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I am beginning to wonder if the art of anal sex is lost. Recently, I had an interesting encounter, where my partner was rather rough anally, even after I advised him that it had been almost 2 years since I had anal sex. I am happy my neighbors weren't home (or they pretended not to be), because I was screaming like a little girl  I miss the days when I was first introduced to anal, the care and attention I received, the reassurance and relaxation techniques given to allow me to enjoy it fully. That guy was 9" on a bad day, and I learned to take every inch. I always laugh when I think of New Years Eve 2000/2001 - He was fucking my ass so good, I was begging for more and he told me that there wasn't any more to give me... The time before the last time ended miserably because my ex failed to understand that my ass and pussy are 2 entirely different holes  amp; you can't treat them the same way. What are your thoughts on anal sex, and to the guys, what DO you do to get your partner to relax? |
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Posted:Dec 24, 2014 9:30 pm
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I know its been way too long since I posted, but honestly, I really haven't had much to talk about. Life has been mundane until the last 2 weeks.
I will be moving from Orlando to St Petersburg the 1st weekend of January. I have accepted (FINALLY) a position as a doctor in my field. I'm so very excited about the newness of it all. I've been looking forward to moving back to the beach since I moved here in 2011. I can honestly say that I am sick of this place. This last year has taken its toll. But, now that I have broken thru the glass ceiling of silliness in my life, there is only "up."
I look forward to my new life, a new year and falling in love with myself all over again.
Kisses, Luox
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Posted:Mar 29, 2014 6:20 pm
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Ok. I'm on cloud 52 right now. Today was one of those days where things started rough and ended on a high note. Today was one of those days where a person has a breakthrough and I am experiencing mine. I can't stop smiling. I don't want to stop. I've broken through a glass ceiling with my career, all of the pain and heartache to get to this point doesn't matter anymore. My attitude is a direct correlation of my success. Professional and personal shifts. I've been blessed. I'll continue to be blessed. I smile and bask in His mercy, blessings & favor.
Kisses, L
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I just love the block feature
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Posted:Mar 14, 2014 4:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2015 10:48 am
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Over the years, I have had to block a few folk. I don't do it often, but when I do, it is such a relief. Recently, I had to reblock someone who had moved, apparently got a new computer and created a new profile. He took horribly bad advantage of me during the time that my mom passed away. I do appreciate the fact that he let me know exactly who he was under this new screen name. It made it rather easy to tell him to never contact me ever again, and ban him & his IP address.
On the plus side, I will be working in my career within the next 6 weeks.
Have a great weekend!
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Reflections...feel free to skip
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Posted:Feb 8, 2014 6:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2014 7:13 am
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Today, I attended the funeral of one of my cousins back in my home town. She was 57, way too young. She had many struggles in her life, but for the last 10 or so years, she cleaned up her act, reconnected with her , found an amazing man and got married. The last time I got to see her was last summer at our family reunion in Miami. She always had a smile that would cheer the saddest heart. Her has that same smile...
Speaking of her , 2 years ago she told me that when she was a , she looked up to me because I never treated her like she was in the way. I always played with her and she appreciated me. Today, it hit me that her mom who was 16 years older than me, treated me the same way when I was little. Its funny how things come full circle. I got to talk to my younger cousin's husband at the burial. They just got married last spring, so for him to lose his mother-in-law so soon has been rough. Come to find out, he lost his mother to the same type of cancer 3 years back. As he fought back tears, I hugged him and told him that the pain will be there, but it gets easier to deal with as time goes on. I also told him that my cousin needs him to help her grieve.
I took my leave from him and walked across the cemetery to my own mother's grave. Someone had placed a very pretty silk flower arrangement probably a month ago. The colors were still vibrant, but you could tell that rain had taken its toll. The same type of arrangement was on my grandmother's grave next to my mom's. I smiled & blew them kisses and left. It didn't hit me until my aunts & I were on our way home that this month is the 4th anniversary of my mother's death.
I miss her dearly. Ironic thing is if my dad was still living, he would have turned 77 this month - his birthday was the day before my mom's death. Valentine's Day is this month, ugh, no one to snuggle with. There are days I want to run away, but I have so much going on. I have to look past myself in the present and focus on my future.
OK, I'm done. You all have a great month! I promise I will be back to my cheerful self in a few weeks!
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Happy New Year
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Posted:Jan 1, 2014 8:39 pm
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2015 10:48 am
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Well 2014 started off with some changes. I'm single again - no, I'm not changing my status on my profile, keeps some of the riff raff away. Anyway, I need to refocus on my career and my health. Also, I must focus on my peace of mind. I have had some major hurdles removed as far as getting my license to practice. I am looking forward to what this year has to offer. I don't know if I will be doing any "meeting" from off this site, maybe I will change my mind, but for now, it is time for me to go into "Diva Princess Doctor" mode. I have to put myself first now.
Dr Luox
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Posted:Dec 17, 2013 6:34 am
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It is always a blessing to wake up each morning, but to do so on the day you officially turn a year older is always special. Each day, I am reminded of how precious life is. I recently had a high school classmate pass away, and my heart goes out to her family. I hope all of you enjoy this holiday season, and please love yourselves and your families.
Kisses!
Luox
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Missing my honey...
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Posted:Dec 8, 2013 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2013 6:28 am
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So my boyfriend is a semi driver, and is on his way to Dallas for the 3rd time since the Saturday after Thanksgiving. I'm grateful he is a hard working man, but I am so not a fan of this schedule. Yesterday, he was literally in town for 9 hours, and because of some other commitments, I saw him when I picked him up from the depot, he drove me to my meeting, then went to my place and went to sleep. I got home, let him sleep until it was time for me to drive him back to work. He will be back Tuesday night or early Wednesday morning. He may get attacked in his truck...no, he will get attacked by me. I'm freaking horny. The last time I got any was the day before Thanksgiving. I told him that he has to buy me a vibrator for my birthday.
That's all.
Happy Holidays!!
Luox
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Officially have myself a man!!
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Posted:Oct 10, 2013 10:50 pm
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2015 10:48 am
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Yeah, it happened. Last night, we had the "talk" about my, umm, activities. It is went rather well. He is not a swinger, but understands that his lady can be a bit of a freaky slut. We didn't have my computer last night to share some of the photos I have shared over the years with you all. Some things are worth seeing in full size, and not on a phone.
I will say that I am not leaving the site, at least not for now. I have made some amazing friends over my years, and I will keep in touch. I just want to give you all fair warning that my stories will be littered with love.
Hugs to you all,
L
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Seasons change
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Posted:Oct 1, 2013 1:42 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2013 9:39 pm
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It seems the last week has thrown me for a loop, in a positive way. I had lunch this past Friday with an old boyfriend from high school. He has been trying to get me to have lunch with him for at least the past year (he lives near). For whatever reason, I hadn't given in until now. From Saturday to now, we have spent a total of 7.5 hours on the phone and from Sept 15th to now, 252 text messages back and forth (he drives a semi cross country). I honestly didn't see this coming. I still don't know what to make of it all. But like I mentioned in my last post, there are "people who have taken a vested interest in your life, care about what happens to you, ones who not only feel your joys but pains too. These same people, you hold as deeply in your heart because they actually matter." He is yet another of "those people" and I am honored and humbled to reconnect with him.
I will keep you posted, and yes, I'm still smiling 
L
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Smiling, deeply, for the first time in a while
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Posted:Sep 11, 2013 10:13 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2020 10:22 am
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It is great to have friends, real friends, not associates, not folk you are friendly with, but real friends. Folk you know, and who know you. People who have taken a vested interest in your life, care about what happens to you, ones who not only feel your joys but pains too. These same people, you hold as deeply in your heart because they actually matter. I have made a few of these friends along my days here on this site.
Yesterday, one of those friendships was rekindled. It was a Divine intervention, and I know that there are people out there who don't or won't believe in such a notion, but I do. If you want to call it karma, luck or fate, so be it. Either way, I had a friend return and that act was special to me. I hold his friendship in the highest regard. I am happy, really happy tonight.
Its funny, the last time he and I spoke was August 2010. One of the first things I said in our 1st phone call was that I seriously thought I would never hear his voice again. He told me that he always knew that one day we would talk again. We filled each other in on the last 3 years of our separate lives. I'm looking forward to talking to him more, but I am really looking forward to touching him and being touched by him once again. He was a favorite, and apparently I was a favorite of his too. I just got done revisiting some of the blogs that I have written about my dear friend, and I am anxious, in a good way.
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Now, I have been lax in writing about some of my escapades. I can honestly say that 2013 has not been a stellar sexual year for me. I have had a few bright points, most recently someone I have known for a little over a year, but this was our first time together. I have to say Puerto Rican men rock. He was such a gentleman. I was having a bad day (got stood up) and he invited me over to his home. We had previously planned to meet during the week, so he already had my favorite wine waiting. We chatted, laughed, and he asked me if I wanted to stay and play.
He kissed me with such passion. He held me in his arms as if I was the only person on earth who matters at that moment. I know that it had been a ridiculous amount of time since I had someone go down on me the way he did. I have a new found respect for stubble. He would lick me then run his chin lightly over my clit. I have no way to describe the sensation. It was intense, the difference between his tongue and the hair, but it was delicious. While switching positions, I was able to lick my cum from off of his chin. But his licking didn't stop there. We ended up in a 69...my first 69 this year. I tried to keep my mind clear and on task, but his tongue was skilled.
He was an awesome lover, attentive, ensuring that I came first. He got me up to 4 orgasms. I ended up in a giggly ball of sexual release. He caught me off guard when fucking me doggy. He reached around and rubbed my clit. This is not something new to do, but when you are not expecting that sensation when it happens, it is mind blowing. I thought he was going to reach around and grab a boob, or just me - which he did after he rubbed my clit. I enjoyed feeling like a woman with him. I loved the care and attention he gave me that night. He catered to me and my needs, desires & cravings. When I left his place, I was tingling, legs shaking, and completely satisfied. Now that I think of it, that experience with him started the deep smile within me. I can't figure out what "name" to give him. Maybe after the next time, I will think of something, and there will be a next time.
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Posted:Aug 15, 2013 7:24 pm
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2019 9:11 pm
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Ramblings, feel free to skip.
I have a profile on a couple of standard dating sites as well as what I have here and on a few kinkier sites. I have seen a few profiles of various men appear across the board. Case in point, one fellow has a profile on ALT looking for a woman to whom he can switch with (for all of you non-kinky folk, that means he sometimes wants to be dominant, other times submissive), has a profile on here looking for a woman he can swing with, and has a profile on Match looking for someone he can build a lifetime relationship with.
Seems easy enough to find someone to meet all three, although I am not a switch woman, the other 2 are right up my alley. Did I mention that he has hit me up on here and ALT a few times? So...when I reply to his profile on Match, and identify myself and my profiles here and on ALT, he disappears. He will not reply to me here, on ALT or on Match. But, looks at my profile at least once weekly. What the fuck is this all about? He is a Gold member here and on ALT, so you cannot say he cannot reply.
Guys, please give me some insight on this.
L
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Dodging monkey wrenches
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Posted:May 25, 2013 8:09 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 10:22 pm
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I have to laugh sometimes at the way life goes. This past month, I watched a close friend marry someone out of obligation instead of love. I also had to speak at another close friend's funeral - be funny yet respectful, and not bawl like a baby. Then on the same day, I got to celebrate the 80th birthday of a woman I wish was a blood relative, but she is married into the family, so that is just as good. Anyway, I just have to shake my head at the roller coaster my life can be and wonder what is coming around the bend. Lets keep our fingers crossed that it is a fantastic career opportunity with a fantastic salary to match!!
Totally unrelated - have you all seen the new Star Trek movie? I am loving the twists, puns, cheesy-ness, and of course the action. I have no complaints, they did a great job!
Luox
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