. She locked the door behind her and then came up to me and threw her arms around me and said "I want to teach you how to give a women good head...". I agreed - LOL! But the next thing she did was push me away, pull down her jeans and sat on the toilet and peed. (Yeah, it was kinda weird... hahaha.) When she was done I expected us to resume where we had left off and it only slightly bothered me that about 6 people were standing in line outside the door. I was a horny young guy (I am laughing as I write this, yes). But, to my dismay she simply opened the door and left. Drat! I had been had! So I put her out of my mind and resumed partying with everyone else.
But when me and my buddy finally left the party, we had to walk by the outdoor hot tub on the dock to get to our car. In the hot tub was Sally's mom riding some guy cowgirl style and facing us and the rest of the world, titties in full view. And she was pumping on that poor guy (LO so hard that it must have hurt. I still kinda wanted to fuck that MILF but... it never happened and the way she was doing that guy (in public and in a way that did not look comfortable) made me not all that unhappy that it didn't happen. And if we had done it in the bathroom I would have probably gotten beat up for making everyone there wait to use the toilet. haha... Good Times... That's as close as I ever got to actually doing it at a party (that I can remember)...
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