What We're Into...
|
Posted:Aug 8, 2005 1:39 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2020 7:04 am
8546 Views
|
What Are You Into? It's a common question during internet IM conversations. Paul was online recently talking to another guy (who was presumably the male half of a couple) and was confronted with the "What are you into?" question. Below is a (slightly) edited version of the conversation. Carissa, when she saw it, said, "that's a quite revealing interchange." Upon re-reading, Paul agreed and we decided to put it here for anybody to read and for us to refer to when folks ask "The Question"
--------------------------------------------------
(remember Paul is talking)
other guy: what are you into?
carissaandpaul2: okay...here's our deal...
carissaandpaul2: we are very much committed to each other...
carissaandpaul2: we play occasionally with others...
carissaandpaul2: we like "non-pushy" folks...folks who are laid back...who "go with the flow". We're not looking for people who meerly want to "notch the bedpost".
carissaandpaul2: we've done MFM and FMF and MFMF...
carissaandpaul2: we'd love to find a couple in which both partners were bi.
carissaandpaul2: we always play together...
carissaandpaul2: always same room...
carissaandpaul2: we like to stay "connected" during sex...even if we're screwing other people...
other guy: I fully understand..
carissaandpaul2: our ideal would be four on a bed...everybody playing with everybody else...lick a boob or a butt or a cock or a cunt...whatever body part presents itself...
other guy: sounds like fun.. a body buffet... and I'm hungry!! lol
carissaandpaul2: sometimes three would gang up on one...
carissaandpaul2: sometimes the women would play with each other and the men would play with each other...
carissaandpaul2: sometimes all four...
other guy: Im rock hard just thinkig of what we could do!! carissaandpaul2: before sex...and after...there would be fun and laughter...good conversation...
carissaandpaul2: friendships would be forged...
carissaandpaul2: there would be times when we might all just go to Sauvie Island...no sex...
carissaandpaul2: or out to dinner...
carissaandpaul2: or dancing...
carissaandpaul2: then there would be other times when we'd all have "rock your world" sex.
other guy: I know what you mean, friends in more ways than one!
other guy: so, about YOU... what turns you on about a man?
carissaandpaul2: well, the turn on is more intellectual than physical...
carissaandpaul2: I have to like the guy...
other guy: I'm the same way in a sense
carissaandpaul2: I guess the question would really be what would turn me off...
carissaandpaul2: grossly overweight is a turnoff...
carissaandpaul2: body oder is a turn off
carissaandpaul2: feedback, physical and aural is a turn on...
other guy: Yes, all valid turn offs!!
carissaandpaul2: Not to be a snob...but I like people who have a bit of education and can talk intellegently on a number of subjects... that's a turn on...
carissaandpaul2: people with strongly held opinions, religious or political, are a turn off.
carissaandpaul2: I like folks who can see and appreciate gray areas.
other guy: I know what you mean
and then the conversation drifted on to other things...
|
|
|
5
Comments
|
|
