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This blog is about my experiences as a man new to this lifestyle. May they be about emails, chats I've had, encounters I've had, I hope you will get enjoyment out of them and may they help whoever is new as well.
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Honesty is so hard to find
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Posted:Feb 3, 2013 10:13 am
Last Updated:May 31, 2014 9:36 pm
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So, as I type this I keep thinking of the definition of honesty. To me, Why are people dishonest? I don't get it. Are you ashamed? Is it really that hard to be upfront with people and tell the truth. Any why is there so many people out there who lie about stuff on this site? Seriously. I am a very upfront honest person and consider myself to be a sucker sometimes. I take get taken advantage of because I trust people to much. Is trust such a hard thing to ask for? I just want people to be open and honest about things and just say if you are not interested or if you are.
So i have a lot of tattoos. Some people i guess think that makes me some kind of "rebel" maybe? Or a "bad guy"? Hell, I dunno, I just like tattoos and just want people to accept me for who I am. I feel like I get judged on this site because I have tattoos. I am probably one of the nicest people you will ever meet. I still open the door for my girlfriend, hold her hand in public, and say yes ma'am and yes sir. No, that doesn't make me a nice guy, but in this day and age who really does that anymore. I never hear yes ma'am or sir any more.
i just want to let everyone know that I am a nice guy. PLEASE don't judge this book by its cover. I am honest, polite, have table manners (no elbows and chew w/ your mouth closed!) and just want people to feel comfortable around me. All I ask of you Local Sexy Swingers members is to please be honest about why you are here and don't be afraid to talk.
Like they always say, "honesty is the best policy".
Thanks for reading everyone and have a wonderful day!
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Still trying and a little frustrated
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Posted:Jan 14, 2013 6:13 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2014 9:33 pm
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So, after a few emails and chats w/ a few people, it seems that there are a few fake profiles out there. Now, I expected this, but get spam more than I thought. A ton of "profiles" that end up trying to get you to sign up to another site, blah, blah, blah....
The few legitimate emails I do get are very polite, which is nice for a change. Although nothing has worked out yet, I am still hopeful. Now for my frustrations....
Its frustrating for me when I email people and get the typical response of "we are looking for someone older". The reason I try to talk to people older than me is because of maturity. I just want to meet people who are mature and can handle this type of situation. I am NOT trying to get that "notch" on my belt for a milf or cougar. Period. I could care less about that. I want someone who is secure in their own relationship or life and can handle the fact that I am secure in mine.
I feel like most "older" couples and women are more mature about it and don't want the drama people my age or younger bring. Jealousy, needy, start to get feelings, etc. Maybe I am mistaken, hell, I dunno. So give me some advice people, am I asking to much? Is asking for a normal mature person/persons to have a friendship with and a FWB relationship with too much?
I am/would be perfectly happy just talking with couples or women on a friendship level as well. Talk about encounters, work, life, whatever is on your mind at the time. I guess I am just a little more mature than most guys my age. yes, I can be a huge goofball, and be "immature" at times, but its in good taste and never over the top. It is always respectful.
Anyways, let me know what you all think. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for reading and see you next time!!
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Signing up and starting to chat
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Posted:Jan 10, 2013 1:26 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2014 9:32 pm
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So I signed up to this site a little over a week ago. I am new to this lifestyle and am trying to figure all of this out. There is sooo much specifics to choose from on this site. Now I am not new to the sex part and what kinds of types of fetishes there are, but i was surprised that you could narrow down to such fields. I am pleased with this site overall and have had fun so far.
Now on to chatting and messaging. Wow. Its harder than I though to search and find the right person/persons you are looking for. My search is broad because I think there is beauty in almost everyone. I am not vain and do not look for the prettiest girl or the slimmest body or whatever stereotype society and put on people nowadays. But emailing people and chatting and all this stuff is actually difficult. You send out emails and "?flirts" and expect responses....then nothing comes. Well, after a day or two you realize, thats how it works. Its frustrating, but you learn how the site works and its ok. So far, I think I have messaged probably 50 people and got two responses. Well, that sounds bad, but look how many people there are on this site. Theres a lot to choose from. So Not bad and i'm ok with that. Thats it for now and let me know what you think of the start of my blogs!
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