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I am beginning to wonder if the art of anal sex is lost. Recently, I had an interesting encounter, where my partner was rather rough anally, even after I advised him that it had been almost 2 years since I had anal sex. I am happy my neighbors weren't home (or they pretended not to be), because I was screaming like a little girl  I miss the days when I was first introduced to anal, the care and attention I received, the reassurance and relaxation techniques given to allow me to enjoy it fully. That guy was 9" on a bad day, and I learned to take every inch. I always laugh when I think of New Years Eve 2000/2001 - He was fucking my ass so good, I was begging for more and he told me that there wasn't any more to give me... The time before the last time ended miserably because my ex failed to understand that my ass and pussy are 2 entirely different holes  amp; you can't treat them the same way. What are your thoughts on anal sex, and to the guys, what DO you do to get your partner to relax? |
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Posted:Nov 23, 2010 5:50 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2010 5:33 pm
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So yesterday, I log on to get the following message from the Local Sexy Swingers team regarding the clingy guy I mentioned in my last blog and the other one from June:
Creating a great experience on Local Sexy Swingers is our primary concern!
Dear luoxana,
Recently, XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX interacted with you and we have deactivated his account because he violated our terms of use. We're sorry this happened on Local Sexy Swingers, and we're working hard to make sure it doesn't happen again.
Our anti-abuse team monitors our site constantly but sometimes a few bad apples escape their scrutiny. If you encounter a member who's behaving inappropriately, please let us know. We'll only send this notice once, but you can be sure that we're taking measures to proactively fight abuse around the clock.
We hope XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX's conduct doesn't deter you from meeting the other great members of Local Sexy Swingers. We're glad you're a member and thanks for your participation.
Sincerely,
The Local Sexy Swingers Team
I am just shaking my head at this one. So guys, if you harass us chicks, please know that the powers that be are watching. I will say that I looked over the recent mail that this guy and I had on here, and he didn't violate the TOS with me...
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Posted:Nov 19, 2010 4:14 pm
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2010 7:02 pm
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I had a visit from Mr Princess Treatment last Friday. He got the afternoon off of work and drove down and treated me to some Afternoon Delight!! I love spending lazy afternoons in bed with no time table. I tweaked my left hip riding him...been in pain until yesterday. But it was worth it 
I also got flirted with and hotlisted again by the clingy one I mentioned in You think people would learn. I know that I won't "go there" with him.
I do have an interview/breakfast date tomorrow morning with a new Dom...we will see how this is going to go. He listens to me - always a good start, and he appears to be respectful of my limitations, especially considering that this official Submissive lable is new to me.
Again, I will keep you updated!
Kisses,
L
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KINK is great, but can be hard to find...
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Posted:Nov 9, 2010 6:41 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2011 1:25 pm
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So, I do apologize for not posting lately. I joined ALT, and have been perving over there and a few other BDSM sites... LOL
I have to say that I am enjoying the conversation - when it is promising. I can't believe how many older guys are out there looking for submissives. Unfortunately, I am not into older guys. I have also had my shares of men who are Switch, meaning that they go back and forth between being dominant and submissive. Again, not something that I am into.
I had an unfortunate outing with a guy who used the safe word more than me - more like 15 to 3. I was like WTF halfway thru it, but even though it didn't turn out the way I planned, I did learn one important thing: if the guy has no clue how to spank, don't let him, especially if he has a thick leather belt. He was really good at verbal dominance, so it wasn't all bad.
Next, I thought I had found a Dom to take the reigns and train me to be a proper submissive...we met once, I was enamored, then the red flags started going off. One thing that I have learned from this site is that most married/attached men will never call you because the appear on the bill. However they will text the hell out out you. Then all communication stopped. I consulted my Dom friend from Canada and he suggested that I try one last bit of communication to see if he responded. That was counterproductive becasue then I got ignored completely. So, I sent him a final note a few days ago telling him that "silence is golden," and I wished him good luck in his searches.
So, I am still looking, got some interesting prospects on the horizon. I will keep you all advised.
Kisses
L
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Posted:Oct 9, 2010 8:31 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2010 7:27 pm
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The powers that be state that I must edit this post.....
So I just had a very interesting conversation with a friend...it appears that some bitch is using my screen name and has created herself an e on the y. So if any of you ever get an unsolicited e to your personal e account from someone claiming to be me, it isn't me! Just delete it! If you do look at the pics, you will notice the difference in fingernails and nipples!
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Relaxation...
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Posted:Sep 28, 2010 6:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2013 9:31 pm
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Mr. Princess Treatment (he absolutely is going to hate this name) struck again. I got scooped up last week and went with him on another one of his job excursions (yes, I played hookie from school). This time, I got to spend more than one night, and we took advantage of it ALL. Once we got to the hotel and checked out the beach view from our balcony, he pounced. I'm still having chills when I think about every way he had me twisted. As before, he fed me well, then he fucked me even better.
The last night we spent together, he literally fucked me to sleep. We had a rather long session, and on our 2nd "breather" I apparently rolled over and went to sleep. All I remember was that I was coming down off of Cloud 25, and I was having throbbing aftershocks from that SPOT that he had just hit - I was lying on my side, he was sandwiched between my legs and everytime he pumped deep, he hit IT! I lost my breath. I couldn't talk. My eyes rolled in the back of my head. I ended up trembling in ecstasy and pure bliss. Then I woke up and it was 7am.....
I do have to mention a funny moment, I was riding him, he was throwing it back, and I looked down at him and said "I HATE YOU!" Then I came again, and continued to cum over and over that night as he laughed at me.
He said that it will be a while for us to play again, his job has him going out of state for an extended period of time. I know that I feel so much better now, refreshed and rejuvenated! I think that I can face the world again!!
Kisses, L
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Submission...
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Posted:Sep 14, 2010 2:00 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2014 7:26 pm
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As I try to sit here and type this, my ass is still stinging from the spanking he gave me. THANK YOU SIR!
I know that I have mentioned before that I can be somewhat submissive in bed, tonight was the first time I fully gave myself to a Dom - a real Dom, with experience, not some average guy trying to be rough. He taught me so much in so little time. Most apparently was the need to have a safe word after he switched from his hand to his belt. Most importantly, the fact that in a Dom-Sub relationship, the limits are ultimately set by the Sub - who makes the decision as to whom to give him or herself to.
I am still a bit tingly from our early morning session, I can still feel his hands running up and down my back as he took me for his own. I hated to see him go, but I can't wait until the next time he allows me to push my own limits past the point of no return.
Humbly submitted,
Luoxana
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The age of pyschosis is drawing near...
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Posted:Jul 26, 2010 4:23 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2010 10:28 am
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Please forgive me for not posting lately. I've been trying to get my mom's estate stuff handled, and some major arguements with my family have been popping up like zits on a 14 year old. I have also been trying to study for the next batch of standardized tests coming up in the fall...so, I may or may not post much until after all of that crap is over. It depends on if I have some inspiration 
Lately, I haven't had much play time, but I've been trying to play smarter - with major quality - than to go for quantity. I have to give Kudos to my favorite "young" friend, who is really turning out to be a better lover than men twice his age. I also had a weird, funny, and enlightening overnight stay with my guy friend who I took to the Ranch back in May. I went over to his place a week and a half ago, and what was supposed to be a 2 hour visit turned into me spending the night after I finally gave him that blow job I threatened him with back then!! Oh, and we did it on cam at 3:30 in the morning and ended up with 69 watchers (seriously, I am NOT making that # up)..... I only got 1.5 hours of sleep, and somehow made it to school 10 minutes late the next morning.
Yeah, I don't "show" my face, but I was feeling rather frisky, and figured that I needed to "give" something back in return. Sorry if you missed it...and no, I still haven't purchased my own cam.
I do have a rant - come on now, you read the title of this posting...
The GI - notice I dropped the my and the favorite - found some morals, and ratted me out to the misses, then gave her access to his mail and his profile on here. I had to advise her to read his profile, blogs, blog postings, group postings, etc before pointing a finger at me. We are all adults here. I never force anyone to do something they don't want to do. Need I say anything else?
Kisses, Luoxana
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You think people would learn
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Posted:Jun 18, 2010 3:09 pm
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2010 7:11 pm
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I just had to explain to a guy why it is not good to catch feelings when meeting folk on Local Sexy Swingers. I think that anyone who has read my blogs understands that I am not a one-man woman. And for the record, if I do some traveling to meet someone out of the county, usually it is a 2-for-1 trip (going to meet my family, taking care of other business, etc). I need a pretty good reason to make a special trip just for some dick (or I�m really, really horny and having one of my slutty episodes).
Anyway, I should have seen the signs. We would talk on the phone at least 4-5 days out of the week, e-mails, chats, etc�BUT the conversation was usually about �who did you do last night.� We would talk about whenever I would make it up there to meet up with him, but it would have to be a trip when I needed to come that way. Actually, Monday, I had to drive past him, we had made plans to meet up and just have a quick bite to eat. He called and cancelled stating that he was having family issues, and he wanted to really spend time with me (didn�t want his hormones getting the best of him, knowing that I wasn�t going to be able to play). No problem on my accord, but I told him that we were friends, and I still wanted to meet in person whenever we got the chance.
Oh yeah, we hadn�t even met yet�..
So, he knew that I had an overnight date on Wednesday in Kissimmee with a friend who was staying at a resort for business � someone I have met before I guess he wanted to put me on a guilt trip. The following are our text messages that were started earlier Wednesday afternoon:
Him: I would like to be more than sloppy seconds. Nice to have met you, but I am a 1 woman man from now on.
Me: ??? You sleep around as much as I do, so we both would be giving the other sloppy 2nds. I don�t know where the miscommunication is, but I apologize of you thought that we were going to be in a relationship. Like I said the other day, you are my friend�hell, we haven�t even met in person.
Him: U will travel for everybody but not me. I am the last on the list of people to visit. I don�t want to be a convenient visit. That does not make me feel special. That�s all.
Me: left a voice mail stating something to the effect of what I stated earlier about me not traveling for much of anyone without having an ulterior motive for heading that way.
Him: It�s my own fault, sorry for wanting more.
Me: You should have said something before now.
Am I being mean? The fucked up thing is that I, most likely, would have made a just-for-him trip�once he got himself settled into his own place. He is going through a divorce and his ex-wife just hit him with $500/month on support as well. He is not prepared for anything but a �fuck thing� right now, and especially considering that he is staying with family that don�t approve of him �already� seeing other people. He told me a few weeks ago how his sister and mother ganged up on one girl asking all kinds of questions�I am not putting myself through that shit at all unless there is a ring on my finger.
Now, as for my trip to Kissimmee��I got the princess treatment, was spoiled rotten, fed extremely well and fucked royally  We played house until the early hours of the morning, and then after the wake up call, I got up and rode him like a (early morning wood is amazing). He left for his seminar, and I passed out again.
Oh yeah, kudos to my young friend for coming over last Friday night and cooking for me. The sex resulting from that was so fucking amazing�I told him that he knocked a few folks down a notch on my top 5 list. I want to find the woman who trained him and send her 3 dozen roses.
I have had a few other quickies this past week, and I want to thank all of you for taking the time to give me some excitement!
Until next time!
Luoxana
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We apparently need a public service announcement, or 4
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Posted:Jun 8, 2010 8:26 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2019 7:52 pm
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So, I'm trying to get HIM off my brain...I took a venture to the Ranch again on Friday night. Big mistake!! I should have stayed home and did laundry. I was bored beyond imagination for the first hour and a half, found the world's worst kisser, saw the world's smallest dick (I swear it was 2 inches including the head) and it seems that every man there did not understand that you need to cut your fingernails before getting anywhere near a woman's pussy.
Men:
PSA# 1: CUT YOUR DAMN FINGERNAILS AND LEARN HOW TO PROPERLY FINGER A PUSSY!!! Shit. Is it so much to ask?
PSA #2: If a woman hands you lube, use it, instead of spitting. I wanted to vomit when this dude spit on my pussy/ass.
I am a wet natured person. If I get dry, there is a problem. If I have to play with my pussy to make myself cum, you are not doing your damn job (or I am thoroughly grossed out).
PSA #3: If you know you have the world's smallest dick, don't show it in a room full of well hung men. I had to stop and look when I put my hand on it, and it immediately slipped off. I mean, really, WTF?
PSA#4: If you know you are going to a Swinger/Lifestyle event, please prepare yourself accordingly - and I can even heed my own advice (wasn't expecting the 9 inch dick guy to want anal...yeah, that didn't go over well...then he spit on my ass). On the other hand, realize that there are some "good pussy girls" out there (like me ) who will make you want to cum in 5 minutes...please jack off or something so you don't have to hop up after 2 minutes because you want to cum. The girl is left there wondering, contemplating, and making a damn grocery list in her head.
OK, my rant is over...until the next time!!
On a side note, SouthPark just showed their Canadian characters having sex. They actually showed penises for Terrance and Phillip. I don't know exactly what to think...my brain hurts.
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I finally got some of the pics from my 3some in February
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Posted:Jun 1, 2010 9:13 pm
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2019 10:57 pm
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Will be updating my profile pic...
Trying to crop out my face on some of them - since these are publicly seen...well you know the rest
I have enjoyed catching up with Mr Deltona...don't know what happened with the girlfriend, don't care...I have an invite to go over there again
I hope everyone had a wonderful Memorial Day weekend. Friday, I drove up to Augusta and met my favorite GI...WOW!! He delivered, over and over again. Yes, I broke one of my unbreakable rules by seeing him. It was worth it. We have plans for later in the year. I hope that we will have more than one night next time. I have to get him back for making me cum 3 times in the 1st 15 minutes...He doesn't play fair. His fingers are just as talented as his tongue. His ease and skill with anal.....Damn, I am getting wet thinking about it.
Promises he made: 1 - that I would sweat out my perm (check); 2 - that he was the length of a large Starbuck's Frappachino bottle (CHECK); & 3 - "I want you so pleased when you leave, that you cum thinking about our weekend...when you think of my dick and tongue, you have a moment of silence." Well, I hadn't even been separated from him for more than an hour before I had my first moment of silence...equipped with a wet spot and hot cheeks as I smiled and blushed while driving to my family's house for the rest of the weekend. CHECK-MATE!
I am captivated, yet my eyes are open and I realize that this is a limited situation. I'll enjoy this ride as long as I can.
Carpe dium, quam mimimum credula postero!!
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I have officially been advised that I am getting older.....
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Posted:May 24, 2010 8:53 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 5:26 pm
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I am annoyed. Sorry if I offend or disgust, but I needed to share:
Because of the texture of my hair and ease of getting in-grown hairs, I tend not to shave my pubic area (even though I have done it in the past). Because of the crazyness of my life these last few months, I have been somewhat negligent in trimming it. So, I was in the bathroom sitting on the side of the tub with my trimmer in hand, and mirror propped up, when I noticed it...a gray hair!! Upon further inspection, I found that the gray hair had a twin, then I saw that in reality, they were a growing collection.
WHAT THE FUCK???
Oh my goodness!! I can remember being at a swinger party some years ago and seeing a girl with some grays down there...I laughed at her  Thought it was funny...told myself that I'll be dammed if that happens to me. Well, the day has arrived. I stopped counting at 10. So, I grabbed the tweezers and tried to pull the fuckers out. Wouldn't you know...they are not as sturdy as other hairs and I ended up breaking more off than pulling them out.
Damn, Damn, DAMN!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!
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Just for DWB70
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Posted:May 10, 2010 7:15 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2019 7:55 pm
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Thanks for watching my blog!!! Here is your outlet regarding my initial question regarding anal. Oh, and your married situation is understandable. I will reply to that one more in that posting, but I have class in 15 minutes, so I have to shut this down.
The floor is yours sir!
And to everyone else, please respond if you want as well.
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Happy Mother's Day
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Posted:May 9, 2010 4:13 am
Last Updated:Jul 30, 2010 3:42 pm
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I hope you all love and cherish the mothers in your lives today. Today is my first one without my mom, or my grandmother. It is painful, but I do need to thank a friend for our 21 hours of bonding, and an interesting trip to the Ranch in Eustis. I will not go into details. I promised.
However, I do need to say that he has the most beautifully shaved head, and I mean the one on his shoulders. He is smart, sexy and can sing his ass off!! He has no idea how close he almost had my lips around his cock before I left his place to head home....
And I will leave it at that
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To link to this blog (luoxana) use [blog luoxana] in your messages.
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