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Note to self
Posted:Jul 7, 2013 2:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2013 7:56 pm
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So I met a very nice younger man today. Handsome, educated, moderately hung but a great kisser!!! It started well as the kissing almost sent me over the edge all by itself. Then the real issues occurred that sent it down hill. He was 6ft 8in and I am 5ft 2in. He couldn't seem to compensate for the size difference. It frustrated him and the fun ended.

I have decided that in the future I need to stay with meeting people under 6 ft. It seems to work out better for me.

I don't know if other super tall guys have issues with short girls or if they have learned the tricks. I sure wish this guy could have seen it through. He was hot!!!
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Moving on
Posted:Jun 30, 2013 9:25 am
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2013 6:34 am
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So my sanity may be at stake from lack of great sex. For the last few weeks the hubby just hasn't done the job. Maybe it's the heat. Maybe it's something else. I haven't had any extra playtime for a long time. I feel a little on edge wanting that extra stretch and ache of a hard man with stamina. I'm thinking it's time to find someone new.

I've become a little plump over the winter so it may be harder to find someone. If I'm lucky I'll find someone that likes a little cushion for the pushin. If not I'm working on taking it off. I'll get there. It's just a fine line to walk. Eat to fill the void or not eat to get the void filled.
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Sadness
Posted:Nov 17, 2012 11:41 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2013 6:58 pm
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My play partner of a year and a half was transferred to another location for his job. It has left me with a deep sadness that is hard to get over. Although he calls and emails it's not the same. I miss his smile, the way he talks about his family and his job and the amazing sex. He has endearing qualities that makes being with him special.

Although I can't say that I'm in love with him I can say that I love him as a friend and a lover. I never expected to find someone that I would become connected to when I started to explore. Detachment and a somewhat practical attitude about sex is necessary to play around when married. I think he broke down my barriers when he told me about his father. He worships his father and talks about him with a twinkle in his eyes. I'm a sucker for a man that loves his parents.

So here I sit lamenting over my loss. A sad depression taking over going hand in hand with a cold miserable winter.

It makes me wonder if it's time to hang it up. To just be happy with the sex I get at home. I'm not unhappy at home just not totally satisfied.

I don't know if it's worth this type of sadness.
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Rant Rant Rant
Posted:Oct 14, 2012 10:52 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2013 3:59 pm
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So I'm in the mood to go crazy!!!!

I've blogged about this issue before but I'm going to do it again.

Men Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pay attention.

This site is flooded with men looking for that "hot" chick but they themselves are just Mr average. Nothing wrong with Mr average just be realistic about your expectations.

But here is the advice I would give in your search, maximize your own potential!!!! It will get you farther in your quest.

Facials, manicures and pedicures are not just for women. It shows that you take care of yourself. Hair is just as important on men as on women. A great cut and a dye job as needed goes a long way to making you look sharp. Bald is not a hair style!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is the anti hair style. Unless nature has chosen it for you avoid at all costs. Nothing is sexier than to have hair to hold onto!!!!!! Get the drift?

Beauty products are not just for women. Lotion, lotion, lotion!!!
I want hands on my body that caress not tear at my skin!

Do yourself a favor and head for the nearest day spa that takes men. You will feel like a million bucks and look years younger. When you feel good about yourself you exude sexiness and your hotness factor goes up significantly.You'll have that needed edge to succeed.

Rant over.
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Crazy
Posted:Sep 30, 2012 11:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2012 3:59 pm
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Can a woman go crazy from lack of kink?

I've been wondering if this is a possibility lately. Maybe I am becoming desensitized by straight forward sex. I find myself craving more. I absolutely want multiple men. The variety is a turn on. The possibilities are endless. One isn't enough anymore.

I wonder if other women feel this way?
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Demands for Pictures
Posted:Jul 29, 2012 5:16 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2013 6:23 am
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I am a little ticked off today and want to vent. I know I will have people with many different points of view probably upset with me but here it goes.

I'm tired of the continuous requests for pictures. I am married and I will not send out pictures to random people. I prefer to exchange emails and see if there is serious interest. Then if we think this might work a quick cup of coffee with no expectations works well. In my experience most of the pictures sent to me have been from the "glory" days anyway. I do not request pics but if they are voluntarily sent to me that's fine. That doesn't mean I am under obligation to reciprocate.

I had a man on here write to me expressing interest. He had body pics on his profile but not face pics. He also stated in his profile that he does not send out pics because of his occupation. I was fine with that. So I wrote him back. I also explained to him that I too do not send out pics. He wrote back that unless I sent him a picture immediately that he wanted no further contact with me. Needless to say, I was totally fine with no further contact. I blocked the jerk.

Comments?
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Kiss Me!!
Posted:Jul 18, 2012 9:25 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2017 10:42 pm
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Slow warm deep kisses.....The type that makes your heart race and your blood leave your brain. Weak knees and light headed.... Orgasmic all on their own.

I've only had two great kissers in my life and they were long ago. I'm craving that kiss in a bad way.

I know I'm not alone in my appreciation of great kissers. Why aren't there more of them?
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Full Disclosure
Posted:Jun 20, 2012 6:10 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2013 5:37 pm
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I want to pose a few questions that I have been mulling over. Please share your thoughts.

How much of your past sexual history should you share with a potential partner?

Should you disclose all or just part?

If asked direct questions and you fear a truthful response will be a deal breaker are you still truthful?

How often do you feel a hook up has been less than honest?

Is a lie of omission still a lie?

I exchanged emails with a gentleman and it seemed to be going very well. When asked about my past sexual experiences I was extremely honest and shared all. He freaked out and went as far as closing his email account. The "Mailer Daemon" notified me of this when I emailed to ask if everything was ok because I had not heard back from him. A simple "I'm no longer interested" would have sufficed. I am not a stalker and I wouldn't have bothered him further. No means no in the swing world.

I'm not sure exactly what part of my past upset him. I am supposing it is my enjoyment of bisexual men. Some straight men consider a woman "tainted" if she loves bi men. Maybe it was something else. I've been naughty but anyone looking for a hookup has been naughty to some degree.

So I am rethinking the sharing of past history issue. I've always thought that honesty was the way to go because that is what I would want. But maybe just sharing extreme basics is enough. Not lying exactly but not the full truth.

Thoughts?
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Pet Peeve
Posted:May 21, 2012 8:55 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2013 5:38 pm
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I know this is a sex site but it is also a fantasy site. When I look at a man's profile I do not want to see some other woman's pussy staring back at me. Really?????

I want to see your body and imagine how you would feel against me. Not see some old cum shot of yours in some gaping hole!!!!

I'm not naive and I know your dick has been many places but I don't want to see them.

Part of the fantasy is finding that smart sexy discerning man that wants to play with me. When I think I'm just one of the hundreds or thousands and there are pics to prove it, it turns me off.

Please rethink your photos!!!!!!
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A moment of peace
Posted:May 13, 2012 9:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 11:41 pm
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After a wonderful threesome with two beautiful men I had a moment. A moment of clarity.

Lying spent with a man on each side of me I realized that this felt normal. There was nothing kinky about it. It felt natural and peaceful. Snuggled between the two of them, warmed by their body heat, I was happy.
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Erotic fantasy
Posted:May 5, 2012 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 2:56 pm
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His laughter rang out loud and rich. That alone was enough to start that ache. But what did me in was the genuine sparkle in his eyes as he looked at me. The mischievous light that was his tell. It let me know he wanted me just as much as I wanted him.

It pushed all my naughty buttons and I decided to be crazy. Right here in this shopping mall I was going to fuck him. I wasn't waiting for later it was going to be now. I fucking couldn't wait to rip his clothes off and get him inside of me. Just thinking about it was making me lose my grip on reality.

I quickly looked around for a likely spot. A large department store was just across from the food court. I started thinking "we've never done it in a dressing room". I slid my hand into his back pocket and gave his ass a hard squeeze. "I want to watch you try on pants" I said, throwing in a little eyebrow wiggle. At first he seemed a little confused but with another wiggle of the eyebrows and a tug on his pants he seemed to catch my drift. I grabbed his hand and we quickly walked into the department store. We made a cursory show of picking out several pairs of pants for him and then headed to the dressing rooms. Luckily for us no one was around. We ran into a dressing room and closed the door.

I grabbed the front of his pants and damn near torn them off of him. Our barely stifled laughter was going to be our undoing. We kissed frantically as we both worked at removing my pants. He sat down on the little bench and gave me a devilish smile. It was his turn to give me the eyebrow wiggle. He was rock ready. This was going to be fast and hard.

I turned with my ass facing him reached for his cock and guided it into my wet pussy. He grabbed my hips to steady me. My hands on each of the walls I started to fuck him. God he felt good!! I closed my eyes and just felt him go in and out. The long deep thrust. The way he filled me. That erotic heat that made my whole body tingle. I could feel myself getting a little light headed. No blood left for my brain.....

He grabbed me tight and stood up. "Put you hands on the wall and bend over" he whispered. I quickly complied and was rewarded with a balls deep power fuck. I came hard. Contracting and milking his cock for what seemed like ages. He pushed in deep and I felt him release into me. My favorite feeling in the world.

It took another couple of minutes before I was coherent enough to get dressed. Damn that was good. When we looked presentable he looked out the dressing room door to see if the coast was clear. It wasn't, there was a salesman putting away clothes that had been left in the other dressing rooms. He looked up and looked my man right in the eye and said "It sounded like the two of you had a great time but you had better leave before my manager makes her rounds". He then smiled and started to laugh.

We grabbed each others hand and high tailed it out of the store and out of the mall. Jumping into the car and closing the doors behind us we both froze and just looked at each other. Almost simultaneously we erupted into laughter. "Fuck that was hot" he said "let's go home and fuck some more". "Drive fast" I said and gave him my best eyebrow wiggle.
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