We are both in fairly good shape. and she is kinda self conscious about her belly from having 5 lil ones. We are very easy to get along with. Both fun loving and open minded and very real. She is shy at first but warms up fast and she is bi-selective. he isn't very shy but is understanding. she has an ass that just don't quit (so he says)and he can pretty much last as long as u want. we have been married for 11 yrs now and have 5 lil ones. and of course they come first so as u can tell we can get busy with family and also work and can occasionally get a sitter so we can go out. We want a couple that isn't pushy or demands fun right away but hey its not out of the question if circumstances r right.