I'm open-minded, easy-going, and enjoy a casual healthy life style. I exercise regularly, ride a motorcycle smoke an occasional good cigar, and enjoy fine wines liquors and food. I’m a long time practicing pagan. I am by no stretch of the imagination new to the kink lifestyle however I am very new to the public scene. I’m widowed and single now and looking to explore all that Central Texas has to offer.’ This is unequivocally my favorite and more importantly my defining kink: Sapiosexuality - a behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use. From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin sexualis, relating to the sexes. Gods that really trips my triggers!

My Ideal Person For whom am I looking? She is self-aware, intelligent, confident in whom she is and what she wants, understands honesty, honor and integrity are not merely words but integral parts of a code I live by, and capable of trusting and being trusted. Jealousy is not in her vocabulary because she knows it cannot exist with trust. She can function on her own and be independent and does not need someone else but wants that someone who will earn the right to Dominate her as she knows she desires. She knows submission does not mean she is less but more for giving the ultimate gift of her trust, mind, emotions, and body to me completely and without reservation knowing they will not be abused but cherished and nurtured. She wants to live life not remember it or watch it from the outside. She sees everyday as a chance to learn and/or experience something new. She can walk into a room naked, dressed how I tell her, or fully dressed in her finest vanilla outfits knowing she is beautiful to me and not care what others think. She will understand her submission to me is a gift of the highest value both to me and her and will always be treated as such. Physically she can be tall, short, big, small or anything in between but her eyes?Those must show the true depths of her soul and the beauty that lies therein. Is she out there? Hope so!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage, Electric play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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