First I am professional by day, gotta work to earn the fun life can offer. I am touching up this profile recently so read on for the new (and thus why I jump around subject wise). I Love to dance and so music and sex go hand in hand (or other sexy body parts). I am a sound snob ...it must be good quality and often. I grew up as a rave so I like to mix the lifestyles.... The music, the lights, the favors, the bodies. Put music on and I will dance for you. Dancing connects me to my center...my happy place. The party scene has taught me some nice tricks I can share. Ever had some go down on you while doing whip-its? If not, you are really missing out ( and that is a known trick....saving the good stuff for well...you? I am coming back into the world after a 6 month injury recovery, which kept me away from the activities that center me like dance and yoga.. Want to expand my circle and I love the energy and openness the poly community offers. It allows for so much more authentic interactions,... Whatever they happen to be. I don't like small talk, it is a struggle and prefer either a deep conversation or (hopefully) comfortable silence. I am a sapiosexual. Love my brain being tickled first. I hate drama and I don't do gossip. No games. I do not feed lines or lie to further myself. In fact I sense lies and hate the lack of authenticity. Life is weird and cool enough to share the truth. What I do love is a good sense of humor. Someone I can banter back and forth with and laugh at a suspended reality. I am not chasing a relationship but connection first. Not against the idea of a long term committed relationship but I am (now) willing to be as patient as I need to find something that I truly, deeply and energetically sync with. That takes time to find and build, and the journey starts anywhere. I am a pleaser and giver because I am an empathy, so the better the energy around me, well.... I find more and more I am the exception to the rule in so many ways. I like being that but our blessing can be our banes. I am that nice guy and they do finish 2nd (because we are busy making sure you finish first). I have a sex drive that appreciates when we get to spend hours at a time in pleasure. I am very orally fixated, I have been very much appreciated for this fine tuned skill (I was taught by lesbians, they really know how to use their mouths. I am intelligent and driven, kind and empathetic. I am a big yogi. I have a professional job and need keep that in mind while on this site

My Ideal Person Some who wants both party and play. I am down for the lazy hangout too. I want to connect and experience.

I have been involved in the polyamory community in different ways for some time but I really wish to explore this further and would love to find a women who is equally interested in it's exploration but would like to do it together. I am down to hang with couples, even if it is social only. The men in the poly community tend to be way more tolerable then the average guy.

I usually like more then a 1 nighter, I prefer repeat customers! Waiting on commitment until it grabs me and says look no further. That will be by someone who compliments and balances with me but will require both of us to be complete on our own.

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