Why Smarter People Have Less Sex
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Posted:Oct 21, 2018 12:53 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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For the most part, the list consisted of older people -- primarily people who lived in the 1800s and earlier -- however, that being said, the time period in which they lived was not the only similarity that I noticed between many of the people included.
One of the most striking commonalities that I likened among all the famous virgins on that list was intellect. I mean, come on -- Nikola Tesla, Sir Isaac Newton, Henry Cavendish -- these weren’t just your run-of-the-mill smart guys; they were all f*ckin’ brilliant.
So, this got me to thinking. Is there any correlation between intelligence and sex drive? Is there a reason some of the smartest humans to ever roam this planet simply chose not to have sex? Were they on to something?
Well, perhaps.
After doing some research, I did, in fact, find a link between intelligence and sex drive. However, it’s more complicated than it might appear at first glance. Allow me to explain.
According to one science blog, Medical Daily, “new research by sex toy retailer, Lovehoney, found a correlation between high sexual libido and elevated intelligence,” however that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re having more sex.
Actually, it usually leads to the contrary.
In an article for Psychology Today, Lauren F. Friedman explains why people with the highest IQs are actually the least active when it comes to tapping into their own sexuality.
Using the 2011 National Survey of Family Growth, Friedman reveals how “men with college degrees are half as likely to have had four or more partners in the last year as men with a high school education alone.”
However, Friedman continues to explain that the reason behind this statistic is a complex one to understand. As a result, research on the topic gets diverted toward younger subjects to provide some additional information.
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Why sex is a 'better headache cure rather than painkillers'
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Posted:Oct 5, 2018 6:30 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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A team of neurologists found that sexual activity can lead to “partial or complete relief” of head pain in some migraines.
The study, from the University of Munster, Germany, suggests that instead of using a sore head as an excuse to refuse sex, making love can be more effective than taking painkillers.
Their research, reported in Cephalalgia, the journal of the International Headache Society, found that more than half of migraine sufferers who had sex during an episode experienced an improvement in symptoms.
One in five patients left without any pain at all, while others, in particular male sufferers “even used sexual activity as a therapeutic tool”, they added.
They suggested that sex triggered the release of endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers, through the central nervous system, which can in turn reduce, or even eliminate, a headache.
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Part # 2 The Art of Edging: 6 Sizzling Ways to Control Your Orgasms
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Posted:Jun 4, 2018 7:03 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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#1 Old faithful. This is your run-of-the-mill clitoris-only stimulation. What you do is masturbate or ask your partner to touch you until you feel like you’re about to burst. Once you’re at that point, slow down and continue to rub the clitoris with less pressure. Be careful, because this is a delicate state. Any excessive movement will cause you to orgasm prematurely, but not enough could end up killing the sensation.
Note that you cannot continue to stimulate it using one speed. You have to increase it again to the point before orgasm and then turn it down a notch again. Do this over and over until it’s impossible to control anymore.
Once you’re ready, go to town and rub that one out until your eyes roll back in your head. By that point, the edging you’ve done will have been enough to elicit an orgasm that’s more powerful than the ones that you’re used to. [Read: 10 female masturbation tips for orgasmic bliss]
#2 Using lube. Assuming you didn’t need to use lube using the first method, doing so now will be much more pleasurable because of the slick and smooth feeling it gives. It helps stimulate your clitoris faster, which is a good thing for women who need a bit more time to get into the mood.
#3 Using a vibrator. The tricky part about using a vibrator is that the sensations you feel will be significantly more intense than it would have been using your hands or your partner’s hands. A good tip, when using a vibrator for edging would be to use a low setting or a vibrator that doesn’t gyrate or have only one setting.
#4 Dry humping. This method is quite useful for the more adventurous individuals. An over-the-pants edging session might take longer, but those who prefer doing it in locations where there is a greater risk of getting caught might be able to climax faster, if necessary. The best place to try this would be in your car. Nothing illegal about scratching down there, right? But just to be sure, check with your lawyer! [Read: Dry humping and the art of slow and powerful orgasms]
#5 During sex. The easiest way to do this with someone else, i.e., a penis in your vagina, would be to communicate your status honestly and clearly. Faking is not an option, if you want to make the most out of edging.
Before doing this with your partner, talk about how you’re going to do it and what you’re expecting. This is helpful in finding out how you and your partner can perform edging together because it’s different for every person. The methods may be the same, but the speed of stimulation, the location, and the technique will inevitably vary.
Once you’re at the point before climax, tell your partner. Tell them how you’re feeling and whether or not it’s working. If it’s not, you can always try again. That’s more than half the fun anyway. [Read: Simultaneous orgasms – 19 things you need to know about it]
#6 During oral sex. Again, the best way to perform this would be to instruct your partner and guide them along the way. To make yourself feel less like a drill sergeant barking orders, try to infuse some dirty talk into the process. It might make things a little hotter, especially if you’re the type who responds to sound, so try not to sound too enthusiastic when you’re not yet ready to climax.
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The Art of Edging: 6 Sizzling Ways to Control Your Orgasms
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Posted:Jun 4, 2018 7:02 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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When it comes to sex, most people want to experience the best. The best being the longest, hottest, and most intoxicating ride of their life. And what better way to achieve that than with a mind-blowing orgasm?
But how does one achieve it and is it even possible to have one that makes your brain fall out of your head? *Metaphorically, speaking that is* Well, the answer may lie in what experts call edging.
What is edging?
Edging is orgasm control. It is also called peaking or surfing. With those terminologies on the table, one can assume it is about manipulating one’s orgasm to the point of unbridled ecstasy.
It is done by stimulating yourself to the point right before orgasm and maintaining that state of arousal using different methods. When you’ve practiced it enough times, you can thoroughly experience the benefits of edging which is simply one big climax.
Mind you, this is not your regular orgasm that hits you like a train and then leaves you with your head hanging off the bed and your tongue lolling out. Nope. The orgasm that edging allows is one that gives you mini seizures and uncontrollable whole-body spasms.
Relax, because this will not lead to a medical emergency—most of the time. It’s actually just a powerful feeling pushing your nerve endings to the pinnacle of extreme sexual pleasure.
It can be performed alone or with a partner, but the best results can be achieved only if you are fully aware of what’s happening to your body. Some people might be able to pinpoint when their partner is about to climax, which allows them to perform edging on their partner almost perfectly. Others might not be so lucky, especially if their partner is prone to faking their enthusiastic responses in bed. [Read: 10 easy tips for women who want a mind blowing orgasm]
How do you perform edging on women?
There are a variety of methods one can use to perform edging, but the easiest would be with the use of the clitoris. A G-spot orgasm is just stimulation of the inner parts of the clitoris through the vaginal wall, so the external part would be a better marker to get you started.
You can perform edging using your conventional stimulating methods like rubbing and licking, but you have to know when to moderate your movements. Stimulating yourself too much can lead to a quick orgasm, while stimulating yourself too little would end up pushing you to an early refractory period without the orgasm *the refractory period is when you have to build yourself up to an orgasm again*.
You can try for a G-spot orgasm, but the sensitivity of your vaginal walls partnered with vulval stimulation can make it hard to control the extent of your orgasm. If you’d like to practice edging using that area, you can ask your partner to try it or you can use a vibrator or dildo instead. [Read: Clitoris stimulation – 10 sexy ways to please the clitoris the right way]
Edging techniques
As we’ve mentioned, edging is not limited to a few strokes on your nether regions. There are a variety of methods you can use to experience edging, with or without a partner. Here are some of the most commonly used and also some new ones for the more experimental individuals.
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Part 2 : The Art of an Orgasm
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Posted:Jun 4, 2018 6:58 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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My orgasms are much more intense during clitoral stimulation. A vaginal orgasm on the other hand is not an easy thing to achieve but I do achieve them with Emerald. I can tell he takes a mental note of the way my body reacts to him each time we have sex. He takes those reactions and builds on them by introducing something new. After all, sex has to be fun and interesting.
Going back to the difficulty of achieving a vaginal orgasm, if I lay there and take a mundane in and out movement with nothing else to stimulate me, it may feel good but I will not achieve an orgasm. It just won’t happen. Some women just cannot achieve a vaginal orgasm by penetration alone and this is why so many of us are faking it. Emerald stimulates my mind. I can feel his aggressively spoken words in my vagina. His stroke is rhythmic and sensual – even during the intense moments. He knows how to give me a little at a time and then go deeper as my body reacts to him. He makes good use of his hands, be it clitoris stimulation, anus stimulation, holding my arms/hands down, touching my head/hair, or grabbing my neck. I once came so hard during penetration because he looked into my eyes and then proceeded to kiss me in the most passionate way. Another time because he gave me anal stimulation and grabbed my neck during penetration. That one was a bit much and I don’t expect him to do all of that every time we have sex but it worked. Another thing I learned was to get out of the bed. Sex is fun in other places and positions.
If you are really looking to spice up the sex, read up on kama sutra. I will write more about that later.
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The Art of an Orgasm
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Posted:Jun 4, 2018 6:56 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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I put sex on a pedestal right next to love. I never thought I’d love again after Licorice and I’d never in a million would have thought I’d have the sex life I have today. I consider myself new to the sex world. I feel like I started late. But I always had a strong intense sex drive. I’ve only had sexual partners including Emerald. The previous partners (Vanilla Bean and Licorice) I can count on both hands how many times we had sex.
I’ve never experienced an orgasm, a real orgasm, during sex until I met Emerald. Note: This excludes masterbation and only applies to sexual activity involving people (or more if your nasty). I’m still learning my body but thing for sure is achieving an orgasm during sex is complicated. Men need to really understand a woman’s body in order to her achieve an orgasm. There’s an art to achieving an orgasm.
Men must go into sex with an unselfish and patient mind. If you just want to ‘nut’ n of this will matter and most likely the female will fake her orgasm. I’ve faked an orgasm before but thankfully I’ve never had to fake with Emerald yet. Call me lucky.
Sorry guys, if you are sexually active, you have experienced a fake orgasm and just didn’t know it at least once in your life. Maybe even multiple times. If your female sex partner tells you that she’s never faked an orgasm, chances are she’s lying. Why are we faking? Because some men don’t understand the complexity and art of the orgasm.
Feminine sexuality is represented by water, maulinity fire. Fire is intense, quick to start and quick to flame out like his single orgasm. A huge pot of water takes time to heat and is the reservoir of massive energy storage. When we reach the boiling point, it’s like an unstoppable fr train.
Men should never just stick the penis in and expect good results from it. Like a huge pot of water everything takes time. A woman needs to be aroused. Fore is important. Never ever skip this step. This can be simple things like kissing on the neck and breasts or a hot make out session to more complex things like touching the clitoris and oral sex. Fore possibilities are endless. Role ing and sadistic behavior may be a pleasant addition to your sex life. Who knew innocent me would like to be man handled and sexually choked?
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Why do many women love anal?
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Posted:May 31, 2018 3:12 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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The inclusion of data is always helpful. Below you will find some published information from the CDC on the percentage of heterosexual males and females who have ever engaged in anal sex and the science explaining why it can be a biological source of sexual stimulation. Knowing the biology might not tell you exactly what it will feel like but it can give you a sense of what it MIGHT feel like.
The National Health Statistics Report from 2006 to 2010 (Sexual Behavior, Sexual Attraction, and Sexual Identity in the United States: Data from the 2006–2010 National Survey of Family Growth) included information on the prevalence of anal sex practices acquired from in person interviews with 22,682 males and females aged 15–44 in the US. They found that “37% of women and 45% of men ever had anal sex with an opposite-sex partner.”
In another article published in 2010, it was noted that in the past year alone “More than 20% of men ages 25–49 and women ages 20–39 reported anal sex...” (J Sex Med 2010; 7 (supp 5): 255–265)
Before discussing the biology of sexual nerve distribution in the anogenital region it is prudent to note that there is evidence to tamper some of the enthusiasm for the practice. Risks are inherently associated with sex of any kind so the information included now is for the purpose of allowing informed decisions to some degree
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Why Older Women Like Younger Men: Reasons Why Women Become Cougars
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Posted:May 31, 2018 3:00 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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Why do women like younger men? Why would an older woman want to date a younger guy? Why do women become cougars and what makes a woman fancy a toy boy who is younger to her by a decade?
Answering these questions is not necessarily as direct as answering - 'why do older men like younger women?' This post looks at some of the deeper reasons why a woman in her thirties or forties may seek a relationship with a man in his twenties.
1) Men of their age may not be as attractive and handsome
Age is not kind to anyone. Wrinkles and beer bellies are just some of the obvious signs of ageing which add years to a man's look. A woman may date a younger man if she feels that men of her age are not as attractive or handsome any more.
This applies especially to women who have not allowed the years take toll on their bodies by being motivated to work out and stay fit. They may feel that they are compromising by going out with a man who is their age, but looks at least a decade older. She would rather date a man who is a decade younger but looks almost her age.
2) Being in charge: Advantage of increased relationship experience over her toy boy lover
An older woman will have more relationship experience than her young lover. This makes the woman feel more capable of handling the ups and downs of a relationship. She will derive pleasure in knowing that she is in charge of the relationship.
A young guy may also not mind the woman taking charge in the relationship as long as her behavior does not come across as annoying or nagging. This is a win-win situation for the younger man and the older woman.
3) Advantage of taking the lead in the bedroom
A woman in her 30's or 40's could be married but living separately, divorced, or never married but been in and out of many relationships. In either of these situations, the woman is likely to have had much more experience in the bedroom than her toy boy lover.
Dating gets very difficult for women as they age. A woman may be able to confidently enter a relationship with a younger guy knowing that she has had more experience in the bedroom than him. There are no insecurities and the fear of not living up to expectations is transferred from the older woman to the younger guy.
4) Men of their age are generally married or in a relationship
Lack of choice is a real hindrance for a woman in her late thirties and forties. Many older women date younger guys simply because most men of their age are either married, in a relationship or not bothered at all.
An older woman may naturally start dating a guy who is younger than her because of this reason. Yet, she will be called a cougar because the term itself points to women who date men younger than them by many years.
5) To get the feeling of being young and youthful again
When a woman dates a younger guy, she is exposed to a life that she would have virtually forgotten about. The playful romance, romantic outings and youthful love can make her feel like she is reliving her twenties.
The presence of a younger man will also keep a woman updated with the latest trends, helping her become trendier. She will get to keep up with the latest in music, movies, fashion and media – something which she never had a chance while being burdened by the responsibilities of marriage, and work.
6) Experiencing the thrill of dating a younger guy
Everyone likes to let off some steam after working hard or being stuck in a short rut. There are many ways of doing this and one of them is to do something that others don't approve of. This concept is similar to the mentality of a or a , who will always go for the candy that he or she is not allowed to eat.
The elusive nature of having a relationship with a younger man can attract an older woman who is looking for something that will thrill her and completely change her life.
7) The feeling of dictating matters of finance in the relationship
Cougars are typically shown in popular culture as women who have more money than their younger male partners. This is because the woman presumably has worked for many years and is in a very healthy financial situation.
She can buy her younger lover gifts, take him out on dates and even take him shopping. This thrill of taking the lead in money matters may be quite an exciting and nurturing feeling for the older woman.
 Younger guys are less serious and more fun
Single men in their thirties and forties can be burdened by many responsibilities. Mortgage payments, alimony payments, pressure at work, credit card debts and from previous relationship are just some of the things that take the fun out of an older single man's approach to life.
In comparison, men in their twenties have fewer things to worry about. This makes them more fun-loving and spontaneous. Younger men will be willing to go out for that midnight pizza without worrying about an early morning the next day or they will happily party on a weekday without fussing about a hangover on the next.
A younger man will also be relatively less occupied, making him readily available for impromptu dates. All these things make a relationship with a younger man a lot less serious and a lot more fun.
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Why Do People Love Kinky Sex So Much?
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Posted:May 31, 2018 2:57 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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Just last week, we told you about how women—yes, women—are actually on the hunt for kinkier sex, making us men wonder why they prefer it to just a decent romp sesh every couple days.
While some couples may be afraid to tie up, whip, spank, handcuff, dominate or do whatever crazy fetishes they may come up with, there's actually a proven, scientific reason why BDSM is so desired—and, thanks to Broadly, we have an answer.
"Like many potentially stressful or extreme experiences (e.g., sky-diving, fire-walking), individuals' bodies react to that stress when they engage in BDSM," Science of BDSM researcher Kathryn Klement told Broadly. "We interpret these cortisol results to mean that when people engage in BDSM play (as the receiver of sensations) or extreme rituals, their bodies release a hormone usually associated with stress. However, we've also found that people subjectively report their psychological stress decreasing, so there is a disconnect between what the body is experiencing, and what the individual is perceiving."
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5 Reasons Why Sex Is Important In Your Relationship
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Posted:May 31, 2018 2:54 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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Keeps you connected
Sex is an intimate experience, which can bring you closer to your partner not just physically but emotionally. Your bedroom chemistry can also improve the chemistry in your relationship. A sexless relationship can become vulnerable over time and therefore, you need sex to keep the fire burning.
Keeps stress at bay
With the kind of lives we live, stress has become an integral part of it. This often takes a toll on your relationship. However, research shows that sex releases a feel-good chemical in the brain, which reduces stress levels. Instead of resorting to antidepressants, engage in a heated sex session to improve your well being and strengthen your relationship.
Keeps the romance alive
Sex may seem like a physical activity but it has an emotional appeal to it. It causes the body to release oxytocin, which is also called the love hormone that will make you feel that you need to love and trust your partner.
Keeps the hormones balanced
We’ve already mentioned that being sexually active will calm stress but apart from that it also helps your body maintain hormonal balance. This hormonal balance will calm other emotional problems like depression and anxiety and will also increase fertility.
Keeps you both healthy
Sex can also benefit your overall health. Sex can also make you more flexible. It also acts as a metabolic and immune booster and can also fight the ageing process. This ensures that it not only keeps you and your partner healthy but also keeps your relationship vibrant.
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Leftover Words.......Ero......tic
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Posted:Jan 16, 2018 1:11 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:34 am
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The touch of her fingers was soft and firm. They traversed the length of my arm with an almost exasperating slowness, causing my breathing to grow heavy and deafening to my own ears. As they traipsed ever further with painful slowness, I felt my heart beating at dizzying speed, as if I were on the verge of an abyss.
I lifted my gaze from her fingers and when our eyes met, a shiver ran through my body. And now? We were beyond words, because it was impossible for anyone to express everything that this made me feel. And even if they existed, I would have been unable to formulate a sentence at all. But no, we did not have to talk either, because our eyes connected and they said it all, silently but without question.
I do not know if it was her, me or both, but soon the distance between her body and mine was shortened and I feared that she could hear the heart thudding in my chest. Her hand settled on my cheek gently – and maybe with some fear, as if my skin were as fragile as an insect’s wing – and she stroked it lightly. I looked to hand, then heard her sigh before she closed the centimeters that separated us and put her lips on mine..................soon will continue....
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BDSM-themed Erotic
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Posted:Jan 16, 2018 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2018 10:40 pm
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I nearly jump out of skin, but then stand still, obeying the voice that has appeared behind me. I feel the pounding of my frantic heart and I fear she can hear it too. I realize that I’ve dropped my grocery bags, and they’ve spilled their contents onto the floor. My whole body is alert and my senses more receptive than ever, and I know I heard something break. Perhaps the bottle of white wine I’d bought for dinner, or the jar of sundried tomatoes. Whatever it was, it’s not important.
The female voice ceases to be just a voice: I feel her hands coming down my waist. It stops at my bottom, squeezing it. A slight tremor sets in my body and that’s when I begin to feel fear.
Ocean; the letters come in a strong swell in my mind.
“Open the door. And hurry up,” she says, with a tranquility that would puzzle me if I weren’t so nervous.
I put a hand in my purse and rummaged through cell phone, charger, lipstick, pens and old tickets, trying to find the keys. Het hands continue to traverse my body in a none-too-gentle way, causing me to shiver. I find my keys and fumble, making several attempts to put it in the lock, until she rips them out of my hands and opens the door in just a few seconds. She pushes me inside and slammed the door.
I want to scream, very strong, but I feel a knot in the throat that prevents me. Ocean, I hear in my head. I can only think of the fucking “ocean.”
She pushes me against the wall, pulling down my thin dress.
I close my eyes tightly and when I open them again, my dress is on the floor, ripped. It was one of my favorites. She’s in black and I can’t see her face. It is covered by a leather mask. What I do see clearly are her penetrating gray eyes.
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