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Posted:Jul 13, 2008 2:23 am
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Vaginas aren't straight canals themselves, nor is the rectum: they both have curves, too. As well, both of those orifices -- as well as the mouth and hands -- have good flexibility when it comes to a penis with a curve inside them. Obviously, curves in this direction or that may make some sexual positions more or less pleasureable or comfortable for you or your partner, depending on each of your preferences, so you'll just need to experiment to see what feels best for both of you. For instance, for a guy whose penis curves upwards, with a female partner during intercourse you may find that your partner likes being on top best facing you, while for one with a downward curve, she may want to face your feet instead... or not. Again, vaginas and rectums are stretchy and flexible, so you may not need to make any adaptations at all.Severe curvature of the penis with erection that develops when you once had a straighter penis -- of more than 30-45 degrees or so (opinions vary) or to the point that erection is painful -- is usually due to what's called Peyronie's disease. That tends to be developed in adulthood, and is caused by scar tissue being over or around the tissue that covers the coprus cavernosa and the corpus spongiosum or calcium deposits (usually due to an injury). It starts with a noticeable lump that forms on the penis, and over time, causes a curve to develop. It tends to make having an erection painful, and while for some rare men with Peyronie's, any kind of intercourse can be difficult or impossible, for most, it's still doable. While it sometimes takes care of itself over time, when it doesn't, there are treatments for Peyronie's, so if you think you may have this -- though it's rare in younger men ( the average age it develops is around 55), and only occurs in 1-3 out of every 100 men -- talk to your healthcare provider.
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str8 penis????
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Posted:Jul 12, 2008 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2008 2:16 am
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A perfectly rod-straight erection is actually less common than one with some natural, small degree of curve -- called congenital curvature -- be it to the left, to the right, up or down. Penises with some level of curve are normal and common. If it doesn't hurt when you have an erection, or curvature isn't something you seem to develop over time after never having had a curve before, then there's no reason to believe that whatever your curve is, it isn't normal and healthy. You can't bend a curved penis straight with your hands, but you don't need to. A curve in your penis that isn't physically painful with erection isn't a problem, and it's nothing you need to worry about changing.
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foreskin????
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Posted:Jul 12, 2008 7:56 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 12:43 pm
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The foreskin has thousands of sensory nerve endings in it, like the female clitoris does. Foreskins are supposed to be able to retract -- or pull back -- over the head of the penis, and that is a normal part of the way it functions: part of why it's there is to provide friction during sexual activities for the purpose of pleasure for both a guy and his sexual partners. While it may seem weird to some, there's nothing disturbing about that function, just like there's nothing disturbing about the fact that when many men masturbate, they use their hand around the penis to create the same kind of sensation a foreskin provides in moving over and back the head like that.
Sexual activities shouldn't hurt just because you have a foreskin. But uncircumcised men may find that with all the extra nerve endings of the foreskin, they're more sensitive than their circumcised brothers with a lot of sexual activities. If a sexual partner of yours is new to your kind of penis, you might have to fill them in a bit, but no more or less than you'd have to tell them about what works for you with sex and doesn't in any other respect. You can also show them, with your hands, the ways that it feels good for you to be touched, and the ways that it doesn't.
Whatever your partner chooses to do should feel good to you: if it causes you pain, you've got to let them know that. Just because a partner likes to do something themselves doesn't mean that if it doesn't feel good to you, you're obliged to do what they want. Partnered sex is supposed to be about mutual pleasure, so what feels good for you is just as important as what feels good for them, and someone in pain or discomfort always trumps someone who isn't.
If you find that no matter what you or a partner are doing, movement of your foreskin is painful, then you'll want to check in with your healthcare provider to rule out or treat any infections or other medical conditions which may be causing you that pain.
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Foreskin Frustrations
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Posted:Jul 12, 2008 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2008 2:16 am
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Worldwide, most men are not circumcised -- have not had their foreskins surgically removed, usually at birth or in infancy. Around 70% have not been circumcised. It's usually easiest to tell if a penis is circumcised or not when it's flaccid: they often look pretty similar erect. An uncircumcised penis, flaccid, looks a bit like the penis is inside a snug little sleeping bag.
Circumcision is more common in men in the United States than in most other places. In the states, we have the highest number of men circumcised for non-religious reasons, mostly because of archaic masturbation panic and inaccurate ideas about health which cloaked that panic, but also because with so many circumcised men, many fathers want their sons to have penises which resemble their own and because some parents still aren't educated as to the issues. Circumcision is very common in Jewish and Muslim men, as part of religious practices or traditions, and most men worldwide who are circumcised are Jewish or Muslim. From a health perspective, circumcision is no longer advised as a default by health organizations for infants or other men, save in cases like for skin cancer which has impacted the foreskin, or severe and persistent problems with infections.
No one kind of penis is cleaner or "dirtier," or more or less real. Both circumcised and uncircumcised penises are functional: both can become erect, be engaged in sex, urinate, ejaculate, be used with condoms, play a part in reproduction. If you have one or the other among groups or communities where a given kind is more common, you might feel insecure with or embarrassed about your penis. Just understand that millions and millions of people have both kinds, so saying any one is normal and the other is not is a lot like saying black hair is normal and blonde hair is not.
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penis size who does it matter too???
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Posted:Jul 12, 2008 7:54 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 12:43 pm
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Usually? Men.One study found that 85% of women with male partners reported being satisfied with their partner's penis size while only 55% of men reported satisfaction with their own size. We see the same kind of difference when it comes to men reporting how they feel about a female partner's breast size and the women reporting on feelings about their own breast size. When it comes to the appearance of our own sexual parts, the old adage "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" appears to often be false. Many people will say what they're worried about with genitals is what a partner will think, but it's pretty clear the problem is usually with what folks think themselves, since partners tend to be the ones who are the least judgmental and the most acceptingIf you really want to impress a woman, you're not likely to do that by bragging about your penis size or by being obsessed with your penis. When we shake out all the opinion studies with women and penises, we can easily draw the conclusion that not only do less women care about penis size than men, but that women also often have a lot less patience for guys fixating on their penises. Men with male sexual partners may sometimes find themselves more often exposed to potential partners who care or vocally advertise that they care about size. But what I'd encourage you to do is to remind yourself that again, when it comes to who is the most concerned with penis size, it's always been and probably always will be men. It's also pretty likely that a gay or bisexual man who is fixated on the size of their partner's penises is probably, at least in part, projecting his own insecurities and issues with penis size unto another man. However, there are plenty of male partners who have evolved past all that.That isn't to say some people, male or female, may not still have certain penis preferences or likes. Some people do.When penis preferences exist, they are usually more about width than length, if they're about size at all. In fact, it's often infrequently mentioned that some women find that penises which are longer than average -- particularly when their partners are very aggressive or hasty with intercourse -- can be a source of discomfort, not pleasure (and if you're a guy with a longer schlong, that doesn't doom you, either: you just want to communicate with your partner to be sure that your depth during intercourse is something that feels good to her, and adjust as needed). But, preferences or likes when it comes to penises may be about aspects of the penis you don't even think about like the texture of your veins, the way your penis curves, the shape of the head, how penises vary in terms of where they're thick and where they're thinner. There are so many kinds of penis likes a person can have that it's pretty likely most penises are going to have one of whatever specific thing someone has found they liked going on. When it comes to what's exciting and interesting with sex and partners, the devil is usually in the details, not in something we can measure with a ruler.I'd say the same things to you guys about penis preferences that I would to women about male preferences or likes when it comes to breasts. Many people have aesthetic preferences when it comes to sexual or romantic interests or partners. Some people find taller people more attractive than shorter people, brunettes more compelling than blondes, prefer small noses, big noses, bigger lips, smaller lips, big butts, little butts, body hair, no body hair. You name it, someone has a preference for it.But a preference doesn't mean someone has an aversion to something which is different than their preference, nor that that preference will always exist or usurp other likes. In other words, because someone likes X doesn't mean that Y or the idea of Y is a turn-off. I've got a preference for taking baths, but that doesn't mean I hate showers, nor that there aren't times when a shower is just the thing. And if any given shower in question had some other things I liked about it -- maybe it's gorgeous in there, maybe the water stays hotter longer -- I may even find that, over time, my preferences shift.You've got to already know that one preference for one kind of body part or one area of appearance doesn't usually dictate how someone feels about a whole person. Not only can we find new preferences or have shifts in our preferences, but other parts of that whole person may fulfill or meet other areas of preference a given person has. So, if it happens that you're not the guy who has something about your penis that happens to fit a given partner's existing sexual or aesthetic preferences, you might be the guy whose behind, walk, smile or the way you work with your hands meets one of those. Does it really matter which preference you might meet? Is it really beneficial for you or your partnerships to get hung up on which of their preferences you feel are more important, especially when what you decide is the most important one may not be the most important to the person with the preferences? Probably not.Should you ever come across anyone who earnestly reduces you down to nothing but one body part (or if you do it to yourself), that person is reducing you to an object, rather than treating you like a person. It's that person with a problem, and someone who does that isn't likely to have have quality relationships even with people who meet their exacting and shallow aesthetic preferences. I know that sometimes it can seem like every acceptance or validation you could get from everyone is meaningful, but there really are some people whose shallow approval is meaningless or so not-about-you at all (after all, your penis is but part of you: you are not your penis) that even when you get it, it's a hollow victory, especially if and when their preference or your body changes, or when you're having interactions with them that aren't about that one part of you they happen to like.I know the value of that logic is limited when someone we like doesn't express that a given part of us we find important meets their preference or expectation, or at those rare times when someone outright rejects or demeans us based on those preferences or expectations. Everyone feels like crud when judged or unaccepted based on something about us which is unchangeable (or even when it is, which is something intrinsic to us that we do not want to change, but just want to have accepted), be that race, gender, orientation, height or genital appearance. With areas where we're particularly hypersensitive or insecure -- particularly if those areas, as is often the case with penis image issues, are also part of our gender identity -- a lack of acceptance or excitement can seriously sting. But positive body image and self-esteem always have to start with you, and get strong through your own props, not someone else's. Otherwise, we'd always be at the whim of others' likes and dislikes when it came to how we felt about ourselves. When you accept your own body, no matter what others may or may not think of it, then you can always deal better with being outside someone's preferences and when you do meet them, it's a sweet extra boost to an already-strong self-image.
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penis questions
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Posted:Jul 12, 2008 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2008 6:44 pm
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Throw a rock at any sex education site or service, ask what the most common question we get is from men and we'll all tell you -- with an air of exhaustion, mostly because we get asked it so often and it's so clear to us how these worries hold men back from feeling good about themselves and their sexuality, as well as how they often negatively impact sexual relationships -- that it's about penis size. While many statistics show that around half of all men are dissatisfied with their penis size (despite the fact that their partners don't feel the same way), with younger men it often seems even more common. One typical reason is that younger men will often have unrealistic ideas about penises. When you're young, if you're making comparison, they're probably either to only a few different people -- like your Dad, maybe your best friend, maybe a few guys you've seen in passing in the restroom -- when the range of penis size varies enough that to get realistic ideas about it, we've got to be looking at more than just a few penises. With pornography becoming more and more accessible over the years, more guys are also looking at penises in porn, a really unrealistic place to look since the actors cast in porn don't tend to be the norm at all when it comes to size or how long or often they can become or remain erect for.Let's start by looking at some basic averages, based on broad, credible studies of a variety of men. When you flip through most studies, what you'll usually find is that:
The average adult penis flaccid (not erect or soft) is around 3 to 4 inches long.
The average adult penis erect (hard) is around 5.5 to 6.2 inches long.
The average adult penis erect is around 4-5 inches around (in width). This image based on a study done by Lifestyles condoms can give you a good look at what the size range between men is like.
What size a penis is when it's flaccid (not erect) doesn't necessarily indicate what size it will be erect. As I explain here, some men's penises flaccid are very nearly the same size as they are when they are erect, while others are smaller than they are erect. Neither "growers" nor "showers" are better than the other: they're just different.
When looking at studies and statistics on penis size, pay attention to who measured the penises involved. In studies where men measure themselves and self-report, we usually see larger averages than we do when doctors or nurses are doing the measuring and reporting. As stated in this study by Ansell, where men were not self-measuring, when medical staff are the ones holding the tape measures, average sizes are always below six inches in length. They also note that looking at self-reporting studies, on average men seem to overstate their own penis sizes from a quarter to a half an inch.
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WHAT TO SAY......WHAT TO SAY....
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Posted:Jul 8, 2008 5:04 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 12:43 pm
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OK GOT IT.......WE ARE LOADED FOR DUNCAN OK WITH GINGER JAR LAMPS...WHATEVER THEY ARE...LOL.....JUST BROWN CASES TO US....WELL WE HAVE ALOT OF OFFERS..JUST NO TIME...UNLIKE THE FLATBEDDING SIDE OF TRUCKING....WE ARE ALWAYS ON THE MOVE...AND HAUL ALOT OF DIFERENT THINGS....JUST WAITING TO HAUL KY JELLY..LMAO....JUST THINKING ABOUT THE FUN THAT COULD HAPPEN WITH....
PEACE FROM THE ROAD STOPPED IN KINGMAN AZ
FOR THE NIGHT TO SEE MOM AND WASH SOME CLOTHES WHICH IS NICE CAUSE ITS FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE..
HUGS FROM THE FLYING J PARKING LOT IN KINGMAN AZ
KRIS AND GEORGE
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wooooooooooooooooohooooooooooooooo..................
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Posted:Jul 5, 2008 3:42 am
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2008 10:38 am
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ok people we picked up on the 4th for the monday deliver time in Irvine Ca and a 3 stopper in the San Diego area......for some reason they need tile for their bathrooms ....40490 lbs of it.....lol...well people need to understand we might have time to play only if we dont a load leaving the area...and plus its not like we have a lot of room in the truck to invite people in to play remember we have a and other things and with the price of fuel we cant drive everywhere to play also....we need to have someone host and pick us at the truck stop..... just a thought....
kris and george
hugs from the 20 going west
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well well where to start......
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Posted:Jul 2, 2008 8:49 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2008 3:36 am
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lets see we unloaded in Santa Fe Springs CA then reloaded the next day in Dinuba CA for New Caney Tx..but we are swapping trailers with a different drivers that is going to Round Rock Tx to drop on the 4 TH.....thats about it...
Kris and George
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HAPPY HAPPPY SUNDAY................................
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Posted:Jun 29, 2008 4:15 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 12:43 pm
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OK PEOPLE SOME SAD NEWS HERE WE ARE NOT GOING HOME FOR THE 4TH CAUSE WE WERE DOWN FOR 3 DAYS IN SAPULPA OK TO GET THE TRUCK FIXED....WOOOOOHOOOOOOO....SO WE ARE GOING TO BE ON THE ROAD HAVE NO IDEA WHERE YET...SO.....WE ARE ON THE WAY TO SANTA FE SPRINGS SHOULD BE IN ONTARIO CA TONIGHT AT THE TA......EARLY DELIVERY TOMORROW 600AM..ICK.....BE SAFE...WEAR A RAIN COAT WHEN NEEDED...
HUGS FROM THE 40
KRIS AND GEORGE
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OK BACK AGAIN.....
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Posted:Jun 26, 2008 5:47 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 12:43 pm
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THEY COULD NOT FIND A LOAD FOR US TO GET TO THE YARD...SO WE DEAD HEADED TO THE YARD IN SAPULPA OK SO RIGHT NOW WE ARE GETTING THE TRUCK FIXED AND MIGHT BE HERE FOR 2 DAYS IN A HOTEL....WAITING TO SEE WHAT IS WRONG WITH IT...NO POWER AND 5.5 MPG......AND SOMETHING IS KNOCKING ON THE FLOOR BY OUR FEET.....THEY ARE THINKING IT MIGHT BE IN NEED OF A OVERHEAD....YOU NEVER KNOW...SO PEACE AND LOVE TO ALL.
HUGS FROM THE SUPER 8 HOTEL IN SAPULPA OK.
KRIS AND GEORGE
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