I get along best with people who have a positive attitude. For me a perfect Friday night is looking for adventure-and finding it. Sexually, I'm a newbie. I'm in the mood for an outgoing man to shake my world up a little. I like my partners to be aggressive and take-charge. The philosophy I live by is leave no traces... just warm memories of the best sex we ever had. UPDATE i am a sub woman that has a few protectors out there... i am very new to the life style but i am learning fast. [COLOR teal]When i scene i find the aftercare just as important as the scene it show me that i am not just some object there for the Dom to get His jollies off *grins*.[/COLOR] For me my hard limits so far are no , not scat/water play, no bi-play i will scene with another girl yes.. ie a Dom playing with more then one at a time but i will not touch or do anything more then hug another girl. i will not do age play... being called little one or stuff like that is fine but i will not go into extremes. And none of these Coprophilia, Adult baby, Foot/shoe worship, Human toilet, Urolagnia, voyeurism, dead things, Bestiality, .

My Ideal Person Intelligence, Discretion, maturity, sense of humor, and a fun attitude as well as knowing when to be strict with me so on and so forth. A caring Dom that is concerned about the sub not just getting off and leaving her but also putting just as much effort into the aftercare as the scene... i am one who likes to be cuddled and stroked after a scene and just held... i am not a screw them and leave them type.

i am imaginative and i seek One who can have a scene that could last hours. You need to have a personality and fire in your soul, but also need to know i do seek the total power exchange. i am just learning the dynamics but with what i have learned i firmly believe in the dynamics of the Master/slave relationship and that the Master looks out for the needs of all involved, while the slave is concerned with fulfilling the wants of the Master.

The Master i will look to will understand that aftercare means to me that i want to be held and rocked when They are done, bruise and bleed easily and need their wounds checked over extra carefully, which is often as i like extreme play at times i want cold water to drink, but sometimes i like that little something else…

Also, a slave's kids always come first, i don't care who the Master is, your kids are your kids. AND a slave always has the ability to take her cookies and leave the playground as it were, no matter if your under contract, and no matter what lifestyle subset your involved in. Only difference between a sub and slave isn't that one has limits and the other doesn't, it's that a slave trusts her Master to never take her where she isn't willing to go, thus not needing to detail such limits, but in the beginning, who knows enough to anticipate that. This also works in reverse i expect children to come first NO MATTER WHAT.