[COLOR deeppink][B]Okay I am saying this first so that it is the first thing you read: I am VERY REAL, so please stop asking if I am. It gets old and is a major turn off for me. Bottom Line is this: If you are too insecure to talk to a girl like me as an equal, treat me with respect as you would any other woman, I am way out of your league and I wouldn't be interested. So if I have contacted you, 'Hot listed' you, or reached out to you in some way, I AM interested in you. SO please be yourself. Life is way too short for games. Also I am disease and drug free, like to keep it that way, so if you are not, keep browsing and good luck to you. I am NOT the one for you. I enjoy cocktails just like the next girl, but I don't roll with law-breaking and the dysfunction. Just so that we are clear from the jump, if you are a MALE, a BOY, a MAN, I will not accept your friend request or answer your mail. ALSO I AM NOT INTO MARRIED FOLKS AT ALL. I GET THAT YOU ARE OPEN WITH EACH OTHER; but I simply do NOT trust that kind of thing. Been lied too and dealt with enough drama that didn't belong to me to be over the whole mess of a dying marriage, no matter how much I am told it is thriving. [/B][/COLOR] [COLOR chocolate][B]I am a 30 something 100% passable ( every thing seen here is 100% me,NO GAMES )Non-Operative Transsexual looking for her life partner. I own my own home, work and live 100% of the time as a female. I am NEVER going to have bottom surgery because I do not need it to be who I already am. Not to mention I have found that my girlfriends tend to enjoy that part of me too. I am 100% Legally Female. I am ready to love unconditionally. I am ready to serve my partner in life. I am ready to give all of my heart to that beautiful creature who desires to be a part of this journey with me. Someone who desires my duality of nature. A Bi/Pansexual Femme or Female presenting sister T-girl of purpose..one who desires to see my femininity in a permanent sense( keeping what God gave me for her own private use )allowing and encouraging the world to see me as her life partner and wife. A Woman,(Femme) MTF or FTM who wants to embrace in me the feminine creation..molding me into her ideal of feminine sexuality and beauty. As my bestie/lover/soul-mate/muse she will possess all of me in every aspect of life. I will be hers, and she will be mine. A perfect union of Body, Mind, Heart & Spirit.[/COLOR][/B][/COLOR] [COLOR purple][B]I had to live in a masculine life of lies to the point of high school graduation, but as you can clearly see I can't be male anymore..since I have been on hormones that is now impossible. I am far too curvy to hide anything anymore, not that I have to. I have had to live a life to provide for those who only sought to leave me when I needed them the most. I want to be who I truly am, SO I am living my life for me. I want to love as I know I am destined to love. I am ready to Blossom into another. I am ready to become more through love. I am ready for True Love. I am ready for you. Listen I am a Gamer, Very Intelligent, into comic books, travel, history, magical and mysteriously beautiful things. I am an absolute romantic.[COLOR deeppink][/COLOR][/B][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person What I find that I am most attracted to is: Very feminine, very loving, loyal, passionate, very strong, intelligent, driven, sensual, creative and purpose driven women and very special no operative FTM's. I find what arouses me the most is: very curvy,FIT( Height and Weight Appropriate )busty and dark haired women are yummy. Listen I can already hear some folks saying that I am being ridiculous with the height and weight thing. However due to my issues growing up, depression and insecurity/body image I was a fatty until I decided I wasn't going to be anymore. I worked at it, still workout everyday to maintain. There is no reason someone else can't make being healthy a priority either. I love all women, but I find that the more feminine, well taken care of and classic they are the more I want to be theirs. I want a woman who knows who she is and who she wants me to be. I want a girl or Tgirl who can really take the lead in a relationship. I want a woman who will enjoy ultimately being responsible for me and actually enjoys the process. I believe in passion, I believe in magic, I believe in romance, and I will believe in you. If you will have me. Are you ready for me?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Muse, Rufus Wainright, Hellyeah, Pantera, FFDP

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Church

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Latex, Fisting, Massage, Induced Lactation, Clitoral Enlargement

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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