While I date actively and have been told that I am a handsome young man (will send face pictures when asked) by women, I'm looking to expand beyond the demure women I usually meet and fulfill my deepest desires. Despite the fact I carry myself confidently and am a rising young professional (so discretion is important to me), I yearn to let go of the control I usually exercise. I'm new to the scene so I'd appreciate any guidance your wisdom, your collar, your cuffs, your crop, or your commandments can provide. I long to worship a sexy woman like yourself, and I'll do what's required of me to insure you know that your rightful place is to be worshipped as the goddess you are. Will you please show me around the scene? Will you please introduce my virgin wrist to handcuffs and virgin ass to your strapon? Whatever you desire is my command... UPDATE: I am also interested in maybe finding a couple where female is dominate.

My Ideal Person A beautiful, strong, sexy woman (single or part of a couple) who gets great pleasure guiding her partners and freeing them from their inhibitions. She gets excited by pushing my limits until I readily do things I would, before her, never imagined. Her intelligence and intuition guide her dominance so that she releases my subconscious desires and forces me to transform them into reality.

Her situation is unimportant (though mature women turn me on immensely); whether part of a couple, a lifestyle domme, a pro-domme, or a switch, the only requisite is the great pleasure she gets from my submission.

I'd also like to find a hot and adventurous woman who'd like to join me in playing with other couples...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
FANTASY: It is late and has been a hard day at work but a good
one. I have completed several complicated deals and made
the company a large amount of money. Wrapping up the day,
I'm checking my the voice mails that the senior partners
have left me lauding my great work. I'm satisfied,
but I'm longing for something more. Just then, the
door opens and my mistress steps in wearing dark leather
and 5 inch heals. The first thought is to worry that someone
might have seen her come in the office. She predicts my thoughts:
"No, not a single person in the building. It is 2:00
a.m. you know? I'm angry at you because after 12 is my
time, and I'm going to make you pay." Just then,
throwing off the mink coat I bought her, she struts over
towards my desk, breasts bouncing, with a large strap on
swaying in front of her. Grabbing my Ferragamo tie, she
pulls me up to her face. "You are going to beg me for
this dick." Helpless and staring into her eyes, I
respond only "Yes, Mistress." Pushing me back
down into my chair, she slaps me on the cheeks with her strap-on.
Mesmerized, I helplessly look up and open my mouth. She
directs me to suck and get her strap on wet, and I notice she
has flavored it with her own nectar so I enjoy the sucking
and licking. After its nice and wet, she pushes me over my
desk with authority, laughing as she rips off my custom
tailored slacks. She directs me to grab the phone in one
hand and my mouse in the other to check e-mails. "You're
going to see that you can work while I work you. I'll
have no less from you." As she smacks my ass. She then
tells me, "This is the biggest you've ever taken,
but I'm not going to use one ounce of lube unless you
take it all while on the phone with a business contact."
Fearful, I respond, "But who can I call at 2 a.m.?"
She responds, "You'd better expand into Asia."
Thinking, I remember a deal I'm working on in Singapore
so I call there. Having trouble getting in touch with the
person I'm seeking, I'm forced to talk to several
secretaries. Unsatisfied, mistress begins to rub the
strap's extra large head on my opening. Knowing the
pain I'll feel if she doesn't use lube, I become
aggressive on the phone "I don't care where he
is I'm going to talk to him." Soon enough the high
level contact is on the phone apologizing to me for making
me wait. With my headset on Mistress proudly pulls my head
back roughly and kisses me deeply. "Time to get down
to business." And just as the business conversation
gets going, I feel a big splash of lube quickly followed
by the head of the strap on. As I'm negotiating with
the contact one the phone, Mistress is pounding my ass with
her large strap, and besides a hardly noticeable whimper
no one would ever even know. Soon enough, I've closed
the biggest deal of my life, and I hang up. As I do, Mistress
sadly stops my ass banging. Proud of me, she kneels to kiss
me and says "I'm proud of that ass pounding you
took, but now I want you to take it all balls deep."
Her niceness quickly turns to meanness as she turns me over
on my desk, grabbing my ankles so my feet are in the air. Then
in one long thrust inserts the entire strap on into my ass.
I cannot help but whimper and scream.... But it feels so
good I also beg "Please fuck me, please..."
She responds "I'll fuck you with all 12 inches
of this dick." I quickly forget about work, stop caring
if anyone is there--it wouldn't matter if I were in
being fucked in front of a crowd of 2, 000 people--I'm
just laying there on my back, ankles in the air, moaning,
and screaming, "Fuck me mistress with all 12 inches
of that cock." I'm in pure ecstasy.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Strap-on

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