Gifts That Girls Would Love To Receive From Their Boyfriends
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 2:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2012 7:43 am
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1. Puzzle Necklaces
Puzzle necklaces have two pendants each that are shaped like puzzle pieces. They are made in such a way that the message written on each of them can be read after they are joined. So one can be worn by you and the other is kept by your boyfriend. This is a romantic gift for girls to receive.
2. Perfumes
Every girl loves to have a nice, aromatic fragrance on herself. However, the choice of the fragrance can differ from person to person. Some of you might like a musky fragrance or some prefer the sweet aroma of fresh flowers. But perfumes are an excellent gift option for girls.
3. Spa treatments
Who doesn’t like to be pampered? Especially when it comes to girls, we surely love being taken care of. So a free spa treatment for you is the perfect gift if given after a tiring day at work or school. You feel so special and rejuvenated after a massage. Who wouldn’t love that feeling?
4. Jewelry
All girls like jewelry. It can be a cute little diamond pendant or a charms bracelet. It can also be a small heart shaped pendant with a gold neckpiece. Such gestures sure do speak a lot about the love and affection from the boyfriend.
5. Photo Frames
Photo frames are the perfect gift for sharing and keeping memories forever. An added bonus would be if it has a picture of you and your boyfriend.
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Ways to Make Up With Your Boyfriend
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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1. Apologize
Have a discussion and try listening to him for a change. Say sorry to him and tell him you mean it. Nothing works as good as an honest apology. When he sees that you are really earnest about it, he will surely come around. But just don’t try to repeatedly justify what you have done or else you might just come back to ground zero.
2. Buy a card
Just go to a shop and get a nice greeting card and say sorry through it, if he just refuses to talk to you. A sorry card can be a good way to let him know that you are really sorry for what happened and it will show him that you really care about him.
3. Make him dinner
There are two things a man really likes. You already know one. Well, food is the second one. So just cook something special for him and surprise him when he comes back home. You don’t need to be a chef but the very fact that you took pains to cook for him will show him you really care. Get a bottle of wine and play some romantic music and he will start wondering why he was angry with you in the first place.
4. Dress up for him
Throw away the sweatshirt and wear something sexy. Sometimes couples just get too complacent with each other. Try to look attractive and he won’t be able to keep his hands off you, forget avoiding you.
5. Arrange for a trip
Sometimes people are so stressed with their work life or any other reason that they blow things out of proportion and they have less time to work on their relationship. So if you earnestly want to make up with him, arrange for a small trip together where you both can unwind and spend some quality time together.
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Tips To Flirt With A Man
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 2:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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“I think that the first step a woman should take before flirting with a man is to try and figure the man out. Ask yourself if he is going to like the type of woman you are”, said Mark. “You can be the prettiest woman alive on this planet, but if you’re not his type, your attempt to get him may fail. So try and judge if you are his type or not”, he added.
Jacob went on and said, “Your next most important step in picking up the art of flirting with a man is to make eye contact. For all you ladies out there, this is your moment to shine”. “Why is eye contact so important, Jacob?”, we asked. Impatiently, Mark butted right in and said “Your man will approach you once he finds attraction and warmth in your eyes. He is not going to walk up to you if you give him that cold stare now, will he?”
“Your next step in learning how to flirt with a man after you’ve made eye contact is to invite him to you without actually inviting him. Okay, maybe that confused you, did it? Let me explain. After making eye contact, let out a subtle smile or a slight nod of the head. Your man should get the signals”, continued Mark. ‘”But don’t seem over enthusiastic. That conveys a different meaning altogether which we are not going to talk about right now”, said Jacob, winking.
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Blind Date Tips
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 2:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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Here are a few tips that you should keep in mind while going for your blind date.
Be careful
One of the most critical factors for a woman, going on a blind date, is to exercise caution while meeting the man. Even if the date has been set up by a common friend, who would surely know about the decency of the person, you cannot trust the real intentions of that man until you meet him. Set up the date in a crowded place or a café during the day. Don’t meet a stranger after dark in a secluded area. Even if your blind date eventually turns out to be very friendly, it never hurts to exercise caution at an early stage. Does it?
Set yourself up with a great date
You must explicitly verbalize your demands to your common friends and trusted coworkers when asking them to set up your blind date. Ask them to ensure, they set you up with someone who they think might be compatible with you. There should be no embarrassment or shyness on your part in seeking this help from close friends.
Be interested
This is not just about getting a boyfriend for the heck of it. The more you are interested in the opposite person’s personal life, goals, dreams, and ambitions, the more successful your blind date will turn out. In this process, having forethought about starting up a conversation will help a lot. Having a strong eye contact, keeping a broad smile on your face and a bit of leaning forward will show that you’re interested.
Dig for information
If you’ve been set up for the blind date by a common friend, finding out basic information about the man before the date will always be helpful. Although it might snatch away some mystery of the blind date, it could give you a great evening by keeping you prepared about what to expect.
Dress impeccably
It is said that a person can make up their mind about another person in the first 15 seconds of meeting them. So you can imagine the importance of dressing well. No one can deny the fact that it is the outer appearance that makes the first impression on the opposite person. It also shows the opposite person that you have taken efforts to look good for the date and hence, you are interested. The key is to be yourself! Don’t use excessive makeup or dress in an extravagant way which may turn off your date. Surely, put efforts in looking good, but don’t overdo it. Your date will surely appreciate this effort.
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Things Guys Want Girls To Know
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 2:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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1. Guys hate those who flirt cheaply
Yes, that’s true. Girls, you might be thinking that every guy is a flirt. But that’s not the case. Guys do flirt but some know their limits. In fact, many guys hate others who flirt, especially if they do it in a cheap way or harass the girl even when she says she is not interested.
2. Guys do cry
Even if they are all macho and dudes, guys do have feelings. If someone has hurt them deeply, they will cry. But they don’t cry as often as girls do. It’s only for those times when they are really emotionally upset.
3. It’s not just the looks that guys fall for
Girls may often think that guys are just interested in all the gorgeous girls and they don’t like to look at girls who are not so pretty. But that’s not true. Guys usually look for pretty and presentable girls who also have a good character.
4. If guys care about you, they will overlook your bad traits
When you have a guy friend or boyfriend, you know that they will be there for you if you are in trouble. Similarly, they will also ignore your bad traits. Sure, they will tease you about it but that won’t stop them from being your friend/boyfriend.
5. Guys love it when you smile
There is something magical in your smile that all guys love. If they are sad or worried about something, just smile at them and it will make them feel much better. The fact that you look more pretty when you smile is another fact that guys love your smile for.
6. Guys don’t like it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend
Guys prefer it if you stay away from the topic of your ex-boyfriend; be it the things that he didn’t do right or how he made you miserable. Those are sloppy stories for a guy to hear from you. It’s better if you tell your girl friends about it.
7. Guys like it when you stand up for yourself
Guys like girls who are mature and able to express themselves freely. Thus, they like the fact if you can stand up for yourself, if needed. This stands true even if you are wrong, because you still had the courage to speak up. This is what guys like.
8. Guys are hesitant to talk to a girl they like
All you girls might be thinking that some guys are always so cool and they just flirt around with any girl they like. But that’s not true. They do flirt around, but when they meet the right girl, there are butterflies in their stomach too.
9. Guys don’t like it when you play hard-to-get
You might think that it’s so cool to play hard-to-get with a guy. But do you realize that guys don’t like it? In fact, they think that you should simply put down your cards if you like them.
10. Guys want someone to listen to
If a guy comes up to you and shares his problem, it doesn’t always mean that he wants your advice. Just as you need a shoulder to cry on, guys need someone who can just listen to them. They want someone to care for them and be a good listener.
Now, girls did you know all these things about guys? Thus, it’s better not to typecast guys and learn to know more about them. No wonder guys want you to know so much about them.
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Why Do Men Cheat?
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 2:00 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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Do men cheat because of sex?
“Sex is probably the major cause for all men to cheat”, said Laura. Holly was quick to point out, “It is not always the case that men don’t get great sex at home. I know it sounds harsh, but men sometimes find it hard to stay faithful”. Friends, better double check on this one in your own life.
Do men cheat because of lack of respect?
“Jonathan, my best friend’s partner cheated on her for 6 months before she found out. He said she did not give him respect which made him go astray”, said Holly. “This was probably the only genuine reason a man could give to the question, why do men cheat. Genuine, but not good enough”, said Laura. “He could always have talked it out. I’m not sure if lack of respect is the justification for cheating”, she added.
Do men cheat because of monotony?
“Mike always told me that his life was getting monotonous day by day. He would come home from work and complain that every day was the same. I feel that this frustration drove him to cheat”, said Laura. We could see the anger on Laura’s face and could sure understand what she meant when she said, “Life is tough and can sometimes get monotonous. That does answer the question ‘why do mean cheat’, does it?”, she asked.
Do men cheat because of long distance relationships?
We were hoping Holly would answer this question and tell us what it has got to do with long distance relationships, because she was in one herself. She did not disappoint us and gave us some great insight. “My ex and I were living in different cities for about 2 years. I got suspicious when he started avoiding my calls and started using frequent excuses and reasons to avoid my calls. I decided to travel to Atlanta where he was based. I crashed into his apartment only to find him with his secretary”, said Holly. “My case is a typical answer to our question. I think that the distance caused my ex to cheat”, she said, disappointed.
Do men cheat because they are inherently unfaithful?
“Absolutely not”, said Holly. We all bump into charming men who may flirt a bit with women but stay in their limits. Men who can stay committed in the most vulnerable of situations are hard to find, but they do exist”, she added. This brings us to the conclusion that men aren’t inherently unfaithful and hence, it can’t be the answer to our question.
Do men cheat because of chauvinism?
“I think that the idea of chauvinism and male dominance has got a lot to do with unwrapping the answers to our question”, pondered Laura. Holly agreed and said, “Male chauvinism can sometimes make a man think that that he can get away with everything, including cheating on his partner. No wonder we see many male political leaders, corporate biggies and big celebrity names caught up in cheating scandals”.
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Great Tips For Learning How To Get Your Man To Commit
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 1:57 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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Learn how to get a man to commit with these fabulous and effective tips.
1. Plan the future of your relationship together
Do you ask your partner “Honey, where do you see us 5 years down the line?” If you don’t, we suggest that you ignite such conversational sparks because planning for the future will lay the foundation of a committed relationship. Talking about the future of your relationship is a great way to get your man to commit.
2. Be a successful woman
Do you work? If you do, project yourself as a successful career-oriented woman. Men love women who are successful and can stand up on their own two feet. Get a man to commit by being successful and passionate in whatever line of work you are pursuing, whether you are a high flying executive, a painter or a chef.
3. Create a happy relationship
Have you asked yourself what you can do to get your man to commit? One of the best tips that we can give you is to nurture a happy relationship. How will you get your man to commit if your relationship is plagued by fighting, arguments and misunderstanding? Spend happy times together and get your man to commit.
4. Create dependence
When we say ‘create dependence’, we mean that you should create an environment of sharing and caring with your partner. It can be as simple as him depending on you for his laundry, breakfast and other nitty gritty things while you are dependent on him for your banking and other administrative paperwork. You can get your man to commit by showing him that you are an important part of his life.
5. Satisfy your man
‘Satisfaction’ is the key to getting your man to commit. Girlies, we are not talking only about physical satisfaction in the bedroom. That is just one aspect of satisfaction. Emotional satisfaction also plays an important role in a stable relationship. Be there for him emotionally and physically. Listen to him when he yearns for a listener and make love to him when he yearns for a lover.
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Ways To Reignite The Romance
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 1:53 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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Here are 10 ways to reignite the romance between you and your partner.
1.Tell him how you feel
Do not assume that your partner already knows that you love him. Tell him frequently that you love him. No matter how many years have the two of you been together, it doesn’t take time for insecurity to show up its ugly head. Keep telling your partner what he means to you. Even a small ‘I love you’ or ‘thank you for being a part of my life’ will show your partner that you care for real.
2. Do interesting things together
You cannot expect to do the same old things all the time with your partner and still have the same amount of fun. In order to make life more and more interesting, try to do different fun things together. Enrolling together for dancing classes, cooking new recipes together, joining pottery classes, working out together, visiting new places are some of the things you could do with your better half.
3. Watch romantic movies together
Life can get really romantic with romantic movies. Getting cozy next to your partner and watching a romantic movie together is a great way of spending time together. It is sure to have a positive effect on your relationship.
4. Getting him gifts
Getting your partner something he really wants is a great way to express your love for him. It is not the gift that really matters. It is the sentiments and thoughtfulness of the gesture that makes a gift special. You don’t need to empty your pockets to get your partner something. Whatever you give him, give it from your heart.
5. Writing love letters
There is something about love letters which make them never go out of fashion. Probably, this is the reason why there used to be more romantic love stories in the earlier days than today. When you pen something down, it remains forever. Words can be forgotten, but letters will be preserved. This is what makes them so special.
6. Sing and dance together
Music is one of the best ways to express love. Sing and dance with your partner. The distance between the two of you, if any, will go away instantly. You could try various styles like salsa, jive or waltz. It will spark up the chemistry between the two of you.
7. Watch a sunset
The setting of the sun is, indubitably, one of the most romantic sceneries ever. Take your partner for a long drive to some far off beach and reach in time to watch the sun setting. This is an easy and a very romantic way to make your lover feel special.
8. Use humor whenever you can
It is said that love conquers all. Well, we beg to differ, for it is humor that can turn the most glum situation into something wonderful. Use humor to your advantage. Make your partner laugh. Be easy going and tell jokes. And don’t get angry when your partner playfully teases you.
9. Surprise your partner
Gifts are good but surprises are better. Let your partner have no clue of what is coming next and catch him by surprise. Planning a party for him, getting him something he always wanted or a romantic date; whatever way you choose to surprise him, it is surely going to be special to him.
10. Make out
This is one of the beautiful ways to express your love to your partner. Physical intimacy is one of the most important reasons why married couples lose the spark between them. Go ahead. Let your body express your love for him.
You could keep getting frustrated wondering what is missing in your relationship. You could even spend money on relationship counselors to make things better between the two of you. Or you could follow the aforesaid tips and situation may improve. Love is not a ’s play. But, it is no rocket science as well. It requires a little effort from your end to show your partner that you care. If you are able to do this, you can be assured to have a beautiful healthy relationship that will last for a lifetime.
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Marriage Problems And There Resolutions
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 1:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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Have a quick look at some of the common problems that plague every marriage on the planet.
1. Dishonesty
If there was one thing that came above anything else while ruining a marriage, this would be it – dishonesty. Many a times, you let out ‘little lies’ and then call them ‘white lies’ for your own convenience. If you are confident of yourself and not faking anything in your marriage, there should be no reason for even the smallest of lies. Talk about things that are not too appropriate to be said directly, but do not lie! Be honest about yourself, your thoughts, ideas, expectations, and your love. Dishonesty may save you from a small argument today, but can come back and haunt you years later. You will break his trust and his heart, if he ever finds out that you have been dishonest. There is nothing more painful than lack of trust in a marriage.
2. Unrealistic expectations
Whenever you find yourself struggling to come in terms with ‘unfair’ situations in your marriage, sit back, take a deep breath and think to yourself, “What do I really expect? Is this what I deserve?” Most women often expect too much, and in some cases, too less. It is very tough to keep a balance between more and less, but a moment of thought can usually help you to come to terms with your expectations. Always remember, you should expect no less or no more than what you deserve.
3. Lack of sexual compatibility
Sexual relations with your partner play a very important role in your marriage. Lack of sex can lead to depression, arguments, loss of excitement and, in worst cases, even infidelity. Find time from your busy routine for each other’s physical needs. Be adventurous, try new things inside the bedroom, and spice things up!
4. Lack of respect
It is very important that you treat your partner with respect. There is no single thing that you can say or do to show respect. It just means backing him up no matter what. It can be something as small as taking his side in an argument on the dinner table with friends, or agreeing with his views while having a challenging conversation with the family. You must expect the same. Loss of respect is a significant blow to the balance of a relationship. Give respect, get respect.
5. Practice what you preach
It’s one thing putting your thoughts, ideas and expectations forward; it’s another thing to step up and practice what you preach. If you have certain demands or expectations from your partner, be ready to put them to practice in your own life. It can be as simple as being aware of your own punctuality levels before asking him to ‘always be on time’. You will gain respect from your partner if you follow what you say.
6. Taking each other for granted
It is one of the easiest traps that many couples fall into. Think of the moment when you were dating your partner and your only dream in life was to marry him and be with him forever. Well, guess what, your dream has come true! Appreciate the fact that what you only dreamt of earlier is what you have now. Think of every moment spent with him as a gift and cherish every romantic look that he gives you. Never take your partner and his love for granted.
7. Lack of maturity
With marriage comes love, responsibility, commitment and devotion. It requires a lot of hard work and effort to lay a solid foundation of a good relationship and to keep the momentum going. Often enough, many do not seem to be adoptive of the maturity levels that are required to keep this union strong. It can be as simple as giving up on an argument sometimes, if it is not worth arguing. Act your age, be responsible and realize from deep down inside that you are shaping the life of another person!
8. Lack of crisis management
Some of you may think that crisis management is too vague a term to be used and thrown around. Well, that is not the case. Crisis management involves a deliberate effort towards assembling your thoughts and understanding the issues that cause fights and arguments in the first place. Ask yourself, “What is causing the problem?” Then think, “What can I do to solve it?” And lastly, “What can I do to prevent it?” It isn’t rocket science but then very few of women actually spend time to think about it. Remember, sometimes the simplest solutions are in close proximity from you. All you need to do is- think!
9. Loss of romance
It is a harsh world out there and most of your life is spent in trying to make a buck. Your dreams and career paths steal a lot of time keeping you away from the family. Take time out from your busy schedule to bring back the romance in your life. It can be as little as spontaneously going out for a glass of wine by the pier or giving him a surprise and fixing him breakfast in bed or even lighting a few scented candles in the lounge on a cold dark evening to spice things up a bit. Remember, such little steps may only need half an hour, but they will have long term impact on your relationship. It will keep the “romantic ” inside you alive and kicking and you will surely bat your eyelids the next time he comes back home with flowers and looks into your eyes!
10. Financial woes
Be actively involved in your family’s finances and be wise about money. Spending on a few luxuries in life is good but do not indulge in extravagance, if you cannot afford it. Create a budget plan and stick to it. money is easy to spend but difficult to earn. It is painful to see all the love, effort and hard work put into a relationship go waste because of financial instability.
11. Infidelity
If you think only men cheat, you are wrong! Anyone can cheat, and that includes women. Sex, money, passion, lust, lack of love, boredom – there are many reasons to drive you there. But mind you, none of these are good enough reasons to justify the act. If there is loss of interest or if the marriage is beyond reconciliation, talk about it with your partner. There is no going back after the act happens and the damage is unimaginable. Hearts are broken, trust is lost, feelings are hurt, and love loses meaning – it’s just not worth it.
Marriage is the blissful union of two people having different personalities. If you think that your marriage has too many problems, you are not alone. Marriages are all about compromises, adjustments, reconciliations and more importantly, love. Your marriage is divine – protect it, preserve it, cherish it!
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The Better Things About Being a Married Woman
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Posted:Nov 22, 2012 1:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 3:17 am
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We all know how great is about being single and how great the joys of singlehood are. But there are the best things about being a married woman. Let’s find out some -
1. A secure life
Is there someone out here who does not want a secure and a comfortable life? Marriages create a sense of security amongst women. You feel secured about somebody wanting you, taking care of you, being possessive about you; apart from sharing financial burdens.
2. Lifetime companionship
Would you like to live a lonely life forever? After a point all friends get busy in their lives and your family can’t be there for you always, either. It is only a partner whom you can grow old with and share the same kind of intimacy and companionship all throughout your life.
3. A boon to motherhood
This does not mean that you cannot become a mother without getting married. But, marriage gives a legal status that brings about a willing acceptance in the society and family circle. Getting pregnant by your husband is what all women seek, accept it or not!
4. Less taxed life
You get many benefits relating to tax after marriage. As a married couple, you save more money on tax than when you were single. You can avail special programs and benefits which are specially crafted for married couples. If you are not married, then you will be unable to avail such benefits.
5. Social benefits and acceptance
The world is surrounded by couples. If you are single you will feel left out. There will always be daunting questions from your family, relatives and so on. Also, people start eyeing you from a different light and at times they even question your sexuality!!
6. Emotional support
A woman feels more comfortable, at ease and relaxed when she knows that there is someone to care and stand by her side. A marriage provides this to a woman. It creates an emotional support to a woman especially since she is far away from her family.
7. Governmental advantages
Getting married also gives you certain rights legally. For instance, you are entitled to your partner’s governmental benefits after his death. Employee benefits can be availed by the spouse in case of death of partner but not in case of live-ins!
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