Twenty years ago, I thought I knew everything about dating and women. I was fit, funny and cocksure. Now, years later, I know that I have merely scratched the surface of who I am, what I know and what I can be. But I am still (relatively) fit, funny and cocksure. I love to read and I read anything I can get my hands on or anything I find on-line. I love poetry and literature. I can cook up a storm (and a pretty good chocolate souffle as well). I am well educated after attending high school both here in the US and in the UK. I attended university and attained bachelor's and master's degrees. I also went through the school of hard knocks by growing up in a bad area of London. I have excellent manners and consider myself both gentle and tough. You have to meet me to understand the dichotomy of that statement. I have quirks and foibles - but who doesn't. I recognize my weaknesses and understand my strengths and understand what the impact of those strengths and weaknesses are in my life.

My Ideal Person I would love to find someone who is unpretentious and uncomplicated. I love women who are athletic (that means athletes - not amazingly thin) and who love the outdoors. I love women who are mulitfaceted and who can think, can laugh, and can love unreservedly.

Can you be secure in silence as sometimes I don't say a lot - but there is always a great deal brewing beneath the surface: a lot of substance - and some previous girlfriends would say "style too".

I believe in playing. I believe in the healing power of a woman's touch. I love to cook and really love cooking in tandem with someone else. Food can be very sensual and sexy.

Most of all, I love women who have style and substance. Intelligent women are sexy. Articulate women are the sexiest of all.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Muse; Los Lonely Boys; Rush; Dido

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Rachel Ray (celebrity chef) as she is very good looking and can cook too.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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