I am a full time carer for my elderly and unwell parents, so my free time is fairly rare and therefore VERY important to me. SO PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME!!!! with pretend love or promises of heaven as long as I sign up for this or that or get some safe to date certificate. [COLOR limegreen]I would love to find someone that is into swinging and would happily join with me in meeting other like minded people for mutual pleasure and fun.[/COLOR] I am just a normal man looking for a lover, a friend, a confidant and if all goes well maybe that missing piece of my heart. I am looking for someone that is open, honest and adventuress. Looking forward to your message and any questions you may have. I am a lover not a fighter. OOPS: I am very orally skilled. (so I have been told) NO!!!! I am not Casanova. I am far from perfect and know and accept that I never will be. BUT I will always do everything I can to make sure you never leave without being pleased in every way possible and if I do it all right then you may decide to stay a while longer or at least come back for more. [B]RULES:[/B] [COLOR deeppink]If you don't like it (SAY SO) If you want something done (ASK) After all it's all about mutual PLEASURE NO CAM GIRLS OR SCAMMERS [/COLOR]

My Ideal Person OK now let's see
I could fill this with poetic phrases on how i am looking for the missing piece to my heart or the soul that will join with mine creating a rainbow of pure love like the world has never seen since the garden of Eden and how as a couple we will be blessed with that rare connection of friendship, love,respect, understanding and mutual harmony as if you were the music to my words that form the perfect song, that hits the charts at number one and stays there forever.
BUT you and I know this is the real world and the chances of finding such perfection is for fairy tales and romance novels.
Every relationship has it's ups and downs and if we can find the one that has more ups than downs the we are among the lucky ones.
It is said that love conquers all (BAH HUMBUG)
No matter how much you love someone if they have lousy hygiene or spend every spare moment down the pub with there mates then eventually you will walk away.
SEX!!!! yes I said sex.
(making love for the true romantics)
If your partner doesn't pleasure you and make you feel wonderful and completely content, then you will find other ways to get the satisfaction you deserve and need.
(Whip it in whip it out and wipe it isn't making love. That's just self satisfaction)
There is nothing wrong or unmanly about showing affection by holding or cuddling your girl after making love and even in public when your just out and about.
Even if it's just a one night stand or a casual thing, whats wrong with making sure you are both fully sated and your time together has been pleasurable for both.
(repeat performances only happen if it's worth going back for)
I know i never want to have a woman turn me down because she heard from someone that I was a 2 minute wonder or that I had no idea what I was doing.or how to please a woman.
OK lecture over lmao
If anything I have said offends you then we were never mean't to meet.
If anything I have said pleases you then maybe you should drop my a note
If everything thing I have said pleases you then slap me hard.
OK maybe we should talk first, meet second, make love third and fourth and fifth and etc time

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Alice cooper, Meatloaf, evenesence.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Reese Witherspoon. I cant say why but everytime I see her
I just get sooooooooo hot.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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