2016 Post Mortem
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Posted:Dec 30, 2016 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2016 11:25 am
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Well, folks, this is it.
"the year that killed the celebrities" is coming to an end... a little more than 24 hours to go before our planet made another complete revolution around the sun. Let's celebrate!
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Wait...
There is still time, right, time for some introspection, for someone to, let's say, think out loud. To think about all that happened in 2016 and to make sense of it all
Not internationally, this would take a week by itself. But I think I should write about my year, about how I saw it.
Because you see, to me, this year was filled with accomplishments. My friends, I come from far, far away. That bottom of the barrel was DEEP. Woah...
But now, I see 2017 as the light at the end of the tunnel, I finally breathe some air in 2016. So now, I can finish the best and start with the good.
First, there's the "no more depressive" part. That feels good. It took some help, some people to talk to. It also took people who had it a lost worst than me to realize that I was gonna make it. And now... it's not perfect, but it's about 85% perfect, so it's more than tolerable.
Then, there's the job part. After 2 years, I was hired. Oh, not to do something really difficult... but the realization that you can be wanted and that people are glad that you work for them... boy, this feels good.
Let's follow this with the internship. Those who know me learned that I went back to school. and I finished. And there is hope for me because I am good at what I do. And in 2017, the internship will become a job. A well paid job. but 2016 gave me that confidence. I am back on my feet.
And since we,re on Local Sexy Swingers and that we that it is a dating site of some sort... well, TO THE DATING PART, GENG! Yup... no dates in 2013... no dates in 2014 or in 2015... 2016 gave me 4. None of them worked, but at least something happened. I put my head ot there and didn't come empty handed. My wrist wasn't my best friend anymore. That feels nice too, especially for someone who was in a 5 years relationship with a nymphomaniac and went from a 2 times a day everyday it's too much i'm getting ripped because of sex, to a 5 years solo adventure...
So yeah, 2016 killed people we loved and love. But 2016 gave people stuff too. To me, it was a lot better than 2014 or 2015.
2016 was a year of small wins. In 2017, the Mongolian Warlord is going for the big prize.
Time for me to ride into the sunset.
To each and everyone of the people who will read, a very happy 2017. And if you,re down. trust me, there is always hope.
Always.
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Ask Geng - First Question - Is cybering cheating?
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Posted:Sep 17, 2014 8:22 pm
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2014 10:01 pm
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Hey there.
First of all, I would like everyone to thank everyone who came to me telling me to keep it up, and to suggest me some topics for this week's article. There were a WHOOPING 2 topics I got, and I think that all 2 of them deserves my attention. So, I will do one right now, the first one I got... and then, I will keep the second one for a week nobody will have any idea. Good? I think it's pretty good myself. I filled with good ideas... hum... yeah....
Anyway...
I got asked to do that first about cyber. But hey, I won't cyber with myself just to show off and turn you on. No! I will answer a question that has been asked to me, and my many years of experience on Local Sexy Swingers. Does that mean I have any expertise? Nah... it means I've got an opinion and can back it up with my own experience.
So, the question is... Is cybering (the act of have cybersex) considered cheating?
Well, my friends, that is a rather difficult question to answer. Why? Because everyone has a different definition of cheating. For some who are in open relationships (i'm looking at you, Gwynneth Paltrow!), cheating is...well, I don't know, I'm pretty just by then cheating doesn't exist...spending christmas with his family instead of your own, maybe? For other, more... possessive? (yeah, let's go with possessive), Telling a fine looking wench or gentleman he/she is pretty is considered cheating. Different definition? Yup. Altering my future answer? Not...at...all.
You see, people, the way I see this website, and how I always seen it, is that we're a bunch of avatars. I could very well be a 5'2'' ginger with only one arm and skin cancer (I am not, but I could). But Genghiskhan1985 is 6'00', chesnut air, blue yeah and perfectly healthy (well right now I have a headache, but that doesn't really count). You, oohhhh great ready, could really say you are a woman, but in fact, could only be expressing your inner feminity. You can post your real pic, or you can fake pic Alektra Blue, Misty Stone or any pornstar guy (not my domain of expertise). In the end, who cares? Your avatar only exists in here. Lets just say that lying makes it difficult for an everyday meeting, but some people really don't want to meet that much.
The next question is: do you have fantasies? I mean, close your eyes, and imagine who you wanna have sex with? Is it your husband? your wife? Jennifer Garner? Philly Fanatic? I don't care... it is want you want it to be, and it is in your imagination. You're free to think about me if you want to, even if I don't know you at all, without telling me. Anyway, even if I did not want you to, I couldn't. Fantasies are fantasies, and that's it. No need to go any further.
Some people can't do their fantasies... for multiple reasons... some are too shy, some are with in jealous relationships, others just don't have the guts or aren't ready yet. There are multiple reason. One of my fantasies is to join the Mile High Club. I'm just not willing to get kicked out of the plane, fined and be unable to travel if i'm being cought. Sooo... cyber allows me to express that fantasy in a way I can express myself, going around the problem. And it doesn't hurt anyone. It doesn't mean it impacts my real, everyday, life.
It's logic, no? I think it is... So why should it be different for someone who's in a relationship? Some people write short stories about their fantasies, some even makes best sellers out of it (I'M LOOKING AT YOU, SHADES OF GREY!). I just don't see the difference between writing short stories and writing a story with someone else.
So, in the end, you've got an avatar, an Internet persona who might not really exist and that is not exactly the same here than in real life, That avatar decides to expression its fantasy on a website and/or somewhere else. It the expression of refrained pulsions, coming to life with words. I don't see what would be considered cheating in that. Wanna do it with the hubby/the wife? sext him/her, But that a real life thing.
Here, it's virtual. And long as flesh doesn't touche another flesh. Those are virtual words, in a virtual world. To me, this doesn't exist out of here. If I want it to exist in real life, I take the next step. I don't keep in virtual.
But hey, that's just me. If you finding me putting my manhood inside my computer, yes, I'm having a problem... but until then. This is just fantasy land. You can't be accused of cheating in your head... you shouldn't be held accountable for what happens here, if it stays here.
So there's that. I'm gonna go for now, riding my mongolian steed in the sunset. But I will be back... As I said, i've got an opinion on everything. Feel free to comment. I may not agree with you, or I may. the important is that every opinion can be shared... as long as people don't throw wrenches at each other. That would be sad...
Until the next time, be good (or don't, i'm not your boss)
-Geng-
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Incumming! (see what I did there?)
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Posted:Sep 13, 2014 12:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2014 1:11 pm
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So.... I appears that after 6 ... 7... 8 (hey, don't judge me, I don't remember, it's been a while) years on Local Sexy Swingers, I've settled for a blog. Why now? I have no idea... but it sounds cool to be able to say whatever I want, whenever I want. Plus, opinions need to be shared with the world!!
So, next step... what in the world am I going to talk about? Because, I'm clueless (some readers I know will say it has not been the first time, so to them, I say shush.... ). I could just write about, yanno... my life, or some boring stuff, things I read, movies, books, fine cuisine... but yeah, I don't think that what interest you.
Sooooo... What are you interest in, anyway? I mean, it is Local Sexy Swingers, and we're a bunch of open-minded people. So I think your topics are just as good as mine, quite frankly. So here is what I'll do.
I am going to give you, my friends (and I insist, you need to be my friend, or to the least I need to know you from the Chatrooms, IM... and not just a simple hello!) the opportunity to have me write about what you want to read. You can go from serious, you can go from straight-up crazy (trust me, I can be straight up crazy). One limitation. I don't do disgusting or plain weird. And I am the judge of what's weird and what's not. Anyway, if you can suggest me topics, you are my friend. and if you are my friend, you know who I am and what I do.
So, I already have a frist topic, thanks to a chatroom friend. I'm gonna go with that during the week. I just wanted to open this. Not really with a bang, but to have people know that hey, well, I exist! I'm here, and i am going to write for you, you lucky bastards.
I'll catch you later. Until then, Be good (or not, i'm not your boss)
The french Viking, Genghiskhan1985
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