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OK here's the thing chat rooms were meant for folks to talk to each other, The bill of rights gives us all the right to say what we please when we wish. It doesn't matter what web site you joined to arrive in the chat room thru. Local Sexy Swingers is a sex and swinger dating site! We all have the right to talk about anything we please.
However for the people who are here because they really are looking for someone for a more serious relationship, Id like to offer some unsolicited advice to assist you to in you search for whatever you are looking for.
1- You can help yourself by NOT bitching all the time about:
2- your dead end low paying job. Its not attractive.
3- you have sole custody of all 8 your children because the dead beat other ran and doesn't
support you.
4- Stop talking about how fat you are. If you don't think you attractive no one else will.
5-If you don't want to be disappointed because guys talk to you until they see your pic. Then put one on to start with, and allow someone to see your face and body before you both waste the whole day talking.
6-When a hot male enters the room woman will cut each others throats to flirt to him.
But when a sexy and provocative woman who is slightly enters and the guys rush
to get her attention (because most are here for sex)!
The regulars in that room tear her apart! there is nothing sexy about a bitter, angry,
jealous woman.
7- Guys remember woman are not obligated to want your stupid ass because you have a
10" dick. You will have more success if you are less of a dick than the one in your pic.
8-Ladies when someone speaks to you politely, there's never a reason to embarrass someone with
a flat out, let down in the room. You will look much more appealing to other men if those
men in the room "think" you have some class.
9-Speak English when in the English speaking room!
10-Guys read the profile! Don't just look at her pics.
11-Ladies respond to the interest men show. and please forget the auto response it
screams I'm inconsiderate lazy self centered and most guys just wasted their time.
12-If you are offended by what people are talking about in the room "GET OUT"
Please understand everyone here says things in their profile if you make yourself out to
look like a slut don't be surprised if people treat you that way.
13-There is no excuse to not have current pics! Nobody wants to see who U wish You were!
14-For all the hot tempered tough guys! after you have demonstrated how ugly your temper is
I wonder? Do you really think these woman wanna meet you?
15-Remember this site is designed and operated for adults. LETS try acting like the person
we'd like to be!
Last one if sex on web-cam offends you I suggest you inform Local Sexy Swingers that this is considered offensive and then allow them to judge what is! These web-cams are here for many reasons one of which is because some people like to be watched! Another is some like being watched if this offends your sensibilities I suggest you NOT WATCH. Its truly shameful that in a country where our own people have lived and died to protect your basic rights as human beings that there are some who will not make a stink about someone Burning our flag but will take the extereme actions which were taken to protest someone broadcasting there cam. People lets all try to remember if you really have an untapped amount of energy and feel the need to expend it by writing Id love to suggest you write to some of the men and women who are serving the country that owns the constitution to whom you stand under and deny by the actions of late.
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Questions and Manswers About Your Profile
Posted:Feb 27, 2011 6:51 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2011 7:18 am
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The more I interact with members on this site the more I see a need to explain how this works

I About those Picture's.
II The content of member Profiles
III Why is nt anyone writing me and why don't I get replies.

Let’s start where your profile starts.
With your pictures These observations hold true for both sex’s

1-Ladies If you have a picture of only your, eye-smile-fingernails-feet tits or pussy. He/me/we will assume these are your most attractive features.

2-Gentleman! ! ! If you have a close-up pic of only dick she will assume you consider that part is the best part of you.

3-If you have a picture containing you and your 3 BFF's and you don't say who's you. I/we will assume you both/all come as a set.

4-If you have a picture wearing sunglasses I/we will assume:
a-You’re a secret agent and won’t be around much.
b-You drink excessively and glasses are you cover up
c-You have one or more black eyes
d-Between your left and right eye is a center orbital making you an alien he/she'Im/we/we're calling 911 now.
e-You host a TV show and need to keep it on the down low.
f-Your playn without consent Duh
g-Your a Gazillionaire and need to protect your ass-ettts
h-You would be agasp if your friends and family found out you like sex.

5-If your pic is really old I/we will assume, if we meet you won’t mind being reminded of that.
If you have no picture Nude or otherwise that includes your body I/we will assume you’re not happy with it, so why would we be?
If your only pic was taken 20 feet away I/we will assume your afraid to get closer thereby making sex rather tough.

On the topic of No Pic.
You should know if he doesn't have a pic there's one of two things going on. Either he has to protect his identity because needs to hide the fact that he a secret agent with the CIA or he/she simply is hiding something else. (hint hint hint keyword hide)
Very few men or woman will be thought to have such wonderful internal qualities that we might be willing to over look the fact that your externally a complete mess.

II
Men joined this site for LUST not LOVE.
Is it possible to find love is it probable to find long lasting love while your having sex with someone else? errr I dunnooooo
about that.
Ofcouse its possible but understand most men are logical and when we want to get laid we look for the most uncomplicated and direct route. "This is foremost a swingers site".
They should never have combined this site with "Passion" Sorry!

a- Guys if she is here she enjoys sex and wants to have sex. That doesn't make her out to be easy, a a slut or a (at least not your the first time with her). Show some class.
If you want to have sex with a woman you have to treat her like a lady.
b- Ladies guys are literate unless you spell it out. He will assume you joined for the same reason he did. Yes I know many guys don't read profiles. many guys ignore profiles. Well "get even" you can ignore them.

Being that many of you have complained that men write one line messages.
I'll be glad to offer some insite from a man's perspective.
We already know woman get lots more messages than men. We also know because of this that 90% of the time unless she is interested , she will not so much as acknowledge our messages no matter how short or long they are. Personally I think if someone is kind enough to write an actual message that person should be given a small amount of consideration in the form of an equal length reply.
Because our time is as important as yours and neither of us want to waste it. Please understand we don't like wasting our time either.
Therefore, if you receive a simple hello and or a short message we’re hoping she will reply with a fast hi back, that in turn then opens a door for a larger and exchange.Additionally a fast reply of "thanks but I'm not interested" takes only a couple of seconds to tap out, even for a construction worker who only uses 3 fingers on each hand lol.

Just so ya know those guys who are adding you to the favorites well speaking from my own experience sometimes I'm here until I need to leave unfortunately often times I don't have the time to write a decent hello therefore so still wanting to say Hi and not wanting to loose you I simply add you to my favorites.
However when you find out Ive added you that's a great signal, that I'm/he's interested. Which means an email from you would surely be welcomed.

III
Your not receiving attention because your profile has close up pussy pics with cum dripping off and out of it. Personally the last thing I want etched in my memory is another mans jizz dripping from someplace she wants my lips to meet the same goes for men's dick pics.
or
You have no face pic (see above)only other no facers want you or roughly 20% of the members here that I see so unless there's a reason I should read your profile I prob will not.
Maybe because
In Non of your pics or in your profile do you mention condoms.
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Is it Just Me whats with the updates
Posted:Feb 10, 2009 4:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2011 6:36 am
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Do you really like the new profile look??
Personally I liked the old look better.

Do "Recent Activities" belong at the top of the profile page?
I don't like that I now "have to" see everyone's recent activities, Before I see anything else. They say this will weed out fakes and frauds.
Now when you want to read a profile thats well written
You will need to scroll past "Recent Activities" and under "Information" was another ahem "Enhancement".

Do we need 2 scroll bars on one page
I also definitely don't like, first having to scroll down past Recent Activities Area and The Information Area to begin reading a profile only to then discover I have to scroll again in another box to finish reading the introduction.

While I'm at it, I don't like that Local Sexy Swingers never actually ask those of us who support the use of the site, what "We" think.
I personally think it would be nice if among all those other useless tabs and links they would actually include one that says "We'd like to know".

Lastly, Yes and my all time favorite: For the tens of thousands of us who inhibit the Chat Rooms, why not give us a separate tab that goes directly into the Chat Room page so we don't have to look at the $4.95 Models who we will never talk to.

And Yes I did take a class at
The Andy Rooney School of Better Bitching and Blogging
Tic Tic Tic Tic



Kudos to the programming Dept.

It seems they got it. Maybe I werent the only voice that they heard from but either way I see there have been some positive changes
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About these Meet and Greets
Posted:Feb 19, 2008 12:28 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2011 6:52 am
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This is my understanding about parties their purpose and the simple guidelines needed to have a good night.
1- Why do we have Meet N Greets?
These meets are social gatherings designed for new people who wish to get to know each other in person, in a non-threatening no pressure way. As well as for people who already know each other to see each other once again.
2- What they are not meant to be.
Are gatherings for people to meet that "NEED" 5-6- or 7 hours of drinking in order to have a good time. Nor are they meant, for those people who cannot stop drinking long enough to sober up and drive responsibly, So if your someone who needs 5 hours or more of drinking in order to feel as if it was worth coming to. I suggest you come “as early as possible” as many responsible adults do, I also suggest you get a room where you can safely drink till your liver falls out, both before and after the party.
3-On the note of drinking.
Do Not expect the host or hostess to provide you with either "enough or unlimited access to alcohol or liquor. That’s not the function of “Anyone” who sets a date for friends to meet. We all go to weddings we all know the average wedding lasts 5 hours how many of us have the nerve after going to a wedding to complain geeze I didn't have enough to drink.
4- The Commute
If you feel the drive is very long don't come! Period. There will be others more convenient. Often there are more than one meet n greet in a single month.
You also have the option and right to arrange one yourself, where you and your booze will have the maximum amount of time to spend together. I mean since this is such an important issue and part of a Sat. night out.

5- Did someone really say "Old" people?
Yes there are older or more mature and responsible adults who enjoy a night of fun/drinking and sex, So a cut off around 1 am for drinking works fine for most and yes I do have the right to speak for "My Age Group" and NO I/WE don't party like a rock star and No I'm not going to fuck till dawn, and I sincerely doubt any of the lets party till 4 or 5 really does. Besides given the choice of sex or drinking if your choosing drinking you have a problem.
6- This last party was for most a huge success.
PSS and I, we brought alot of good people together who had a really nice evening of fun and laughter. The bar made a good amount of money and invited us back. The food drive went very very well, and on that night and the following day we both received many thanks and compliments for a job well done. On behalf of PSS and I Thank You all for coming and helping everyone to have a great time.
7- Regretefully
It seems however after hosting several of these parties there will always be a small minority who will always complain about something.
Unfortunately for some, if you gave them food all night and an open bar till Wednesday and drove them door-to-door, they would then complain the room they were in was the wrong color. People who never make a move to find a location suitable for such gatherings seemingly have no apparent idea how much trouble it is to
find a location that will
1-serve drinks to 45 to 60 people more than their regular number of patrons on a semi frequent basis,
2-have an amount of floor space to accommodate 30 or more people without being ontop of eachother who meeting as a group
3-have rooms so people can rest after-wards without driving
4-that also doesn't play music so loud you can’t hold a conversation.
5-and OMFG has toilets clean enough for a woman to sit her pretty ass down on. (men don't careand normally dont sit(at bars anyway).
6-a place that has parking on premises for those who drive.
7-is not 30 minutes away from public transportation.
8-isn't 20 minutes off the L.I.E. thru 3 different towns on a side street, in a town called somewhere.
9-will also have a food menu that will serve til 11:00pm.
10-that is located somewhere between Manhattan and the East End of LI.
For those who found the last party to be a disappoint I suggest you take the time and organize one yourself. I remember when the first parties were held at the 1050 and everyone compared it so Sam's. I remeber hearing a lot of people grumbling. Now I hear people saying they like the 1050. I do now and always have thought the 1050 is a very acceptable place for the reasons I already stated. And it fits almost all of the same criteria we need. Unfortunately even the 1050 has people who dont like things about it, However like the Radission it works.
Just a point of notice the same people who bitched about the 1050 have either left the room/site or seem to have reversed their opinion of it because they gave it a chance.
Last year a few of us tryed to another suitable location in Manhattan but after many attempts it became apparent that the 1050 is still the best choice. It manages to accommodate us very well.
I think if people find the Radisson not to be there flavor they should either look elsewhere for themselves or just not come.
Pissing a day later does nothing but dampen the sprits of the people who make an attemp to do something that others Do Not.
So Before all of you start writing all those opinions based on never trying to host a successful party with the same criteria in mind and begin by starting off by saying how off base I am I invite you to try hosting once and cover the same points I just outlined here.
ps if you want to dance find a dance club
if you only want to drink and not talk go to a bar
if you want to learn more about someone who you might sleep with, you dont go to clubs or loud bars

And Thanks for taking the time to reading
"My Opinion"
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