My Profile for Standard Members
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Posted:May 16, 2014 11:23 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2014 12:45 am
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I am a gentle soul with a lot to give and am looking for another soul to share my self with. I love watching movies, romantic walks at night, playing with my beagle pup, and the occasional video game or two. I am clean, DDF, non-smoker, light social drinker who likes to joke and have fun. I do have a sarcastic sense of humor and love to hang out and talk as much as i like getting busy between the sheets.
I am looking for a woman, married or not, or a couple that is open and confident sexually, someone who is comfortable in their own skin, who is not about drama but about having fun and enjoying what life has to offer in its many ways, shapes, and forms. I am looking for something more along the lines of a FWB but a NSA relationship is not out of the cards. While attraction is an important element of any sexual relationship, emotional connection and personality are just as, if not more important to me. I love a woman with curves, tattoos and piercings are a definite plus, and someone a little geeky or nerdy is a big turn on....oh and glasses! I love a woman in glasses. (big time librarian fetish) I hope I can find someone who understands what i have to offer and is willing to give me a chance...
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I'm back!!!!
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Posted:Sep 12, 2016 7:17 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 2:27 pm
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So I have been gone for awhile but am back and found that the Local Sexy Swingers I left is another the same one that I see before me now. Makes me wonder just a bit if it's worth it at all to hang around and spend the money for gold every month. I have met some great new friends in some of the chat rooms so that is definately a plus.
For those of you who never left, why did you hang around? What is there to see and do (other than the obvious!) that has kept you interested. I was really active in a couple of groups before but have found them to be dead now.
Just hoping that I find something to keep me coming back. Let me know what you think and also places, groups, chat rooms, etc that I should check out.
Until our next encounter...
Justaguy65775
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Most memorable experience ever...
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Posted:May 18, 2014 1:53 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2016 9:47 pm
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Inspired by a thread I posted in a group, I decided to ask those of you who read my blog what your most memorable sexual experience ever was? Partly to get to know some of you better, partly because I like reading about it, and partly because I am nosy busybody...hehehe. So don't be afraid, ashamed, or worried...I'll start us off...
She was the wife of a friend from work with the most amazing blue-green eyes and the body that would make Kate Upton change careers. Her husband was twice her age while we were born three days apart. She was always wanting to go out while he, because he worked two jobs, was either to tired to go or was working. One day at work he asked if I would take her out so she would quit bugging him about it and because she and I got along so well. We were neighbors and her daughters were the cutest things in the world. I would always go over and play with them, help cook dinner, watch TV with her, play more with the , help put them to bed, you know all the stuff a dad would be doing if he was around, which he wasn't. We would go out every other weekend or so and go dancing, to the movies, bar hopping, whatever she wanted. I was only to happy to oblige this sexy ass woman with anything she wanted but I always wanted more.
One night while dancing she asked why in all the time we knew each other that I had never made a pass at her. I told her it was partly out of respect for her marriage and partly because I really enjoyed the friendship we had and didn't want to ruin that. The song ended and we went back to our seats but I could not get her question out of my head. Was I missing out on something here? Or should I just leave well enough alone and let her make the first move?
On our way home I asked her if she minded making a quick stop. I took her to this secluded beach I knew of with a outer reef that protected the inner swimming area. We sat down in the sand on a blanket I had in my truck and watched the moonlight reflecting off the waves in the distance. After a while I stood up and started taking my clothes off. She had this look of bewilderment spread across her face that screamed, "what in the hell?" I just finished stripping naked and jumped in. The water was that perfect temperature that has a bite of cold at first but warms to your body quickly. I swam underwater until I reached the outer reef to come up for air. I just sat there staring out into the night wondering what had I just done and if I had made the right move or not.
A stirring at the waters edge caught my attention and I turned to see a true sight to behold. She stood there, her naked body backlit by the moon over her left shoulder, her dirty blonde hair swaying in the tropical breeze. I could not help but stare at her beauty as she slipped into the water and swam towards me. I moved towards her as she broke through the shimmering surface and was mesmerized in an instant. Her hair was slick and wet creating glistening drops of seawater that dripped down her cheeks and neck. Her breathing, at first quick, slowed as she caught her breath.
As we continued moving closer to one another it felt as if my heart would beat out of my chest. All those lustful dreams I had been masturbating to about her began racing through my mind. Were any of them about to become reality or was this a cruel joke being played on me by some sinister being? As our hands touched, electric shocks raced through my body. As our fingers entwined, I willed my eyes to remain open, wanting to savor every inch of her I could with my eyes, fearful the sheer ecstasy would cause me to explode.
Our lips finally met after what seemed an eternity and for a mere moment I felt as if I would melt away into nothingness. When suddenly the touch of her hand to my cock brought me back to reality. Our tongues danced wildly as our hands and fingers explored one another's bodies. Her ample breast filling my hand, her nipples stiffening to the touch of my fingers. My cock growing with every squeeze and stroke of her nimble fingers. Her neck, so soft and inviting, called out to my lips to be caressed. My hands made their way down her back, fingers dragging lazily behind until coming to rest and cupping each cheek, I firmly lifted her onto my eager member.
There was no resistance as I entered her, her sex communing with mine in a sweet symphony of two halves being made whole. Our tongues once again met, dueling for control. She wrapped her legs around me, using them to grind herself harder and deeper, meeting my every thrust with perfect rhythm. Her orgasm building, she bites on my lip until a trickle of blood flows. Finally, her rapture overtaking her, our eyes meet and the joyous pleasure of her orgasm is shared between us without a word spoken.
We would go on for another hour ravaging each other until we were both spent beyond belief. We were lovers for 8 more months before it ended. I don't know if her husband ever knew about Shannon and I and it's probably better that he didn't or that I don't know if he did. I could go on into more detail about the rest of the night but we'll see what kind of a reaction I get with this first. Please leave your criticisms and comments as both will help me to not only become a better writer but better gauge what you the readers want. Thank you...
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At a fork in the road.....
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Posted:May 15, 2014 10:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 2:27 pm
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It was brought to my attention tonight that both my thoughts and posts in group and my profile in general are fairly negative and/or put forth an image that maybe off putting to the very women that I am trying to attract. It was an epihphany of sorts as I just saw it as me being honest and up front rather than negative but I understood their veiwpoint and am glad for their candor. It is one of the great things about this site and the group that I am so glad to be a part of.
So now I stand at this fork in the road. I have changed my profile to not sound like I am some desperate sex deprived maniac, just desperate, sex deprived, and a maniac but all seperate now! In all seriousness, I had to take a long look at myself and what exactly it is that I want out of my time here. Mindless sex, replacement for a neglectful wife, friendships- and in the end I found a part of myself that had been languishing in the dark recesses of my psyche for too long. A man with a zest for life, a lover of the simple things like cool breezes and evening walks holding hands with someone you care about, and most importantly someone who not only has a lot to give and offer to another but who deserves the same.
For far too long I have beat myself down and minimized that part of me because of my situation. I know change does not happen instantly but the choice to change can have instant effects. A smile where there once was none. Breathing that is no longer labored. Going from it being a glass half empty kind of day to a glass half full one. No longer looking at my day dreading what is to come but seeing a future full with possibilities.
This self-realization would not have been possible with out people caring enough about another to be open, honest, and truthful. For someone in my situation, that is an amazing gift. I do not think those two ladies truly know the kindness they did me and I will forever be grateful to them. Time to get moving down this new path before me- scared, excited but oh so ready to get this show on the road.
Until next time my friends....
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Just another day in my boring life...
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Posted:May 12, 2014 7:00 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2014 3:30 pm
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Hope all you Mothers had a great Mothers Day. For me it was very bittersweet. My birth mother, who I never got along with, is dead. The mother of my wants absolutely nothing to do with me unless it's to put on a show for others, and the woman I call mom is 5000 miles away. To top it all off, since I was sick as a yesterday, I haven't had a chance to call her yet. What a great I am huh??
I attended a sex party for the first time Saturday night and it was fun. I didn't get laid, unfortunately, as the guy to girl count was 4/1 but I did have a lady attempt to give me a blowjob, until she retried to deep throat me, made herself gag, and threw up on me. Needless to say that kinda dampened my night but I kept right on trucking, making new friends in hopes of things working out better next time. What else can I do right??
I am still in hopes of making a real connection on here. I know one month is nothing and that I need to give it time but I guess you could say that I am desperate for companionship. I need that connection that I have been without for three years now. I only hope I don't sell myself short and jumped wildly at the first thing that comes along and have the patience to wait until something is real. We'll just see what happens when it happens...
Until next time my friends.....
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When did common decency go out the door....
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Posted:May 6, 2014 5:43 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2016 9:53 pm
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I have not been on Local Sexy Swingers for all that long but there is one thing I have noticed- common decent behavior is a thing of the past. Case in point- a woman I met through the website and I hit it off great. The initial chat was fun. We started texting and for almost a week straight we texted back and forth about 200 times a day. We set up a time to meet and how things feel in person and when it happens she suddenly remembers her mom is coming to visit and has to leave. 24 hours go by and not one text of mine gets answered. When she finally does answer she says not to worry things are perfectly fine she is just having trouble with her phone. Ok I'll give you the benefit of the doubt there but when I see her on Local Sexy Swingers later that night, and she says her phone works fine. Next 48 hours not a single response to any text I send and she gives same reason for it. Now am I just gullible or does something seem wrong with this picture. I told her if shes not interested after meeting just please tell me, I'm a big boy and can handle it but its the same story- everything is fine, I want to see you again, etc. I've finally thru up my hands and said if she wants anything, she knows where to find me. Wish I truly knew what was going on but oh well...
Until next time peeps....
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Last night I lied.....
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Posted:May 4, 2014 7:20 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2016 9:54 pm
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That's right, I lied. In group chat last night I said I hated writing. Truth is I love writing, especially poetry and short stories, I'm just afraid of being rejected. Well not anymore! I'm tired of being a "little girlyman" (in my best Schwartznegger voice) and pussing out all the time. Does my life suck right now?? Outside of my and the few people I've met here, yeah it sucks big donkey dick. Is sitting on my ass whining about it gonna change anything?? No, so I made an executive decision, overriding the majority votes of my fear, worry, and other idiotic feelings and decided to start this blog. I'll share what's going on in this screwed up head of mine, sprinkle in some poetry and a story or two along with some tidbits from my past experiences- both sexual and otherwise. It's guaranteed to be a VERY bumpy ride but I promise to make it as fun as possible and to try and not get anyone killed along the way. So buckle up, lock your trays, and return your seats to their full and upright position because we are off and running!!!
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