Happy New Year
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Posted:Jan 2, 2016 6:16 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 1:23 am
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I would like to wish a very happy, healthy and peaceful New Year to all - especially those of you who I have met/chatted with on this site.
I took a break away from here for a few months as I had a few personal issues to deal with and the site was proving to be more of a frustration than a comfort...
When I logged on again after Christmas it was good to see some old friends - with some very sexy and attractive new pics and some new members in my area.
I had a backlog of messages to check and reply to - but to my dismay, I find that the messages have been obscured from view and I no longer have the facility to return or exchange messages - so please forgive me for not getting back to you.
I am both curious and frustrated at not being able to read MY MAIL!!! - or reply.
The draw-backs of having a foreskin........sorry; the drawbacks of being a standard member have always been a disadvantage, but it is a category that suits me and I was previously able to converse, flirt and exchange details with other members.
IM was available - and although it had is limitations and faults - but now even Instant Messenger seems to be severely underused compared to a while back?
I even remember a time when you could gain perks by the number of views you had each day - but that was a long time ago.
Anyway, I hope you all had a decent enough holiday, with not too much stress, distress or misfortune and although I may not stay on here much longer;
Thanks for your friendship, stimulation and pleasure.
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Goodbye and good luck
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Posted:Aug 27, 2015 3:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 1:23 am
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I am done with this site for various reasons - and I just want to say farewell, thank you and good luck to all the friends I have made, for the comments/compliments I have received, sexy chats we've had and the lovely people I've met.
Most of my time on here, has been great fun xxx
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Hall Pass - with a get-out clause...
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Posted:Apr 29, 2015 6:49 am
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2015 6:01 am
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My wife just declared that she now only wants sex at weekends as she is too tired during the week for any 'of that nonsense' (very romantic!).
In the past five years we have went from 5/6 times a week to 2/3. See a pattern? So
I reiterated that I was not comfortable with being a part-time lover and that we could go to bed even earlier during the week or have evening love-making - like we used to in any room in the house - or have a bath together etc etc; but she declined and told me 'If I wasn't happy I could look elsewhere' .- Heard that before! I replied.
'No, she says; I know you need it more than I do so go ahead....but if I catch you, it's over. So there you have it....A Hall Pass - with a Get The Fuck Out! clause.
(if I get caught)
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Approaching old age - but I never got the memo.
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Posted:Apr 7, 2015 8:30 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2017 4:30 pm
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I will be 59 very soon and next year, it's 60 and I will qualify for some pension benefits and other concessions for 'elderly citizens'.
Couples we know around our age are very set in their ways and a few actually have very individual type lives with their interest groups and clubs, without their partners - not to mention separate bed rooms.
We are still very much a couple and although our sex drives have became out of sync and the content is not as varied and spicy as before - we still have fun.
I miss the oral, anal and light bondage we enjoyed, but put even more passion, love and commitment into what we still have together, as I know I am luckier than some....She still 'handles' my cock better than any other lover I ever had.
My dilemma lies with my almost constant desire for pleasure, that cannot be reciprocated and the fantasies I have, that were never fulfilled.
This cannot be the sexual addiction I have read about, because I am not having sex every time I feel aroused ( when am I not?) and it's not purely frustration, as I am having sex with my wife two or three times a week.
There are experiences I wanted to try (like a threesome) and my lady was not keen and I never pursued it any further. I have always been open minded about sex and find Transsexuals and T-Girls attractive - that's why I joined here....
She knows about my nylon and lingerie fetish as I used to wear her underwear during sex and it was our kinky little session on special occasions for years.
As the years went by, she became more reserved and 'sensible' about sex in our fifties and a lot of the frills were 'put to bed' and she will not budge on any suggestions of reviving old favourites or trying new mutual experiences.
I am thinking that maybe I am a sex maniac and need to comply; like her I should act my age and accept that we are no Spring Chickens any longer.
The problem is I can't switch off my almost constant sexual awareness and when I am not having some sort of sexual experience, I am reminiscing about past lovers or fantasizing about potential opportunities to explore my desires.
We both had affairs in the past and we got through it relatively unscathed, but as much as I feel I'm too old to have an affair, I am still young enough to want to satisfy my unfulfilled desires and try new experiences before it's too late.
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Home page is always nowhere near 'home'
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Posted:Feb 26, 2015 8:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 1:23 am
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As if I wasn't frustrated enough, the 'Home' page, tantalises me with sexy videos and fabulous photos of beautiful, sexy members - all within my desired criteria.
Unfortunately they are all usually on the other side of the planet and although I enjoy leaving a compliment or friendly comment - there is zero chance of meeting (if they were at all interested)...and don't even mention 'local match searches' as the site usually displays a random selection of unsuitable or 'dormant' members who left the site months ago. Maybe I should move 'home' ha ha!
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Are couples compatible for life?
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Posted:Feb 21, 2015 5:25 am
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2015 8:59 am
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We have been married over 30 years and although we have very much in common, a lot of the diversity and differences helped make our attraction work.
We like a lot of the same things in life and have similar tastes in things like music, movies, holiday destinations, humour, home comforts and we love .
Add to that our complimentary traits; I'm careful with cash, she spends like there's no tomorrow, I like to show off and be a clown, while she's sensible and reserved. I swear like a trooper and she's as polite as a grammar school girl.
You get the picture.... We are like most middle aged couples who have had ups, downs, tragedies and triumphs, hard times and contentment.
One thing we have never been compatible in is sex.
When we met I was fairly experienced and she was a virgin and had a very prudish outlook on anything to do with sex. But that had it's own charm, right?
We took our time and patiently learned what was acceptable and enjoyable and what was to be strictly taboo and there was a lot that was to fall into the latter.
We were so in love and the other great parts of the relationship made it an easy decision to get married and make the most of what was good in our sex life.
I was always a hot-blooded, high sex drive male with an eye for lovely ladies and an addiction to giving and receiving pleasure and loved to explore/experiment.
My wife will never wear stockings or sexy lingerie as she feels they are 'tarty' and has never masturbated, watched porn or erotic movies and detests sexual swear words of any kind. She occasionally enjoys mutual fondling and in the past ten years we only have sex once/twice a week - and only at weekends.
She does not give oral, although she has done a handful of times in the past, telling me she did not like it so it was abandoned 20 years ago.
I used to give her oral, but several years ago she asked me to stop as it felt unnatural for my mouth to be 'there' - after years of accepting my tongue?
We talked about it and other sexual matters and the conclusion was 'I knew who I was marrying and she would never change and I should look elsewhere.
Any fantasies I ever had since we met, have been dismissed out of hand and although I still love her and she loves me, I feel we could have had much more.
However I am too old now to start again, but I have some regrets about how frustrated I have been for so long and wonder if other couples in our age group have had similar compromises to make to adjust their lifestyle?
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Wrong time - wrong place?
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Posted:Dec 6, 2014 5:42 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2017 4:40 pm
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Farewell to friends and acquaintances I have made on here, the vast majority of which are far, far away in other lands. Unfortunately I have not been able to meet anyone suitable locally and although I have had lots of fun exchanging messages, comments, flirty messages and pics, I am resigned to the fact that I am in the wrong location or period of my life to ease my frustration/ loneliness at this time. Anyway, thanks Local Sexy Swingers and Merry Christmas to all who celebrate the holiday season and peace, goodwill and pleasures-a-plenty to everyone else xxx
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