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I am beginning to wonder if the art of anal sex is lost. Recently, I had an interesting encounter, where my partner was rather rough anally, even after I advised him that it had been almost 2 years since I had anal sex. I am happy my neighbors weren't home (or they pretended not to be), because I was screaming like a little girl  I miss the days when I was first introduced to anal, the care and attention I received, the reassurance and relaxation techniques given to allow me to enjoy it fully. That guy was 9" on a bad day, and I learned to take every inch. I always laugh when I think of New Years Eve 2000/2001 - He was fucking my ass so good, I was begging for more and he told me that there wasn't any more to give me... The time before the last time ended miserably because my ex failed to understand that my ass and pussy are 2 entirely different holes  amp; you can't treat them the same way. What are your thoughts on anal sex, and to the guys, what DO you do to get your partner to relax? |
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a DP of a different kind
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Posted:Jun 22, 2009 12:53 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2012 10:34 am
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So, yesterday, I spent almost the entire day in bed on a play date instead of packing. THANK YOU!!!!! I misjudged what time he was to arrive, and was still in the shower when he called and told me he was outside parking... For the first time ever, I answered my door, dripping wet, wearing only a towel.
One of the things he did to me was a fingering DP. I still don't know how he managed to do this, but he had his hand turned so that his index and middle fingers were in my ass, the ring finger and pinky were in my pussy, and his tongue on my clit. FABULOUS!! I think I lost my mind for a moment. I don't know how else to put it. I can say that we had to take a nap afterwards. I have never experienced that, and it makes me crave the real DP even more. And, I have found the 3rd party for that to happen.
I know both of you are reading this, wondering who the other is. When I get back from vacation/surgery, we all will meet for dinner and drinks...I am wet with desire for both of you, see you in July!
Luoxana
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I hate packing, but the trips down memory lane are funny as hell...
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Posted:Jun 20, 2009 11:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2013 9:41 pm
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I was supposed to spend the day with a family member, but those plans fell through. I SHOULD be packing my apartment up, I am moving in with a friend at the end of the month, but I am having surgery on the 25th, so I have to get everything packed/cleaned now to make the actual move quick and stress free.
I have been in this apartment for a year, and I have accumulated way too much shit. I am a pack rat (hmmm, funny, my Chinese zodiac is a rat), and I hate throwing things away. I love going through boxes of old stuff and seeing where I was in life at that time.
Right before I started grad school, I found an old diary from when I was in undergrad. It documented the escapades of my wild unadulterated 18-20 year old life. I just read it again, and I had to go back and update my purity profile 
There was a guy on the football team that I met at a party. He and I walked back to his dorm, but first broke into the stadium and had sex in the stands, apparently on row 30 in the southern endzone. That particular night was the first time I had a threesome, and it was with my first white guy. They had bunkbeds, and "P" and I were in the bottom bunk when "A" walked in all excited about getting into a fight at a local bar. He saw us, and excused himself to go take a shower. I was really freaked out, so we stopped having sex and went into their living room to watch tv. A was taking a while in the shower, so we figured that he was going to stay in someone else's room. P and I were on the floor doggie style when A walked back in wearing nothing but a towel.
He walked over to us, P introduced us, A dropped down on his knees, cupped my face and told me I was beautiful. He kissed me. I melted. Then I had his dick in my mouth. I was 18. I had never done that before in my life. Over the next 2 hours, they took turns fucking me and feeding me. P ended up going to sleep first, and A and I enjoyed each other for a bit longer.
A left school the next semester, P and I continued seeing each other until he graduated my junior year. He and I participated in many threesomes during my time there...I wonder where both of them are, I really would like to thank them for starting the ball running on my freaky ways..........
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wondering....
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Posted:Jun 18, 2009 2:33 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2010 12:04 pm
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So, I was having a conversation with one of my rather prudish friends about anal sex. She is totally grossed out at the thought, you know "my ass is exit only; that is nasty; that is gay sex, how can you as a female do that; etc." I had to dive deep and look at why I like it so much.
Looking back, the very first time I did it, it was my 3rd time ever having sex...hurt like hell, and because I didn't have any clue that it was even going to happen, I was not "prepared." I didn't try it again until I was 22. That guy got me high, so I was relaxed (thank goodness), and it was a better experience. He played with my clit the whole time, so I was able to enjoy all of the sensory overload 
The 4th experience (trust me, the 3rd guy who attempted was a waste of time, I will not bore you with that story) was with the guy who turned me out with anal. He and I dated for almost 2 years, and it took about 6 weeks before I even let him fuck me there. After that point, I began to crave it...he would rub my back and ass with baby oil while fucking me. I craved his touch, his tongue, his calm and soothing voice while he was in my ass.
After we broke up, I hooked up with a co-worker who was in a vanilla relationship. He happened to come over when I was watching porn, and this particular one had a scene with anal. He was intrigued, I told him that I was game if he was...the next week, we made it happen. The weird thing was that he began to ONLY want anal when we got together...I was happy that I found someone who was into it, but he took it to another level. It also helped that he was...below average in size, so we could do it quite often.
That relationship lasted a few months until he and his family moved to a new city. I had 2 vibrators, a soft one, and a hard one, and I began fucking myself with them to pass time...that began the infatuation with double penetration (but I will get into that at a later date). The bad thing about using the vibrator is that mine were not penis shaped, and I lost the "feel" for the head. I think that was the issue with my most recent encounter. [take a look at my blog homepage, I go into that story there]
There have been more, but they were not all that spectacular either. But through all the good and the bad, I still want it. I love the taboo behind it.
So, if you love anal, I am wondering what your story is...
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forgot one thing
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Posted:Jun 16, 2009 8:59 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2011 6:57 am
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For the record, I love anal! However, my favorite way to relax is to get my clit licked while having my ass slowly fingered - start with one finger, gradually adding more. Once I cum (and recover), my body is more relaxed, and I am eager to receive. My favorite appetizer to anal, however, is a 69...don't know what it is about my ass being up in the air, my pussy being eaten and a stiff dick in my mouth.
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