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Frustrated Str8 married guys...Please share your thoughts!
I'm a divorced older guy, but after being on Local Sexy Swingers for more than a year, it's evident there are SO MANY str8 married guys who are frustrated & desperate for the sex they're not getting at home from their wives! Most are open to M/M sex for different reasons, too! It's perfectly normal & understandable...after all, guys physically NEED sex, we're geared that way, ALL our lives (unlike females, unfortunately). Many married guys don't consider M/M sex (particularly oral) is "cheating" on their spouse, because it's just 2 guys having NSA FUN/ healthy sex purely for both guy's erotic pleasure. Still others discovered as teens they they genuinely enjoyed BOTH sexes (males on the down-low), but after marriage, missed having "guy sex" to balance their private sexual needs & desires w/females. It's frustrating, regardless of why guys desire M/M sex!  My hope is that guys can leave comments here to share their own private personal desires openly: 1) to not only alleviate their guilt (if any) & maybe even some of their their frustration knowing 2) U R NOT ALONE! Males are biologically DRIVEN to desire sex ALL OUR LIVES, so being able to come to terms with it is important, not just for our mental health, but also to honestly rationalize it's a physical NEED we ALL SHARE as guys! Please share your thoughts for the benefit of others! Who knows...U might make a connection with another "like-minded" guy U would enjoy as a friend...maybe even WITH BENEFITS! 
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I love sex , but as the wife gets older and even before it seems like sex slowly became a once in a while occurance. I'm met a few mwm for mutual oral, or jo, all in all despite some guilt it was pleasurable. I don't travel as much as I used to but there ya go........... with Local Sexy Swingers having this tadoo about std members not being able to communicate it kiks things so caprockjack kiks around some
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I love the idea of going down a big one, it's such a fantasy. I have no desire to be with a dude, honestly I don't know how women do it, lol. It's just about the cock. I had a couple episodes when I was younger, and feel as though I didn't really appreciate it as much as I would now. Thankfully there's pornhub, haha.
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Interesting. It would be easy to say, that if my wife had a cock, I would not be looking. But even if she did (lol) there's no way to know that some other things would change. Such as the fact that she won't even consider letting me cum in her mouth, or anywhere near her face. That's just another thing that I can't get at home. Still, the raw, nsa, down to the point of M/M sex is something that only 2 men understand. You make me cum, I make you cum.
Plus I agree, for whatever reason, it doesn't feel near as much like cheating. Right, or wrong
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Oral sex between 2 males isn't "cheating" on your spouse. EROTIC? SENSUOUS? TABOO? HARMLESSLY SATISFYING?...ABSOLUTELY!  It's not like U R saving your cum for her ONLY, now is it? If so, then masturbating would be cheating on her too... and EVERY healthy male jacks-off ocassionally to relieve the HORNY we ALL get! M/M oral is a MUCH BETTER way to solve that horniness & share a mutually satisfying "treat" with a like-minded Brother, NSA!  ..So WHY NOT?
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I have found that without giving it much thought when just stroking another guy as he stroked me I took him in my mouth and sucked him, and really liked it and took as much as I could of him in my mouth in throat as he sucked me..it was really hot just letting myself get into it
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Male/male action is like a better version of masturbation. If I could suck my own cock, I probably wouldn't be on here. But I can't. So here I am.
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quote KenK369:
Male/male action is like a better version of masturbation. If I could suck my own cock, I probably wouldn't be on here. But I can't. So here I am.
That's a perfect interpretation of a NORMAL MALE IMO, kenk! ALL guys secretly desire to suck cock...but only guys with the sexual confidence necessary to explore their bi-sexual desires & thoughts ACT on them! Once most guys try it, they realize how much FUN it is to share sucking cock w/a masculine healthy "like-minded" Brother...NSA! Offering/ giving & receiving sexual pleasure is NEVER wrong...so "labels" honestly don't matter! FULLY enjoying BOTH males & FEMALES is the way guys are "programmed" from birth! Only guys that are insecure about their own sexual identity buy into all the homophobic/religious nonsense we R "indoctrinated" with by peers, parents & unenlightened right-wingers (the "religious right") as boys growing up. Males that are confident in being themselves sexually & HONESTLY as genuine men, make the BEST FRIENDS... oftentimes WITH BENEFITS!
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Nothing to add profound but . . . .curiousstr8 has me and most guys like me pegged, so to speak, yes married, yes still hungry for cock and yes i never have gotten any the past 10 years. and yes, i'm open to all kinds of guys with clean or kinky desires - I have both of my own, and would like to share. PS f I could suck a str8 cock twice a day every day I would.
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Nothing to add profound but . . . .curiousstr8 has me and most guys like me pegged, so to speak, yes married, yes still hungry for cock and yes i never have gotten any the past 10 years. and yes, i'm open to all kinds of guys with clean or kinky desires - I have both of my own, and would like to share. PS If I could suck a str8 cock twice a day every day I would.
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quote Avgm069:
Nothing to add profound but . . . .curiousstr8 has me and most guys like me pegged, so to speak, yes married, yes still hungry for cock and yes i never have gotten any the past 10 years. and yes, i'm open to all kinds of guys with clean or kinky desires - I have both of my own, and would like to share. PS If I could suck a str8 cock twice a day every day I would.
Too bad not close by
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Is a woman's mouth softer than a man's mouth?
Also, can you get anything from sucking or swallowing a guy's cum? I would think that the enzymes in your saliva and stomach would get rid of everything, but?
Just curious....
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I like married guys for sex because gays don’t turn me on. They are a turn off, really and risky for STDs. They usually want to fall in love if the sex is good and I like good sex! I didn’t used to like to suck cocks, but had to if I wanted mine sucked, which guys do better, for the most part. Then I got into kissing guys. It took a long time, but because it’s so taboo, it turned me on. After the Internet, anal sex became an intrigue of mine, and when I topped, it felt really good. A little bit tighter than a pussy, but never as wet as a horny chick! I got started with guys in college. Horny freshman away from home get wasted and end up experimenting, especially since there are so many “str8 guy” sex websites. I still would prefer a wife I loved and had sex with all the time, but I’m divorced and guys come easier. I think it’s okay but still very much taboo in the str8 world for a guy to go out and get his rocks off with another man. And it won’t get a girl pregnant, either! Read my post and if you like my cock and want it, give me a shout!!
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I like what you have to say and can relate. wanting to explore more
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Curioustr8fwb, you sound like my type! And have a nice cock, too. You are very sexual I can tell! I think I want to have sex with you
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quote Highway5949:
Curioustr8fwb, you sound like my type! And have a nice cock, too. You are very sexual I can tell! I think I want to have sex with you
I'm flattered, Highway5949, & THANKS!! U have nice "Dude equipment" yourself! If U were closer, I'm betting we'd make that happen!
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I suppose this question really doesn't apply to me, since I'm not the kind of "frustrated Str8 married guy" you're talking about. I'm in the rare category of a guy who is married to a woman who still likes sex at our age - and who gives me everything I could want from a woman. But there is still just one thing missing: for years I have also loved sucking on another man's cock. (So I guess I'm not totally straight either.) I don't see a problem with that. I hope this helps someone.
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quote CumTaster782XX:
I suppose this question really doesn't apply to me, since I'm not the kind of "frustrated Str8 married guy" you're talking about. I'm in the rare category of a guy who is married to a woman who still likes sex at our age - and who gives me everything I could want from a woman. But there is still just one thing missing: for years I have also loved sucking on another man's cock. (So I guess I'm not totally straight either.) I don't see a problem with that. I hope this helps someone.
U R TOTALLY NORMAL, Explorer; because ALL males R biologically "Bi" to varying degrees, naturally! It's part of our DNA (BOTH X&Y chromosomes)! U just have the confidence & desire to cum to terms with & ENJOY your full sexuality, that's all! I think that's not only very honest, but a very satisfying way to live your life! ...so CONGRATULATIONS & thanks for sharing! ...for everyone's benefit, here! 
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Not frustrated with the sex with my wife that’s very free very open what I am frustrated with is being able to give and receive good blow jobs. My wife doesn’t understand nor do I wanna make her understand but I do enjoy feeling a man a cock get hard in my mouth feel a hand on the back of my head. To be able to give a guy a blow job that he wants if he wants to fuck my mouth or he wants his shaft licked or he wants to just fill my head Bob up and down on his cock until he comes in my mouth that turns me on. The frustrating side is finding that
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I love this group and this topic! I love to suck cock! I am married and know that if my current wife knew I was actively seeking it, she would definitely consider it cheating.
I do think it's easier with a married guy since I am not into the whole gay lifestyle, but I have found that I have to go to gay sites like Grindr, especially when traveling to hook up. This site sucks for a quick blow and go
Now, I got into it years ago with my ex. Here's my story;
My ex and I were having sex and had a bit of alcohol and some 420. Our friend was staying over since he was too drunk and high to drive. As we were having sex and talking about our friend, she really got horny and so did I! Just then, he walked into our room unannounced and uninvited.
We got into a 69 position and he started fucking her with his balls hitting my nose, eyes, and face. At first I was a bit unnerved by it. But after a while I got into his musky smell and being that close to a cock that wasn't mine was erotic!
I've always wanted to suck my own cock, but I am not flexible enough to do it. SO, I saw a cock and started to lick it. He was OK with it to the point of slipping his cock into my mouth! I was ecstatic! My ex also started cumming and wanted to see me do it which really got her excited.
The next day over coffee with our friend, I ask him if I could get some cream for my coffee and he was glad to oblige.
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