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There is a need in San Francisco/Bay area--3 million people for a sex club like the Power Exchange, which has been closed since last December. A palce to go to let it all hang out and then some. Nothing better than watching naked people having sex. An all night party as it were. Since Edgewater in Oakland closed, live has been more impoverished. Really need such a place. Hope one opens soon!
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Looking for Miss Perfect
Posted:Jun 25, 2009 10:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2012 4:53 pm
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I am looking for the perfect woman. She has an engaging smile and she is between 35 and 70. She has blond, brunette, black, or grey hair. (Please, no red reads--Red hair just doesn't turn me on.)She is relatively slim--I will judge what is relatively slim. Shaved or unshaved--maybe two women: one shaved and one unshaved. A woman willing to post her cunt on the internet for all to admire. A woman to post semen on her. A woman will post herself sucking dick. Preferably Caucaision, or Asian. If she has a husband/lover/retinue is fine with me. Someone with techno savy to figure out how to post photos on the internet.
I am 63, 5"10" tall. I have brown hair with barely a hint of grey; my beard has tinges of grey in it. I would look professorial. I excersize on a regular basis so I am relatively slim. For the longest time, I weighed only 135 lbs. Now, I weigh in at about 165 lbs. Preferably, there is a woman of a certain age who weighs in at less.
I would want someone willing to post erotic photos with me on the internet. Someone proud of her twat, proud of her ability to suck dick; proud of her tits; proud of her generous sexuality.
Every one looks great naked--let me be the judge of how great you look. But again, I would prefer someone who weighd less than me.
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12--14--12
Posted:Dec 11, 2014 11:06 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2015 5:29 pm
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Dust of Snow by Robert Frost (1925)

The way a crow
Shook down on me
The dust of snow
From a hemlock tree
Has given my heart
A change of mood
And saved some part
Of a day I had rued.



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Sophia Loren--topless--1951
Posted:Nov 26, 2014 7:38 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2014 4:30 pm
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Sophia Loren was young when she posed for some publicity stills for a 1951 movie..Era Lui. . . si! si! Sophia Loren was born in 1934; the movie came out in 1951. She was quite lovely as you can see.




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Max Bygraves
Posted:Nov 5, 2014 3:55 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2015 5:30 pm
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Max Bygraves was a throwback to another era. He recalls the English Music Hall Tradition. Yeah--we in America are familiar with that thanks to Julie Andrews who received her training in British Music Hall; we Americans are familiar thanks to Stanley Holloway who played the role of Alfred P. Doollittle, a role right out of the British Music Hall, singing tunes that would sound at home in the British Music Hall. (And of course, based on a play written by Irish playwright George Bernard Shaw who would be no stranger to the Music Hall.)

Even in Canada, the pub sing along was alive and well when I would visit with the ex and her parents.

Max Bygraves had a rich baritone voice, a strong sense of comedy and comedic timing. He edges toward the sentimental. "You need hands to hold someone close..." , "Tulips from Amsterdam", and many other favorite standbys. Many of these renderings are available for viewing on Youtube.

Max Bygraves saw military service during WW II as a machinist; he took the name Max because of his impeccable impersonation of fellow Music Hall Entertainer/Comedian Max Miller.

He was married for more than sixty years to the same woman. Max Bygraves died in 2012 at the age of 89. I don't know how I came to know him--but he is well represented on Youtube and is thoroughly enjoyable.
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Robin Williams and "Some Where Over the Rainbow"
Posted:Aug 12, 2014 9:42 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2015 6:34 pm
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Robin Williams committed suicide at age 63. His comedic genius was immediately recognized with the 1970s TV program "Mork and Mindy".

Today also happens to be the 75th anniversary when the film THE WIZARD OF OZ was first released in limited theatres in North America.

That song by Harold Arlen and Yip Harburg--"Somewhere Over the Rainbow"--speaks to Hollywood.

The end of the song: "Why oh why can't I?" speaks to limited expectations--something Hollywood is not comfortable with.

But for Sandra Bullock's 54 million dollar income, there are many Hollywood types struggling with manic personality as waiters or falling into drug addiction... For Hollywood, meeting those expectations becomes a dream come true, or a nightmare... In Robin William's life--it seems to have become a nightmare... A nightmare made worse by his own addiction to drugs and alcohol. While one oftentimes falls into alcohol addiction, drug addiction presents an element of [bad] choice--one deliberately, consciously, knowingly ingests something that will be addictive....

Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
There's a land that I heard of once in a lullaby

Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream really do come true

Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me

Somewhere over the rainbow
Blue birds fly
Birds fly over the rainbow
Why then oh why can't I?

If happy little blue birds fly beyond the rainbow
Why oh why can't I?

Robin Williams--1951-2014--aged 63--RIP!

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Beethoven's Fifth--DA DA DA DUM!
Posted:Aug 6, 2014 3:10 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2014 2:45 pm
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Saw a live performance last Friday of Beethoven's
5th Symphony... That insistent opening bar has been interpreted
as "Thus fate knocks at the door..." (Though
Beethoven himself didn't give it that interpretation...)
But still that interpretation works. And of course, what
is most fateful but sexual activity, sexual attraction.
(And more than one music critic has seen as sexual forcefulness
in those opening measures...) It is, of course, to another
of Beethoven's 1826--a year before his death--String
Quartet (Opus 135) where he inscribed the words [Muss es
sein? Es muss sein] "Must it be, it must be".
So fate controlling our life and surrendering that life
to fate.

But it wasn't till I got older--that I realized a person
could take control of life, could make decisions that were
beneficial to life. And ironically, that person most ill-fated--Frank
Moore, the paraplegic having naked gatherings and thus
defying his fated paralysis... And of course, the drunk
who needs to defy fate and assert responsibility for sobriety,
life, by attending AA meeting...

For many people these questions are very real... They certainly were for paraplegic Frank Moore... And in times of war--when the Fifth Symphony also reflected Morse Code V for Victory and Winston's Churchill's raised fingers in
the sign of Victory--when war makes large the question
of who shall live and who shall die--the questions become
all too real...

For myself, Beethoven's Fifth Symphony has meant
something about structuring a life about subsuming a life
to fate. As Hamlet says: "There's a divinity
that shapes our ends, rough-hew them how we will..."

But I also received religious instruction that told me
NOT to do certain things--like getting drunk, or robbing
banks, or whatever evils an individual can give in to. So
in that sense, I have made my own fate--transcended the
limitations of the circumstances of my birth--and at age
68--soon to be 69--I can look back at a life well lived....
Well a life lived... well a life livid...

And of course, these same values were given to my ,
which she could then give to her ... Funny how that
works...

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Show Boat...
Posted:Jul 10, 2014 7:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2015 6:37 pm
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Jerome Kern and Oscar Hammerstein II put on the Broadway SHOWBOAT based on Edna Ferba's novel of the same name.

For a musical drama that was produced in 1927--it's surprising how it still resonates to contemporary sexual mores. Sexual relations between people of different ethnic groups, racial prejudice, alcohol addiction, and family abandonment.

Gaylord Ravenal, of the Tennessee Ravenals, sings "Make Believe" with one line: "Might as well make believe I love you, / For to tell the truth I do" So 'Make Believe' becomes 'truth'. I'm not convinced that that is the central concern of the drama. But the storyline with it's sprawling time frame from the 1870s to the 1920s is dominated by Nolie and Gaylord getting married, having a , gambling debts, abandonment, Nolie becoming a stage sensation, and their Kim growing up into a young adult--who is 'making believe' to maintain a 'truth' of love ?--Nolie at the end says she always loved Gaylord despite the turbulence of the Old Man River's (metonymy for time passing or troubles) demands; and of course, Kim loves her father despite his lapses. So maybe that is the central concern of the drama tying the sprawling episodes and characters together: "Might as well make believe I love you, / For to tell the truth I do."

And maybe the song is a bit much--a bit over the top. After all, Gaylord has just met Nolie (Magnolia) and here he is singing a song to her that says he is in love; that sounds more like just one more delusion from a delusional River boat gambler, essentially--a gambling addict mouthing words that have no real meaning.

The stage production fleshes out details that are lost in the movie version. When Ravenal is revealed as a murderer, Captain Andy admits that he too had murdered someone once in his youth. Somehow, I don't remember that--even though it might be in the movie.

Show Boat was an excellent performance of the San Francisco Opera Company. Great dancing, great singing, great costume, great set design.
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Gay Pride Day--SF June 28, 2014
Posted:Jun 28, 2014 9:06 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2014 3:42 pm
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The weather was bright and sunny--with a moderate wind. Good day to be naked. Here is a photo of the Pride Flag and the Pink Triangle near Sutro Tower--on Twin Peaks. The view is from The Castro. I suppose it is a reminder of that dark side of sexual expression. The Pink Triangle was used in Nazi Germany to indicate homosexuals. But more than the metaphysical sense of separation that comes with being Gay, when the AIDS crisis broke out in the mid 1980s--homosexuality meant a death sentence--and in very short order. About seven years or so--the Bay Reporter placed on the front page that there were no obituaries that week from AIDS. So in a relatively short time--a blink of an eye really--a medical crisis was turned into a manageable disease. (By contrast, look at Malaria--still a killer despite more than a century of medical research...) The Transgender community was brought to bear when Mayor Ed Lee showed up at their event Friday evening. For something that amazes and mystifies so many--that appearance just shows how mainstream Transgender now is--leastways, here in San Francisco. While Gay marriage seems to becoming a civil right--there are still states where there is a battle. But one can well predict, that given time, Gay Marriage will be legal in all fifty states.

For all the time I hang around the Castro, and am involved with lots of men--the question of sexual orientation never raises its head. I really wouldn't know who was gay and who wasn't--the topic is never discussed. Suffice it to say--I don't have sex with men. So having said that, being resolutely heterosexual--the gay subculture was something of a cultural shock to me when I came to SF almost 25 years ago. My thinking about these topics has 'evolved' shall we say. And I have to say--that transformation came with the AIDS crisis of the mid-1980s; for the first time society had to give conscious thought to homosexuality, anal sex, condoms, gayness, gay relationships. The topic became the stuff of the evening news; I'll never forget one evening at dinner time listening to NPR news and the topic of anal sex and AIDS was part of the discussion--trust me, I never thought of such sexual behavior before.

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A TEAM OF RIVALS
Posted:May 24, 2014 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2014 9:09 pm
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Doris Kearns Goodwin's' recounting of the Lincoln Presidency and his choice of his rivals for the 1859 election for his cabinet. It is a great read. Seward would start out thinking that he would be able to control Lincoln only to discover that it was Lincoln who did the control. Lincoln was the supreme political tactician; his keen political insights guided him in his decisions. For example, his reluctance to emancipate the slaves was due to his unwillingness to alienate the important border states--less they leave the Union and join the Southern cause. The book shows a human dimension to that human story that was the Civil War. How much slavery was indeed the cause of the war, and how the Northern Abolitionists wanted emancipation of the slaves sooner than later. She writes how much the cabinet was rife with rivalry between Samuel Chase and Monty Blair that made Cabinet meeting barely tolerable. She write of the genius that Edward Stanton brought to the war department; she writes of McClellan's reluctance to prosecute the war with sufficient ferocity, McClellan's' incompetence, McClellan's' sympathies for the southern cause. So it is a great read, a real page turner.
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International Woman's Day 8 March 2014
Posted:Mar 8, 2014 4:57 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2014 12:32 pm
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On a Saturday afternoon of 25 March, 1911--a fire broke out in New York City of the Triangle Shirt Waist Factory. Because of locked fire exits, and insufficient escape routes, people were not able to exit the building. Consequently 123 women and 23 men died from either jumping from the 8th floor, or from asphyxiation. As a consequence of the fire, a shorter work week was legislated--54 hrs/week; legislation prohibiting chained fire exists, and greater unionization effort for the female workers. Not until Governor Nelson Rockefeller was there a requirement for sprinklers in buildings.

Francis Perkins--later to be Franklin Roosevelt's Labor Secretary--was instrumental in looking into the fire and suggesting legislation to improve condition for female workers.

To me the fire represents why government has to intervene; too many times, business looks to the bottom line with indifference to the basic health needs of its employees. This was true in 1911 and this is true even today in 2014.






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Question no 5 to unanswered questions of the universe...
Posted:Feb 20, 2014 4:56 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2014 5:16 pm
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Artist's conception of a particle-antiparticle annihilation.

Why is there more matter than antimatter?
Credit: Image via Shutterstock


The question of why there is so much more matter than its oppositely-charged and oppositely-spinning twin, antimatter, is actually a question of why anything exists at all. One assumes the universe would treat matter and antimatter symmetrically, and thus that, at the moment of the Big Bang, equal amounts of matter and antimatter should have been produced. But if that had happened, there would have been a total annihilation of both: Protons would have canceled with antiprotons, electrons with anti-electrons (positrons), neutrons with antineutrons, and so on, leaving behind a dull sea of photons in a matterless expanse. For some reason, there was excess matter that didn't get annihilated, and here we are. For this, there is no accepted explanation.

This assertion says so much. Ultimately about one's believe in a Transcendent Deity... That ultimately there is nothing wrong in uttering the phrase: "Praise God from whom all blessings flow." Science does not disprove the existence of a supreme Deity--if anything God becomes present in the details of science...
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Sweeney Ridge...GGNRA
Posted:Feb 17, 2014 4:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2014 5:25 pm
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Yesterday--Sunday February 16, I took a hike through Sweeney Ridge part of the Golden Gate National Recreation Area. The site was part of the Nike Defense System in the 1950s and discontinued by 1974. The view at the top makes the Pacific Ocean and The San Francisco Bay visible. I could see all the way to Mount Diablo and all the way to Point Reyes--. There was no wind, no fog, no clouds till the end of the day. The shrub growth at the top of the ridge suggests the breezes from the Pacific must be brutal. Because I got off at the wrong place I ended up being 2 miles from the Moris Ridge Trail which is fairly steep. As it was, I ascended via the Conemara Trail to Milagra Ridge and then to Skyline College. The root from Skyline College to Sweeney Ridge is really the prettiest and most scenic route--a route that is missed by taking the Moris Ridge Trail. I started at 10:15 AM--got to Skyline College by Noon, then to the park border by 2 PM--at which point the hiker has to turn round and walk back the almost three miles to Moris Ridge. Walking down Moris Ridge brins the hiker to Route 1 and the Public Transit SamTrans route 110 or 112 --on Sundays an hourly schedule. It was a great day for hike.



The altitude at the top--where I am to take the picture is 930 ft; at the bottom the altitude is 790 ft.; to the top--where the steps lead is 980 ft. The steps made the hike a whole lot easier.



This is a view from the top looking toward the Pacific...
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Miley Cyrus and nude pictures...
Posted:Feb 12, 2014 6:45 pm
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2014 3:59 pm
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She can pull it off so I say--go for it. She has a lovely figure, an interesting face. Not pretty in the conventional pretty way--but interesting to look at. I never did see any of the 'Hanna Montana' series and I don't listen to her records. But if she wants to pose naked and post naked pictures of herself on the world wide web--go for it. She's a grown up now, a hottie, ...

And apparently, its fairly simple to take a star's--or anyone's--photo--and with photoshop create a nude pose... I know if someone did that to one my pictures--I'd be downright angry... To say nothing of people taking a picture in private and then posting that private moment on the world wide web...

Sexual activity is a celebratory activity, the naked body is caught in a celebratory mode--so may as well share the moment...

I know--I certainly don't hold it against her...






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