EVERYONE ALWAYS REFERS TO SOMEONE AS TO HAVING "IT". AS I HAVE SEEN THROUGHOUT MY LIFE AND EXPERIENCES DIFFERENT PEOPLE LOOK FOR DIFFERENT ITS. SOME SEEK THE HARD BODIES, i.e. BARBIE'S AND KENS. SOME SEEK INTELLECTUAL STIMULATION. AND THERE ARE THOSE WHO JUST HAVE THE ULTIMATE FANTASY DESIRES OF THE UNKNOWN BDSM TYPE. I AM SURE THERE ARE MANY MORE BUT THESE SEEM MOST PREVALENT.
WHAT I DON'T GET IS WHY PEOPLE CONFUSE THEMSELVES THINKING FANTASY IS LOVE. THERE NEEDS TO BE LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP, IT IS THE FOUNDATION BUT NOT EVERYTHING. ON THE REVERSE TIP DON'T THINK GREAT SEX IS EITHER. EVEN GREAT SEX BECOMES MUNDANE IF ITS NOT VENTURED DOWN OTHER AVENUES.THIS IS JUST A START BUT KNOW THERE IS ALOT MORE TO COME THESE THOUGHTS AND OTHERS FEEL FREE TO ADD YOUR THOUGHTS.
Ok let me first say that I firmly agree with making your own choices to have fun doing hat ever it is that you want. Now that being said it needs followed by the statement that it should not harm others. Take in consideration of what repercussions your acctions could have on others. Recently I was at a pay to enter party where a persons apartment clubhouse had been rented. There were some actions of people that very well could have gotten this pesrron who rented the place evicted for violation of rental agreement both of the the clubhouse and the ccomplex itself. People need to be more aware of their actions. Dont do unsavory things that regular society are going to shun and rise up against. Like sex in open public not under cover where anyone let alone a can come upon you. or at a meet n greet in public common areas. Smoking pot (again let me say itsyour choice do it ) don't do it around where others are affected by it or could be . do it in your car. ok off my soap box HAVE A NICE DAY
As I ask my friends,I get superficial answers and truly can't say they were even honest as I have watched them go against some things they have said. So I pose this question to you. What is your most desired trait in a man?