On Beyond Zebra
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Posted:Feb 14, 2018 6:15 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2019 8:16 pm
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Maybe a dozen ago was when I last used any BDSM gear ... everything from floggers to masks to feathers to a violet wand to vibrators. It has been in the closet mostly ever since.
I do not know whether in reading this, you are personally excited, turned-off or simply curious. If it is not for you, that gear can remain where it is ... we can engage in more conventional activities. (It's been some time since I had any).
I love receiving oral and hope to have anal sex for the first time ... though I do not want to do that too quickly, until I am truly comfortable with you.
If you are interested in my using any of this gear on you , though ...... well, I may be, as well. It would, though, have to proceed at a slow pace ... I would not trust myself to try to hit-the-ground-running after all this time. (Nor should you). And any limits you place on me will be honored.
Some other notes:
1) I do take "no" for an answer .... or a safeword, for that matter. If you invite me into your living space and feel uncomfortable, "Please leave" will only need to be said once.
2) I do not want to reciprocate, and if you have a gaff (or other genital cover) that you can wear, thank you. I will not be freaked out if I see your package, but would ask that you make an effort not to show it.
3) Lastly, if we hit-it-off: depending upon distance and time availability ... I do not expect us to be a steady couple - occasional get-togethers will be fine for me. Enough to satisfy my libido and soul. I avoid always/never answers - willing to change my mind - and that is the beauty of life, isn't it: as the old Traffic song asked, "Who Knows What Tomorrow Will Bring?"
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Trying this path ... again
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Posted:Feb 14, 2018 5:50 pm
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2020 1:18 pm
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Twenty ago, I attempted to walk down this road. It was not truly done for the right reasons: I had a horrible cis female break-up and was ... perhaps ... too eager to get back in action.
Still, I met a wonderful t-gurl who I hit it off with. She was well-dressed (make-up, perfume, garter belt, stockings and black patent pumps) and we did a lot of kissing ... plus more. And that is where we should have left it, that the first time.
Alas, we tried to go much farther ... which did not work out. And it unnerved me, causing me to walk-away from something very nice, a case of mind-over-matter. It certainly was not her fault, which I regret.
This time, I want to be more careful. Admittedly, I am in a much different part of my life, and have much less trepidation on my part. With any luck, this time will be different.
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