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2BenticedBiU
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WHY ADULT THEATERS AND GLORYHOLE BOOTHS

We live in an area, that in most cases, requires driving a distance to meet people in this lifestyle, and drive we have.
In these economical bad times, we found that the clubs are
falling off in attends and people are just plain tire of the little inter-circles which require you to attend on a weekly or monthly bases.
We have tried numerous swinger websites, all with the same out come. Lot's of faults hopes and promises. Lot's of e-mail exchanges with little more to show for our time then the inevitable.
Scheduling has been and always will be our biggest hang up. It's either work, family, or personal friends that change our plans at the last minute. It's nothing for us to set up meetings only to cancel at the last moment.
So, cancellations are just as big a problem with couples, as they are, with females and males.
What we all maybe doing wrong is relying on Local Sexy Swingers members being able to "jump" at the chance to meet. Chance are, they have the same scheduling problems we've mentioned.
Also understand, these swinger sites are a magnet for people to open profiles with or without a REAL female being involved or the interest and/or ability to meet!
The cam viewing program makes this a very popular site.
After all that being said, swinger sites are a major hit and miss. More misses then hits, I should add.
Our area of is like a dead zone for swingers outside the clubs and house parties.
Clubs and house parties do give you the advantage of actually talking face to face allowing everyone a little time to get to know one another. BUT,,they are EXPENSIVE and still require the ability to ADVANCE PLAN!
So,,you ask WHY GLORY-HOLES BOOTHS and ADULT THEATERS?
We've seen this as, the new meeting place for the swingers set, not only males, but couples and females.
(LADIES,,It's not JUST for the guys anymore!)

Why are Adult bookstores (with GHs) and adult porno theaters convenient?
1. They are "CHEAPER" then the cost of a club membership or house parties!
2. They allow for "SPUR OF THE MOMENT PLANNING."
3. If your a couple, you both have the convenience of
watching a erotic movie privately together
or involve friends and/or any number of clientele
that are there at the time.
4. No worry about being "part of" any group or
inter-circle.
If you do have friends in the lifestyle, share your
idea and invite them along, as well.
If would like to possibly meet someone new in person
first,just set up a place to meet for drinks.
It's great to have at least one or more new friends
with the same interests.
5. Then there is the mystic of the sexual taboo.
It's the sexual mystery of not seeing or knowing, who
is on the other side of the glory hole.
If that isn't to your liking, have your husband or
someone you know and trust on the other side.
It's a great form of roll play for everyone.
6. No one cares what you look like, how you dress,
how old you are, whether your a fashion model or BBW.
(It's discreet and anonymous)

You might be wondering what a gloryhole actually is, well for starters, it is simply a hole drilled or carved out between two closet like rooms called booths. (video booth) These video booths are fairly basic in adult bookstore where you can watch erotic videos in private.
The gloryhole is roughly equal to the height of a mans penis and it is intended to be used for sexual inter-action where the male sticks his pecker through the gloryhole and the female can sexually enjoy each other for his or her pleasure.
The gloryhole allows everyone the ability to stay discreet and anonymous.

**I want to emphasize, always the door behind you (if possible) when you enter the video booth unless you're planning to invite someone(s) into your booth.
There are those who may try to enter UN-invited or just want to see what your up to.**
There are "BUTHEADS" in every part of the world.

Sex through glory holes is a very erotic experience.
Enjoy! And be safe and careful.

Never, EVER, have intercourse without a condom!

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LEGAL ASPECTS:
.....
It doesn't hurt to ask or check websites about any violations or busts.
We're sure this activity is illegal in some cities or states.
But, you take your chances in most aspects of this lifestyle.
As a safety point with little legal knowledge,
We always **Always make sure that the other person(s) is exposed before:
(you "SEE" his cock or Her tits and/or pussy)
you make contact through the glory hole.
Not just sitting or standing in a booth rubbing his or her "covered" crotch.
Actually, being exposed.
(you "SEE" his cock and/or Her tits and/or pussy)
That goes for everyone.
Don't be afraid to veritably ask the person(s) your interested in if, they are police
or involved with law enforcement.

Not sure what that does for anyone legally;
I'm just sure a judge would have a hard time hearing about police officers on the witness stand, that were exposing themselves in the line of duty.
In general, be discrete and don't be stupid and you shouldn't have any problems.
There are a few website listings about Adult bookstores and theaters in or around your area or state you maybe traveling to.


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The only way members keep this group alive, is by helping with up-dated information. If you want more females and couples involved, we/they require information about adult theaters and gloryhole booths.

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Two places we've looked into are Annibells and a place called CVE. Anyone been there or know anything about them?

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HOW TO MAKE THESE GROUPS WORK FOR YOU!
Especially for standard members, it's important to use every free tool that A F F gives you to connect with others. That's why we're here, right? We want to MEET someone.
For the guys, it's even more important to be active, because we outnumber the women seeking men by about 16 to 1. We have to do something to make ourselves stand out from the crowd, because the women can literally pick and choose. And before you say what a great profile you have, remember this: many women are also standard members, and they aren't allowed to look at that many profiles trying to find a great guy like you. Besides, THEY DON'T HAVE TO--they are literally flooded with emails from the men!
First, here are three ways that groups WON'T work for you:
1. Lurking--Just joining a group and not being active in it is a sure-fire way to stay invisible. That's like buying a hammer, and expecting it to drive the nails for you.
2. Posting Only "Pick-Up Ads"--You know, those little posts where someone says how big his cock is, or how eager he is, and "where are all the younger women for older men?", etc., etc. This is slightly better than just lurking, because at least you've started driving the nail. The only problem is, you still expect it to finish driving itself, and it's a safe bet that pretty soon you'll be yet another one of those whiners complaining about how "this site doesn't work".
3. Being Impatient, Shallow or Rude--Everything worth having takes patience and work to acquire. If you're going to throw a little temper tantrum because you haven't found what you're looking for--even though you haven't invested any REAL effort--you don't belong on A F F, let alone in a group! This may be a sex site, but people still want to know that you're honest, non-violent and in possession of a mind bigger than your genitals.

PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE!
This is how you get the most out of any group. Did you know that many standard members actually hook up with each other simply because of getting INVOLVED in groups? It's true: I've even seen long-term relationships develop that way!
Here's the thing: when people post questions, thoughts, feelings, fantasies and jokes in groups, they do it because they are looking to interact with you. It's a way for them to get to know something about the personality behind the keyboard, and that often leads to great friendships or more. It also lets them know that you're interested in them as people, not just sex objects.
It's the same reason why I, as the Moderator, post discussion threads. I'm not doing it because I just like to hear myself talk; I'm doing it to try to provide more ways for members to interact with each other, and also to encourage them to start discussion threads of their own.
Get involved in the discussions. Post some threads of your own. Show people there's a mind, a heart and a sense of humor behind that picture. Gradually, people will get to know you and like you--and THAT, my friend, is how you will end up meeting someone.
OH--and, fellas? The next time a young lady posts a thread about how she's looking to meet someone, don't just join the stampede of men rushing to say nothing more than "Hi, I'm here, please hit me up". First of all, she probably doesn't even know where you are, let alone what kind of person you are mentally and physically. Secondly, she's already got tons of one-liners coming at her from all directions.
You'll stand head and shoulders above the rest, if you find an interesting way to respond to her. Tell her you looked at her profile and what you liked about it; ask her an interesting question, or show a gentle sense of humor. Give her a reason to want to know more about you than just a picture of your cock. If you're consistent about it, someday you'll be telling the group about this wonderful person you met here.
And we'll all be glad with you!

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Hope to receive replies to our posted topics, hear from, and "SEE" a few members from this group in the 2014 year!

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We can't keep this group alive all by ourselves.

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