Ready to get offline shoot some pool or hangout and have a good conversation and see where life leads us. I enjoy motorcycling good food and my dogs. Light outdoor activities are appreciated as well, a walk in the park, fishing, time at the gun range etc. I am retired army and work at the VA currently. I prefer face to face meet ups for coffee or a beer in public. I am not interested in fast hookups. If we can't meet over coffee and maybe dinner first, I am not your guy. Ladies you are always welcome. My wife was AA so AA ladies don't be shy. If you are a couple, I may be interested in trying a new experience. For couples she is preferred to be AA or MR if not I would be very selective in her physical appearance. Though I do not partake I am okay if you are 420 friendly. I work Wednesday through Sunday 3:30 pm to Midnight. It is a fixed schedule in a hospital. I own my own home and can host once I am comfortable with you. Recently widowed and just seeing what's out here. I was married for 20 years before cancer took my wife. I certainly know what commitment is and the work that goes into a meaningful relationship. I am healing from the loss, so from time to time I may be dealing with grief or sadness. This should not be taken as a reflection of any relationship we develop; I value my time and the time I spend with others. If this is something you would not find acceptable, I would understand and move along.

My Ideal Person Ideal people to meet me are those that are not afraid to try new things. Be down to earth and be able to hold a conversation. Be interested in getting to know who I am as a person. Be able to play the devil's advocate (even if you agree with my stance) on a variety of topics. Be okay with me playing the devil's advocate in a conversation. Looking at things from multiple points of view and having an intelligent debate from multiple angles can be intriguing. Enjoy outings such as shooting some pool ( I have discovered that game requires more beer), comedy clubs, live plays, or other performing arts. There is more than bedroom antics to enjoy with me. Even if there is not an attraction friendship is always welcome. I am a bit introverted so some coaxing would be encouraged, Gentlemen if you are the only one playing, I am not interested so pass me by. I will give one sensual activity I enjoy here ( ask about others as we meet). I do enjoy both giving and receiving massages to and from women. Couples my bi curious side is something I would like to discretely discuss over coffee in person.