OK where to start..... I suppose starting with the basics would be sensible. I'm a 42 year old university educated professional white male. I'm well presented, averagely good looking (or so I am told), confident - not cocky, solvent & with the all important GSOH.... I've been married for over thir years now and I'm here, I suppose, just to try and get a bit of excitement and passion back in to my life. It may seem odd but I do love my wife dearly, I'm not looking to leave her or hurt her or to rock the boat in any way. I'm just here to try and hopefully find someone in a similar rut to myself. I'm not a nasty guy, I'm not out pulling/shagging every weekend behind my wife's back as that just isn't me. The last few years she had been so focused on work and her career she has left little time for me and even less time for the bedroom. We used to have a great sex life but now we don't really have one at all. Recently I've been wondering what it would be like to be with someone else but have never done anything about it. I realise that time is ticking away and if I don't want to end up regreting it I'd better try and do something about it now. You only live once right? I think I'd feel most comfortable with an older per, or someone with a more mature outlook on life. Someone who knows what they are doing and knows what they want. Having said that I would not say no to a cute young thing! Not sure exactly how far I'd go if I'm being honest. Whilst I am not here to start a serious relationship - for me GREAT sex is as much mental as well as physical so there needs to be some sort of connection. Currently I'm just a little too paranoid to put a full face picture up but will happily send one over if requested. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

My Ideal Person So what am I looking for? Ideally I'm looking for a married woman, maybe in a similar situation to myself who is looking for on-line or phone chats and maybe more. ....

I assure you that I am not here to waste my time or yours. I would not expect to fire pointless emails back and forth for months and months on end, but equally I would expect a few emails or conversations necessary to ensure that we are both on the same page as it were.

Having said all that I am more than happy to engage in cyber fantasy play only. I find that to be very engaging and a huge turn on if with the right person (someone with an imagination!) and over time. Not really into cyber quickies....

I live in SW London and although I do travel around the UK a little with business, ideally I'd like to meet someone around the London/home county/SE area. But as I do travel quite a bit being further afield isn't out of the question.

Age and looks are not so important, but as I have said someone older or at least with a more mature outlook would be my ideal. Oh and the ability to speel correctly (see what I did there?) and have a conversation about anything other than X-Factor (it's what the kids watch apparently...) would be a plus.....

Discretion & cleanliness might as well be my middle names and I would hope they would be yours too.

WARNING - Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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