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I had my first interracial encounter in the 70s. My husband is highly supportive of my activities. I like to go out on dates as well as spend evenings with my guys in the comfort of our own home.... and sometimes theirs.
Love seeing comments about our blog entries also. And, don't forget to add your votes to the various polls we have.
My husband [ who is straight ] does most of the posting here and you will find a lot of tips about improving your chances of meeting us here as well as all kinds of stories from our past and new things we decide to write about that are happening.
Enjoy!
Some blog entries that will help you when contacting me.
Tips on making it happen
Carol39s interest in Interracial
Members who are not real or sincere
The Perfect Date
And also... recently went CRAZY and posted a whole set of tips about meeting and getting with Carol. Hope you have some time to spend reading them. They are: One on One Play, Overnights, I promice, I won't cum in your mouth, Kiss me Baby, Bareback, I need to be descreet because I'm married, I'm white do I have a chance, Becoming a regular, and Being persistant and patient
Polls - We have several polls in our blog, be sure and cast your vote:
How far would you drive
Another preference question
Are you into Interracial
How important is fucking on the first date
What's with all the polls
Just for fun poll
Did you ever
Long term relationship
Which is more exciting for you\8b
Since standard members can't see my profile, I have included it within my blog.
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Weekend proposal
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Posted:Nov 21, 2008 4:27 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2010 3:59 pm
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Carol got an interesting email this morning. It was a white guy who is located over 225 miles away asking her if she could come visit him for a wekend full of fucking and sucking and all that jazz. He even offered to come here the 'next' time!
Well, we did write him back. Not sure why because I suspect that his email was a 'standard block' of text that he uses for all his intros. I may in fact come back after posting this and post it for all to see. I think it was his frequently used message because it was a bit long compared to what most people write in an opening correspondence. And, there was absolutely nothing in it that I felt was 'specific' to Carol. No references to anything in her profile.
The thing is... he had so many strikes against her accepting his invitation that it wasn't funny. First off, he is white and Carol's profile and her pictures and our blog entries indicate that she is virtually exlusive to black men. Second, he was so far away that even if he had come here several times and she loved being with him... she would NEVER travel that far herself.
Anyway... it is Friday morning... she is off until Sunday at 5PM. The guy that was supposed to come and spend the weekend with her last week... but had to cancel... is again supposed to come for the weekend or at least for this evening. We certainly hope he does however if he doesn't, she has already lined up a replacement for tonight who she has been with before who we believe to be virtually 100% reliable and available.
As for Saturday, she will either still have her 'weekend' plans or possibly, her replacement guy for tonight may extend his stay until Sunday and finally, the guy she has been with the most over the last few years may be coming over Saturday night to watch a football game with me and, do Carol if possible.
Plus, there is another guy who has expressed interest in 'anything' between now and Sunday evening. So, should be an event filled weekend for her. But, may be her last 'fling' for the year as well. We have our oldest coming for Thanksgiving next Wednesday through Sunday. Our youngest is graduating from her school Monday or Tuesday after Thanksgiving and could be here sometime between the 3rd of December and year-end for 2 full weeks. Then, the oldest will be back just after Christmas until just after New years.
We hope there is overlap with our two 'Navy' daughters so that they can spend some time with each other as well as us but also to allow for some playtime between now and early January.
Oh, and back to this guy's offer for her to come visit him. Carol just walked in and was asking me... 'Why did he contact me?' which of course is due to the fact that he was totally NOT what her profile preferences indicate. I told her that I suspected his message was a 'form letter' that he was sending to every female maybe with a 500 mile range of him. But, I also commented to her... 'he did say he lived out in the mountains on a farm' which, to some extent Carol would find 'exciting' because of the possibilities of having some outdoor 'fun' and nudity. But, her comment was... 'yeah, plenty of places to bury the body'.
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Thursday Morning
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Posted:Nov 20, 2008 3:57 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 10:52 am
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Why is it that the week seems so long on Monday Morning and as we get towards the end of the week, we wonder where it the week went?
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Still fuming...
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Posted:Nov 17, 2008 9:55 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2008 5:03 am
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I'm still pretty upset with how certain aspects of last weekend went (on the playtime scene that is).
A week before, Carol became intrigued by a man who called her that Sunday night and she agreed to let him come and visit us Friday night through Sunday.
This is unprecidented with Carol... to actually grant the entire weekend like this to someone. Unfortunately, and this is one of the reasons she tends to not commit until just 0 to 48 hours ahead... his schedule changed and he had to cancel. However, he contacted us early (like Thursday morning) which gave us plenty of time to look into other options. Hopefully, he gets this coming weekend.
What is so maddening is, that another guy who has been chatting and calling and exchanging emails and messages was also interested in the weekend. He had been asking for one for some time. Now, as I mentioned above, it is difficult to get Carol to agree to an entire weekend commitment so up until then... with one exception, the most she had agreed with this other guy for, was to allow him to come up maybe on a Saturday afternoon and spend the night. Something like a 24 to 36 hour date maximum. But, as of yet... it hadn't occured.
When we contacted him Thursday evening about him arriving around 7PM Friday evening... he told us that he was unsure of his work schedule as far as Saturday and Sunday was concerned (especially Sunday) and that he would know for sure between noon and 4PM Friday... but, he was certain that at a minimum that he would be coming down Friday evening. We said, that's cool... and he had both Carol's and my cell phone number and we had his as well.
Now, for background... he has been with her at least twice sexually and ALWAYS makes it very clear that he is highly interested not only in BEING with Carol more... but being with her on a somewhat regular basis. Timing up to this point however had never allowed him to spend the night.
There WERE two occasions prior to this weeknend when he was actually offered a weekend or an overnight and both times... he contacted us to let us know that his work schedule wouldn't allow it.
So, here are the sequence of events:
As of Thursday evening... everything was 'set' for him to arrive around 7PM on Friday night and that he would be able to stay until sometime Sunday. At the time, Carol's schedule was that she was working 1:45PM until 9:30PM Friday evening, off all day Saturday, and then 4PM till 9PM on Sunday. And, that he would know HIS schedule after talking to his supervisor sometime between noon and 4PM.
Friday 1PM. I called him to get an update. Got voice mail, also told him that Carol's job had not called with re-scheduling of her hours which had been something we had mentioned as a slim possibility. Left message that everything was still GO with us.
Friday 5:15PM. I called him when I arrived home from work because I assumed he would know his schedule and he and I had discussed going out to dinner while we waited on Carol to get off work. Got voice mail, left a message.
Friday 7:00PM. Still had not heard from him however... I had left Yahoo Messenger up and running and saw that he had 'logged out' at about 10 minutes till 6PM. He lives about an hour away. So, since I was starting to get hungrey, and curious about why he still hadn't called me... I called once more. Got voice mail. This time, didn't leave a message but 'assumed' he was on the highway.
Friday 7:15PM. Carol arrived home. She had specifically requested that she get off early. I had no idea she was going to do this, but she did. And, she was VERY disappointed that her weekend playmate wasn't here. Not only had she gotten off early that Friday, but she swapped hours with someone else so that she wouldn't have to go into work until Monday!
Now, I might mention that, Carol is paid hourly. And, her management doesn't like last minute time-off request yet she did just that because she was so looking forward to the weekend. This is money out of our weekly budget plus as I mentioned, it doesn't set well with her bosses when she makes a request such as this. Which, usually she NEVER does.
Friday 7:30 and later... we didn't try calling him again. We gave him the benefit of the doubt that something totally unexpected had come up which was why he hadn't contacted us and the plan was to just kick back and chill until the next morning on the assumption that he would let us know what happened and so despite getting a nice invitation from another guy around 8PM for 'right now', we both just relaxed and watched TV and went to bed.
Saturday around 7AM. I noticed that this guy (who was on our buddy list) was online on Yahoo. But, at this point... I was somewhat angered by the lack of contact. So, I did not message him. I was still hoping the phone would ring or at least we'd get a Yahoo message. But... never did.
Saturday around 1PM. By then, we had totally written him off and she got to where she was willing to make plans with someone else. Around 3PM, she did and a guy from Greensboro (first time meet) came over around 6PM and stayed the night and so she was able to salvage Saturday night and part of Sunday morning.
Honestly, I didn't check to see if that no-show guy was on Yahoo IM on Sunday but I did notice that he was online this morning (he usually is).
Bottom line is... at this point, this guy stands about Point 1% of ever getting another chance to get with Carol.
My question is... what do you people think about this? Why would this man, who KNOWS what it is like to be with Carol, apparently go so far out of his way to anger Carol and TOTALLY piss her husband off to this point?
We all know 'scedules change' but this guy made no attempt to contact us either by calling Carol or me nor made contact over Yahoo.
Carol is a good sport about this stuff and somewhat forgiving. However, short of him calling her and getting on his knees to beg forgiveness while offering up at least some for of excuse... his 'futures' are over with her... and his chance of contacting her through me are ZERO!
What I am beginning to become convinced of is, that despite this man saying all along that he was single... that the reality is that he is married or at least has a live-in girl friend. And, that he ONLY answers the phone and ONLY responds via email when he is sure he can get away with it. And, that the two previous encounters were strickly due to his getting away with it... and, that this overnight thing is totally fantasy. But, even if that is true... why would he screw up his occasional play with Carol by getting her to agree to a full blown weekend?
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Sunday report...
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Posted:Nov 16, 2008 5:36 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2008 6:01 am
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Well, absolutely no surprises in College Football.
My assumption now is that it is guaranteed that either Alabama or Florida will play for the National Championship. To be finalized is whether a Big 12 team makes it to that game. The only reason one wouldn't is if the team from the Big-12 South looses to the Big-12 North representative where all Misouri needs to do is beat Kansas.
The Big 12 South picture hasn't changed in my opinion other than Texas was able to insure it still has a chance to be part of a 3 way tie which probably means they won't get to be the Big-12 South Champ.
Carol had a topsy-turvey situation this weekend. She originally had plans with one guy for the weekend but he had to cancel. She made weekend plans with another guy who was a total no-show. This no-show was especially bad because she got off early Friday evening for it and also got switched out of her Sunday afternoon work schedule as well. She got one offer from a nice gentleman around noon but she declined it. She ALMOST accepted it but the fact that she hadn't spent that much time with him on the phone, him being nearly 5 hours away... well, she thought she should spend more time chatting with him before commiting. She definitely wanted to play last night and, it still being early in the day... figured that someone local would call. He-he, these days... with all the no-shows, I'd call that a gamble for sure!
But, around 3PM, we made contact with someone who we'd exchanged some messages with who lived only 20 miles away. It was a 'first meet' but he ended up spending the night with her. And, although I haven't chatted with Carol this morning... she is catching up on sleep after (apparently) a long night cuddling and playing and pillow talking. But, from what I could tell... it went really well for the both of them.
So, back to football... next Saturday... OU can improve their situation greatly by beating Texas Tech. I suspect there will be a hundred points scored in the game. OU can't clinch the Big-12 South with a win but they CAN definitely loose all chances if they lose.
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No-Shows
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Posted:Nov 15, 2008 8:07 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2008 9:15 am
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We definitely seem to attract them. Last night's last minute scheduling of with a guy turned into a total no-show. Despite him having been with her twice before... I think he screwed up TOO much this time to get another chance. He has proven un-reliable in the past as well. We look poorly on a 'first time meet' no-show but are typically willing to give some slack to guys who have proven themselves in the past... but, a little slack is all there is.
I assume Caorl will play tonight with someone... at the moment, just wondering with who.
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Another weekend coming...
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Posted:Nov 14, 2008 3:24 pm
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2008 8:11 am
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Carol was supposed to have weekend guest... but, he had to cancel. So, she turned to someone else who she has been with a couple of times... since he has been asking for a weekend and give him the ok.
He was supposed to call and confirm sometime between noon and 4:30. It's now 6:25 and we haven't heard form him and all we get is voice mail.
Too bad if he doesn't show up... Carol has all day Saturday and most of Sunday off.
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Weekend Wrapup
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Posted:Nov 11, 2008 4:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2008 3:48 am
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Well, Saturday turned into back to back encounters for Carol, one a first time 'partner' however he had been out on a nice date with her previously and she really enjoyed him. This was followed by her most frequent partner who had come over to watch the football game with me.
Sunday she rested.
But, Monday evening brought phone call after phone call and temptation finally got to her because one of the guys she had been with before has been playing phone tag somewhat lately and they finally connected... one the phone and then physically.
She has a date to go bowling this evening. First time meeting but I think there are good possibilities she will do some balling after the bowling.
Tomorrow is just plain weird! We got an email from someone who was in town for the week only visiting a sick relative. I gave him Carol's phone number and they talked last night and Carol was finding him very interesting. But, then, he let her know that basically, all he really wanted was a blow job. Normally, I would have expected Carol to pass on an 'offer' such as this but, as she often does... she surprised me and said 'probably'. I think if anything, she was impressed that the man KNEW EXACTLY what he wanted. I'm pretty sure she will be ready to 'service' him tomorrow evening. Interesting, and weird!
Carol usually prefers and more slower paced advance where she chats with a guy 2 or 3 times on the phone, and then makes plans to meet and sexually based activities are usually talked about but no promices are made. But, sometimes a VERY direct approach works. Read the blog entry for Roy somewhere back a few entries.
This coming weekend is shaping up to be a really exciting one. A member here on Local Sexy Swingers must have spent hours studying our blog entries here on Carol's likes and dislikes. He got invited to come spend the entire weekend with Carol here at our home. This weekend invite is really unprecidented. Not only has she not actually met this guy face to face, she actually suggested the weekend long visit. She has mentioned possible weekends before to guys but it never got to the point of making a formal invite. Also, if she does him Friday night, Saturday, and then once more on Sunday... he will be the first guy in history (excluding me of course) to ever get Carol 3 days in a row.
And, to Mr. Magic (We never get too descriptive in these blogs about WHO we're talking about), you and your silver tongue are definitely to be congratulated. If the weekend turns out to be half as good as the telephone calls, Carol is in for a great weekend and Mr. Magic may find he has all the 'weekends' he wants.
So, with 2 guys on Sunday, one Monday, a good possibility Tuesday and Wednesday, and the a 3 day weekend encounter...Carol may set a record for 'actvity' that she is unlikely to repeat. I've read some other blogs where a lady professes to have done dozens in a week. No way would Carol ever be THAT adventurous. Since mid-july of this year, there have been gaps between ANY encounters of 25 days, 20 days, 17 days, and three gaps of about 12 days each. We keep a spreadsheet that cronicles when and who she has been with, it also contains a lot of our contact info, and in 2008 year to date, she has a total of 68 encounters which puts her quite a bit over what I had thought her average was which is once per week. She had 60 total in 2007. 33 in 2006, and just 12 in 2005. I suspect 2008 will be a record she won't break ever.
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Things REALLY change fast
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Posted:Nov 8, 2008 11:03 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2008 8:54 am
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Well, 'Sunday' said he got called into work also... was looking bleak! But, he was available NOW so, we assume he will be here in about a 1/2 hour.
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Thangs change fast...
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Posted:Nov 8, 2008 8:44 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2008 8:30 am
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Well, Saturday's plans went south... they guy got called into work. We will see what happens next.
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Weekend plans
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Posted:Nov 8, 2008 5:56 am
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Shaping up to be a GREAT weekend for fun and games. Carol has tentative plans to have a new gentleman meet her tonight. He is a member of this site and probably will read this sometime. He and I have exchanged several emails and also chatted a couple of times on the phone so I've actually had more contact with him that Carol has.
He is in the right age group, is single, and seems interested in having 'good times' with Carol that include MORE than just getting naked in the bedroom. Just wish he was located closer than 60 miles away. As of this morning, the actual plans for this evening are still undecided but should be resolved by noon at the latest.
I can't stress how important 'interest' beyond 'just fucking' is for Carol as well as myself. However, unfortunately, this is more the exception than the rule. We do understand... some guys see the fact that she is married as being a 'dead-end' and would rather devote their time to meeting and dating ladies where there is a potential for 'real romance' so all they are interested in is an occasional 'diversion' that gets their rocks off. And, often Carol is totally ok with just the sex.
One thing the guy doesn't know...it just never happened to come up in the conversation, is that I may have a friend over to watch a football game between about 3:30PM till 7PM. This 'friend' has been coming over all football season to watch games with me... and, who does fuck Carol often as well. He ALWAYS wants to fuck Carol when he comes over but sometimes she is at work or just isn't up for it so we just enjoy the game. It will be 'interesting' to see this evening/afternoon play out. Carol is interested in her 'date' today and frankly, doesn't have a 3some in mind but a lot will depend upon the situation as it unfolds. One thing that is always somewhat humourous is that guys who 'date' Carol... seem to tend to react somewhat like the men who dated our daughters. They come in, set and chat while Carol puts on her last layer of makeup and brushes her hair for the 20th time as women do. Of course, they always are trying to be gentlemanly and polite as if I were Carol's father instead of her husband. But, this afternoon could be pretty kinky as her date may find himself waiting on her to style her hair while he sets and chats with both her husband and one of her lovers.
And, for his benefit in case he reads this before this evening's arrival... Carol is interested in meeting HIM! He-he... it will also be interesting to see how our other friend handles himself. Will he take on that 'fatherly' role as well and caution this other man to 'have her home by midnight'? Probably so because he has become a real friend of both Carol's and mine and understands Carol's needs and desires. Maybe someday, this new guy will find himself in the same situation when he and I are setting around enjoying a Saturday evening watching football and Carol's date comes by to pick her up.
Anyway, got sort of off topic there... the thing is, I mentioned earlier that a lot of guys are just interested in getting laid and not in long term relationships and defintely not into this 'dating' thing. No problem here... there will ALWAYS be times when that is all Carol is interested in and in fact, she 'assumes' this is their motivation initially anyway. In my mind, what guys overlook is the fact that Carol can be treated like a single lady without the worry that she will be trying to tie them down to a solo relationship leading on to marriage and and all that jazz. Having an evening where people simply enjoy being together, doing 'things' together AS WELL AS fucking is fun for all.
Back to the weekend... of course, it will depend upon how her 'scheduled' date goes but... there is another gentleman whom she 'dated' one day at the State Fair. The timing wasn't right for more than this 'social' activity so she has not played with him yet but definitely intends to. He is supposed to call Sunday Morning to see how her day is going with the idea of getting down if possible.
And, it doesn't end with Sunday... this week, her schedule is extreamly light and there is another gentleman whom she has been with once before that is interested in Monday or Tuesday.
Typically, on average, Carol plays about once a week. She likes to put some space between encounters simply because it makes the encounters more pleasurable. So, the possibility that she may play Saturday, Sunday, and Monday is quite rare. However, it does happen now and then. Of course the flip side is that sometimes as much as a month passes between encounters due to work schedule, family issues, health issues, and a run of 'no-shows' and 'wannabees' that make plans and leave her 'unattended' with it being too late to make alternate plans. In the past 30 days, she has only had two encounters and one of those was just 4 days ago. I think this has a lot to do with her willingness at the moment to say at least 'maybe' to 3 days in a row.
I am optomistic that at least 2 of the 3 encounters will occur... but, unfortunately... it is the nature of this 'game' that maybe none will.
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From the vault [ Who will win? ]
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Posted:Nov 8, 2008 5:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2008 8:51 am
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Feel like writing this morning... with some tales from our past.
Back in the mid 80s, Carol and I would sometimes go out to a disco back in Oklahoma City. It was called "Mr. Lans".
Back then, probably still... there was a North/South line which seperated the North Side of Oklahoma City. This disco was located just inside the 'white' side of the city however what little neighborhood existed within 6 blocks of the place was predominently black.
On a typical Friday or Saturday night, this club typically had around 300 to 400 people within. Usually, we were the only white people in the club. Our normal plan was that she would go in to the club about 10 to 20 minutes earlier than I would and then we would remain seperated even after I entered.
One evening, we got there too early and there was maybe a dozen people totally so we just set down together in one of the booths to await the crowd. That was the night when the owner, Mr. Lan himself came over to our table and expressed his gratitude to us for coming to his place. He had seen us there before (I mean, we did sort of stick out if you get my meaning) so he knew that we were there to meet people for playtimes and I suspect he felt that having an 'available' white woman in the club occasionally was good for business.
Anyway, sometimes while watching Carol from a distance, I would also flirt and dance with the ladies there. Sometimes I got laid, usually Carol did.
The club was actually pretty large and over on one side, there were 4 or 5 pool tables. One night, I was setting across the room and I saw Carol standing over near one of the pool tables. There were two guys at the table and between shots, they were both talking to Carol. I learned later on that she had agreed to fuck the winner of the pool game.
one evening, she met a car salesman and after spending some time with him, she brought him over to meet me and we all chatted for a while. He invited her to leave with him for a while and they came back maybe 90 minutes or so later. The story I heard later was that they went to an abandoned drive-in movie lot. Carol said there were about 20 cars scattered around the lot. Her and her guy stood outside his car while he lowered his britches and she raised her skirt and they did it outside in plain view of anyone who might have been close enough to see.
Once, I met a lady and we were talking and Carol came over and joined us and we ended up having a FMF 3some at our home later on that night.
I also remember another evening when she met and left with a guy to go visit another club. When they didn't get back by closing time, I didn't know whether to go home (the agreement was that they would be back), or stay at the club (actually this was a diffent club then Mr. Lans but same environment) or drive over to the one 'after hours' club that existed.
This 'after hours' club actually had a really bad reputation. I once tried to enter this club with a black lady I had met and was turned away because I was white. However, one night Carol did get to see the inside of the place. Guess they figured a white 'guy' in the place was too risky.
Our willingness to go into 'black' clubs came about sort of by accident. One night, we were visiting Dallas Texas and as we drove around looking over the sights, we came across a club with a big lit sign that had the club's name on it. It was called 'Swingers'. In our home town, there were no 'swingers' clubs however we knew that there were a couple in Dallas and we thought we had stumbled on one of them. We parked the car and went inside. Immediately, we noticed that the people in front of us who were getting 'searched' and the people inline behind us were all black but since we were already in the entryway... we just stayed in line. At this point, we weren't 100% sure this wasn't what the sign said and wanted to get past the front door to see in 'regardless'. At first, we were both scared to death as we came in, found a table and set down. This was around 1976. Well, it definitely was not a 'swingers club'. Just a night club with a band but we were the ONLY white people there. We stayed maybe an hour or so before calling it a night. Carol had been with black men by then so if this had been a swingers hang-out, it would have been OK. We did get a lot of stares however.
But, the thing is... we found that white folks could visit predomently black clubs without being assured of being 'killed' there.
But, it wasn't all just 'welcome' at these places. There was one night when a black lady pulled Carol's hair from behind. Another where two or three black women were in the restroom while Carol was in the stall. They KNEW she was there and took the opportunity to trash talk her as if she wasn't.
Back in the 70s and 80s... as many of us remember, mixing of the races in social settings was pretty rare and there was real risk there for us. Ultimately, we stopped doing this as we worried that sooner or later, our luck would run out and we'd get jumped in the parking lot with me beat up and Carol .
Today, attitudes have changed substancially. As mentioned in other blogs, we occasionally go over to the 5th Seasons Club in Greensboro which is perhaps a 60% black crowd but extreamly interracially friendly and in fact, as far as couples in attendence... there are usually more mixed couples then either white or black couples. However, even with this mix of white and black, when Carol is setting alone... pretty much all of the guys who approach her for a dance or to chat are black guys.
There is another club over in Durham that we visited about 2 years ago. As usual, we went in seperately and stayed apart the whole time we were there. There were maybe 3 or 4 white ladies in the club but I was the only white guy. It was so crowded that even though I was setting at my own table, other people (mostly ladies I might add) had no choice but to ask "mind if I set here?". Anyway, the point I want to make about this club was that not only was Carol VERY welcomed there... but I was also treated like a human being by both the black ladies as well as the black men I talked with.
The point I guess I am trying to make is, that this country is still very much racially divided and MOST white people are still very uncomfortable being in a predomently black environment. It makes us understand the flip side of this VERY well. We understand how potentially threatening it must feel to black people when they enter predomently white environments.
And, it isn't just black and white issues here. Back in the mid-80s, Carol and I pulled our 'seperate' routine at a club that was virtually 100% hispanic. He-he... I might add that the one thing we noticed there was that the hispanic males were 3 times as much all over Carol as black guys are in black clubs.
Anyway, this all comes back to one of my earlier blog entries where I refernece that these are exciting times... it is a period that we have racial and ethnic diversity that is a pleasure to be involved with an enjoy and we're in that 'sweet-spot' of time where you have little to worry about as far as repurcusions from both your own race and whatever other race is involved. And, that this won't last forever because our cultures and ethnicity will merge over time.
I've had many people tell me that 'today', it is more attractive as far as 'dating' is concerned, to particpate outside your own race. Obviously, we know why.
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The most offensive site I've seen in many years...
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Posted:Nov 6, 2008 3:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2008 9:15 am
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Got a tip from a lady friend today to check out a site. Not sure if blog postings allow you to put outside links so your going to have to decipher the actual site.
It is landover baptist (with no spaces) followed by dot followed by org and of course, www in front of it all.
At first, I was so SHOCKED by this site, that I simply started to click away and try to forget about it. But, then I saw a few more little tidbits... links to articles and such that seemed so OVER THE TOP that I couldn't believe that anyone was that NUTS.
So, went to the WIKI online encyclopedia and discovered that it is designed parady. Just a huge JOKE where someone was making fun of those ULTRA-RIGHT Religious groups that just hate everybody it seems. Guess you can find anything on the net. But then, you always could. The idea being, to write crap so offensive that even those Ultra-Right people are shocked... sorta of giving them their own shit back at them.
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A nice overnight...
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Posted:Nov 5, 2008 4:58 am
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Carol had an overnight guest last night. She doesn't do overnights that often however from what I can tell from their morning conversations ahd Carol's obvious affection towards him... it went quite well. Plus, he lives very nearby so expect he will have many more overnights in the future.
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