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I am beginning to wonder if the art of anal sex is lost. Recently, I had an interesting encounter, where my partner was rather rough anally, even after I advised him that it had been almost 2 years since I had anal sex. I am happy my neighbors weren't home (or they pretended not to be), because I was screaming like a little girl  I miss the days when I was first introduced to anal, the care and attention I received, the reassurance and relaxation techniques given to allow me to enjoy it fully. That guy was 9" on a bad day, and I learned to take every inch. I always laugh when I think of New Years Eve 2000/2001 - He was fucking my ass so good, I was begging for more and he told me that there wasn't any more to give me... The time before the last time ended miserably because my ex failed to understand that my ass and pussy are 2 entirely different holes  amp; you can't treat them the same way. What are your thoughts on anal sex, and to the guys, what DO you do to get your partner to relax? |
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...so I quit smoking
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Posted:Dec 1, 2009 8:43 pm
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I hope that I don't gain 15 pounds like I did the last time I quit. I am needing something to keep my mouth occupied...any suggestions?
Kisses!!
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PS, I have been stood up 3 other times since my rant a few weeks ago...it is now funny. NOT.
PPS, to my friend in Deltona.....that shit was the BOMB!!
PPPS, to my friend whom I promised that I would never blog about...you are the bomb too  Just had to give you your props.
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Posted:Nov 24, 2009 11:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2009 11:45 pm
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Ok, I am getting ahead of myself...First and foremost, I need to thank all who have sent well wishes for my mom who just got out the hospital after 2 heart attacks. This is my 1st time mentioning it here, but a few of you have caught me on IM (when it works), and I told you what was going on. Anyway, the last few weeks have been Hell to say the least.
After the 2nd trip to my home town, I decided to go over to Lar's and get that settled (2 blogs ago...I get into the why). Low and behold, all my stuff is already packed up...seems someone has been logging on and reading my blogs, so again, I feel like a total bitch, and for that I am offering a public apology. And for the record, he was a true gentleman. I wish I was in a place to appreciate what he has to offer, and some lady out there will enjoy the cabin in the mountains when he gets it built.
Now back to psycho Italian...It's like he is a vulture. Even before my break-up with Lar, he has been trying to hook me up with his cousin from NY (who arrived this past Saturday for Thanksgiving). It has been almost non-stop "you know he likes black girls" and "he is a freak like me" etc. I got back here on Sunday, and here is this guy, and I am thinking, cool, family, no big deal...thinking the sexual suggestions were an inside joke between me and roommate. Not so fast...
So, I'm in the kitchen and roommie keeps telling me not to flirt with his cousin...LOUDLY. I shake my head, and leave to go sit in the living room. But it doesn't stop, so I left and hung out with a friend. When I got back home, they had been out on the back porch smoking - nothing illegal - and had a candle lit inside the house. Roommie and cousin come back in, and roommie proceeds to tell cousin that he is going to bed and after we (cousin and I ) get done, to make sure the candle is blown out...
Now what the fuck was that about...I felt like I was being pimped out. The next day, I come home from school and cousin is there by himself. I needed to study, but stupid me is doing it in the living room. Cousin decides it is his job to entertain me, so he starts dancing showing me that he knows how to pop & lock (break dancing for all you truly old school folk). I don't give a rip if he can spin on his head, I was now annoyed...my scheduling is all fucked up, and I can't relax at home - you all probably have figured out that any time alone in the house minus roommate is precious to me.
I really felt sorry for cousin because he is caught up in the middle of this...oh, and I forgot to mention that cousin is partially deaf, so communication was rather difficult when he doesn't have the ear piece in. But he did sense the tension, and left this afternoon to spend time with their grandmother. When roommate got home, he says to me that this was all a joke. I told him that he was disrespectful and I am not his to out. He feels that I am making too much of this, and doesn't understand why I can't "let go" of the anger after his bullshit apology.
I can't afford to move out, but the evil side of my brain is churning.......Somebody help me calm myself down!!!
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This is why some guys will never get any pussy from this site.....
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Posted:Nov 9, 2009 9:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2019 8:41 pm
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Ok, I hate putting folk on blast, but sometimes shit just goes too far.
YOU (you know who you are) suggested that we meet at a local establishment to get to know each other and possibly go back to yours for some after drinks festivities. I agreed to meet, let you know that I needed to get dressed, etc and then drive there. I told you what time frame it would take me to get there. You said that you would be there by a certain time, let me know what you would be wearing, and agreed to sit at the bar so I could easily find you. I arrived to said establishment 8 minutes after that time. How do I know this? There is a clock under the TV, right by the door that goes into the kitchen. No one else was at the bar. I figured you were running late - I initially thought, "how funny is it that I came over from 2 towns away, and I beat you there." I sat there, ordered a beer and appetizer, and watched football for 45 minutes. I waited. No you.
I don't understand why YOU (and those like you) make promises you are unwilling to keep. If you didn't want to meet, fine, but don't lie to me. You know my situation, and my time is precious. If I am giving you some of my time, it is in your best interest to either be a man of your word and show up, or if something happened, then be a man and send me a note...got tied up, had a flat, wife/girlfriend/roommate (whatever the situation) came home and I couldn't get out, etc.
I waited until today to send this, hoping that I would get some sort of explanation. Nothing. So don't page me when I am on IM, I will not answer. If you want to respond to this, send me an e-mail thru the site...because I doubt you want the world to know that you are a schmuck.
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...these are my confessions
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Posted:Oct 27, 2009 5:04 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2013 10:54 pm
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I just posted this on another blog, and felt the need to repost it on my own. The subject asked about being in the Lifestyle and how it was brought up when you are in a relationship:
When my ex and I first started dating, he told me that he used to throw parties in DC when he lived up there. Knowing that I had past encounters with 3somes, he suggested that we start up our own Yahoo club (back in 2001, they let you do almost anything) to meet like minded people and see what happened. We would meet up at a local lounge every Friday night for Meet & Greets, then after about 6 weeks, we had our first party.
He told me that I did not have to do anything that I didn't want to do, and also made the announcement to everyone before starting anything. I ended up giving out some blow jobs, and even let a girl go down on me for the 1st time. As we progressed with the parties, I was more relaxed to letting my guard down and allowing myself more fun. The problems, however, started after he and I got closer and more romantically involved.
We decided to be exclusive and all of that stopped. But in my mind, and probably his, I wanted more...I wanted the variety...I wanted to watch and be watched. I did stray once with a guy that frequented our parties, but the sex was wack, and I remained faithful, yet unsatisfied, until after we broke up this past May, some 8 years later.
Now, after some great encounters over the summer, I am currently involved with the most kind, loving and generous man whom I met on this site. But, I am feeling/experiencing the same limitations, and desires. I've already strayed, and honestly I'm not ready to stop.
When we met, he told me that he read my blog and profile...he had been in a DP - something that I have been craving for years, and had posted as much. I was happy I met someone who was going to allow the naughty girl out to play...but now that has been shot down. Don't get me wrong, he is a vital part of my life, and I don't want to leave because I am attached.
I'm in another tailspin, and I am hoping the fallout will not be too bad.
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So, I just read this over again, and I feel like a total bitch. They say that confessions are good for the soul...I'll keep you posted on how this all plays out.
Kisses, Luoxana
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getting back on subject & fond memories
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Posted:Sep 24, 2009 3:34 pm
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2009 4:11 pm
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A friend recently told me that my blog has gotten off topic...I do apologize about that, but the last 6 weeks have had me on a tailspin. So a heartfelt apology from me to all of you....
I remember when I was in 7th grade, my best friend D and I were in the lunch line and she blurted out that she and her boyfriend and his friend had a 3some and DP. I hadn't even lost my virginity at that point. WTF? She proceeded to tell me that they guy who was fucking her ass was considerably smaller than her boyfriend, but he was very hard which was important (I realize this now ), but my 12 year old mind trying to wrap around this info was totally fucked up at this time of my life. But, I then knew someone who had anal sex, and a DP on top of that...wow!!
Before that, I had seen anal sex on video, and read about it in my friend's dad's Hustler. I was vaguely intrigued, but not having had SEX at that point, I couldn't see it ever happening. I had been doing my version of masturbating by this time of my life, and now I wanted to know what it felt like to have something in my ass. I tried a finger, but that didn't work out as well as it should (didn't think to cut my nails - I was 12...quit laughing). Anyway, my mom had this porcelain bell. The handle was small enough to fit up my ass without much effort.
I know all of you have this picture of a teenaged me with a bell up her ass, and to answer your next question, yes, I did ring it  That bell became my first anal boyfriend. Now that I look back on this, it is probably the reason when I did have my first actual anal experience, it was little difficult but "do-able". I think that I would have never gone there with that guy if I hadn't been prepping myself for the 2 prior years.
I'm still working on getting the new vibrator in my ass. Lar says I am teasing him by only letting him use his finger and tongue there, but this is a work in progress... He already knows that when he is eating my pussy, I cum harder when his finger is up my ass. He got 2 in there Monday, tried 3 but that hurt a little too much. I know when he can fit 3 and I can enjoy it, I will be ready for his cock...............
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Luoxana
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TIRED!!
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Posted:Sep 15, 2009 3:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 11:30 pm
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(Sorry, this post is just me venting, not many juicy tidbits)
Just for the record, as much as I love being in school, I think that standardized tests suck! I had to sit for 6 tests on Friday and Saturday, 110 questions each, 90 minutes per test. So if you are wondering where I've been, I was studying 
This week, I have tests Wednesday, Thursday and Friday...Next week: one each Monday - Thursday. Then I get a week off to go to Jacksonville and clean out my old house. Yay (not). 12 years of dust, dirt and porn that I must dispose of before my Mom shows up LOL! With that said, I won't be online for the next few weeks because when I go on break, my Mom doesn't have internet 
Lar has been such a trooper this past week because I had to whittle down our phone conversations to 1 per day for around 10 minutes. When I was done with my last test on Saturday, I went to the house, grabbed a bag (roommate tried to entice me to stay by having the Gator game on the telly - didn't work...he was a deflated soul:
"Where you going?"
"You know where I am going, don't act brand new, I will see you Monday." Then I walked out - really, I am still enjoying this 
I got to Lar's, had a couple of beers, watched him change out the break fluid lines and adjust the master cylinder on his truck (I was too tired to sleep), and then he cooked us dinner and I passed out from sheer exhaustion. The next day, he got up, I stayed in bed. He made coffee, I got up and reheated leftovers from the night before for brunch, then went back to sleep. Got up a couple of hours later and had a headache, so he gave me a really nice orgasm (or was that 3), then I went to sleep again. Got up later that afternoon finally fully rested, or so I thought.
Yesterday and today have been an exhausted Hell...and I should be studying, but I can't concentrate. I think I am going to take another nap.
Take care, I will be back soon!
Luoxana
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fate is a funny thing
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Posted:Aug 24, 2009 4:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2020 12:01 am
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Hey folks,
I've been a busy bee, so here is an update:
Lar and I are officially dating. He has gone so far as to turn off his profile on this site, but I am slightly addicted to blogging, so mine is still on. I finally got to my doctor last Friday for my final followup after my surgery. As soon as I made it back down to Volusia County, my . started!!
Can I cry? I mean really...I haven't had real sex in 8 weeks. EIGHT WEEKS!!!!! Fuck! Don't get me wrong, between his fingers, tongue and the new vibrator, I have had more orgasms since we met than I had in the first half of this year. He makes me hum like a well tuned engine and scream like Janet Jacme (his next door neighbors always smile when I leave).
Anyway, true to fashion, I went over there to play "housewife" as my jealous roommate calls it...speaking of him, he actually did admit that he was jealous of us. His "thing" with the chick in NY has fizzled out, but he is a spoiled brat anyway, so I don't feel bad at all. I still have not spent a Sunday here at his place since he made his statement about being alone in his house, and it is mean of me, but I don't give a rat's ass...actually I think it is funny, and I am enjoying torturing him...but he is going to Hedo on the 2nd, so we both have things we are jealous of (and I just want to rip his stupid pamphlet up every time I see it).
Lar got to meet some of my school friends yesterday. We have a monthly girls movie night, and he was the only man there with 12 women (8 lesbians, 1 bi and 3 straight - including me) and 3 . He had a good time, and it was nice getting out of bed for a change 
Things are going wonderfully..........We even have the same taste in porn..........If this is a dream, don't wake me up!!!
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things are happening so fast...
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Posted:Aug 10, 2009 8:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 11:30 pm
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We spent the weekend together. I can get used to waking up next to him every morning. He cooked for me (YUMMY) and gave me a few good spankings...apparently I was a bad girl and needed to be punished Couldn't sit right for most of the day after the 2nd time; I can still feel his hands on my ass.
But the most important part is that he respects me, and I respect him. OH, and he bought me a new vibrator - YAY - and we broke it in quite nicely - I can still feel that too. And I let him take naughty pics (and a video of me undressing) - sorry, they are for his eyes only. It is funny, he thought that it would take time to figure my sexual tastes, but he was like a duck to water. I felt a bit out of my league for a while. He makes me cum so fast and hard, and doesn't let up unless I give him another orgasm after that.
I feel like a queen when I am with him. He is so attentive and full of love. I never thought that I would find someone like him on a site like this.
I think (know) that I am :
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Not supposed to happen...
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Posted:Aug 3, 2009 7:06 am
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2009 8:52 pm
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This may be my last post for a while. I am taking a hiatus from Local Sexy Swingers. I have met someone and I need to see where this is going to go from here. I don't know where the future will take us, but I am a hopeless romantic and I have been stimulated sexually, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually.
Roommate side note - he is pissed off!! I got the whole lecture on having HIS house to himself and not having another guy there when he wants to kick back and relax. I told him that I will take my overnight visits elsewhere. I have to respect my housing arrangements, I still consider this paradise, but there is a tropical storm brewing off of the coast. Hell, if he wanted to fuck, my room is 2 doors away...he missed his chance and he knows it now. Besides that, according to him, he is falling in love with the old girlfriend from Jr High and wants a committed relationship. But, they always say that actions speak louder than words!
Anyway, everything is falling into place...I am scared and excited all at the same time. It really feels good being myself and having someone accept me for all my flaws. He knows how much of a freak I am  and I know the same about him. We may want to play with friends soon. I will pop in from time to time, just to say HI and give you an update on me and my crazy life.
I will miss these chats, they have been therapeutic for my situation...
Love Always!
Luoxana
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Finally, some relief
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Posted:Jul 27, 2009 8:24 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2011 4:55 pm
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I was finally able to cum Friday night.  I had a rough week at school, came home and made myself a few drinks; if I had been in a bar, I would have had one hell of a bar tab - love drinking at home Anyway, I was horny - what else is new? My roommate has been occupied with an old girlfriend from Jr High, so I have been left to entertain myself for the last week. I went to bed and ended up staring at the ceiling for 15-20 minutes. No vibrators in sight (I am still mad as hell for that shit), so I had to masturbate the old fashioned way...don't get me wrong, my fingers are skilled, but I had surgery a month ago, and I am not supposed to be doing this. I went online, found my favorite porn clip and let my fingers do the walking.
WOW!!
I didn't realize how much I needed to cum. I think that I will have to do it again soon...but now I am anxious to get some real sex in my life again. I just don't know who the lucky man will be. I am not in any way, shape or form ready for the DP - that may have to be my birthday present to myself. But, I know that I will need someone who has the patience to deal with me...I just wonder who that will be.
Any suggestions?
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Stop....Theif!!!
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Posted:Jul 20, 2009 10:40 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 11:30 pm
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I forgot to add that this past weekend, I went to my house to see the damage that my ex-boyfriend left when he moved out. I was looking for my vibrators (I need something to keep me occupied so I don't end up fucking the roommate), and dammit, they were GONE.
Who the FUCK would steal someone's vibrators? I mean, really...he did not buy either of them for me. One of them I have had since undergrad. I am depressed and horny, and can't have any type of sexual activity until after the 7th of August...damn surgery!
I am going to bed now...alone...frustrated...and perplexed.
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Shaking my head...
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Posted:Jul 20, 2009 5:48 pm
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I ask myself why shit like this happens to me. The other night, roommate and I were talking about porn, and he pulls out a home movie of him and his ex-girlfriend from 2000. So now, I am sitting in his room (in a chair, NOT on his bed) watching him fuck the hell out of this girl. Now, I am able to see, albeit 2nd hand, what he is working with, and how he slings it.
Hot, HOT, HOT!!!
What have I gotten myself into?
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well... so I have moved into paradise
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Posted:Jul 14, 2009 9:20 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 11:30 pm
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After round 16 of the world's longest breakup, I am really, finally FREE!! One of the things I have accomplished is moving into a new place with who appears to be the best roommate I have ever had in my life. I am surprised he is not on here; but he shocked the hell out of me when he suggested that we go to Hedonism together. He has been 3 times, and this would be my first trip.
Side note...
He just got done doing the neighbor down the road (he is 43, she is 26...it lasted 30 minutes and he is pissed off.
Anyway, we were discussing anal (my favorite subject) and he was telling me about his encounters. He has had more experience (obviously) and he talks a good game about making sure that his date is relaxed before they go there. I am so freaking curious about him. But I don't want to cross any boundaries and fuck up a good thing. NSA can be tricky when you live under the same roof 
I'll keep you posted!!
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