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2BenticedBiU
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ADULT THEATERS AND BOOKSTORES the new alternative in swinging

We live in an area, that in most cases, requires driving a distance to meet people in this lifestyle, and drive we have.
In these economical bad times, we found that the clubs are
falling off in attends and people are just plain tire of the little inter-circles which require you to attend on a weekly or monthly bases.
We have tried numerous swinger websites, all with the same out come. Lot's of faults hopes and promises. Lot's of e-mail exchanges with little more to show for our time then the inevitable. (And time is what we have very little of)
Scheduling has been and always will be our biggest hang up. It's either work, family, or personal friends that change our plans at the last minute. It's nothing for us to set up meetings only to cancel at the last moment.
So, cancellations are just as big a problem with couples, as they are, with females and males.
What we all maybe doing wrong is relying on Local Sexy Swingers members being able to "jump" at the chance to meet. Chance are, they have the same scheduling problems we've mentioned.
Also understand, these swinger sites are a magnet for people to open profiles with or without a REAL female being involved or the interest and/or ability to meet!
The cam viewing program makes this a very popular site.
After all that being said, swinger sites are a major hit and miss. More misses then hits, I should add.
Our area of is like a dead zone for swingers outside the clubs and house parties.
Clubs and house parties do give you the advantage of actually talking face to face allowing everyone a little time to get to know one another. BUT,,they are EXPENSIVE and still require the ability to ADVANCE PLAN!
So,,you ask WHY ADULT THEATERS?
We've seen this as, the new meeting place for the swingers set, not only males, but couples and females.
(LADIES,,It's not JUST for the guys anymore!)

Why are Adult bookstores and adult porno theaters convenient?
1. They are "CHEAPER" then the cost of a club membership or house parties!
2. They allow for "SPUR OF THE MOMENT PLANNING."
3. If your a couple, you both have the convenience of
watching a erotic movie privately together
or involve friends and/or any number of clientele
that are there at the time.
4. No worry about being "part of" any group or
inter-circle.
If you do have friends in the lifestyle, share your
idea and invite them along, as well.
If would like to possibly meet someone new in person
first,just set up a place to meet for drinks.
It's great to have at least one or more new friends
with the same interests.
5. Then there is the mystic of the sexual taboo.
It's the sexual mystery of interacting with strangers.
If that isn't to your liking, have your husband or
someone invite friends you know and trust.
It's a great form of roll play for everyone.
6. No one cares what you look like, how you dress,
how old you are, whether your a fashion model or BBW.
(It's a very dark atmosphere making it discreet and anonymous)

You might be wondering about the gloryhole craze and what actually it is, well for starters, it is simply a hole drilled or carved out between two closet like rooms called booths. (video booth) These video booths are fairly basic in adult bookstore where you can watch erotic videos in private.
The gloryhole is roughly equal to the height of a mans penis and it is intended to be used for sexual inter-action where the male sticks his pecker through the gloryhole and the female can sexually enjoy each other for his or her pleasure.
The gloryhole allows everyone the ability to stay discreet and anonymous.

**I want to emphasize that N.C. has very few if any, so checking websites, calling ahead of time, or just investigating once you attend.
Sex through glory holes is a very erotic experience.
Enjoy! And be safe and careful.

Never, EVER, have intercourse without a condom!

...
LEGAL ASPECTS:
.....

It doesn't hurt to ask or check websites about any violations or busts.
We're sure this activity is illegal in some cities or states.
But, you take your chances in most aspects of this lifestyle.
As a safety point with little legal knowledge,
We always **Always make sure that the other person(s) is exposed before:
(you "SEE" his cock or Her tits and/or pussy)
you make contact.
Not just sitting or standing rubbing his or her "covered" crotch.
Actually, being exposed.
(you "SEE" his cock and/or Her tits and/or pussy)
That goes for everyone.
Don't be afraid to veritably ask the person(s) your interested in if, they are police
or involved with law enforcement.

Not sure what that does for anyone legally;
I'm just sure a judge would have a hard time hearing about police
officers on the witness stand, that were exposing themselves in the line of duty.
In general, be discrete and don't be stupid and you shouldn't have any problems.
There are a few website listings about Adult bookstores and theaters in or around your area or state you maybe traveling to.

Try the CVE Watchers Society group! So far, it has been active.
We're not trying to promote another group, but what we've found to be convenient, is that if, you are stood up, (and Local Sexy Swingers members are well noted for it) you have the choice of guys and couples who are there at the time. If interested, send us an e-mail.

Description: There are 3 theaters. Two showing straight porn and one showing Bi porn. There is no gay porn being shown currently. There are no glory holes or booths. Each of the 3 theaters have a built-in room that can be rented for an hour. The little room has blinds over a window into the main theater area that can be opened or closed. The room has two or three sofas inside. The largest theater has two of these little rooms. The largest theater also has two sofas in the rear that are walled off on three sides to offer a measure of privacy but they are open in the front toward the screen. The seats in all three theaters have been replaced with 2 and 3 person sofas. They are nice and soft.
How To Get There: 1. Head east on W Franklin Blvd toward S York St 423 ft 2. Take the 1st left onto S York St 0.4 mi 3. Continue onto N Chester St Destination will be on the left 1.6 mi.
Hours / Best Times: Hours are Mon thru Thurs 10 am to Midnight Fri And Sat 10 AM To 2 AM and Sun 12 pm To Midnight



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Here's information we've received from members in or around the area.
The adult bookstore and/or theater does have web-site information.
CVE has 3 theaters that are for anyone who wants to go in there. No seating differences in any of their theaters. People do play there and the lighting is pretty low so you can do just about anything you want to do. As long as most people are seated in the theaters nothing is ever said to you no matter what is going on. If hallways are blocked or people are hovering and not seated they do have people disperse for fire safety reasons. CVE also has a couples room where anything goes. It is couples only. If you get lucky another couple is there with you. Most attendance is on Saturdays and sometimes Wednesdays cause couples get in free then. CVE is kept very clean and neat. Safety from other people attending and from getting caught is not a problem at all at CVE. For a couple it is the one I would recommend. The men that attend there will do whatever the couples ask of them. Some say leave us alone and I've never seen a problem. Very respectful crowd.

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Gastonia,NC...I-85 Exit 17, Hwy 321(N), on the right hand side about 1/2 mile. Carolina Video Exchange. It has 3 theaters.

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If budgeting you finances in these difficult economical depressed times makes it next to impossible (gas prices for one) to plan ahead. This "SPUR OF THE MOMENT PLAN" may be right up your alley. There is a lot of information listed on the websites about adult theaters, adult bookstores locations. Type in the website portion SEARCH box. You'd be surprised, as we were, at the amount of information available.

To link to this group topic ADULT THEATERS AND BOOKSTORES the new alternative in swinging use [group_post 3512665] in your messages.